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^S 1954 begins its year's span, the general board expresses gratitude for
the righteousness of the hves of Rehef Society members during the
past year, and for their accomphshments not only in things of material
value, but, above all, in the things of the spirit. Through study and faith
and works encouraged by membership in the divinely inspired Rehef So-
ciety, Relief Society women, reading the signs of the times, are prayerfully
strengthening their testimonies so that their faith will sustain them, their
hope increase and blossom into a charity which will envelop others in
need of its healing. Known to them is the fulfillment of prophecy. In
their hearts is a longing for the peace of the millennium; and the words
of Tennyson, recently studied in Relief Society, find an echoing response:
Ring out old shapes of foul disease;
Ring out the narrowing lust of gold;
Ring out the thousand wars of old;
Ring in a thousand years of peace.
Because of wickedness, most men have ceased to anticipate the mil-
lennium. They ascribe to modern discoveries of nature's secrets, signs of
the earth's dissolution. They deny the Maker of the worlds and his pur-
poses, and the mission of his Son, the only name under heaven given
among men, whereby we must be saved." Though ''heaven and earth shall
pass away; yet my words shall not pass away, but all shall be fulfilled," the
Lord has told the inhabitants of this earth. But having ears they hear
not, and having eyes they see not.
To the righteous there are comfort and everlasting joy in the words
of the Lord. As this new year grows old, let Relief Society members
become safe-folded in the flock of the Master, for he has promised: 'Tear
not, little flock, do good; let earth and hell combine against you, for if
ye are built upon my rock, they cannot prevail .... Look unto me in
every thought; doubt not, fear not."
This is our prayer for our sisters of Relief Society,
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I am deeply impressed with the amount
of labor you have expended with the Li-
brary of Congress and other sources to
secure the pictures and information on
the framers of the Constitution (October
1953). It is a very valuable piece of
work .... I doubt that few schoolrooms
have, in convenient form, these pictures
and the accompanying thumbnail sketches.
— G. Homer Durham
Vice-President,
University of Utah
Today I especially want to thank you
for the Magazine, and for the article "The
Renovating and Dressing of Dolls" (by
Thelma Standering, November 1953).
Recently I had given my four-year-old
daughter a doll that had been mine when
I was a small child. Well, she left it out
in the rain last night and the doll just
looks awful — the whole body is all bumpy.
Well, after reading that article, I have
hopes for this doll and two others that
I want to fix up. So, instead of feeling
like crying, I feel like singing. I'm not
artistic, but I do have hopes.
— June W. Robertson
San Mateo, California
I know that thousands of sisters must
feel about our wonderful Magazine as I
do. What care and good taste and dis-
crimination you do exercise in its compila-
tion. I am so proud to let my friends
and sisters know how important it is to
me. Let me call attention to page 752
in the November issue. That little four-
line poem by Cynthia A. Scott is well
worth headline publication in my esti-
mation. How carefully it is written and
how true the message!
— Clara Home Park
San Mateo, California
Roxana Famsworth Hase, long-time con-
tributor to The Relief Society Magazine,
has recently had her poems collected in a
delightful anthology Delicious Lumps,
published by Vantage Press, New York
City. The poems are entertaining read-
ing for the family and many of them have
been used in plays, programs, and pag-
eants.
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It certainly was a thrill to the Box
Elder Chapter of the American Associa-
tion of Penwomen to have three of their
five poets appear together in the Novem-
ber Relief Society Magazine (Eleanor W.
Schow, Maude O. Cook, and Renie H.
Littlewood) .... Of course the poetry
is the first thing we look for in the Maga-
zine, but, as most of us are Relief Society
members, we are also interested in other
features of the Magazine and enjoy every
bit of it.
— Renie H. Littlewood
Brigham City, Utah
I am glad you editors enjoyed my poem
"Suds" (November 1953). I tried to
think of the most unlovely thing to me
and write a poem about it.
— Ivy Houtz Woolley
Ogden, Utah
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SPECIAL FEATURES
A New Year's Message to "Doubt Not, Fear Not" _ 1
Individual Welfare in a Time of Plenty Carl W. Buehner 4
Award Winners Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest 10
Wings Over the West — First Prize Poem „ Lizabeth Wall Madsen 11
A Stone in the Wilderness — Second Prize Poem Dorothy J. Roberts 12
To Shield a King— Third Prize Poem _ Alice Morrey Bailey 13
Biographical Sketches of Award Winners in the Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest 15
Award Winners — Annual Relief Society Short Story Contest - 16
One Wild Rose — First Prize Story Dorothy Clapp Robinson 17
First Ladies of Our Land— Part III -• • Elsie C. Carroll 23
Support the March of Dimes Basil O'Connor 31
My Calendar „ Elsie Sim Hansen 41
Winter Is for Mothers Lucille Waters Mattson 71
nCTION
New Year's Choice Dorothy Boys Kilian 32
Moon Music - Louise Morris Kelley 38
The Deeper Melody— Chapter 4 Alice Morrey Bailey 42
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far - - 2
Sixty Years Ago - 34
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 35
Editorial: A Happier Life in the New Year Marianne C. Sharp 36
Notes to the Field: Relief Society Assigned Evening Meeting of Fast Sunday in March 37
Bound Volumes of 1953 Relief Society Magazines 37
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Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities - Margaret C. Pickering 48
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
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Individual Welfare in a
Time of Plenty
Bishop Cad W. Buehnei
Of the Presiding Bishopric
[Address Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference,
September 30, 1953]
IT is a most inspiring experience
to be here this morning with
the leaders of the great Rehef
Society organization from all over
the Church. If my arithmetic is
correct, over ninety-nine per cent
of all the stakes are represented
here this morning, and I think I
saw one sister stand up who is here
from New Zealand. I have a great
love for New Zealand after the two
weeks I spent there. This is mar-
velous. I have learned to love your
Relief Society presidency more than
I will ever be able to tell you. They
are great leaders, very inspiring lead-
ers, and I am sure that the affairs
of the Relief Society are in wonder-
ful hands.
If I am a little nervous this
morning, it is because I am not
accustomed to speaking to such a
large conference of women. You
look like a beautiful flower gar-
den. I feel like the counselor
recently conducting a quarterly
conference. The stake president, we
learned, was in the hospital with a
very serious operation, and the
counselor was a little nervous, too.
During the course of the meeting
he said, ''Our choir will now sing
'Let the Mountains Shake for Joy.' "
You understand what I mean.
It was wonderful to hear Sister
Spafford's report of the accomplish-
ments of this great organization—
to witness the roll call this morn-
ing. It is tremendously interesting
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to sit on the stand, and observe sis-
ters standing up in large groups,
representing the stakes from all over
the Church. I enjoyed the wonder-
ful report of Sister Wright, Sister
Stoddard's very excellent talk, and
the beautiful music. It is just a
real thrill to be with you in con-
ference this morning.
I have been assigned a welfare
subject to discuss with you. This
may bring you out of the clouds
and back down to earth, but I know
of no subject more interesting to
all of us than our security. I have
a great love for the Welfare Pro-
gram, and have heard some out-
standing testimonies of its applica-
tion to members of the Church. I
am sold on it all the way. Inside
the covers of the little blue Wel-
fare handbook, we have, in my
opinion, the greatest security pro-
gram that man has ever seen. It
should be so, for it is the Lord's
program of taking care of his chil-
dren. I sincerely hope we appreci-
ate it and do something about it.
The subject I am to discuss this
morning is "Individual Welfare in
a Time of Plenty." This indicates
we may not have taken advantage
of the good years we have enjoyed
to prepare ourselves for the time of
need. I would like to make one or
two observations relative to the
program that may present a little
different approach from the man-
ner in which it has been presented
INDIVIDUAL WELFARE IN A TIME OF PLENTY
to US in the past. That which will
be discussed, I am sure, will not
reveal anything new, but I trust will
be helpful in seeing our problem.
'^UMBER one is that Hterally we
are all welfare cases. I assume
we have not thought of the prob-
lem in this way, but most of our
time, our energy, and our money
is spent to take care of the physical
comforts of the body. This does
not infer that we must ask anyone
for assistance, but certainly, all we
work for, and the result of our la-
bor are largely required to take care
of our physical comforts. I have
often thought of the many things
we could do with the money we
could have were it not all required
for this purpose. Think of our
physical condition for a moment.
If we are sick, we want to get well.
If we are hungry, we want to eat.
When we get too warm, we want
to get cool. When we are too cold,
we want to get warm. Besides this,
we need clothing, shelter, and the
many other comforts our body re-
quires. This is what commands a
great deal of our effort, our energy,
our time, and our finances.
The second observation I should
like to make is that there is little
difference between those of us who
seem to have all we need and those
in need of assistance. So many
things can happen so swiftly to
change our situation from one of
comparative comfort to one of dis-
tress. I am thinking of drouth,
frost, floods, famine, fires, strikes,
illness, and other circumstances
that come quickly to cause us dis-
tress, and prevent us from earning
our normal livelihood. As an ex-
ample, just recently I was in a stake
where the major income in the
community is derived from the pro-
duction of fruit. While there, we
inspected the bishop's storehouse,
and discovered no fruit for distribu-
tion. This was in the peak of the
fruit season, and some people were
complaining because of the absence
of fruit in the storehouse. After a
little investigation, we said, 'Took
at all the orchards here and the im-
mense production of fruit in this
area. Certainly this is one thing
the storehouse ought to be filled
with." "Ah," but they said, "we had
a very severe frost this spring, and
we have little or no fruit in our en-
tire area." This has caused a hard-
ship on this community, and many
individuals depending on their fruit
crop for their income and to make
payments on their farms will be in
difficulty this year. Besides this,
many will not have fruit in their
cellars or canned fruit on their
shelves because of the loss of the
fruit crop. It might even be pos-
sible that some might have property
in jeopardy because of the loss of
income through this severe frost.
In some other areas, crops have
dried up for lack of moisture. The
land has been unable to produce
because water has been so scarce.
Then we have the extreme where
there is too much water, where
floods have raised havoc with farms
and homes. It is not an uncommon
thing to pick up a newspaper and
to see where the ravage of fire has
destroyed the possessions of a fam-
ily or a group of families. Usually
you see members of the family
standing at the side of the ruins,
and read that everything they pos-
sessed has been destroyed. In many
of these cases, some agency of the
Welfare Program has come to their
rescue to assist them in getting back
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on their feet. This might be the
Priesthood quorum, a ward organ-
ization, or friends or relatives of the
family. We cannot hide the fact
that the desire of all of us is secur-
ity, and so we want to be healthy,
we want to be employed, and we
should like to be able to take care
of ourselves and our families. It,
therefore, becomes a very important
part of the Welfare Program to fol-
low the counsel of the leaders of
the Church, and to prepare in a
time of plenty for a time of need
which may overtake us sooner than
we had planned. To do this insures
us of a carry-over in any critical pe-
riod that might confront us.
COME of us heard the President
of the Church a few days ago
say that we are living in the most
critical period in the history of the
world. This being true, we had bet-
ter take stock of ourselves, our re-
sources, and check the year's supply
we have been asked to acquire, and
see if we are prepared should trag-
edy strike. Certainly, as we are con-
fronted by these critical times, we
should listen to the voice of warn-
ing that has come from our proph-
et, and prepare ourselves against
any emergency that might arise. We
are blessed above all other people
in that we have a prophet to point
the way before us.
Some time ago I had the experi-
ence of presiding over the Salt Lake
Region, known to most of us as
Welfare Square in Salt Lake City.
We had many experiences which
indicated the need for preparation.
I recall a strike being called in one
of the large industries west of Salt
Lake City, which placed 6,000 men
out of employment. The strike con-
tinued for a period of six months.
and during its course, it became
necessary for our region to take care
of thousands of families whose in-
come had been stopped as a result
of this strike. Had these families
listened to the counsel given
through the Welfare Program, they
would have been able to provide
for themselves during this emergen-
cy, but like most of us, there is a
general feeling that when times are
good there is no need to prepare
for a day in the future. I am sure
many of those caught in this situa-
tion have come to realize the im-
portance of following the instruc-
tions of the Welfare Program. Pres-
ently, some people in other indus-
tries are having some difficulty. The
livestock industry has had some de-
cline in prices. I am acquainted
with a man who a short time ago
was worth at least half a million
dollars, and who in the last thirty
days has lost all, even his own
home. There are many others in
distress.
I have observed that many prob-
lems are coming to the attention
of the General Welfare Committee,
problems concerning the saving of
the business of some brother. It
is not the purpose of the Welfare
Program to rescue men who are
failing in business, but to see that
those who are in distress are sup-
plied with food, clothing, shelter,
and the everyday necessities of life.
So, we emphasize again the import-
ance of listening to the counsel of
our leaders, that we provide as far
as possible enough of the necessi-
ties of life to provide for ourselves
in an emergency.
npHE question is often asked,
"What shall we store?" Because
of our scattered situation, and the
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varied climate that we represent, it
is difficult to indicate item by item
what should be stored; but here
are some suggestions that might be
helpful to all of us. Think back
to the days of rationing during
World War 11. What were the
difficult items to secure on your ra-
tion cards? I remember shoes were
difficult to obtain. Soap was a very
difficult item. Persons receiving
welfare assistance had more soap
than those not on the Welfare Pro-
gram because we had a soap factory,
and were producing soap for our
own storehouses. Sugar was a very
scarce item, and that is easy to
store. Fats are always very diffi-
cult to get in time of emergency.
Meat was in very short supply. It
may be well to get a few cans of
meat or fish, and it might be pos-
sible for you to can some of your
own that you might have some in
reserve. Some items of clothing
were very difficult to obtain. Styles
may change, but we can always ac-
quire some cloth, and have it in our
homes from which to make items of
clothing necessary to keep the fam-
ily warm. Paper products were
very scarce, and many other items,
such as bread. One of the easiest
commodities to store and one which
has the greatest value for all of us,
"Wheat for Man," the Word of
Wisdom says. Through the coun-
sel of your county agricultural
agents, you can secure the right type
of wheat, place it in a tight con-
tainer, and keep it for a long period
of time. I am also thinking of re-
pairs and maintenance to your
home. Do you remember how
many items were almost impossible
to secure during the period of the
war, such as plumbing fittings,
valves, and items with which to fix
leaky pipes? It was difficult even to
secure nails to repair a roof and a
part of the barn. All metal items
were very critical. I think I would
keep my home in good repair.
You women exercise a great in-
fluence on your husbands. I have
learned long ago that if we want a
good work done in the Welfare
Program, the assistance of women
usually spells success for the pro-
gram. Talking these problems over
with your husbands usually will
bring results and avoid serious dif-
ficulties.
If members of a ward become en-
thusiastic about the possibilities of
providing against a rainy day, it can
become very contagious, and oth-
ers, through example, will desire to
do the same thing.
I recall buying thirty cans of
wheat in 1944, and placing them in
my garage. My neighbor, a high
councilman who lived across the
street, came over daily to look at my
stock of wheat. He eventually al-
most made my life miserable be-
cause he wanted to acquire part of
my wheat storage supply. In order
to have peace, I finally sold him
part of my wheat. Even though I
am engaged in the wheat business,
and we have thousands of bushels
of grain in our elevators all the
time, I still feel very secure to have
wheat of my own in my own cans
at my own home. I look at it once
in a while, and from all appear-
ances, it is just as good as when I
bought it in 1944. So I say again,
wheat can be kept for a long time.
I recently attended a quarterly
conference with Brother Walter
Stover, who you remember was the
president of the East German Mis-
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sion during very difficult times fol-
lowing the war. We sent large
quantities of welfare commodities
to him, and he indicated the great
blessing that came to those people
through this help from the Welfare
at the headquarters of the Church.
He was particularly overjoyed at the
wheat that was sent. He discovered
how these people ground it, how
they cooked it for cereal, and baked
it for bread. He indicated they
could eat it in the morning, they
could eat it for dinner, and they
could eat it in the evening because
it had the elements to sustain life.
He suggested that you would be
surprised what wonderful hamburg-
ers you can make from ground
wheat and what a substantial item
wheat is, around which you can pro-
vide a nourishing food diet.
OESIDES the items mentioned,
we can always have fruit and
vegetables. Wherever possible, we
should have a garden. Let's plant
and produce that which we can,
and then let's conserve the surplus.
Continuing his talk in this same
conference, Brother Stover said,
''We have a lovely garden in our
back yard. My wife does all the
gardening. She raises the entire
crop, and because it cannot all be
consumed at the time it is ready,
she urged me to build a little root
cellar. I said to her, 'Mama, we
don't need a root cellar for just you
and me— we don't eat that much,'
but my wife is very conservative.
She just won't waste anything. If
she cooks a little stew for dinner,
we have stew every meal until that
stew is eaten up. She won't waste
any good food, and neither did she
wish to waste any of the vegetables
in this garden. I protested the
building of a root cellar, but one
night when I came home, lo and
behold, right in the middle of my
garden she had dug a large hole.
She secured a few boards, and im-
provised a roof over this opening,
and about that time I decided I had
better wake up to what was going
on, so I got Mama some bricks to
line the root cellar, and I helped her
finish the job. I feel much more
secure with a root cellar full of fine
vegetables than I did to have them
on top of the ground where some
of them might be frozen, some
might decay, and where we certain-
ly would lose the value we had from
raising this garden."
I should like to read you a few
excerpts from a talk given by Presi-
dent J. Reuben Clark, Jr., in April
1937. As I have read this talk, and
realized the condition in which we
find ourselves, I have thought many
times how true the scripture is that
says, "We have ears, but we hear
not." We have enjoyed the train-
ing of this program for a long time.
President Clark was referring to the
difficult situation confronting us in
the United States. This is what he
had to say:
What may we as a people and as in-
dividuals do for ourselves to prepare to
meet this oncoming disaster, which God
in his wisdom may not turn aside from
us?
First, and above and beyond everything
else, let us live righteously, fearing God
and keeping His commandments, that we
may in part claim His blessings as of
right, and not as of mercy only. Along
this way only lies happiness and salvation.
For the Lord has said: "Wherefore, fear
not even unto death; for in this world
your joy is not full . . . Therefore care
not for the body, neither the life of the
body; but care for the soul, and for the
life of the soul.
"And seek the face of the Lord always,
that in patience ye may possess your souls,
INDIVIDUAL WELFARE IN A TIME OF PLENTY
and ye shall have eternal life" (Doc. &
Gov. 101:36-38).
Let us avoid debt as we would avoid
a plague; where we are now in debt let
us get out of debt; if not today, then to-
morrow.
Let us straitly and strictly liv£ within
our incomes, and save a little.
Let every head of every household see
to it that he has on hand enough food
and clothing and, where possible, fuel al-
so, for at least a year ahead. You of small
means put your money in foodstuffs and
wearing apparel, not in stocks and bonds;
you of large means will think you know
how to care for yourselves, but I may
venture to suggest that you do not specu-
late. Let every head of every household
aim to own his own home, free from
mortgage. Let every man who has a
garden spot, garden it; every man who
owns a farm, farm it.
Let us again clothe ourselves with these
proved and sterling virtues — honesty,
truthfulness, chastity, sobriety, temper-
ance, industry and thrift; let us discard
all covetousness and greed.
TpHE past ten or twelve years have
been very fruitful years. I guess
we have lived on borrowed money,
but we have all had some of that
money. I don't know how we are
going to pay it back, but when
that day comes, it is not going to
be so easy to have the things we
have enjoyed during this period of
prosperity. I remember so well the
story of Joseph. There is not time
to relate it in full. You read it in
Genesis. You remember how that
great leader was sent by the Pharaoh
into Egypt during the seven good
years to fill granaries with grain,
and then you remember the story
of the lean years, and how the east
wind blew and dried up the coun-
try. As you read the story, you can
just feel the wind drying up the
parched earth and consuming every-
thing on it. It was the preparation
in the seven good years that kept
the people from starvation in the
seven lean years that followed.
Now I hope since we have a
prophet at our head who has told
us, instructed us, encouraged us,
and advised us how to avoid any
calamity of that kind, that we will
listen to him, that we will prepare
ourselves, not with luxuries, not
with items that are going to spoil
because we have an over-abundance
of them, but with those necessities
that will bring us over an emer-
gency that might overcome us. If
we do those things, the Latter-day
Saints will have a program that will
prove a great blessing and a pro-
gram the like of which the rest of
the world would like very much to
know about and to have. Since it
is ours and belongs to the Lord's
people, I hope we will appreciate
it and do all we can to prepare our-
selves with the necessities that will
assist us in any period of emergency
that might arise. We can then also
be a blessing and help to those who
have not listened to the voice of
our leaders.
I bear you my testimony that I
love this great Welfare Program
with all my heart. I have heard
many testimonies of how it has
come to the rescue of the people,
the great blessing it has been to
them. I promise you that in the
future there will even be greater
blessings, if we live closer to the in-
structions that have come to us to
prepare ourselves.
May the Lord help us to ap-
preciate these great things and the
other great programs in the Church
for our benefit and our blessing,
and may this great Relief Society
organization prosper and grow, I
humbly pray in the name of Jesus
Christ. Amen.
.yiward vi/inners
ibliza ui. 0/20W [Poem (contest
npHE Relief Society general board
is pleased to announce the
names of the three prize winners in
the 1953 Ehza R. Snow Poem Con-
test. This contest was announced
in the June 1953 issue of the Maga-
zine, and closed September 15,
1953-
The first prize of twenty-five dol-
lars is awarded to Lizabeth Wall
Madsen, Salt Lake City, Utah, for
her poem ''Wings Over the West."
The second prize of twenty dollars
is awarded to Dorothy J. Roberts,
Salt Lake City, for her poem ''A
Stone in the Wilderness." The
third prize of fifteen dollars is
awarded to Alice Morrey Bailey,
Salt Lake City, for her poem 'To
Shield a King."
This poem contest has been con-
ducted annually by the Relief So-
ciety general board since 1924, in
honor of Eliza R. Snow, second
general president of Relief Society,
a gifted poet and beloved leader.
The contest is open to all Latter-
day Saint women, and is designed to
encourage poetry writing, and to in-
crease appreciation for creative
writing and the beauty and value of
poetry.
Prize-winning poems are the prop-
erty of the Relief Society general
board, and may not be used for
publication by others except upon
written permission of the general
board. The general board also re-
serves the right to publish any of
the poems submitted, paying for
them at the time of publication at
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the regular Magazine rate. A writer
who has received the first prize for
two consecutive years must wait two
years before she is again eligible to
enter the contest.
There were one hundred ten
poems submitted in this year's con-
test. Many of the poems revealed
careful technique and lovely imag-
ery, as well as profound thought de-
velopment.
Twenty-two states were represent-
ed in the contest entries, the larg-
est number of entries came in or-
der from Utah, California, Idaho,
Kansas, Oklahoma, Wyoming, and
Arizona. Three entries came from
England, one from Scotland, and
one from Argentina.
The winner of the first prize this
year, Mrs. Lizabeth Wall Madsen,
was awarded second prize in the
Ehza R. Snow Poem Contest in
1946. Mrs. Roberts and Mrs.
Bailey have won prizes in several
previous contests.
The general board congratulates
the prize winners and expresses ap-
preciation to all entrants for their
interest in the contest. The gen-
eral board wishes, also, to thank the
judges for their care and diligence
in selecting the prize-winning
poems. The services of the poetry
committee of the general board are
very much appreciated.
The prize-winning poems, togeth-
er with photographs and biograph-
ical sketches of the prize-winning
contestants, are published herewith.
irrize- Vi/inrnnq LPoems
(biiza Uioxeu Snow /Jiemorml iPoem Contest
oxey
LIZABETH WALL MADSEN
First Prize Poem
Vi/ings Gyve/* the V(/est
Lizabeth Wall Madsen
The wheeling arcs of gulls have etched the storm
With slender, silver patterns of their flying.
Curved to the wind and strangers to the warm
Far earth, they seek a new horizon, crying.
Theirs is a spiraled search, and there is more
To weld them to the clouds than fragile feather;
Other than bone and sinew lets them soar.
Freed to the free sky and its ragged weather.
Beyond the windless acre where I stand.
Shuttered from rain in one protected hollow.
They are but little space above the land.
From chrysalis to flight where I might follow.
How loosely tethered to the world am I
When gulls are calling from a storm-wild sky!
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DOROTHY JENSEN ROBERTS
Second Prize Poem
Jt Stone in the vi/ilaerness
Dorothy J. Roheits
Not toward your perfections my still steps yearn
Nor after lofty-browed nobilities
And altars where I watched your fat rams burn;
Not to these am I tender, not to these,
Nor to the swinging crane of your mind's power,
But toward the small and wan perversities
Of personality, the weeds in flower;
Toward fractured bones of strength a near one sees,
Fallen-sparrow failures mated to my own;
To the deviations setting you apart,
The frailties which were not yours alone,
But were parroted upon my secret heart.
A thousand wounds my tongue's blade would atone
Gould it smite with the staff of honesty
And release the crystal waters from the stone
Of pride and let you drink their truth with me.
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ALICE MORREY BAILEY
Third Prize Poem
c/o Smeia a Jxing
Alice Morrey Bailey
He held you in the secret of his heart,
Oh, httle Bethlehem, oh, House of Bread,
And with his hugging hills set you apart,
And poured his shining promise on your head.
Here Ruth and Boaz found love's steady rock.
Here Rachel's tomb was washed with Jacob's tears;
Here clear-eyed David watched his trusting flock
And sent his sweet songs winging down the years.
Though small among earth's cities, short of street-
Where shepherds followed out their lowly ways.
And gleaners reaped the barren fields of wheat
With humble faith and peace along their days-
Obedient to his laws, you were the one
He chose to be the cradle of his Son.
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14 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1954
He watched them on the roads and led them thence
From Nazareth, past Herod's well, by Nain;
He saw the faithful Joseph growing tense
With fear for Mary, seeking rest in vain
Within your bulging walls, his earnest face
Reflecting hght from door to hopeless door.
Until, at last, he found the sheltered place.
And rest for Mary on a stable floor.
He hid them from the wicked in your crowd.
And ears that might have heard a newborn cry
Were deaf with sound, the tinkling coins too loud
For some to hear hosannahs in the sky.
He saw the shepherds quake; he saw afar
The wise men searching out the moving star.
He holds you yet, oh, little, blessed town.
Although that night, and many years, are gone
While aliens thread your hills of camel brown.
To changing captors you have been a pawn.
Unsought, uncherished, and unchanged as then.
Untouched by gold within the fertile ring
Of commerce, simple in your ways, as when
He needed you to shield a newborn King.
A million cities, proud and rich and great.
Give homage to your memory tonight,
And what was whispered once along your street
Is sung from housetops, blazed in rainbow light.
Though conquered many times, yours yet shall be
The final conquest and the victory!
\Biographical Sketches of M.^>:>ard Winners
in the ibliza [R. Snoss? iPoem Contest
Lizabeth Wall Madsen, who was born in Mt. Pleasant, Utah, and lived there until
1941, has contributed many poems to The Relief Society Magazine. Her poem ''I Shall
Be Late" was awarded second prize in the Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest in 1946.
She devotes most of her time to being a secretary in Salt Lake City, and being both
mother and father to a teen-age daughter, Diane. Whatever few moments are left
are used in writing, mostly poetry. Mrs. Madsen's poems have appeared in Ladies
Home Journal, Pictorial Review, the Improvement Era, and many other publications.
She has won both the Christmas story and poem contests annually sponsored by The
Deseret News. She is also represented in the new volume of Utah Sings and other
anthologies. A member of the Art Barn Poets, she is a serious student of poetry and
poetry writing; her work is characterized by excellent technique, as well as thoughtful
content, reflecting a keen observation of nature and a deep understanding of emotions
and ideals, which she presents with a discriminating choice of words set in the ca-
dences of music.
^ 'it V
Dorothy Jensen Roberts, Salt Lake City, Utah, is well known to the readers of
the Magazine who have enjoyed her lovely poems, many of them frontispieces, since
1941. In describing her interests, Mrs. Roberts writes: "I was born in Sweet, Idaho, and
spent a few years in the rich fruit country around Boise. Later, I had a few years in
the town of Ephraim, Utah, and a storybook adolescence and youth in Cottonwood
and Holladay. I attended the University of Utah for three years and have taken ex-
tension courses and special classes in hterature. For three years I was a schoolteacher.
I have been active in all the auxiliaries of the Church, and have especially enjoyed my
work in Relief Society. I have two daughters, two precious grandchildren, and a fine
husband. As hobbies, my strongest affinity is poetry, and next, playing the violin,
with art and sewing following. Tv/ice before I have been awarded a prize in the
Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest, as well as many other awards and prizes. My poetry
and prose have appeared in the Church publications and other newspapers and maga-
zines. I am a member of the Utah Sonneteers, Utah Poetry Society, and the League
of Utah Writers."
^ 'J* ^
Alice Morrey Bailey, musician, composer, sculptor, artist, and writer, is a remark-
ably gifted woman. Readers of The Relief Society Magazine are familiar with her
poems, short stories, and serials. Her story "The Wilderness" placed first in the 1941
Rehef Society Short Story Contest, and "The Ring of Strength" placed second in
1945. In the 1948 Relief Society contests, Mrs. Bailey was awarded first prize in the
short story and second prize in poetry. Her poem "Lot's Wife" won first prize in
the Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest in 1951. Her serial "The Deeper Melody" is cur-
rently running in the Magazine. Mrs. Bailey's poems have appeared in many antholo-
gies, and in many magazines and newspapers of national circulation. Since girlhood,
Mrs. Bailey has been active in Church work. She is now president of the M. I. A. in
the Eleventh Ward, Salt Lake City. Ahce and her husband DeWitt Bailey are the
parents of three children and they have one grandchild. Mrs. Bailey is a member
of the Utah Sonneteers, the League of Utah Writers, the Associated Utah Artists, and
at present is acting as compositor of technical reports. College of Mines and Mineral
Industries, University of Utah, Salt Lake City.
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J^sK^ard Vi/i'
tnners
Annual Lrieuef Society Short Story (contest
npHE Relief Society general board
is pleased to announce the
award winners in the Annual Re-
lief Society Short Story Contest
which was announced in the June
1953 issue of the Magazine, and
which closed September 15, 1953.
The first prize of fifty dollars is
awarded to Dorothy Clapp Robin-
son, Boise, Idaho, for her story
"One Wild Rose." The second
prize of forty dollars is awarded to
Mary Ek Knowles, Ogden, Utah,
for her story "Beside the Still
Waters." The third prize of thirty
dollars is awarded to Ruth MacKay,
Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada, for
her story "One Sweetly Solemn
Thought."
The winners of the first and sec-
ond prizes have previously placed
in the Relief Society Short Story
Contest, but the third prize winner,
Ruth MacKay, appears for the first
time as a contest winner.
This contest, first conducted by
the Relief Society general board in
1941, as a feature of the Relief So-
ciety centennial observance, was
made an annual contest in 1942.
The contest is open only to Latter-
day Saint women who have had at
least one literary composition pub-
lished or accepted for publication
by a periodical of recognized merit.
The three prize-winning stories
will be published consecutively in
the first three issues of The Relief
Society Magazine for 1954.
Thirty-seven stories were entered
in the contest for 1953. Most of
these stories were well plotted and
well written, and featured realistic
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character presentation and develop-
ment.
The contest was initiated to en-
courage Latter-day Saint women to
express themselves in the field of
fiction. The general board feels that
the response to this opportunity
continues to increase the literary
quality of The ReUei Society Maga-
zine, and will aid the women of the
Church in the development of
their gifts in creative writing.
Prize-winning stories are the
property of the Relief Society gen-
eral board, and may not be used for
publication by others except on
written permission of the general
board. The general board also re-
serves the right to publish any of
the stories submitted, paying for
them at the time of publication at
the regular Magazine rate. A writer
who has received the first prize for
two consecutive years must wait
two years before she is again eligi-
ble to enter the contest.
The Rehei Society Magazine now
has subscribers in every State in the
Union, and in Alaska, Hawaii, Can-
ada, Mexico, Australia, England,
France, Germany, South America,
South Africa, and other countries.
The general board congratulates
the prize-winning contestants, and
expresses appreciation for all those
who submitted stories. Sincere
gratitude is extended to the judges
for their discernment and skill in
selecting the prize-winning stories.
The general board also acknowl-
edges, with appreciation, the work
of the short story committee in su-
pervising the contest.
[Prize- yi/inning Story
Jinnual Uielief Society Short Story^ Contest
First Prize Story
One Wild Rose
DoTothy Giapp Rohinson
Gwen swallowed, trying to dis-
lodge the hardness in her throat.
She knew she was not deceiving
her mother. She knew her loss was
her parents' loss. She knew her
every moment of loneliness and her
every heartache were echoed in their
hearts; but tonight she must be
alone.
After her mother's car had passed
from sight, Gwen stood motionless
in the driveway. For long minutes
she waited. ''Why," she whispered,
''oh, Donald, why?"
A petulant cry came from the
house. "Muv-ver." Gwen went
quickly to the room where her chil-
dren slept.
"I wanted you." Donny was sit-
ting upright, his chubby fist beating
restlessly on the pillow. "Why did
not you come?"
Gwen sat on the bed beside him.
"S-s-sh. Must not wake baby sis-
ter."
Donny glanced at his sister's crib.
"She is dead as the world," he an-
nounced scornfully.
The baby was sleeping "dead as
the world." Dark curls clung damp-
ly about her gamin face. Her rose-
bud mouth was irresistible, but
even as Gwen bent to kiss it, she
drew back abruptly.
"You don't like her," Donny ac-
cused.
"Lie down and go to sleep." She
hadn't intended her tone to be so
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DOROTHY CLAPP ROBINSON
GWEN met her mother's eyes
with forced unconcern, but
her fingers were cramped. "I
don't need you any longer. Mother.
Really, I am all right. I do ap-
preciate your staying with the chil-
dren while I was at church."
"Donny isn't asleep yet. I could
stay . . . ."
"I'll speak to him." Gwen hoped
her mouth was not actually as tight
as it felt. Te relieve her hands she
began gathering the Sunday papers.
"I can't lean on you and Dad for-
ever. You have been so kind."
"Kind!" With a sigh Mrs. Owens
reached for her handbag.
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1954
harsh. To counteract it she laid
the boy back on his pillow.
'Toil sing and I sleep/' Donny
proposed.
"Darling, Mother can't sing to
night. Please be a good boy and
go to sleep."
''I heard you once," he persisted.
She could not do it. Never again
would her heart and throat respond
to melody. She tried to pat the
boy gently, but her hand moved in
jerks. Bewildered by his mother's
unaccustomed actions, the boy lay
quiet. He blinked hard trying to
keep awake.
Gwen dropped to the floor and
buried her face in the bedding. She
tried to pray, but could only suffer.
Donny's hand reached and grasped
one of her fingers. When, finally, it
relaxed, she rose stiffly and went in-
to the living room. She turned on
the radio, but snapped it off im-
mediately. Seeing the unoffending
papers, she snatched at them and
tore them to shreds. She stared un-
seeing at the litter they made on
the floor. Automatically, she
stooped and gathered the pieces one
by one. She went outside to dis-
pose of them.
A LONG the newly surfaced street
lights were snapping on and un-
blinded windows gave glimpses of
family life. Don had bought in
this new addition thinking there
would be more room for a play yard
and that the hazards of town would
be at a minimum. He hadn't
guessed. How could he have
guessed how alone she was going
to be!
She went back inside, but paced
restlessly back and forth, from room
to room, picking up this, setting
down that. Inevitably she came
again to look out upon the coming
night.
Twilight had deepened into a
soft purple curtain through which
a few stars were peeping. The tang
and pull of spring lay sweet and
challenging on the air. The song
that had refused to be put aside
came silently to her lips
''. . . unknown waves before me
roll "
Somewhere angry waves were
rolling over Don. Perhaps they had
flung him on some barren shore.
Perhaps— but she must not think.
She must not. She closed the door.
Thayne and Lila were new in the
ward. Tonight they had sung,
''Jesus, Savior, Pilot Me." That had
been hard to take, but the love, the
possessiveness that radiated from
them had been the one thing too
much. Of all songs that one had
meant most to her in her life with
Don. They had been singing it
when they met. It was the song
Donny had wanted her to sing, and
now through it she had lost Don.
She had been told she must re-
member—what was it she must re-
member? She looked about the
room and tried to focus her
thoughts. Oh, yes, she must re-
member life is but a prelude.
Somewhere Don was still Don, the
man she knew so well and loved so
desperately. That was what she
had been taught. That was what
she always believed, but tonight
belief was not enough. She must
know or go mad with despair and
loneliness.
It would not help to talk to any-
one, not even Dad. All had been
said that could be said— had been
said so many times the words had
ONE WILD ROSE
19"
lost their meaning. (Son6' w€t6 the
compass and chart that had directed
her hfe. The walls of the room
seemed to close in about her, suf-
focating her with their rigidity.
She snatched at the back door and
flung it open. The stars were
brighter now, though in the direc-
tion of town they were dimmed by
the street lights. For a moment the
heavens fascinated her. How far
was a star? How far from faith to
knowledge, and who knew the way?
In quick decision she went back to
the children. Both were sleeping
soundly. She glanced from the
window. Leah, her neighbor, was
looking at her children. Gwen
rapped on the pane.
''Will you hsten for them?" she
asked.
''Surely. Run along." It was
characteristic of Leah that she
asked no questions.
Gwen tried to smile her thanks.
She offered no explanation as to
where she was going. She did not
know where she was going. She did
not care except that the way must
lead to peace. Throwing a stole
over her shoulders, she went out
into the night. She started walk-
ing, but with no sense of direction.
TT had been just such an evening
as this when she and Don had
met. The M Men and Gleaners
from her home ward had gone up
the river for a picnic. They had rid-
den in an open truck, and, leaning
against the high body, she had no-
ticed his black head, just noticed
because it was darker and could be
seen above the others. They had
sung all the way, popular songs,
sentimental songs, and then some-
one had started "Jesus, Savior, Pilot
Me." Perhaps it had teeii prompt-
ed by the nearness of the road to
the river, or perhaps it had been for
no reason at all. Gwen had caught
Don's clear rich notes through the
chorus of voices, and they brought
a sweetness and fulness to her heart
not experienced before. Around
the campfire while they were toast-
ing weiners she had noticed him
again. She had thought he was with
Ruby Denman.
And then, suddenly, evening had
laid a gauzy blanket over the scene.
She was standing on the brink of
the river reaching for a wild rose.
"Let me." He was at her side.
"You might fall."
Getting the rose had been easy
for him. He held it so she could
inhale the fragrance. Later, they had
laughed as he had tried to pin it in
her hair— hair, he reminded, that
was bright and golden beside the
dark sheen of his.
"A wild rose for everlasting love,"
he said.
"Are you sure?" she challenged.
"I am sure of one thing. I shall
never see a wild rose again, but I
shall see you and this— this heavenly
spot."
Stumbling alone in the darkness,
Gwen remembered how sure his
words had been. Don had always
been sure.
They had walked back to the
group hand in hand, that is, her
hand was resting lightly in his, but
she was keenly aware of the
strength of the fingers that had
fumbled with the bobby pin. From
that moment there had been no
doubt. Don was her other, her
stronger self. With him life was a
dream materialized. With him she
was strong and capable. Without
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1954
him she fumbled in a sea of alone-
ness. But the aloneness she felt to-
night was light years removed from
that which she had experienced
then. Her life had been torn from
its moorings; the song, the stars, the
spring breeze cried it from every
direction.
npHEY had not waited long. Don
had known the horror and
spiritual desolation of the South
Pacific. He was eager for home and
family. When she knelt at the altar
and became his for time and eter-
nity, Gwen had been sure, so very
sure. There was an eternity, and
she and Don would share it togeth-
er.
Everything that had helped to
bring about the marriage had been
motivated by love and a sense of
unity, and everything about the
marriage had been charged with the
same calm unison of spirit she had
experienced the night they had met.
The coming of the babies had lift-
ed their ecstasy to the higher plane
of parenthood.
Walking, walking in the dark-
ness, Gwen lived again those bright
years. She recalled the first time
they had sung together in church.
They had chosen ''J^^^^, Savior,
Pilot Me" because of its special
meaning for them. She loved the
poetry of its words, the haunting
melody of its notes.
She had smiled smugly that
night. A kindly fate had chartered
their course and spared them the
rolling of boisterous waves. She was
Gwen and he was Don, and the
babies were both of them. They
were a unit. They would always be
a unit. Death was something that
came to people, but when two were
joined, as she and Don, there could
be no real separation.
Gwen suddenly became conscious
that all the while she had been re-
living those happy years her feet
had chosen their own path. Where
the path led did not enter her
mind. The way of going was imma-
terial. Tonight one relived moment
of intimacy had jerked her from her
comforting bed of faith. Gone also
was her future, her assurance of re-
union with Don. She must find
these things again, or there was no
meaning to life— there could be no
life. She could endure the endless
days, the interminable nights, the
excruciating loneliness of body and
spirit, if only she knew. Physically
exhausted, she sank to the earth.
She looked about as one struggling
from a coma.
All about her trees elbowed each
other and their leaves stirred sleep-
ily. The moon had risen and its
reflected light glistened from water.
The river! Shock struck the fuzzi-
ness from her mind. She had come
back. Back to where she had met
Don. Here they had come most
frequently for their picnics, and it
had been the scene of their last one.
Once Donny, venturing too near,
had fallen into the water. She had
screamed with fright and run for
him, but Don was already holding
him.
''He might have drowned," she
cried.
Don laughed. "He might, if the
water had been a little deeper right
here, but he didn't. I was here."
He gave the boy a gentle spat.
''Now, young man, don't get so
close next time."
'Til never come here again."
"Why? Donny is a boy. He
ONE WILD ROSE 21
will seek adventure and must learn emotions. She ran her hands
to handle himself. We can't avoid through her hair and her fingers
life by running." caught. Her elbows dropped to her
So simple, so safe, when Don was knees. ''Don," she whispered,
here. It was absurd to worry the wordlessly, ''Don, come back. I
tiniest bit. They were a unit, com- need you so."
plete, irrevocable. just when the fragrance first
_„ 111 r touched Gwen she did not know,
JT had been too perfect, or per- ^^^ gradually it was there, so deli-
haps she had been too sure, ^ate, so all-enveloping, so rich in
A call had come and Don had gone memories and promises. She raised
seekmg-no, not seeking, but meet- ^er head. The moon was behind
ing adventure. She was happy, for ^^e trees and she could see little
he was still with her, though his through the filtered light. Guided
letters were often weeks apart and ^y the fragrance her fingers groped
came from rem.ote outposts. His ^^d found the blossom. One wild
time m service nearly finished, she j-ose! She broke it from the stem
had hastened to prepare their home ^^d lifted it to her cheek. For a
for his coming. Then his plane had i^^g moment she caressed it. The
gone into the water, and there had fragrance grew and grew until it
been no one to pull him out as he reached the farthest tip of each
had Donny. nerve. Then, like a dehcate spring.
What followed had been night- it released the tension that had
mare from which she had struggled j^eld her rigid for so long. Long-
to awaken, but back of the night- smothered sobs twisted her body
mare, mellowing her heartache, had ^^th their violence,
been Don as always Until tonight ^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^ j ^^^ -^
they had been a unit. Abruptly she ^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^ O^^ ^^^^^^
had become a lone lone y widow. ^^^^ ^^^ .^^^^.^ ^-^^ ^^^^^-^
Her childreri were fatherless. She ^^^ ^^^ ^ J ^^^ ^^^^ -^^^ -^^
had been told so many things, she ^.^^ ^ ^ .^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^-^^
had been promised so much, but ^ ^^^^^ ^^ ^j^^ sublime. Her starved
all of it was as nothing against her ^^^^ ^^^^^ .^ ^^^ sweetness, the
lack of knowledge. How could she ^^^^^^^ p^^er of it. Don was
be certain? ^ , , back, for only he could give this
The answer to that was that she ^^rength, this sense of togetherness,
could not know. All the truths she ^ ^ . i . ^ j r
had been taught, all the principles Sometime later the mood of ex-
she had lived by were but beliefs, citation passed, and Gwen was
balm for grieving hearts. She didn't f^\^ff^ ^^J^ !^^ ^^^ TlSe
want them. She wanted Don. She She had found Don and now she
wanted to know. "^^'^ g^ ^^ ^^^'' ^^^'^'■
Time, maliciously, refused to pass. As she opened her front door
For eons, it seemed, she sat suffer- Gwen turned for a last look at the
ing. She tried to think. She tried night. Dawn was a brush of deli-
to pray, but as before, nothing cate pink above the dark hills,
could penetrate the cloud of her Night was gone, and it was a new
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day. It was a new day for never
again would she experience the
complete desolation of spirit she
had known this night. Now she
knew.
The thought startled her. How
did she know? Did she know? She
knew in a positive physical sense
that the rose was there before she
touched it. She knew because of
its fragrance. In just as positive,
but less tangible way, she knew
Don was still Don. There could be
no mistake about the sweet tran-
quility only he could bring. Like
the fragrance, the evidence was
there if the substance was not. Was
this then knowledge, or was it faith?
One bright star lingered in the
sky, and she studied it. Again she
asked, how far is a star? How far
between faith and knowledge?
Knowledge, perhaps, was as far as
a star, and the path to it as inexplic-
able as faith. Perhaps, but it no
longer mattered. The question had
lost its importance. Closing the
door she turned toward the bed-
room and words came melodiously
to her lips:
''. . . I hear thee say to me, fear
not: I will pilot thee."
^ 'Jc ^
Dorothy Chpp Robinson, Boise, Idaho, is well known to readers of The Relief
Society Magazine. Her stories have pleased a wide audience for many years, and she
is adept at writing serials as well as shorter fiction. She was awarded third prize in
the Relief Society Short Story Contest in 1945, and first prize in 1950. "Writing has
been a source of joy to me," she tells us, "for through it I have formed some of the
most satisfying friendships of my life. I have served five times as chapter president
and State president of The Idaho Writers League, of which I am a charter member.
Relief Society, of course, has been the big work of my life. However, I have served
in ward and stake capacities in all the auxiliaries, except Primary. At present I am
working on the Sunday School stake board. I was bom in Colorado, but came to
Idaho as a small child. I am mother of five children and grandmother to eighteen —
all under ten years of age. The eighteen include one pair of twins born to one of
my twins. I am a twin, as was my father. So my material for juvenile stories comes
firsthand."
J/imateur (gardeners uieward
Sudie Stuart Hager
When summer left, the weeds stood high
In every vegetable row.
And clover blossomed in the grass
That I had failed to mow;
Each dead bloom-stalk was mummified.
The unpruned bushes sprawled.
So that I viewed my yard with shame
When green-thumbed neighbors called.
But winter with his tinseling-brush
Has made each drab thing shine;
And there's no other garden-spot
As glorious as mine!
First Ladies of Our Land
Wives of the Presidents
Part III
Elsie C. Carroll
JANE Appleton Pierce (1806-
1863) daughter of a college
president, loved reading, music,
and quiet, studious pursuits. She
felt alone in chattering, laughing
crowds, and was a sensitive, loving
woman, of delicate and fragile con-
stitution. At twenty-eight (in 1834)
she was married to the handsome
and charming Franklin Pierce,
then a member of Congress.
During the eight years she spent
in Washington while her husband
was a Senator, she constantly
dreamed of the time they could re-
turn to their home in Concord,
New Hampshire, and live quietly
with their sons. In a social way she
did only what was necessary. It was
largely because of her unhappiness
that her husband did not even fin-
ish his last term as Senator. After
his resignation he refused to accept
a place in the cabinet offered him
by President Polk. He declared he
resigned so he could be with his
family and he did not intend to
leave them for any length of time
unless his country called in time of
war.
Soon the war with Mexico be-
gan, and he volunteered as a pri-
vate but was soon a brigadier gen-
eral. He became a hero when,
after being wounded, he insisted
on being lifted to his horse and
leading his men into battle.
When the war was over he re-
turned to his law practice, fully in-
JANE APPLETON PIERCE
(1806-1863)
tending to keep his promise to
Jane to keep out of public life. In
1848 he refused a nomination for
Governor. But four years later
there was such a clamor for him to
run for President that he consent-
ed, and almost against his will he
was voted into office, and served
one term (1853-1857). He was the
youngest man up to that time to
be President— only forty-nine.
A short time before his inaugura-
tion their oldest son was killed in
an accident. They had already lost
their two younger children, both
boys. Jane never recovered from this
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final shock. The people of Wash-
ington loved her as she stood duti-
fully beside her husband at all cere-
monies where she was expected to
appear. She had the valor neces-
sary to make her do graciously the
tasks she dreaded, but which she
performed only for her husband's
sake and from a sense of duty.
After their retirement from the
White House in 1857, the Pierces
traveled in Madeira and in Europe.
Jane died in 1863, and was followed
in 1869 by her sorrowing and de-
voted husband.
James Buchanan (1857-1861),
fifteenth President, was a bachelor,
the first President to enter the
White House unmarried and the
only one to depart still a bachelor.
He brought to the White House to
serve as official hostess, his niece
Harriet Lane Johnston, who had
chosen him among all her relatives
to be her guardian when, at the age
of nine she was left an orphan.
She made a charming First Lady
when her uncle went to the White
House.
Mary Todd Lincoln (1818-1882)
was the daughter of a prominent
and influential Kentucky family.
She was ambitious for her husband,
the young Springfield lawyer whom
she married in 1842.
Her years in the White House
(1861-1865) were far from happy,
far from her dreams of what they
would be. She was watched and
gossiped about and laughed at by
some who thought it ridiculous to
have the wife of a prairie lawyer as
First Lady.
Willie (William Wallace) the
third son, died during Mary's ten-
ure in the White House, and she
MARY TODD LINCOLN
(1818-1882)
never again entered the Blue Room,
where his body had lain.
However, Mary had a good
knowledge of political affairs, a fine
education, and the ability to make
correct, even though often impul-
sive, judgments. At times she was
extravagant in her dress and ran in
debt for clothes and jewelry at most
of the Washington stores. Over
eager to fulfill the requirements of
her social position, she was not
always at ease and often found her-
self in embarrasing situations.
Mary suffered over her unpopu-
larity. On one occasion, after she
had spent hours preparing to go
down to a public reception, she
stopped at the head of the stairs
and said to her husband, 'They do
not want me. They say I am a
FIRST LADIES OF OUR LAND
25
rebel sympathizer because I was
born in Kentucky, and that I give
information to the Confederates,
and that I am not loyal to you or
the Union/'
The patient Abe agreed that they
had a hard position, but reminded
her that they had some very loyal
friends, and that they were there
in the reception rooms waiting for
them. So, with head up, Mary
went down to their guests.
Some of their loyal friends, such
as Sumner and Douglas, wanted her
to stop the vicious gossip about her-
self by publishing the facts that she
spent much time in Union hospitals
helping the staffs with organizing
details and cheering Union veterans
with her keen wit, and that when
she was seen riding unattended
down Pennsylvania Avenue she was
going to some relief work, not as
the gossips rumored, to meet some
Southerner.
ELIZA McCARDLE JOHNSON
(1808 (?) - 1876)
In spite of her sharp tongue and
changeable disposition, Mary loved
her husband and worried about his
heavy responsibilities and grave
problems.
At last the war was over, and it
seemed to her that things would
be easier. Lincoln had been re-
elected and was being hailed as the
savior of his country. Mary insist-
ed on his going to the theatre for
relaxation. Then came the tragedy
of his assassination, April 15, 1865.
Sad years for Mary followed. Her
health was impaired, and the trag-
edies of her years in the White
House had resulted in recurrent
emotional and mental instability.
After several years of traveling, and
periods of treatment in various hos-
pitals, she went to live with her
sister, Mrs. Ninian Edwards in the
old home town— Springfield, Illi-
nois. After a time Sumner suc-
ceeded in getting a pension for her,
but she continued to grieve until
her death, seventeen years after
Lincoln's death, in the same room
in which she had been courted.
The next First Lady, Eh'za Mc-
CardJe /ohnson, married Andrew be-
fore his nineteenth birthday. He
owned a tailoring shop and she was
the daughter of a shoemaker. How-
ever, Eliza was able to assist her
husband in learning to write, and
she read to him while he plied his
needle. They lived in the back
room of the tailoring shop, but
young Andrew was ambitious for
learning. He joined a debating so-
ciety and became known as ''the
village Demosthenes."
During his struggle upward, Eliza
took care of their home and helped
to make a living for the family.
After three terms as Mayor of
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Greenville, Andrew was elected to
Congress, and later served two
terms as Governor of Tennessee.
Then he was elected to represent
Tennessee as a Senator.
He fought the growing tide of
secession, and it was as a Southern
Unionist that he was elected Vice-
President on Lincoln's ticket. The
assassination of President Lincoln
in 1865, brought Andrew Johnson
to the Presidency and Eliza became
First Lady (1865-1869).
Eliza, however, was an invalid by
the time she went into the White
House, but she still gave comfort
and encouragement to her hus-
band during the hard years of the
reconstruction, while her daughter
Martha, wife of Senator David Pat-
terson, performed the duties of of-
ficial hostess in a very satisfactory
manner.
Martha won the respect of
Washington when the family ar-
rived and she said to a news re-
porter: ''We are plain people from
the mountains of Tennessee, and
we do not propose to put on airs
because we have the fortune to oc-
cupy this place for a little while."
People respected Martha and ad-
mired her integrity. They did not
even gossip when it was known
that she brought two cows to the
Capital, which she milked herself.
Her teas and other socials were
popular, even when her father was
threatened with impeachment.
Eliza helped to superintend and
organize the first White House
Easter party for children, and she
was a kind and wise advisor to her
children and a friend of all who
came to the Executive Mansion.
Although her health became in-
creasingly precarious, Eliza outlived
her husband six months. She died
in January 1876.
Julia Dent Giant (1826-1902),
who was married August 22, 1848,
spent the first years of her married
life in one army camp after anoth-
er. When her husband resigned
JULIA DENT GRANT
(1826-1902)
from the army, they lived for a time
on a farm near St. Louis, Missouri,
belonging to Julia. But Grant be-
came disabled because of illness and
they left the farm. He tried several
kinds of work with little success.
Then came the Civil War, and it
was not long before he was the gen-
eral who Lincoln declared was in-
dispensable because he won battles.
During the war Julia had some
dangerous experiences. Once she
escaped from a garrison that was
about to be taken by hiding herself
and her four-year-old son in a box-
FIRST LADIES OF OUR LAND
27
car on a railroad track and waiting
there until a train finally picked
up the car and she was carried to
safety.
Her husband came out of the
war as the hero who had saved the
Union and was chosen President of
the United States at the election in
1869, and served two terms in the
White House.
Julia enjoyed good health and
was vivacious and energetic, and of
a happy disposition; though she did
not enjoy social life to a great ex-
tent, she performed her duties as
First Lady with grace and charm.
Nellie, the only daughter, was mar-
ried in the White House in 1874,
being the seventh "daughter of a
President" to be married during her
father's term of office. The wedding
was a social event long remembered
in the capital. Julia was adored by
her husband, who, in the years fol-
lowing his retirement from political
life, and during the time of his
fatal illness, wrote his personal his-
tory of the war years to provide an
income for Julia after his death.
With her at his side he wrote
until he could no longer move
a pencil, then whispered dictation
of the last chapters, thus winning
his last battle for the woman he
loved. Ulysses Grant died in 1885,
and Julia survived him seventeen
years.
Lucy Webb Hayes (1831-1889),
the next First Lady, who was mar-
ried in 1852, celebrated her silver
wedding anniversary in the White
House. Friends said that she
looked more attractive on that oc-
casion even than she had at her
wedding, a sweet and unassuming
bride just out of college. They
recognized, however, that the years
LUCY WEBB HAYES
(1831-1889)
had given her an inner depth and
poise and faith in herself which
well fitted her to be mistress of the
White House.
There she inaugurated regular
Sunday circles which she made at-
tractive, as she did all her social
functions, for which she herself
superintended the decorations, the
music, and the catering. It was said
that she always seemed as fresh and
charming at the end, even of a big
reception, as at the beginning.
Her husband always talked over
his problems with her and respected
her opinions and decisions. He up-
held her in her decision not to serve
liquor in the White House. There
was a loud protest to this edict at
first, but she challenged her critics
with the question: "Cannot people
be as interesting and witty without
wine as with it?" And they soon ac-
cepted her wish good humoredly.
She tried to have a family hour
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as often as possible when she and
the President would devote them-
selves entirely to their children,
helping them with their homework,
playing, and reading with them.
They had eight children, five of
whom grew to maturity. The chil-
dren had many friends, one of
whom declared after a visit to the
White House, ''I will never be satis-
fied with a husband who is not
President." She had been impressed
by the idyllic happiness of President
and Mrs. Hayes. This friend later
married William Howard Taft, and
thus fulfilled her wish.
Lucy was adored by the employ-
ees of the Executive Mansion. She
entertained them and their children
on special occasions. On Christmas
each child received a gift selected
by the First Lady herself. The slo-
gan of her life seemed to be: /'Noth-
ing is too much trouble if it brings
happiness to someone."
Once an older soldier of the War
of 1812 was brought to the White
House to be photographed for
some special purpose. The new uni-
form sent for him to wear lacked
the stripes to show he was a serge-
ant. Seeing his disappointment,
Mrs. Hayes procured needle and
thread and was busy sewing the
stripes on the uniform, sitting on
the floor, it is said, when a British
ambassador came into the room
with a group of tourists he was
showing around the Mansion.
President and Mrs. Hayes left the
White House in 1881. She was long
remembered in Washington for her
visits to hospitals with armfuls of
flowers, and for her championship
of woman suffrage. When she died,
in i88g, flags were lowered at half
mast in cities all over the land.
Lucretia Rudolph GariieJd (1832-
1918) was a Campbellite. She met
James Abram when they were both
studying to be teachers. He was
janitor for the Eclectic Institute
while he was studying. After a long
courtship, they were married, No-
vember 11, 1858. James was then
principal of Hiram College, in
Ohio, delivered lectures and ser-
mons, and studied law in addition.
Later he became president of the
college. They lived on the campus
until he entered the army when the
Civil War broke out.
He was called the praying colonel
and had a great influence over men
in the army. Once he enlisted sixty
men at a ball by telling them of the
merrymaking in Brussels on the eve
of the Battle of Waterloo.
After the war, Mr. Garfield arose
rapidly in the political world and
was nominated for President in
1880. Lucretia was very reticent
and retiring in character, but had
the best of judgment. Her husband
often remarked that he never had to
excuse any of her words. She dis-
liked publicity, but made a pleasing
impression during the short time she
resided in the White House. The
five Garfield children and the
President's aged mother, Eliza Bal-
low Garfield, accompanied James
and Lucretia to the WTiite House.
When Lucretia contracted ty-
phoid fever, her husband was
crushed by her illness. As one writ-
er says, 'This small, unobtrusive
woman had given Garfield mental
consolation and support since the
ripening of their youthful friend-
ship. He sat by her bed day and
night, devoting himself personally
to her care."
FIRST LADIES OF OUR LAND
29
LUCRETIA RUDOLPH GARFIELD
(1832-1918)
She finally was well enough to
be taken to a health resort and was
about ready to return to the Ex-
ecutive Mansion when she received
word that James had been shot by
a disappointed office seeker. She
arrived in Washington in time to
bring comfort to him in his hour of
death, as she had done through his
hfe. He died in September 1881,
less than a year after his inaugura-
tion. After many years of widow-
hood, Lucretia died in 1918.
EJJen Herndon Arthur, wife of
Chester A. Arthur, who was
married in 1859, died just be-
fore he became president in 1881,
but her influance which had
been great during her lifetime, con-
tinued with him after she was gone.
He cherished her memory to the
day of his death. All the time he
was in the White House he placed
fresh flowers under her picture each
morning before he left for his of-
fice. He had a memorial window
placed in the church where he
worshiped, and in the home they
had shared, her room and all her
personal belongings were kept just
as she had left them, even to the
needle in some sewing she had been
doing when she became ill.
President Arthur's sister, Mrs.
John McElroy, acted as his official
hostess, though he himself gave the
geniality and friendliness to social
functions he knew his wife would
have given.
Frances FoJsom Cleveland (1864-
1947), the next mistress of the
White House, 1886-1889 and 1893-
1897, captured the nation's cap-
ital at once. It was said that no
one could meet her even with a
handclasp at a public reception
without sensing her splendid friend-
hness.
FRANCES FOLSOM CLEVELAND
(1864-1947)
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CAROLINE SCOTT HARRISON
(1832-1892)
She had the distinction of being
married (June 2, 1886) in the Ex-
ecutive Mansion, a bride of twenty-
two, standing under a bell of red
roses in the Blue Room. She had
been a ward of Grover Cleveland
following the death of her father,
Grover's law partner. The second
bachelor to be inaugurated Presi-
dent was then forty-nine. He had
known Frances since she was a
child.
Frances entertained with ease and
graciousness at all functions. Some-
times the crowds were so large at
the evening receptions that officers
would halt the guests a few mo-
ments, at intervals, to give Mrs.
Cleveland a moment's rest.
People felt so much at home that
they wandered all through the
White House, except through the
few rooms on the second floor re-
served for the President's family,
making themselves, as one writer
says, ''democratically at home."
For three years Frances enjoyed
being mistress of the White House.
Then Benjamin Harrison became
President. However, four years lat-
er the Clevelands returned. But
now times had changed. People
criticized and found fault. They
blamed the President for the busi-
ness panic of that time. They gos-
siped about the private lives in the
White House, accusing Frances of.
snobbishness because she refused tc
let the public caress her baby, and!
rumoring that there was domestic
trouble if she ever went to a con-
cert or theatre without her husband.
Through all this she remained her
friendly, gracious self and won back
some of the popularity of former
years before the end of the term.
The second daughter of the Cleve-
lands was born in the White House
during the President's second term.
In all, four children were born to
them. Grover Cleveland died in
1908, and Frances, who was twenty-
seven years younger than her hus-
band, died in 1947.
Caroline Scott Harrison (1832-
1892) and her husband Benjamin
were both interested in social serv-
ice while they were students, and
this interest continued after their
marriage. In fact, the day her hus-
band was elected President, Caro-
line spent the early evening in an
orphan asylum, and said she was
tired as she prepared early to go to
bed. When her husband said he
would go with her, their son-in-law
asked if they were not going to re-
main up to hear the election re-
turns. Harrison answered, ''What
good will that do? Should I be de-
feated, my staying up all night
would do no good. Should I win,
FIRST LADIES OF OUR LAND
31
it is better that I be rested and fresh
for the activities of tomorrow."
Carohne was used to Washing-
ton society, for she had hved there
six years while her husband was
Senator. She performed her duties
as First Lady (1889-1892) with
poise and cheerfulness, though she
regretted the restrictions the eti-
quette of her position placed upon
her, as she must always be ready to
receive callers and so could not
spend an entire day doing charity
work.
A joy to both her and her hus-
band was their little grandson, the
son of Mary Harrison McKee, who
received almost as much publicity
during the administration as did
the President and First Lady.
Caroline Scott Harrison died in
the White House, October 25, 1892,
a little more than a year before the
end of her husband's term of of-
fice. Benjamin Harrison died in
1901, two years after he had served
as President McKinley's representa-
tive to the Hague Peace Confer-
ence.
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I
N sixteen short years, the March of Dimes research has broken through
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New Year's Choice
Dorothy Boys Kilian
THE recreation hall was dec-
orated just as gaily as in oth-
er years, with balloons and
crepe paper streamers and Japanese
lanterns; the orchestra, imported
from St. Louis, sounded like a regu-
lar name band, the same old friends
were there, whirling around the
dance floor calling out holiday
greetings to everyone. In fact, every-
thing about the New Year's Eve
party was truly festive, except the
mood of Dick and Sally.
They were sitting out a number,
and Dick said earnestly, ''Gee, Sally,
if you could give me the right an-
swer tonight, it would be the hap-
piest New Year's Eve of my life."
''I know," Sally answered serious-
ly. ''But, Dick, you wouldn't want
me to promise if I weren't absolute-
ly sure, would you?"
"No, I guess not," he said slowly.
"But, couldn't you possibly manage
to make up your mind? After all,
it isn't exactly a new problem ....
I've been proposing to you at least
once a week for three months."
Dick smiled ruefully.
"Fm very fond of you, Dick, you
know that," Sally answered. "It
isn't that, it's just that I've always
wanted so badly to . . . ." She broke
off and looked down towards the
orchestra platform.
Dick's glance followed hers and
he frowned. "It's that singer," he
groaned. "I knew the minute the
Clarks introduced you to her
there'd be a kick-back. Why on
earth they had to have a career girl
for a house guest, I don't know.
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And then to drag her to the party
and have her show off . . . ."
"Dick!" Sally protested laugh-
ingly, "you can't blame Ellen
Clark for being proud of her friend
Madeleine. And it isn't just hear-
ing her that makes me hesitate. All
through high school I was crazy
about singing, you know that. And
then when Uncle Ed wrote this
Christmas that he'd pay for lessons
if I wanted to go to New York to
live with them for a few
months . . . ."
"But, Sally, if you go way off
there, it might not be for just a
few months. That's what makes
me afraid. And I'm interested in
your voice, too. There are good
teachers in St. Louis, and, if we
married, I'm sure we could soon
juggle the budget around enough
to let you go over there once a
week or so for lessons."
^^Y^^'^^ sweet, Dick." Sally
laid a hand over his. "It's a
great temptation to say yes, but I
keep wondering if I wouldn't always
regret having passed up this offer
of Uncle Ed's. That wouldn't be
good for either of us."
"I'd be willing to take the chance,
darling," Dick said quietly. "I have
confidence that we could work
things out all right."
"Let's dance," Sally said sudden-
ly, standing up and gently pulling
Dick up beside her. "It's almost
midnight, and time is wasting."
"All right, Sally," Dick agreed,
"if that's the way you want it."
NEW YEAR'S CHOICE 33
It was a dreamy waltz the orch- Even as Sally watched with a
estra was playing, but Dick and Sal- sympathetic lump in her throat,
ly couldn't quite fall under the spell the orchestra leader noticed her,
of it. In unhappy silence they be- too, and hurriedly walked over to
came one with the jostling crowd give her a perfunctory kiss on the
of dancers. cheek. Madeleine smiled at him
Suddenly, the musicians broke off gratefully and then began to sing,
in the middle of a bar, and then perhaps a little too loudly, "Should
swung into the strains of ''Auld auld acquaintance be forgot . . . ."
Lang Syne." Then her voice wavered. She
''Happy New Year, everybody," stopped singing, and Sally saw her
the leader shouted above the croon turn swiftly, and walk alone to her
of the saxophones. dressing room.
The couples on the floor The couples on the dance floor
stopped dancing, and there was continued to move rhythmically,
some hasty reshuffling of partners forgetful of the singer and the song,
so that everyone could greet the It had only been a moment of
New Year with his own date. time up there on the platform, and
Sally felt Dick's arm tighten probably most of the crowd had
around her. ''Happy New Year, not even seen it, but Sally had seen
darling," he said, "no matter what and that was enough. She had seen
your answer is." the face of loneliness.
"The same to you, Dick," she From outside came the sound of
answered, squeezing his hand tight, whistles blowing, cars honking, bells
Then, as she laid her head against ringing to add to the din of the
his shoulder, she saw Madeleine, the music and laughter within,
guest star, Madeleine the rising Sally had almost to shout, to be
young singer, who stood all alone sure Dick heard. "I know the an-
in front of the orchestra, staring swer now, darling," she said, "and
out into space with a fixed smile it's the one that will make a very
on her pretty face. happy New Year for both of us."
JCittle QiV/ [Before the [Piano
Mabel /ones Gahhoit
She sits forlorn before the keys,
Such tiny fingers for melodies;
Idly she plucks an ivory tone,
Who wants to be here all alone?
Outside the sun is round and high,
A bright blue day in a gold-filled sky;
Down by the brook in the cool green clover,
The girls are telling their secrets over;
Her shoulders droop, one two, one two,
Walking the scales, as she should not do;
An hour's practice is dreadful long
When the world is calling its wild sweet song.
Sixtyi Ljears Kyigo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, January i, and January 15, 1894
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
A HAPPY NEW YEAR is the salutation that greets old and young at the pres-
ent time, and it is pleasant to hear the cheerful tones repeating the hopeful words
that never grow old, but each year brings them back fresh and crisp as ever. The
new year comes full of hopefulness from all for better days, and yet the last dear old
year brought with it many blessings .... If we as a people should enumerate the
blessings of the year that is now numbered with the past, we should find much to
rejoice over .... If some extra exertion is necessary that the poor and unfortunate
may have food and raiment during the winter, it will bring into active exercise the
kindly and generous feelings and sentiments of those who minister to the needy, and
every blessing bestowed will enrich the giver. — E.B.W.
HOLIDAYS: It is good to observe these days set apart for love and friendship,
for this age is so eminently practical that without some such observances, social and
family hfe would lose much of its tenderness and sweetness. The reunion around the
festive board, and better still the gatherings at eventide by the hearthstone at home,
awaken the most affectionate recollections, or call forth the simple tales one loves to
hear repeated of the former days, of the daily labor, or of adventure by land and sea,
or the old songs, pleasant games, or work, or pastime. — Selected
MESSAGE FROM NEW ZEALAND
(Containing news of the bill bestowing full suffrage upon women passed by both
houses of Legislature and signed by the Governor.)
I was down on the beach this morning.
Walked alone by the sounding sea.
And from the wild waves in their sobbing,
A message was wafted to me ... .
Oh glorious message! most welcome;
A forecast of vision sublime.
Of a full free emancipation
At last of all nations and climes.
— L. M. Hewlings, Chicago, October 1893
PARTY AT SANDY: A very pleasant party met at the Wardhouse, in honor of
our President of the Relief Society Mrs. W. Olsen, before her leaving to visit rela-
tives in Grantsville .... A purse was presented to her with a sum over $20.00 given
by the society members. She felt very happy for the honor bestowed upon her. The
evening was well spent in speeches and dancing. Refreshments consisting of many
delicacies were served . . . and a general good feeling animated all.
— Hilda Larsen, Secretary.
A MAP MADE OF SILK: The historical silk map of the United States which
was made by Kate D. Barron Buck of this City (Salt Lake City) which received
merited praise and took a medal, when exhibited in the Woman's Building at the
World's Fair, has been photographed and we have received a complimentary copy ....
The map is made of silk from the dresses of the wives of the respective Governors of
the several States and Territories. The District of Columbia is a piece presented by
the late Mrs. Harrison of the White House. — Editorial notes.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
JTING PAUL and Queen Frede-
rika of Greece aroused the high-
est enthusiasm during their brief
visit to America. Both glamorous
in appearance, they are still ro-
mantically in love. Their warmth,
informality, and personal charm cap-
tivated people, but underneath all
this Queen Frederika is one of the
most admired and respected women
in the world today. German by
birth, cosmopolitan by education,
speaking English with an American
accent, because she attended an
American school in Italy, she has
given a love and intelligence to her
adopted people that rarely have
been seen in royalty. In Greece
she has visited almost inaccessible
mountain communities where no
monarch ever ventured before, to
see and know the many heartbreak-
ing problems of the people, and
then to act with unremitting labor
to help them. She sets a personal
example of thrift and self-sacrifice.
pVERY year about 28,000 fatal
accidents occur in United States
homes.
npHE young are constantly surpris-
ing us. Last spring thirteen-
year-old Manya Baumbacher, from
Utah, skied into seventh place in
the national women's giant slalom.
(Rhona Wurteli Gillis, of Boise,
won the championship.) Mary Ann
Mitchell, fourteen, of San Leandro,
California, has won sixty-five im-
portant trophies in tennis matches
and is considered a real threat to
Little Mo (Maureen Connolly)
who, at sixteen, won the national
women's championship in 1951. At
present Mary Ann is ahead of Little
Mo's timetable. She is an ac-
complished pianist and makes many
of her own dresses. Judy Marks, of
Chicago, only thirteen, ranks as one
of America's top horsewomen. She
has won 128 first prizes at Ameri-
can horse shows and one interna-
tional award.
r\R. BULA WILLIAMS, psychol-
ogist and counselor, and mother
of cinema and swimming star
Esther Williams, lived in Salt Lake
City for ten years after marriage.
Since turning sixty, she has received
her Master's Degree, Ph.D., and
D.D.
"IITE extend best wishes and birth-
day congratulations to Mrs.
Isaac (Mary M.) Jacob of Los An-
geles, California, formerly of Utah,
ninety-five; Mrs. Janet McMurrin
Evans, ninety-one. Salt Lake City;
and Mrs. Matthew T. (Mary J.)
Bell, ninety. Salt Lake City.
AT the Jacob's Pillow Dance
Festival in the Berkshires, Mass-
achusetts (where Virginia Tanner's
young L.D.S. group thrilled audi-
ences last September), Ruth St.
Dennis gave a remarkable perform-
ance. At seventy-three, she repeat-
ed some of the most difficult danc-
es of her career with remarkable
grace and spirit.
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EDITOHIAL
VOL. 41
JANUARY 1954
NO. 1
Jx uiappier JLife in the flew L/i
npHE advent of a new year turns
one's mind to his mistakes of
the past year, and seems to nourish
in the heart a resolution to fill the
days that lie ahead with thoughts
and actions which will conform in
a closer pattern to that set by the
Master in mortality.
As one sits alone in review, reflec-
tion, and judgment over his faults
and failings, there comes, as each
succeeding year passes, a deeper
realization and a firmer conviction
that only as one keeps the two great
commandments, to love the Lord
with all one's might, mind, and
strength, and one's neighbor as
oneself, can one become perfect as
his Father in heaven is perfect.
Because the whole world is made
up of neighbors— of individual fami-
lies—the commandment to love
one's neighbor has universal applica-
tion. To love one's neighbor, how-
ever, does not mean to love the un-
fortunate neighbor residing miles
or thousands of miles away, and
ignoring or disliking the next-door
neighbor.
Means of fostering love for one's
next-door neighbor is found in the
ward unit which the Lord has set
up. So long as there are poor, dis-
tressed, discouraged, and sorrowful
ear
members within the confines of
one's own ward, there is a responsi-
bility to show love of neighbor to
them. Then, after having thus
shown forth love for one's near
neighbor, a general love expressed
for mankind has real meaning.
Of first importance in obeying
and living the second command-
ment is love of one's own family.
"Charity begins at home" is in line
with the assertion of Timothy:
''But if any provide not for his own,
and specially for those of his own
house, he hath denied the faith and
is worse than an infidel" (I Tim-
othy 5:8). It is imperative that con-
sideration, appreciation, understand-
ing, helpfulness, and love flow
around the family circle which will
endure for time and eternity. A
woman who pours forth devotion
and care on neighbors, while ne-
glecting her own sister, is desregard-
ing a vital part of the second com-
mandment.
The person who would overcome
envy, greed, jealousy, selfishness, in-
sincerity or more serious sins, will
find their cure and a happier life in
the new year through learning bet-
ter to love his neighbors as himself.
So the Master commanded all men,
so may men become perfect.
-M.C.S.
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TO THE FIELD
iKelief Society Assigned (bvening llieeting of
Q/ast Sunday in lliarch
'T'HE Sunday night meeting to be held on Fast Day, March 7, 1954, has
again been assigned by the First Presidency for use by the Rehef So-
ciety.
Suggestive plans for this evening meeting have been prepared by the
general board and sent to the stakes in bulletin form.
It is suggested that ward Relief Society presidents confer with their
bishops immediately to arrange for this meeting. Music for the Singing
Mothers should be ordered at once.
iuouna Volumes of ig^S irielief Society 1 1 Lagazines
OELIEF Society officers and members who wish to have their 1953 issues
of The ReJiei Society Magazine bound may do so through the office of
the general board, 40 North Main Street, Salt Lake City 1, Utah. The cost
for binding the twelve issues in a permanent cloth binding is $2.50, includ-
ing the index. If the leather binding is preferred the cost is $3.50.
If bound volumes are requested and the Magazines for binding are not
supplied by the person making the request, the charge for furnishing the
Magazine will be $1.50, which will be added to the cost of binding, thus
making the total cost for cloth-bound volumes $4.00, and for leather-
bound volumes $5.00. Only a limited number of Magazines are available
for binding.
It is suggested that wards and stakes have one volume of the 1953
Magazines bound for preservation in ward and stake Relief Society libraries.
Jxwara Suvscriptions [Presented in J/ipril
nPHE award subscriptions presented to Magazine representatives for hav-
ing obtained 75 per cent or more subscriptions to the Magazine in re-
lation to their enrolled Relief Society members, are not awarded until after
the stake Magazine representatives' annual reports have been audited.
Award cards for these subscriptions for the year 1953 will be mailed to
ward and stake Magazine representatives about April 1, 1954.
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Moon Music
Louise Morris KeJIey
For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things. If not so, my
first-born in the wilderness, righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wicked-
ness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad. Wherefore, all things must
needs be a compound in one ... (2 Nephi 2:11).
FRANKIE was five years old,
and he was not happy. We
had hoped he was beginning
to be, now that the lonely years
were past . . . the days and years of
moving from one temporary home
to another— with his father in the
service and his mother worried and
unsettled.
Now his family was complete
and solid, like a jigsaw puzzle with
the center piece found. Now he be-
longed to a family, and Frankie had
a kindergarten class of two dozen
potential friends. Now surely, he
should be happy.
"Mrs. Brown, we're so pleased
with the progress Frankie is mak-
ing,'' I told his teacher when she
called me in for a conference. ''He
seems to be much better adjusted
now."
''He seems to be," replied the
teacher. "What, especially, have
you noticed?"
"Well, his friends at school," I
answered, puzzled by her reserve.
"He comes home nearly every day
with a story to tell about his little
friends— how Barry chose him first
in a game, or Mickey shared his
licorice. The day he brought home
an airplane Brian gave him he was
simply bubbling."
She studied her pencil for a mo-
ment. "I'm sorry, truly sorry. He
is still hanging back, still on the
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fringe— or farther out. Brian lost
his plane on the playground last
week."
I was stunned. "What more can
we do?" I pleaded.
"If he had one friend, a real, true
friend in the group, that friend
could draw him in." Mrs. Brown
shut her desk drawer and picked up
her handbag. "I'm doing what I
can, but no combination has taken
yet. Perhaps you can find the one
friend."
How was it that Jimmy became
the one? Perhaps because the first
day I visited school, he was the
only boy besides Frankie who was
wearing bib overalls. (I made a
mental memo: Buy jeans and cords
like the others wear.) Perhaps be-
cause he lived just around the cor-
ner. (Another memo: Make cookies
tomorrow and invite Jimmy in on
his way home from school.)
We brought Jimmy in slowly,
subtly, patiently, as a fisherman
lures a wary trout. Some of our
casts snagged. When the movie
"Destination Moon" came to town,
we invited Jimmy to accompany us.
We hoped for popcorn passed back
and forth, exchange of comments,
and delighted nudgings. Jimmy co-
operated, but Frankie sat transfixed.
Friend and family were forgotten in
the wonder of the rocket's flight
through uncharted space. His ears
MOON MUSIC
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were deaf to everything but the dia-
logue and the crescendo-diminuen-
do of the background music. We
chalked up an '*S" in science and
a ''U" in social relations and forgot
it.
CEVERAL weeks later I was
spending the early afternoon de-
vising ways to make my little coiled
spring unwind enough for a nap.
I tuned in on a radio classics hour,
hoping for some soft music. They
were playing a favorite symphony,
sometimes soft, of course, but often
triple fortissimo. It became too
loud for a lullaby, and Frankie
called to me from his bedroom.
'Is that 'trip to the moon' mu-
sic?"
''It's called symphony music— a
form of classical music," I ex-
plained. "Now, how about that
nap?"
Ignoring my question, he said,
"It sounds like 'trip to the moon.' "
"All right, we'll call it 'trip to the
moon' music."
"Do you like it, Mommy?"
"Very much."
"Then why do you keep turning
it off?"
"I haven't turned it off," I said.
"Sometimes it's very loud and some-
times it is soft and whispery. Then
it gets loud again."
"Why is it that way?"
I replied, "Because it sounds bet-
ter if it's not all the same."
"Why does it sound better?"
"Well, it's more interesting. You
like ice cream, but if all the food
that you ate tasted like ice cream
you'd get tired of eating. Your taste-
buds like a little food that's spicy,
or sour, and a little that's smooth,
or sweet, or syrupy, and lots of food
that's in-between. But all different.
The best music often has some
parts thunder-loud and some parts
mist-soft and some parts in-be-
tween. Now you're just trying to
postpone your nap. No more ques-
tions."
But there came a knock at the
door— Jimmy. So, after spending
nearly an hour getting Frankie
down for a nap, I let him get up to
play after all. The friendship proj-
ect was more important.
I waited through supper for him
to make some comment about Jim-
my, so we could tell how it was
coming, but he hardly said a word
about anything. He was watching
every mouthful of food his father
ate— as if eating were some strange
ritual.
Finally he said, looking earnestly
into Daddy's face, "It's not good if
it's all the same."
"Huh?" was the surprised re-
sponse.
"It's not good if it's all the same.
Daddy," he repeated.
Puzzled, Daddy turned to me for
an explanation, then searched
Frankie's face for a clue of what
this might be about. Finding none,
he agreed absent-mindedly, "All
right. It's not good if it's all the
same" and resumed his meal.
I explained later.
"I wish I understood that boy
better," Daddy said. "I feel like I'm
failing him when he needs me
most."
"I know. We've lost the most
precious, the most plastic years.
Now we have to hurry. There's so
little time to help him before it's
too late."
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''And yet we musn't do the wrong
thing/'
"No/' I agreed. "If only we
could help him not to be unhappy
about so many things, then, maybe,
after that he could learn how to be
happy."
''He has security now," my hus-
band said. "He knows we both love
him."
"But he still doesn't have within
himself whatever it takes to meet
disappointments and keep going."
"Maybe after awhile," Daddy
said hopefully.
AFTER awhile the stories of
school pals stopped, and Frank-
ie hated to go to school. The kin-
dergarten was a modern wonder-
land, with floor-to-ceiling windows,
a playhouse, carpenter's bench, slip-
pery slide, a jungle gym, fireplace,
aquarium, painting easels, and cup-
boards full of toys. Yet he hung
back as if he were a frontier youth
on his way to "Master Hickory."
Then one night it all came out.
I was checking to see if the "bair-
nies were a'cuddled doon." Frankie
was asleep, with his face in the pil-
low. As I tiptoed out I caught a
stifled sound— a sob. His pillow
was sponge-wet with tears. His lit-
tle shoulders were shaking now in
an effort to keep the sobs from my
hearing.
Instantly he was in my arms, ab-
sorbing that remedy known to
mothers before medicine existed.
Finally the sobs quieted, but still
he clung to me, trembling.
"Is it school?" I inquired.
He nodded.
"But you have a friend at school
now. Doesn't Jimmy help you play
with toys, and paint and build?"
"Jimmy isn't my friend at school.
When he comes here he acts like
a friend," he continued, "but at
school he doesn't even like me. He's
on Bill's gang, and they don't want
me on their gang, and if Bill says
to Jimmy to beat me up then Jim-
my does it." Then wistfully, "But
Jimmy likes me some when Bill
isn't there."
He waited for help, watching my
face.
As I struggled to find the com-
forting advice, the soothing words,
he stared intently at me, trying to
read them in my eyes. Failing, he
restated his problem: "Only some-
times he's my friend, and sometimes
he hits me."
The words echoed and re-echoed.
What can a mother say when she
has not for herself the answer?
And so I prayed, silently, holding
Frankie's hand, but encompassed by
silence, "Oh, give me wisdom.
Please, Father, let me know what
to say."
I waited then, feeling comforted,
watching the dusk deepen in the
room, feeling fully a mother's love,
a mother's responsibility.
But it was the child who said it,
almost shouted it, in surprised dis-
covery. "It's like the music/"
Even then I was lost, groping.
"What music, son?"
" Trip to the moon' music! Loud
and then soft. Sometimes friends
like you and sometimes they hit
you. It can't be all the same." His
face brightened. "It's that way with
everything, isn't it. Mommy?"
Thus wisdom had come . . . and
understanding and comfort. Frank-
MOON MUSIC
ie's own thoughts had been guided,
directed. They had found a clear
channel.
Nestling down in his bed again
and smiling now, he said, 'It's bet-
ter that way, I guess."
'Tes, it's better. Soon you'll have
good friends, and you'll enjoy them
all the more because you'll remem-
ber how unhappy you were to-
night."
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''And if I'm unhappy again," he
said sleepily, "I'll know it will get
different. Like the music. That
'trip ... to the . . . moon' . . . mu-
sic .. . ."
He was asleep. I sat by his bed
remembering words of inspiration
and understanding, seeing a light
in the dusk-shadowed room, "For
it needs must be, that there is an
opposition in all things . . . ."
///i/ (^aiendar
Elsie Sim Hansen
'Today is the beginning of a new month, Mother, please may I turn the page
on the calendar?" my young daughter asked as she climbed up on the kitchen stool to
reach the calendar hanging on the wall.
The eagerness in her young voice startled me for a moment as I said in sur-
prise, "Of course you may, dear, but why get so excited about it?"
She stood poised on the top of the stool like a young bird ready for flight, watch-
ing me place the last tray of a batch of cookies in the oven before she replied, and
then she said, "It's lots of fun. Mother. See, if I shut my eyes tight while I turn over
the page, when I open them again the old month is gone, and there is a new pretty
picture to look at, and the page is all covered with clean, shiny new days."
A few minutes later Shirley went outside to play, but what she had said con-
tinued to linger in my thoughts. Then I asked myself this question: What kind of
picture did I see as I turned the pages each month? Was the picture before me
all I had hoped it would be? Was it full of faith, hope, and enthusiasm for a happy
future, like the smiling face of the lovely young girl that Shirley had seen as she
opened her eyes? Was the new page in front of me to be full of shiny new days,
each one regarded as a precious piece of clay to be moulded by my hands, thoughts,
and actions into years filled with joy and satisfaction? If not, then perhaps it was
time that I accepted the challenge that was before me.
True, I could not expect to shut my eyes completely to the past, as Shirley had
done. I wouldn't even want to, for I would need the strength and wisdom I had
gained from traveling the hills and paths in the picture of my past to broaden my
future vision.
There might be many times in the years ahead when I might falter, when it
would take more courage than I would think I possessed to close my eyes to the
thorns of regrets and the weeds of mistakes that would try to grow into my picture
and hover like dark clouds to dim the days and blot out my view temporarily, but
only temporarily, if I willed it so. For always before me to lend a helping hand would
be the tools my Heavenly Father had so generously provided for me, the tools of
prayer, faith, and an unselfish desire to be of service to others, which, if used properly,
would give me new strength, new ambition, and new opportunities, each day, each
month, each year, until my calendar of life would be completed.
The Deeper Melody
Chapter 4
Alice Money Bailey
Synopsis: Steven Thorpe, a widower
with three small children, is grateful to
Margaret Grain, a registered nurse, for
taking care of his baby during an attack
of pneumonia. Margaret's mother is act-
ing temporarily as Steven's housekeeper,
while making plans for her daughter's ap-
proaching marriage to Dr. Rex Harmon.
In the meantime, Steven wins back the
Kettle Creek contract and is reinstated in
his job.
4 4-|VTONSENSE!" said Steve.
^ 'Tou're just hysterical, J.
T., on getting this con-
tract. You don't have to leave me
the business to get me back into
the company. Fd come under any
condition."
"Fm not hysterical, and this is no
snap decision. Fve been watching
you for years, as well as a dozen
other young men. Kettle Creek has
been a sort of testing ground with
me ever since I failed to sell them
ten years ago. I knew then that the
man who could would be a better
man than L Nobody has succeeded,
but I was most disappointed when
you failed."
''Don't give me too much credit
for getting back up there and sell-
ing the contract. I was thinking
about it, Fll admit, but it seemed
too crazy until Phyllis' nurse got the
same idea. She's a pretty level sort
of person, and . . . ."
"Phyllis' nurse? You think she's
wonderful don't you? Is she
young? Is she pretty? Is she
single?"
"All three," laughed Steve.
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"You'd better marry that girl.
Don't let her get away from you."
"She's engaged. She's wearing a
diamond as big as your fist."
"Buy her a bigger one. Go to,
and cut him out."
"You surely must want me mar-
ried, J. T. You've never seen the
girl. You don't know anything
about her."
"I know what you've told me
about her— she got your baby well.
She gave you the right kind of ad-
vice and support. I told you Fve
been watching you for years." He
broke off to go to his files and get
a brochure.
To Steve's astonishment, it con-
tained nothing but information
about him, his sales record, his mar-
riage, the birth of his babies, Ellen's
death, the letters he had written the
company when he was sales man-
ager of a district near Craig— all of
it was there.
"I was pretty sure about you a
long time ago, Steve. I took a lik-
ing to you the first time I saw you,
when you were the greenest sales-
man I had, just fresh out of col-
lege with a degree in business. It
intrigued me that a fellow with
your marks didn't hit for at least a
managership in some department
store. Why did you do it, boy?
I've always been curious."
"It's a long story, and it wasn't
snap judgment. I'm crazy about
machinery. I worked in a mill when
I went to college, and I was ap-
palled at the waste of inefficient
THE DEEPER MELODY
machinery— the world's treasures
spread out in sand dumps all over
the world. That's where Pikes
Peak came in. Your machinery has
the most perfect recovery of any.
You have always been a hero to me,
J. T., a sort of Horatio Alger of the
machine world. Take a machine
job that was impossible to anyone
else and you could do it. Selling
your machmery was more than a
job with me. It was a crusade."
'Then you wonder why I want
you in this with me, Steve. It was
inevitable that we should get to-
gether. But I want you to get mar-
ried—to the right girl. Your wife
was the right kind. I had the right
kind of wife, or there would be no
PPMM today, however, I never
found the right one to take her
place, so now I have no sons to
carry on the business. And it is
still a baby business. I want our
own foundries, our own supply
sources. I won't live to see it,
Steve, but it is something for you
to shoot at."
'T^HE partnership papers were be-
ing drawn up when Steve went
home. He was alternately giddy
with the thought of his new posi-
tion and sobered by his sense of in-
adequacy for the responsibilities it
would bring. It was a wonderful
homecoming— the first in a long
time not accompanied by fear and
dread of what he would find. Davey
and Ilene squealed their delight,
both chattering all their day's do-
ings at once, and trotted after him
to Phyllis' room. Even Mrs. Grain
left her biscuit making and brought
up the rear. One glance at Phyllis
crowned his day. She looked per-
fectly well.
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When it came to Margaret he
found it difficult to meet her eyes,
in the light of his recent thoughts
and J. T's forthright conversation.
When, at length, he did, she was
searching his face with question.
''Was it a good trip?" she asked.
"I feel like a conquering hero,"
he confirmed.
She nodded. "You look like one.
Kettle Creek came through all right,
I take it."
"Yes, and you are now gazing on
a brand new PPMMC vice-presi-
dent!"
His own flesh and blood could
not have been more delighted. Mrs.
Grain bustled to the kitchen to put
party trimmings on an already su-
perb dinner. Later he found oppor-
tunity to talk to Margaret.
"I haven't the foggiest notion
how to thank you," he told her.
"You are certainly my good angel.
Except for you none of these mir-
acles would have happened— Phyl-
lis well, your mother making my
home a delight, and now this— for
you must know that one sentence
of yours marked the turning point
of my life."
"What sentence was that?"
"The one about me getting back
that Kettle Creek contract."
"Nonsense! You were already
thinking about it."
"Yes," admitted Steve, "but you
motivated me to action."
"It took more than that really to
do it. I can see by your face how
hard you've worked."
Ah! That was what it took to put
the crown on a victory! A few words
of praise from the woman a man
.... But this was absurd! Steve
had almost said— in his mind, to be
sure— the word loves.
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CTEVE took a firm grip on him-
self and looked the possibility
squarely in the face. Grant that he
could and did fall in love again, as
everyone seemed to wish. Grant
that he might fall in love with Miss
Grain, what then? Gertainly any
man could love such a superb wom-
an, but she wasn't for just any man.
She wasn't for Steve, being, as she
was, practically married to another
man— a man from her own profes-
sional world, one who could under-
stand and properly appreciate her,
one who was entering marriage for
the first time, to whom she would
be first, to whom her children
would be first. No! Whatever he
felt it was certainly to be killed in
the root. Steve knew that.
Killing it was another matter,
with her in the house every minute
he was home, across the table for
breakfast and dinner, her translu-
cent white cap winged above her
fine blue eyes, her immaculate uni-
formed slimness moving about the
room, trailed by the adoring Davey
and Ilene, her arms lifting and
cradling his little Phyllis. She was
just through the wall when he slept,
and wherever she was, night or day,
he was increasingly aware of her
presence.
It was a miracle to watch her
with the other children, for she as-
sumed the responsibility of them,
as well as Phyllis. Small as they
were, she regarded each as a per-
son in his own right. She quickly
established a health routine with
them, showing them how to brush
their teeth, and making a game of
everything from naps to vitamins.
She settled their baby arguments
with a clear logic which satisfied
them. It was interesting to watch
her technique for keeping Phyllis
in bed, for she was almost recov-
ered.
''She's not out of danger yet,"
Steve would insist, and he really
meant it. ''Weak as she is, she
could catch cold and start the whole
thing over."
At last, however, the inevitable
could not be longer postponed.
Phyllis was completely well, and
there was no possible excuse for a
registered nurse to stay on. The
dreaded day arrived when the nurse
and her mother were to take their
leave. They tried in every way to
prepare the little ones for the event,
and every preparation was a failure.
"Davey's going, too," Davey an-
nounced, going to get his little suit-
case, with Ilene following suit.
Phyllis watched her nurse with
mingled fear and apprehension
dawning in her baby eyes, and
clutched Margaret whenever she
moved so much as a foot.
"You'll have to pack for us both,
Mother," the nurse said. "Mr.
Thorpe, this is going to be the hard-
est thing I ever tried to do."
"I know," said Steve over the
lump in his throat, unable to say
more. A woman was coming in the
morning to take over— a woman
Steve had employed because she
seemed the best of those few he
had to choose from. She was mid-
dle-aged and looked strong and had
been coming to help for a day or so.
'pHE Grains stood with their coats
on, their luggage all ready. Steve
was going to take the children along
to drive them home. Just as they
were going out the front door, the
telephone rang.
THE DEEPER MELODY
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It was for Miss Grain, the nurse's
registry calling. The conversation
was quite long, and she was grave,
listening, answering with a mono-
syllable or two. Once she said:
''Well, you know I am getting mar-
ried in June," and later, "Dr. Har-
mon suggested you call me? Oh,
then, of course Fll come."
Dr. Harmon, Margaret's fiance,
the object of Steve's burning and
jealous curiosity!
'They want me to be temporary
night superintendent of the hos-
pital," she said. "Mother, what do
you think of that?"
"It would give you shopping time
in the day. There are some ad-
vantages, Margaret."
"It isn't exactly night work. It
is three to eleven. I told them I'd
take it. Rex suggested they call me,
so it must fit his plans."
Three to eleven/ The only time
Steve had free was in the evenings.
There would not even be a possi-
bility he could see Margaret again
before her wedding. Steve's heart
plunged, but he recognized it was
probably the best thing for him—
hurt as it might to have her go.
"So Dr. Harmon is back?" he
asked conversationally.
"Back?" queried Margaret. "Dr.
Harmon hasn't been away."
"Oh," said Steve, and stopped in
confusion. "I thought— well he
hasn't called you— to my knowledge
—or come to see you."
"It isn't proper to see me on a
case. Anyhow, he is a very busy
man, and only sees me twice a week.
A doctor has a very tight schedule,
and must have his rest."
Steve was silent, remembering his
own courtship days. This Rex must
indeed be a cold fish. Steve found
he disliked him already, without
having seen the paragon. And a girl
like Margaret! What was the man
made of? Margaret was calm about
it, and seemed thoroughly awed by
him. Except for that, Steve would
certainly do as J. T. had suggested:
"Try to cut the man out."
Yes, it was better all round that
Steve wouldn't see her again.
"Daddy! Let's go!" Davy shout-
ed.
Steve jumped.
"The bad feature is that you will
be alone all the time. Mother,"
Margaret was saying. "They expect
me to live in, but there is no pro-
vision for you."
"That's not a problem," boomed
Steve. "She can stay on here. I'll
have Mrs. Hall come in to do the
heavy work, and she can concen-
trate on the children. How about
it Mrs. Grain?"
"I don't see why not. I'm relieved
at not having to leave these pre-
cious babies."
« « « * *
CO it was arranged. Mrs. Grain
promptly became "Mama" to
the children, and Margaret was
"Other Mama." As such she was
still the final authority, for she
called nearly every day. Steve could
detect evidences of her in the con-
versation. "Other Mama says no!"
from Ilene, or "Other Mama
bought my shoes," from Davey.
"Margaret says those cowboy
boots you bought for Davey would
ruin his feet in ten days. She bought
him these special children's shoes,
and some gauntlet gloves to win the
argument."
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'Tell her Fm grateful. Fll reim-
burse her."
'That- will be fine. She doesn't
expect you to, but she does need all
her money just now. Dr. Harmon
offered her money to help buy the
trousseau, but of course she re-
fused!"
''Nobody ever needs to be
ashamed of Margaret," Steve said
hotly.
"That's what I think," agreed
Mrs. Grain.
Yes, it was good she was gone.
Yet her absence sharpened, rather
than lessened, the aching longing
Steve had for her. Why couldn't
his emotions fasten onto someone
more within reason of his reaching?
Miss Tate, for instance? Steve felt
sure she was inclined toward him,
if only by the small, nervous ges-
tures she made whenever he was
near, the flustered patting of her
hair that annoyed him so much.
Was there anything wrong with
her? She was probably a very nice
girl, Steve thought, and she irritat-
ed him only because he was so sure
that if he should say to her: "Miss
Tate, will you marry me?" she
would comply instantly.
All this, thought Steve, was just
one more demonstration of his sud-
den aberration, brought on, no
doubt, by the unaccustomed ease
the Grains had brought to his
household, the release from so
much responsibility of the little
ones, and influenced by the desire
of so many people that he get mar-
ried—first his mother— then J. T.—
and even Margaret herself.
Steve pulled himself up short. No
doubt even Miss Tate would be
derisive at his thoughts. He put his
mind to more productive work, but
the next day Miss Tate herself con-
firmed his opinion, at least in part.
She had brought some letters in for
him to sign, and waited unneces-
sarily long. When he looked up,
she seemed to be frightened.
He was about to ask if she were
ill, when she stammered that she
had two tickets to the symphony,
but no partner, and wondered if he
would care to go with her. He
didn't care to, most definitely, but
he could see his refusal would be
embarrassingly painful to her. Be-
sides, his curiosity had been roused
by his musings.
"Why, that is very thoughtful of
you. Miss Tate. Thank you."
{To be continued)
S/ Vl/ouid I lot (Have LJou Vl/eep
Christie Lund Coles
I would not have you weep when I am gone,
Nor say, "We should have done it thus or so,"
I shall have risen to a fairer dawn,
Than you have ever seen, and I shall know
Too much of peace to countenance regret.
Too much of joy to want your sorrow's breath.
I only ask that you will not forget,
Will love me in the interim called death.
fUelvina yoennett Lylark 1 1 Lakes [Braided LKugs
Melvina Bennett Clark, seventy-two, of Orem, Utah, still enjoys her life-long
hobby — making braided rugs. She has made hundreds of rugs in round and oval shapes,
and has e\en tried to make braided rugs in the form of a square. Her favorite rug is
one which she worked out in color tones of blue and gold. At present she is working
on a rug which will cover the floor of a ten by twelve-foot room. The only real ability
required for making braided rugs, Mrs. Clark says, is to be sure to braid them and sew
them together in such a way that there will be no pulling or bulging, and the rug will
lie flat.
The homes of Mrs. Clark's four children and those of many other relatives and
friends have been made beautiful and comfortable by the lovely braided rugs, the "Hap-
piness Hobby" of this industrious woman.
Mrs. Clark loves Relief Society and the Magazine and was for many years a devoted
visiting teacher.
cLove s iOesUn^
Ada Marie Patten
I used to think that love, however true.
With all things mortal, had its temporal day.
As sunset colors blazon evening skies
Eventually to turn to cheerless gray.
But now I know love passes as a seed —
Dies only to awaken in rebirth.
With new and brighter growth that reaches far
And leaves a richer legacy to earth.
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FROM THE FIELD
Margaret C. Pickeiing, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal
of material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for April 1950, page 278, and
the Hnndhook of InstiuctionSy page 123.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Lenore G. Merrill
LONG BEACH STAKE (CALIFORNIA), SAN PEDRO WARD BAZAAR
October 10, 1953
Left to right: Esther Holder, work meeting leader; Oma Beaver, Work Director
Counselor; Donna Powers, Education Counselor; Winnie M. Harmon, President.
Special features of this unusually successful bazaar were the beautiful quilt, pil-
low cases, cobbler aprons, and children's wear. A fashion show, with Relief Society
women and their children acting as models, was a high point of interest in the even-
ing's entertainment.
Lenore G. Merrill is president of Long Beach Stake Relief Society.
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NOTES FROM THE FIELD
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Photograph submitted by Pearle U. Winkler
NORTH SANPETE STAKE (UTAH), ELEVEN FORMER WARD RELIEF
SOCIETY PRESIDENTS NOW MEMBERS OF FAIRVIEW SOUTH WARD
RELIEF SOCIETY, AND PRESENT PRESIDENT OF FAIRVIEW
SOUTH WARD
Front row, seated, left to right: Burdella Terry of Milburn Ward Relief Society;
lone Rigby, Fairview South Ward; Sarah Rigby, Fairview South Ward; Nellie Neilson,
Fairview North Ward; Elizabeth Anderson, Fairview South Ward; Elnora Jenkins,
Milburn Ward.
Back row, standing, left to right: Alice Nelson, Clear Creek Ward Relief Society;
Marcella Graham, Fairview South Ward; Emma Evans, Fairview South Ward; Valera
Cheney, Fairview South Ward; Helen Bohne, Fairview South Ward; Lucy Tucker,
President of Fairview South Ward Relief Society.
Pearle U. Winkler is president of North Sanpete Stake Relief Society.
Photograph sul by Elizabeth B. Reiser
BRITISH MISSION, MANCHESTER DISTRICT, HYDE BRANCH
RELIEF SOCIETY MAKES QUILT
Left to right: Sister Grimshaw; Sister Loveland, from Utah; Sister Jackson, Second
Counselor; Sister Boothroyd; Sister Woodruff, President; Sister Townsend, First Coun-
selor; Sister Alsop, Secretary; Sister Page.
These women worked diligently to complete the quilt, under the direction of
Sister Loveland.
Elizabeth B. Reiser is president of the British Mission Relief Society.
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Photograph submitted by Mabel M. Nalder
CENTRAL ATLANTIC STATES MISSION, VIRGINIA CENTRAL DISTRICT
SINGING MOTHERS FURNISH MUSIC FOR DISTRICT CONFERENCE
August 30, 1953
Front row, left to right: Irene Rowland; Edith Rowland; Lena Woods; Gladys
Robinson; Nora Manspile; Julia Rowland; Ivy Christley; Marie Mullins; Dora Ramsey.
Second row, left to right: Mamie Johnson, District Relief Society President;
Beulah Riley; Vernie Clark; Flora Friend, chorister; Dessie Robertson; Edith Henson;
Tillie Smith; Ethel Coleman; Ava Trent; Maie Henderson; Ruth Blunck.
Back row, left to right: Hattie Clark; Jane Coleman; Sadie Parr; Camilla Row-
land; Christine DeBusk, pianist; Eula Angel; Fannie Lilly; Thora Christley; Virginia
Summers; Janie Crosby.
Mabel M. Nalder is president of the Central Atlantic States Mission Relief So-
ciety.
Photograph submitted by Lanola C. Driggs
LIBERTY STAKE (UTAH), HARVARD WARD VISITING TEACHERS MAKE
ONE HUNDRED PER CENT RECORD
The Harvard Ward Relief Society has made a record of which they can well be
proud. Since March 1952, they have made a one hundred per cent record of visiting
teaching. Every district has been covered every month. The teachers are very con-
scientious and willing, and have many times expressed their love for this work. The
Relief Society presidency: Marelda Gottfredson, President, and her Counselors Verna
Hunter and Adele Ernstsen, feel that a great deal of missionary work and the spreading
of the gospel have been done by this valiant group of workers,
LaNola C. Driggs is former president of Liberty Stake Relief Society. The new
president is Verna A. Hunter.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
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Photograph submitted by Mavil A. McMurrin
NORTHWESTERN STATES MISSION, FAIRBANKS (ALASKA) RELIEF
SOCIETY WOMEN ASSIST IN BUILDING 'THE FARTHEST
NORTH CHAPEL"
Front row, seated, left to right: Minnie Carroll; Bernice Black; Second Counselor
Mardella Coil; President Blanche Abbott; Secretary Helen Bates; First Counselor Opal
Stoneman.
Second row, standing, left to right: Loa Maxwell; Lena Clark; Arvilla Clayton;
Charlotte Virgin; LaPriel Clayton.
Third row, standing, left to right: Alma Irwin; Donna Carroll; Leah Edgel; Char-
lotte Taylor.
Not present when picture was taken: Alene Anderson, Merlene Anderson, Alice
Hollist, Dores Osguthorpe, and Arlene Reese.
President Blanche Abbott, in reporting the activities of this enthusiastic group,
outlines some of their major projects over the last few years: "We gave dinners and
had basket socials .... Our first major undertaking was presenting a concert given by
Estaleah H. Baker, wife of the then Commanding General of Ladd Air Force Base.
She is a concert singer and donated all the proceeds ... to the building fund. We
had the concert at the Empress Theater .... We decided each sister would sew one
article a month for the bazaar. We had twelve sisters .... We held all our meet-
ings, even when it got to be fifty-six degrees below zero. The sisters from College,
five miles from Fairbanks, came in on the bus. We had an average of nine present
.... President and Sister McMurrin visited us to bring words of wisdom and love
.... In the fall of 1951 we had our bazaar. We invited the people of the city to
come and we had a wonderful bazaar. Everyone was interested in what the 'Mormons'
could do .... In March 1952, we gave a branch dinner and had 105 present, and
the number at that time on the roll of the branch .... In July 1952 President and
Sister McMurrin returned North, bringing with them Brother and Sister Joseph Field-
ing Smith. We had our building completed and ready for dedication and it was indeed
a wonderful service when Brother Smith gave the dedicatoy prayer and presented our
building to our Heavenly Father for his acceptance. God had indeed blessed the saints
in this branch .... No task is too large or too small for any sister in this branch ....
We send our love and pray God's richest blessings on all the sisters and their families
in this great organization, the Relief Society."
Mavil A. McMurrin is president of the Northwestern States Mission Relief Society.
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Photograph submitted by Virginia R. Vaterlaus
MONTPELIER STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS FURNISH MUSIC
FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE AND PRESENT
EASTER CANTATA, 1953
Cathrine Mumford, stake music director, who invited this group to sing for stake
quarterly conference, is seated at the left on the first row of the left section. Seated
in the third row, in the left section, are stake Relief Society officers: Drucilla Winters,
Second Counselor; Virginia R. Vaterlaus, President; Martha Sorenson, First Counselor.
Delilah Loveday, chorister, is seated in the center of the first row in the right-hand
section; Hazel Jacobsen, organist, is seated at the right in the same section.
Photograph submitted by Lena W. Glaus
EAST GERMAN MISSION, RELIEF SOCIETY BAZAAR AT HANNOVER
September 1953
All of the beautiful aprons, dresses, accessories, and miscellaneous items were
made from old clothing and materials by the faithful and enthusiastic sisters of
Hannover.
Lena W. Glaus is former president of the East German Mission Relief Society.
The new president is Ethel E. Gregory.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
53
Photograph submitted by Ada S. VanDam
NETHERLANDS MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY MEMBERS SING AT
CONVENTION IN HAARLEM, September 24, 1953
This photograph shows the Rehef Society sisters singing under the leadership of
chorister Renstje Vanderlinden. Ada S. VanDam, President, Netherlands Mission
Relief Society, reports that every district in the mission was represented on the pro-
gram at this convention. "This convention, planned and directed by Sister Ada S.
VanDam, with the capable help of Sister Charlotte Green . . . and Sister Renstje Van-
derlinden and Sister Maria Schippers . . . laid the foundation for a highly successful
1953-54 season of activity, education, and work .... After opening the meeting with
appropriate song and prayer and a word of welcome by Sister VanDam, an introduc-
tion as to the purpose of the meeting . . . was given by Sister Vanderlinden. This
was followed by a talk on the slogan by Sister Soerilje Koopal from Harlingen; the
theology lessons by Sister Clasina Bredewoud from Utrecht; work meeting by Sister
Siementje Groen from Apeldoornl; the Hterature lessons by Sister Mina Hailing, Am-
sterdam; social science lessons by Sister Alida Eijgelaar, Rotterdam. Various musical
selections and a demonstrated 'Song practice were included between these splendid
talks. Then the outlined programs for the March and November Sunday evening
meetings were ably discussed by Sister Johanna Asscheman from The Hague, who ap-
peared in a beautiful native Dutch costume, carrying out the November message that
the Relief Society is a world-wide sisterhood. Sister S. VanDerWal from Hilversum
appeared in a pioneer costume and discussed the Rehef Society birthday — March 17th.
Thereafter Sister Green ably discussed record keeping, minute books, and other im-
portant business and administrative matters .... Attractive gold and blue programs
listing all the activities for the convention were created in the shape of a Dutch tulip
and were distributed to all present."
» ♦ ■
Vi/ifiter lugnt
Beatrice K. Ekman
Unsullied ice-blades rim the kitchen eaves
And lend prismatic flame to candlelight.
Through raveling clouds, a round moon weaves
A path of gold across the silver night.
N DEPARTMENT
cJkeologyi — Characters and Teachings
of The Book of Mormon
Lesson 23— Righteousness and Good Government
(Text: The Book of Mormon: Mosiah 27-29)
For Tuesday, April 6, 1954
Objective: To explain how spirituality undergirds good government.
K
The Just Rule of King Mosiah
ING Mosiah, like his father Ben-
jamin, worked dihgently to have
his people attain eternal life. They
esteemed Mosiah more than any
other man, for they felt the influ-
ence of his great and good person-
ality. He had taught them the
commandments of God, had la-
bored assiduously to establish peace
in the land, and had tried to eradi-
cate contentions, stealing, plunder-
ing, murder, and all other types of
iniquity. He punished according to
the law whosoever committed in-
iquity.
Under divine guidance. King Mo-
siah had endeavored to govern the
people in such a manner that his
acts would be conducive to their
eternal welfare. Recognizing Alma
as a great spiritual leader, he had
given him charge of the ecclesiasti-
cal affairs in the kingdom.
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Leadeiship of Alma
Alma, you will recall, was early
in his life one of the wicked priests
of King Noah in the land of Nephi.
Sincerely repenting, he had grown
to the full stature of a great religious
leader. Having had to plead with
God for a forgiveness of his own
sins, he had learned the need of for-
giving other repentant sinners. He
could throw the mantle of charity
about the sins of others and usher
them back into the fold of God.
He knew the joy that is attached to
repentance and forgiveness. He
spent his life trying to induce all
men to experience those joys.
These two great men, workers in
a common cause to elevate the
ideals, aspirations, and actions of
the people in and around Zarahem-
la, found many difficulties to over-
come.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
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Unbelief of Leaders' Sons
Chief among the obstacles to
righteous hving was the fact that
Alma's son, named Alma, and four
of Mosiah's sons, Ammon, Aaron,
Omner, and Himni were numbered
among the disbelievers. As a mat-
ter of fact, they were leaders in a
movement to crush the work their
fathers so zealously labored to ac-
complish.
Young ''Alma was a very wicked
and an idolatrous man." He was
gifted with a smooth tongue and
could use the language with a high
degree of facility. He flattered the
people and led them into all kinds
of iniquities. He stole away the
hearts of the people from his father
and King Mosiah.
The sons of Mosiah were ''the
very vilest of sinners." They also
worked, to the maximum of their
ability, to destroy the righteous un-
dertakings of their father and Alma
the elder. These five recalcitrant
sons were busily engaged in their
work of destruction.
Miraculous Conversion
One day as the five young men
were "going about rebelling against
God," an angel of the Lord ap-
peared unto them. The angel spoke
to them in a voice of thunder which
made the earth shake. He com-
manded Alma to rise, for he had
fallen to the earth, and then asked
them:
Why persecutest thou the church of
God? For the Lord hath said: This is my
church, and I will establish it; and noth-
ing shall overthrow it, save it is the trans-
gression of my people .... the Lord hath
heard the prayers of his people, and also
the prayers of his servant. Alma, who is
thy father; for he has prayed with much
faith concerning thee that thou mightest
be brought to the knowledge of the truth;
therefore, for this purpose have I come to
convince thee of the power and authority
of God, that the prayers of his servants
might be answered according to their
faith. . . . And now I say unto thee, Al-
ma, go thy way, and seek to destroy the
church no more, that their prayers may
be answered, and this even if thou wilt of
thyself be cast off (Mosiah 27:13 ff.).
Shocked by the appearance of the
angel and by the words he had
spoken. Alma the younger and the
sons of Mosiah fell to the ground.
They knew of a surety that it was
the power of God which had made
the earth tremble. The astonish-
ment of Alma was so great he be-
came dumb and could not open
his mouth. He also became weak
so he could not move his hands. He
was carried in a helpless condition
to his father.
His father, Alma, rejoiced, for he
knew that the power of God had
wrought upon his son. Alma called
the priests and the people to as-
semble to witness what had hap-
pened. The priests fasted and
prayed to the Lord, petitioning him
to open the mouth of Alma the son
and to bring strength to his fimbs
"that the eyes of the people might
be opened to see and know of the
goodness and glory of God" (Mo-
siah 27:22).
After two days and nights of fast-
ing and prayer, strength came into
the limbs of Alma, and he began to
speak saying, "I have repented of
my sins, and have been redeemed
of the Lord; behold I am born of
the Spirit. . . . My soul hath been
redeemed from the gall of bitterness
and bonds of iniquity. I was in the
darkest abyss; but now I behold the
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marvelous light of God" (Mosiah
27:24,29).
The Five Sons Become Preachers
oi Righteousness
From this time forth Alma and
the four sons of Mosiah traveled
throughout all the land confessing
their sins and telling the people
how God in his mercy had sent an
angel from heaven to call them to
repentance. They were greatly per-
secuted by unbelievers, being smit-
ten by many of them; but amidst
persecution they brought much con-
solation to the Church, confirming
the people in their faith and ex-
horting them to diligence in keep-
ing the commandments. Zealously,
they worked to repair the damage
which they had done to the Church.
They became powerful instruments
in the hands of God in bringing
many people to a knowledge of their
Redeemer.
The Sons of Mosiah Take a
Mission to the Lamanites
So impressed with the power of
the gospel were the sons of Mosiah,
that they asked their father, the
King, for the privilege of taking the
gospel to the Lamanites in the land
of Nephi. They told him that they
wanted to convince the Lamanites
of the iniquity of their fathers and
thus cure them of their hatred to-
wards the Nephites and establish an
era of peace between these two peo-
ples, and also that they wanted the
Lamanites to receive the gospel. It
hurt them to think that any human
soul should perish.
They had feared, at times, that
they would be cast off forever, and
they desired to make amends for
their wrongdoings. Mosiah submit-
ted to the Lord the problem of
sending his sons to the Lamanites
and received in answer the follow-
ing revelation
Let them go up, for many shall beheve
on their words, and they shall have eternal
life; and I will deliver thy sons out of the
hands of the Lamanites (Mosiah 28:7).
And these sons went on the mis-
sion to the land of Nephi.
Mosiah Proposes to EstahUsh a
Democratic Government
Mosiah had no one to confer the
kingdom upon for there was not any
of his sons who would accept the
kingdom. They had renounced the
kingdom to become humble mis-
sionaries to the Lamanites.
Mosiah determined, therefore, to
give the plates of brass, the plates
of Nephi, and all the things which
he had kept and preserved accord-
ing to the commandments of God,
with the twenty-four gold plates, to
Alma, the son of Alma. Mosiah
had translated these plates of gold
[Book of Ether, see Ether 1:2] de-
livered to him by Limhi by means
of the two stones fastened into the
two rims of the bow, called inter-
preters. The people of Mosiah re-
joiced in the knowledge that they
thus gained of those people who
formerly had dwelt upon the land
and who had been destroyed be-
cause of their wickedness.
Mosiah wrote to his people rec-
ommending that they should not
have a king but should establish a
form of government where ''the bur-
den should come upon all the peo-
ple, that every man might bear his
part" (Mosiah 29:34).
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Elder James E. Talmage, in his
Vitality of Mormonism, copyright
1919, page 200, gives us an interest-
ing summary of the pohtical
achievements of Mosiah:
In a stirring proclamation he set
forth the potential dangers of kingly rnle
and admonished the nation to guard its
liberty as a sacred possession, and to dele-
gate the governing powers to officers of its
own choosing, whom he called judges, who
should be elected by popular vote, and
who could be impeached if charged with
iniquitous exercises of power and be re-
moved if found unworthy. King Mosiah
summarized in a masterful way the funda-
mentals of true democracy.
His reasons for discouraging the
selection of a king were, in sub-
stance, as follows: (1) Aaron, his
son, whose right it was to be king
had refused the call. If the king-
dom was conferred upon another,
Aaron might regret his decision and
seek through war to gain his right-
ful crown; (2) It is better to be
judged by God than by man; (3)
Sometimes people suffer under the
rule of a wicked king, like King
Noah in the land of Nephi, and are
taken into bondage; (4) The wick-
edness of a king leads the people
astray, and finally, it should be a
land of liberty where justice and
equality exist.
For these reasons Mosiah suggest-
ed to them that they establish an-
other form of government, a demo-
cratic form where the people would
elect judges and have the power to
recall them in case they did not
judge righteous judgments. The
higher judges could be tried by a
select group of lower judges, and
the lower judges could be tried by
the higher judges.
Alma the Son Becomes the
First Chief Judge
The people, acclaiming the wis-
dom and foresight of Mosiah, ac-
cepted his recommendations. Alma
the son was appointed to be the first
Chief Judge. Alma now had a dual
mission, to serve as Chief Judge to
the people, and to act as their re-
ligious leader, as High Priest, an of-
fice that had been conferred on him
by his father.
The reign of the judges through-
out all the land of Zarahemla,
among all the people who were
called the Nephites, commenced in
91 B.C., with Alma the son as
first Chief Judge. Mosiah died in
the thirty-third year of his reign at
the age of sixty-three. Alma the fa-
ther, the founder of the Church,
died about the same time, having
lived eighty-two years.
Mosiah had lived to shape condi-
tions in such a manner that he
established a sound pattern of rep-
resentative government in America
at a very early period. He taught the
people that America was to be a
land of equality, a land of liberty,
and that equality and liberty were
products of a deep and abiding
spirituality among both leaders and
people.
Questions for Discussion
1 . What effect did the conversion of the
four sons of Mosiah have upon Nephite
government?
2. Why did Mosiah condemn the king-
ly form of government?
3. What values did he see in a repre-
sentative democracy?
4. How much did Mosiah value liberty
among the people?
5. What lesson can we learn concern-
ing our representative democracy?
Visiting cJeacher 1 1 iessages
Book of Mormon Gems of Truth
Lesson 23— ''But There Is a Resurrection, Therefore the Grave Hath No
Victory, and the Sting of Death Is Swallowed Up in Christ'' (Mosiah 16:8).
Leone O. Jacobs
For Tuesday, April 6, 1954
Objective: To give assurance of life after death.
"IITE shall live again! This is the
glorious promise of the resur-
rection! Down through the ages,
many great and noble souls have
echoed the words of Job, "I know
that my Redeemer liveth" (Job
19:25). History also affirms the
truth of the resurrection.
To Latter-day Saints the resur-
rection is not a fantastic story, not
a dim hope, but a reah'ty. It is a
logical sequence to mortality. We
accept it as an important part of
the plan of salvation. Latter-day
Saints have evidence of the resur-
rection which is not known to the
world generally. In answer to the
sincere prayer of Joseph Smith, the
Father, and the risen Redeemer ap-
peared to him in person. Later, Jo-
seph Smith and Sidney Rigdon be-
held the Savior and heard his voice.
This is their solemn declaration:
And now, after the many testimonies
which have been given of him, this is the
testimony, last of all, which we give of
him: That he lives! For we saw him, even
on the right hand of God; and we heard
the voice bearing record that he is the
Only Begotten of the Father — That by
him, and through him, and of him, the
worlds are and were created, and the in-
habitants thereof are begotten sons and
daughters unto God (D. & C. 76:22-24).
Latter-day Saints accept birth and
death as necessary steps to the ad-
vancement of mankind. We came
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to this earth to prove ourselves in
mortality. From here we will go on
to another stage of development to
continue eternally. It has been said,
'To live is to go on a journey. To
die is but to come back home.''
A perfect faith in the resurrection
tempers the parting with loved
ones. It brings comfort and tran-
quility to the hearts of the be-
reaved, for they are assured that the
separation is for a relatively short
period, and is but preliminary to a
happier state.
We might say that death itself
gives credence to the resurrection
for were there no resurrection, an
immense waste of time and strug-
gle and achievement would result.
Such waste is not consistent with
the works of God. Surely the plan
of the Creator which brings planets
into being, and which creates the
human body, would not permit
countless millions of people to
spend a few years in this troubled
life, if it were not to be followed
by something of great consequence.
" 'I know that my Redeemer liv-
eth.' He who can thus testify of
the living Redeemer,'' said Presi-
dent David O. McKay, "has his soul
anchored in eternal truth" (Deseret
NewSy "Church Section," April 16,
1952).
Vi/ork nleeting — Family Money Management
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Lesson 7-Spending Your Home Furnishings Dollar-Soft Floor Coverings
For Tuesday, April 13, 1954
Rhea H. Gardner
TN no other field of home furnish- carpet yarn, and blended with wool,
ings have there been so many new Blends now make up about seventy
innovations in such a short time as per cent of rug production. In 1952,
in soft floor coverings. Weave rayon was used in forty-one per cent
names, such as Wilton and Axmin- of all carpets made; thirty per cent
ster, are becoming more and more of the entire output of soft floor
unimportant. Today, there is an coverings was of cotton. One no
ever-widening choice of new weaves, longer needs to feel that wool is
fibers, and methods of construction, the only carpet fiber that can be re-
The kind that is best for you will lied upon. A test was made by
depend upon your personal needs, sewing strips of fifty per cent wool
There is a ''best buy" for every need and fifty per cent rayon-blend car-
and for every room. peting with strips of all wool. After
No longer can one say that one two years of heavy use, no one was
fiber produces a better appearing or able to see any difference in the
better wearing rug than another, wearing qualities of the two weaves.
Factors other than kind of fiber J^ead the Label. If it says "wool
must be considered. Generally and rayon/' at least fifty per cent of
speaking, a dense pile will mean the rug must be made of wool,
longer wear. The type of construe- There could be as much as ninety-
tion is not as important as the thick- ^ive per cent. If the label reads
ness of the pile, according to tests "rayon (or acetate) and wool," the
made by the National Bureau of ^ug will contain at least fifty per
Standards. Loop pile construction cent rayon and could go as high as
repels soil and crushing more than ninety-five per cent,
does cut pile. The number of rows Some advantages of rayon carpet
of tufts per inch is no longer the ^iber over wool are:
only measuring guide to quality. Of i- Carpet rayon has a much greater
two carpets, each with the same tensile strength than wool
^ ' . . . , 2. It costs much less than good wool,
number of rows of tufts per mch, ^ j^ has better surface coverage than
one might be far superior. all wool.
Wool will likely forever remain a 4- Jt does not stain easily, and stains
. . . <-i J M. '1. I,' -u niay be easily removed, because or low
favorite carpet fiber, due to its high j^^isture absorption of fiber,
resistance to crushing, resistance to ^^^^ disadvantages are
soil, ease of cleaning, and good wear- r-, • 1 .
Ti.- T^ ^4-^ « ol,^^t-«rr« ^f 1- Rayon fiber is weak when wet.
mg qualities. Due to a shortage of ^ ^J^^^^^ ^^^^^ .^ ^^^^.^^ ^^^^^^^.^^ ^^.^
carpet-type wool, however, man- ^o it. (Manufacturers are working to elim-
made fibers are being woven into inate this.)
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3. It has low resistance to crushing, and
as it crushes, the color appears to change.
4. It fades more readily than all wool.
With the increasing use of cot-
ton fibers in rugmaking, one cannot
aflFord to desregard cotton-face car-
peting, when considering the pur-
chase of a soft floor covering.
Some advantages of cotton car-
peting are:
1. Prices are lower than for most other
fibers.
2. It is mothproof.
3. Some types are reversible.
4. Cleaning is simple, if the rug can
be taken up and sent to a commercial
laundry.
5. It wears well.
Some disadvantages are:
1. Stains are not easily removed.
2. It sheds lint.
3. Cut pile mats down when stepped
upon.
4. All colors are not yet fast to sun-
light.
5. Cotton has an affinity for soil.
6. Loose carpeting kicks up easily, if
not treated.
7. Cotton carpet stretches. It is par-
ticularly noticeable in wall-to-fall cotton
carpeting. Manufacturers are trying to
find a method of preventing stretching.
Saron, Fiber E, and nylon are
other man-made fibers that are be-
ing tested for carpet use, but it is
not expected that any of them will
be available in abundance for some
time, due either to shortage of sup-
ply or high cost of production.
Qualities essential to all soft floor
coverings that receive any great
amount of use are: Easy to care for;
easy to stand and walk on; beauti-
ful, yet simple, so they will provide
a quiet background for other room
furnishings; and practical.
In order to get the best buy,
consider what your room will be
used for, the price you can afford
to pay, the type of rug— weave, fiber,
and color— needed to stand the wear
it will get, and the length of serv-
ice you will want from it.
Do read the labels. Deal with a
reliable merchant. Keep informed
on developments in the field, in-
cluding comparative prices. Be
ready to take advantage of ''best
buys" when you need to buy.
Thought ioT Discussion
Price of carpet is determined by the
kind and amount of materials used, plus
cost of man-hours in setting up loom and
weaving. Some carpets cost less because
fewer man-hours are required in the man-
ufacturing process, not because materials
are inferior.
GU year
Giace Sayre
The last day of the year has wound the clock,
The last faint ember on the hearth burns low,
December, pausing, opens up the door;
He turns to go.
But as he turns, a joyous peal of bells
Rings gaily out, beginning a New Year.
But old December, weary, goes his way.
He doesn't even hear!
cLiterature—Jht Literature of England
Lesson 39-Robert Browning, ''Poet of Personality" (1812-1889)
Elder Briant S. /acobs
Textbook: The Liteiatuie of England, II, Woods, Watt, Anderson, pp. 655-709
For Tuesday, April 20, 1954
Objective: To study Browning's lite and works, that we might come to see more
fully the unifying values they contribute to each other.
Biowning's Love for Mankind creation. Then, too, Browning be-
JN our last lesson the boy David lieved that, since this life is largely
led King Saul to inner peace by a testing ground, it would not ful-
revealing anew to him the love and fill its purpose were evil non-exist-
sympathy Christ has for men. In- ent. Finally, the presence of evil
deed we might say that Browning's in a person did not make him less
concept of God is centered about than human. Despite our weak-
the word Jove; in similar manner nesses. Browning believed we should
Browning's own attitude toward regard each other with understand-
man and woman, is based upon the ing and sympathy,
same key word. Love for mankind, then, enabled
Like Shakespeare, Browning saw Browning to depict all types of
the world as a stage, whose players characters. Browning's more typical
are brought to life through the use of love, however, was to elevate
craftsmanship of a Master Artist, the beauty, the worth of married
Like Shakespeare, Browning created love; here the truth of human love
all types of humanity, motivated by becomes the very keystone of his
all the human passions: selfishness, view of life.
cruelty, fleshly and intellectual lust, Browning's love poems are nu-
hate, jealousy, sloth, loyalty, love, merous, and saturated with his burn-
faith, spirituality. He seeks neither ing testimony that love between
to judge humanity nor to analyze the sexes is the highest good on
and explain it, but only to condense earth. In "The Last Ride Togeth-
the reality of a character into a few er" (not in our text), the poem
lines of poetry. concludes:
Immediately the question pre- ^^^ -^ ^^ ^^U ^de on, we two
sents itself: How can Brownmg, with hfe forever old yet new,
who never qualifies his ringing belief Changed not in kind but in degree,
in the essential goodness of both The instant made eternity,—
man and God, admit that evil is al- ^^^^^^US^Z^^^
so an mherent part of man s nature?
Browning was fascinated by the Others of his love poems are, 'Tn
workings of evil in man, because a Gondola" (text, page 660);
wherever there is evil there must "Meeting at Night" (text, page
also be inner conflict and struggle— 666); 'Two on the Campagna,"
a complexity of motives which chal- ''Love Among the Ruins," and "My
lenge his powers of perception and Star" (text, page 681), all acknowl-
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edging the power of mortal love,
yet all tending to spiritualize this
relationship into something divine.
As long as English is spoken,
Elizabeth Barrett Brov^ning's Son-
nets From the Portuguese will never
be forgotten by a world which loves
a lover. Particularly memorable is
"How do I love thee? Let me count
the ways . . ." (text, page 714)
which might well be read in present-
ing this lesson. Robert answered
his lover in kind, notably in
"My Star" (text, page 681) and
the poem to The Ring and the
Book which was dedicated to his
wife:
O lyric Love, half angel and half bird,
And all a wonder and a wild desire —
Boldest of hearts that ever braved the sun,
Took sanctuary within the holier blue,
And sang a kindred soul out to his face —
Yet human at the red-ripe of the heart —
(text, page 707, lines 1-5)
Here indeed is a great love unit-
ing two great hearts.
However, Robert Browning's
greatest writings are not his love
poems. To serious students of
Browning, probably some of his
best-loved poems are "My Last
Duchess" (text, page 659); "The
Bishop Orders His Tomb at St.
Praxed's Church" (text, page 670);
and "Rabbi Ben Ezra" (text, page
698).
The Dramatic Monologue
Browning is one of the most mod-
ern of Victorian poets. So much
did he expect of readers that, for the
most part, they were bewildered
and could make nothing of him.
Two sources of his difficulty should
be mentioned. First, Browning had
saturated himself so completely
with his historical and imaginary
materials that, to an extent, he freed
himself from details in his intense
concern for creating the whole. This
goal of condensing into a few con-
centrated lines a living, unified
character was so strong that Brown-
ing sometimes neglected relation-
ship between the parts, and his
readers became confused.
A second cause, producing similar
difficulties, was that Browning chose
the spoken monologue as his med-
ium, and with his goal of bringing
the reader immediately and inti-
mately into a dramatic, crucial mo-
ment in the life of the speaker, the
monologue wanders loosely from
one idea to another, and supplies
little connection between widely
scattered subjects.
My Last Duchess
Note to Chss Leaders:
In presenting 'The Last Duchess" it
would be advantageous for copies of the
poem to be in the hands of class mem-
bers.
Surely, for many readers, if they
have loved one poem in English
literature it has been "My Last
Duchess" (text, page 659). And
justly so, for where else in fifty-six
lines is condensed an entire way of
life as exemplified by two charac-
ters whom we come to know as
well as these? The great delight in
the poem comes when it ends
abruptly and we begin to realize
how far we have come in so short
a distance. Then a few casual com-
ments on a portrait are recognized
for the masterpiece they are, in
which every brush stroke reveals to
us far more than the Duke of Fer-
rara intended.
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The scene of the poem is an up- the artist. Seeing the astonished
per hallway or gallery in the palace look on the envoy's face, indeed
of the Italian Duke. The time is the from past experience expecting it,
sixteenth century, when Italian the Duke *'by design" points out
royalty was at the height of its that the artist was a celibate monk,
wealth, power, and love of culture. The Duke's ''design," is to justify
The Duke has slipped away from all the evident precautions he was
the main company of guests to dis- forced to take to prevent his lady
cuss with a Count's envoy his re- from starting a flirtation or a love
quest for the Count's daughter as a affair. He might well label as ' pre-
bride. Previous to the opening of cautions" his choosing a celibate
the poem, the two men have prob- monk as artist, and allowing the
ably been strolling about, discussing artist to be near his Duchess, but
practical details for the marriage one fleet day; but when he points
contract, interspersed with proud out that he alone uncurtains the
explanatory comments by the Duke painting— that even now, when she
on his various art treasures as the is either dead or imprisoned, she
two men pass them by. They ap- is his and his only, then the raging
proach a curtained portrait; the jealousy of the Duke becomes more
Duke draws back the curtain, and evident.
the poem begins as the two men Her great fault then stands re-
stand admiring the painting. vealed: she could not save her love-
in contrast to ''My Future Duch- hness and "spot of joy" for him
ess" just being discussed, here is my alone. While he approved of
last one, but said so impersonally courtesy in her, a mark of good
that she might have been but one of breeding, his pride suffered unbear-
many, even as the new one may be, ably when he received from her
should she prove herself unworthy, merely the same dazzling smile that
In the next two lines the Duke she freely gave to the sunset, to the
evaluates the painting as a work of mule, to anybody, even to "no-
art (not at all as a person, let alone bodies."
someone he has loved), thus dis- Nor could the Duke lower him-
playing both his discriminating self to so vulgar a level as to point
critical powers and his pride of out to his lovely, innocent wife her
ownership. After telling the en- weakness. Then, says the Duke,
voy that the picture was painted in whether she accepted my comment
one day by an artist-monk, the or fought it, I would be lowered by
Duke invites him to sit beside him the mere mention of the matter
while they discuss the painting. ''and I choose never to stoop."
"I said 'Fra Pondolf by design," Next the Duke says, "She smiled,
says the Duke. But what is his de- no doubt, whene'er I passed her."
sign? Like all others who had not We must ask why the Duke says
known the Duchess personally, the "no doubt"? Because, in the later
envoy was struck at once with the stages of their strained relationship,
"depth and passion of its earnest he could not even bear looking at
glance," as if she were enamored of her as he strode by. Then, true to
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A Perry Picture
ELIZABETH BARRETT BROWNING
(1809-1861)
his concept of aristocracy, the Duke
mentions her demise in the proper,
vague, genteel language which such
unpleasant subjects merit, as if to
say, ''Of course you, an underling,
dare not ask for more details con-
cerning her end, and, really, I have
already said more than is necessary.
But don't forget how violently an
ill-bred woman upsets any true
gentleman, and don't forget, when
you return, to whisper a few proper
words of wisdom into proper ears."
Then, as if to conceal his true in-
tent of mentioning so delicate a
matter to a representative of his fi-
ancee, he ends the discussion of his
last Duchess by again discussing her
portrait as an artistic achievement
(lines 46-47).
The interview is ended. As they
rise to rejoin the company, the dis-
cussion of dowry is resumed. Nor
does the Duke want to be misunder-
stood: he is marrying the Count's
daughter for her own charms, not
for the sizable fortune he now in-
sists she brings when he accepts her
as worthy of his name.
As is fitting, the menial falls be-
hind the royal Duke as they ap-
proach the stairs, but the Duke in-
sists she brings when he accepts her
heard such intimate outpourings can
well be treated for a moment as an
equal. The poem ends on a note
exactly corresponding to its open-
ing: the objective discussion of
works of art as such, interpreted by
their lord and master.
This poem can be appreciated
from three different points of view.
How would you evaluate it were you
a fellow nobleman of the Italian
Renaissance? How if you were
Browning himself? How, if you were
an Englishman either Victorian or
modern? While it becomes almost
inevitable for us to cast the Duch-
ess as heroine, the Duke as villain,
it should be pointed out that
Browning himself blames or con-
demns neither. Possibly, then, in de-
ference to Browning's discussed at-
titude toward his fellows, we should
at least present the possibility that
the Duke, living in the time and
place he did, was not all bad, and
the Duchess possibly was not all
good.
R^bhi Ben Ezra
It is fitting that we conclude our
study of Browning, ''the poet of
personality," by discussing "Rabbi
Ben Ezra" (text, page 698), since
it gives us Browning's own beliefs
LESSON DEPARTMENT
65
in poetic form. In a reading of this
poem it is impossible to conjure in
one's inner eye any portrait of the
Rabbi which does not have the
face, the voice, and the ringing af-
firmations of Browning himself. In-
deed, so completely has the poet re-
vealed himself in his poem that it
has come to be Browning; therefore,
for Rahbi substitute Robeit; for Ben
substitute Browning, and let the E
in Ezra stand for Esquire. Thus the
poem is truly titled.
In approaching ''Rabbi Ben Ezra''
we should remind ourselves that
Browning was never a systematic
philosopher; therefore let us be
grateful for whatever random mor-
sels of his truth and beauty we find
herein. We should also remember
that, while Browning was never in-
tentionally obscure, sometimes his
lines are nonetheless twisted, cryp-
tic, and difficult.
Published in 1864, three years
after the death of Browning's wife,
this poem states the religious and
moral credo of the mature Brown-
ing. Since unity with his beloved
Elizabeth was now possible in mem-
ory only, Browning here seems to
inventory whatever powers and be-
liefs remain to sustain him.
Primarily the poem is a statement
of unities: youth and age form a
completeness; so do doubt and
faith, flesh and soul, joy and pain,
man and God, mortality and im-
mortality, life and death. The tone
of the poem is one of vigorous re-
assurance, of gratitude for the rich,
full life which God grants to mor-
tals, with its crowning glory of old
age and, finally, immortality.
Perhaps the first stanza is the
most famous one, and is widely
quoted:
Grow old along with me!
The best is yet to be,
The last of life, for which the first was
made.
Our times are in his hand
Who saith, "A whole I planned,
Youth shows but half. Trust God; see all,
nor be afraid!"
( text, page 698, lines 1-6)
Browning's main intent is to af-
firm his trust in a God who, having
created man and placed him on
earth, proves his love for man and
the perfection of his plan, by giving
man life and joy (lines 55-60). But
before man can know his joy, says
Browning, he should come to know
the doubt which lower forms of life
cannot possess, but a doubt which
is the necessary preliminary to a
sustaining faith (lines 16-21 ) . These
noble doubts are vanquished when
we realize that God has first or-
dained pain for man, that finally he
might come to know pleasure and
joy:
Then, welcome each rebuff
That turns earth's smoothness rough,
Eacn sting that bids nor sit nor stand
but go!
Be our joys three-parts pain!
Strive, and hold cheap the strain;
Learn, nor account the pang; dare, never
grudge the throe!
(text, page 698, lines 31-37)
After listing misunderstandings
and conflicts which have pained
him, Browning uses the imagery of
Isaiah and Jeremiah in comparing
man to a cup made on the potter's
wheel of God. God's work is good;
all his materials and achievements
in forming man are eternal (lines
157-162), and, knowing this, man
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should "look up" and shape him-
self into the perfect vessel God in-
tended him to be:
My times be in Thy hand!
Perfect the cup as planned!
Let age approve of youth, and
death complete the same!
(text, page 700, lines 190-192)
Questions for Discussion
1. What was Browning's attitude to-
ward love?
2. Why is the dramatic monologue the
tool ideally shaped to fulfill Browning's
intent as a poet?
3. Justify the description of Browning
as the "poet of personality."
Social Science — The Constitution
of the United States
Lesson 6— The Philadelphia Convention
Elder Albert R. Bowen
For Tuesday, April 27, 1954
Objective: To study the environment in which the Constitution was written; to
observe the methods employed by the convention in considering its provisions; and to
detennine the reasons why the Constitutional Convention was a success.
Importance of Convention of 1787
"PARRAND, the historian, says
that the Federal Constitutional
Convention of 1787 was the most
important convention that ever sat
in the United States. Considering
its great importance and the tre-
mendous consequences which were
to flow from it, it is not an an over-
statement to assert that the Con-
stitutional Convention of 1787 was
one of the fateful assemblies of his-
tory. So far as political history is
concerned, no assembly ever held
was of greater significance to man-
kind. Out of it was to emerge, in
a remarkably brief period of time,
the greatest political document of
all time.
Some of the members of the
Convention sensed the significance
of the task before them. James
Madison (Virginia) said the Con-
vention was ''now to decide forever
the fate of Republican govern-
ment.'' Gouverneur Morris (Penn-
sylvania) declared: ''The whole hu-
man race will be affected by the pro-
ceedings of this Convention." James
Wilson (Pennsylvania), with equal
seriousness, stated: "After the lapse
of six thousand years since the cre-
ation of the world, America now
presents the first instance of a peo-
ple assembled to weigh deliberately
and calmly and to decide leisurely
and peaceably upon the form of gov-
ernment by which they will bind
themselves and their posterity."
James Wilson was absolutely correct
in this statement. Never before in
all history had there been a com-
parable gathering called together by
the will of a sovereign people to de-
termine their form of government.
Attendance oi Delegates
The Convention was called to
meet at Philadelphia on the second
Monday of May in 1787. The first
meeting could not be held, however,
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67
until May 25th. It was not until
then that a majority of the states
were represented by delegates. This
was due, in part, to difficulties at-
tendant upon travel in those early
days, and to a reluctance upon the
part of some of the delegates even
to attend. Indeed, some of them
never attended. As we view the tre-
mendous significance of the events
which were about to be enacted up-
on the stage of history, it is difficult
for us to comprehend the lack of
foresight and sense of history-in-the-
making, which kept twenty-one of
the delegates named from ever at-
tending.
In all, seventy-four delegates were
named by twelve of the states.
Rhode Island refused to name dele-
gates and was never represented at
the Convention. Of the seventy-
four delegates named, only fifty-five
ever attended. Some only attended
part of the time, and average at-
tendance was from thirty to thirty-
five. The Constitution, therefore,
was the product of a relatively small
group of men. It is eloquent testi-
mony of the sagacity and political
wisdom of those who did the actual
work.
George Washington,
the Piesiding OSicei
The Convention met in the old
State House in Philadelphia. Wash-
ington was the unanimous choice to
preside. While his occupancy of
the chair prevented him from tak-
ing active part in the debates, his
influence was great. He was always
available for advice and encourage-
ment of the work of the Conven-
tion. It is certain that no delegate
exerted a greater influence than he
in bringing the Convention to a
successful conclusion.
It was soon to become apparent
that great powers of persuasion and
conciliation would be required to
hold the Convention together and
to bring about the great compro-
mises (to be studied in lesson 7),
which were reflected in the final
draft which was signed some three
months later. Washington was to
provide the diplomacy, tact, and
persuasiveness necessary to the ac-
complishment of the work. He was,
by all odds, the greatest American
of his day. He was universally re-
spected and trusted. Any cause
which enjoyed his sponsorship was
already half assured of success.
Much of the progress made was
accomplished in informal sessions
between regular meetings of the
Convention. It was in these inform-
al discussions that Washington was
to prove the tremendous power of
his influence. The debates upon
the proposals and counter-proposals
were often heated and, at times,
were bitter. The weather was very
hot during most of the time the
Convention was in session. The
long and arduous work necessary to
adjust and compromise very funda-
mental disagreements, threatened to
disrupt the Convention entirely and
to make its efforts a failure.
It was during this period that
Franklin made the proposal that
"prayers imploring the assistance of
Heaven ... be held in this Assembly
every morning." This proposal was
never put to a vote. Had it been,
perhaps many of the difficulties en-
countered might have been much
more easily surmounted. To both
Franklin and Washington belongs
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the credit for reconciling the great
differences and disputes among the
delegates and in bringing about ac-
ceptable compromise solutions.
Procedure of the Convention
The Convention had full power
to make its own rules, and very
early in its discussions it was decided
that voting should be by states, each
state having one vote, and that
meetings would be held in executive
session in order that the delegates
would be in a position to speak
freely. Nothing was to be made
public until the work of the Con-
vention was finished. The delegates,
to a remarkable degree, respected
the decision to keep the work of the
Convention confidential. Sentries
were even posted at the doors of the
Convention hall to keep anyone
from finding out what was going
on.
To illustrate how little news of
the business of the Convention
leaked out to the public, after the
sessions had ended, a woman ac-
quaintance of Franklin asked him,
''Well, Doctor, what have we got,
a republic or a monarchy?" He re-
plied, *'A republic, if you can keep
it." This incident occurred in Phil-
adelphia in the city where the Con-
vention held all of its meetings.
A secretary was appointed and a
daily journal was kept. The Con-
vention Journal was, in reality, only
a record of the motions put and
votes taken thereon. It shed little
light upon the actual proceedings
and debates. It is to James Madi-
son that we are indebted for by far
the most illuminating and compre-
hensive record of what went on in
the debates.
Preparedness oi Virginia Delegation
The Virginia delegation was ex-
pected to play a prominent role in
the Convention. It fully lived up
to all prior expectations. Besides
Washington, it was made up of
James Madison, Governor Edmund
Randolph, nominal head of the del-
egation, George White, and George
Mason, who were prominent law-
yers, and others. James Madison
was to prove to be the political ex-
pert of the Convention and was
destined to play a dominating role
in the framing of the Constitution.
In importance he stood next to
Washington. This delegation, fur-
thermore, represented what might
be termed the large state faction of
the Convention, which was de-
termined to create a strong national
government to cure the weakness
and impotence of the Confedera-
tion. The members of the Virginia
delegation were prepared. After the
Convention was organized they
came forward with fifteen proposals
in the form of resolutions to be con-
sidered by the Convention.
Work by Committees
The actual work of the Conven-
tion (to be studied in lesson 7) was
done by committees. The Virginia
proposals were placed before the
Convention and were immediately
referred to the Committee of the
Whole where they were taken up
one by one. The Committee of the
Whole studied and debated these
resolutions for two weeks, and then
reported back to the Convention in
the form of nineteen resolutions.
The nineteen resolutions were like-
wise taken up and debated one by
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69
one. Other proposals, some from
the outside, were also considered.
The work of the Convention pro-
ceeded in this way until July 26,
1787. As yet not one line of the
Constitution had been written, but,
with agreement reached upon each
proposal considered, the Conven-
tion referred to the Committee of
Detail the actual draftsmanship of
the accepted proposals. It was the
duty of this committee to reduce
the abstract proposals which had
been approved into concrete form.
Making the Draft of the
Constitution
The Committee of Detail worked
with tireless energy and industry,
and, on August 6, 1787, reported to
the Convention and furnished every
member with a proposed draft.
Then the work of consideration be-
gan over again. Section by section
and Hne by line the delegates con-
sidered this draft from beginning
to end. Matters of disagreement
were again referred to special com-
mittees. Changes were made and
incorporated until, finally, on Sep-
tember 8, 1787, the work of con-
struction was complete.
With this accomplished, the
work still went on, and the Consti-
tution was placed in the hands of
the Committee of Style to revise
the style and arrange the articles
which had been agreed to. The
Committee of Style was composed
of Gouverneur Morris and James
Wilson, delegates of Pennsylvania.
Morris wrote out the Constitution
in his own hand and in a style
which has ever since made it famous
as an example of lucid English ex-
pression. For its language, alone, the
Constitution stands among the great
documents of history.
The Constitution as a document
is relatively simple in form. Its
language is noted for its clarity, di-
rectness of expression, and con-
ciseness. It contains about six thou-
sand words and is, therefore, brief,
as such documents go. It contains
no surplus verbiage of any kind.
The Committee of Style reported
its work to the Convention on
September 12, 1787. There were still
further revisions until, finally, the
completed work was finished on
September 17, 1787. On that day
the Constitution of the United
States was signed by thirty-nine del-
egates of the twelve states repre-
sented in the Convention.
Franklin's Statements
In his final words to the Conven-
tion, Benjamin Franklin said, "It
astonishes me, sir, to find the sys-
tem approaching so near to perfec-
tion as it does." Franklin was past
his eightieth year when named as
a member of the Pennsylvania dele-
gation. He was feeble (Farrand,
Fathers of the Constitution, page
113) and made his greatest contri-
bution by wise suggestions and con-
ciliation. During the signing of
the Constitution he made the re-
mark that during the Convention
''often and often" he had looked at
the sun which was painted on the
president's chair, not knowing
whether it represented a rising or a
setting sun. He then said: ''Now,
at length, I have the happiness to
know that it is a rising and not a
setting sun."
Completion of the Constitution
The writing of the Constitution
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was indeed a memorable accom-
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ings of the Convention provide a
guide and a pattern that all bodies
who seek to enact laws or create
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men ought to follow. The approach
to this great and important task was
influenced in no small degree by
the admonition of Washington,
who said: "Let us raise a standard
to which the wise and the honest
can repair; the event is in the hands
of God/'
Who would cavil at the state-
ment of Washington? Certainly not
a Latter-day Saint. The event was
indeed in the hands of God, and
through wise men raised up for that
very purpose the Constitution had
become an accomplished reality.
References
Farrand, Max: ThQ Fathers oi the Con-
stitution, Yale University Press, 1921 (if
available).
Smith, Joseph Fielding: The Piogress oi
Man, pp. 293-294.
Questions for Discussion
1. What was the number of delegates
appointed and how many actually attend-
ed the convention? What was the aver-
age attendance?
2. What was the method by which the
convention did its work in writing the
Constitution? Was this a good method?
3. How long was the convention in
session?
4. Who actually wrote the document?
5. Did the members of the convention
have any conception of the importance
of their work?
6. Name some of the most important
men of the convention. Did Thomas
Jefferson take part? Why not?
7. Discuss the difference between the
Declaration of Independence and the
Constitution.
Xi/inter its for // Comers
Lucille Waters Mattson
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Ye peaks that wait in chaste white robes!
Ye patriarchs of stone and star!
Ye guardians of the stark white heights!
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— Myrtle M. Dean
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I usually read "Woman's Sphere" and a
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my activities, also. The Magazine is a
link with home. I enjoy every page and
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Has ever been your creed.
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Seek knowledge, honor womanhood,
Love beauty, truth, and light —
These and other virtues
You have taught with all your might.
Now, as we view your accomplishments
Of all the years gone by.
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By him who dwells on high.
So may God guard, protect, and guide you
And all your daughters fine;
May the glorious work continue
Until the end of time.
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Mary G. Judd
Anna B. Hart
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Editor -
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Vol. 41
FEBRUARY 1954
NO. 2
Contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
'Teast Upon the Words of Christ" Louise W. Madsen 76
In Memonam — Matthew Cowley — or the Man of Many Friends Spencer W. Kimball 78
bocial Activities in Relief Society Blanche B. Stoddard 83
To Washington Lucille Waters Mattson 107
FICTION
■'Beside the Still Waters" — Second Prize Story Mary Ek Knowles 81
Valentine for Susan Dorothy Oakley Rea 92
The Right Touch Cecil Pugmire 101
Ihe Deeper Melody— Chapter 5 Alice Morrey Bailey 112
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far . 74
Sixty Years Ago %
Woman's Sphere Ramona'W." Cannon 97
Editorial: "Forgetting Self" Vesta P. Crawford 98
Birthday Greetings to Former President Amy Brown Lyman 99
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Margaret C. Pickering 117
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Hobbies Help to Keep Her Young (Lillie Walker) 106
From Cedar Chest to Dressing Table Clara Laster 108
The Finest Career of All Pauline M. Henderson 110
Lost Mittens? Elizabeth Williamson 1 1 1
LESSON DEPARTMENT
Theology: Alma, Son of Alma Leiand H. Monson 124
Visiting Teacher Messages: "Seek Not to Counsel the Lord, But to Take Counsel From
His Hand" Leone O. Jacobs 128
Literature: Charlotte Bronte Briant S. Jacobs 132
POETRY
Glacier Mountain — Frontispiece Hazel Loomis 73
In Tune Anna H. Michie 80
Heart Tones Ida Isaacson 91
For Such As This Pansye H. Powell 100
Valentine for Rosemary Ethel Jacobson 105
Forever the Dream Mary Gustafson 105
Frost Lucy Woolley Brown 106
Bread „ Christie Lund Coles 107
Late Blizzard Maryhale Woolsey 107
Day's End Gertrude T. Kovan 109
Because of Me Bertha A. Kleinman 123
Cycle Louise Morris Kelley 131
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"Feast Upon the Words of Christ'-'
Louise W. Madsen
Member, General Board of Relief Society
[Address Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference,
October i, 1953]
Wherefore, I said unto you, feast upon the words of Christ; for behold, the words
of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do (2 Nephi 32:3).
HOW plain, how simple, yet
how wonderful are those few
words, and how great is the
promise contained therein. How
satisfying is the security of knowing
exactly where to find guidance for
all that we do. ''Let not your heart
be troubled, neither let it be afraid/'
for ''the words of Christ will tell
you all things what ye should do."
Now, the words of Christ are
many, and are found in several vol-
umes of scripture, but if we search
diligently, always, we will find the
answer to that which we seek. It
is there in plainness, but, if per-
chance, we do not fully compre-
hend, the Lord "giveth light unto
the understanding" of those who
ask him for it.
Nephi places squarely on our
shoulders the responsibility of
knowing what the "words of Christ"
mean.
Wherefore, now after I have spoken
these words, if ye cannot understand
them it will be because ye ask not, neith-
er do ye knock; wherefore, ye are not
brought into the light, but must perish
in the dark (2 Nephi 32:4).
And James says it this way: "If
any of you lack wisdom, let him ask
of God, that giveth to all men lib-
erally, and upbraideth not; and it
shall be given him" (James 1:5)-
We, of all people, know that this
procedure brings results, assuming,
of course, that we prayerfully and
worthily ask of God. Nephi, hav-
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ing had the same experience as the
Prophet Joseph Smith, in asking for
and receiving information, says:
"Yea, I know that God will give
liberally to him that asketh. Yea,
my God will give me, if I ask not
amiss."
Concerning the word of God, one
of the most beautiful and meaning-
ful visions ever vouchsafed to man
was given to Lehi. He stood by a
tree, the fruit of which he found
"desirable to make one happy," for,
as he ate of it, his soul was filled
with peace and joy unspeakable.
Near the tree, a great river, muddy
and filthy, rolled turbulently along.
The head of the river could be seen
in the distance, and from it to the
tree was a straight, narrow path,
bordered by a rod of iron to which
one could hold and thus avoid fall-
ing into the river. Across the riv-
er was a great concourse of people
"many of whom were pressing for-
ward, that they might obtain the
path which led unto the tree." And
as they gained the path, great mists
of darkness arose, insomuch that
many who had found the path
were lost and wandered away in
the darkness. But those who came
forth and caught hold of the rod of
iron, and clung to it through the
mists, and followed it tenaciously,
were able to reach and partake of
the fruit of the tree.
The explanation of the vision
was given through inspiration. The
FEAST UPON THE WORDS OF CHRIST 77
tree shown to the prophet was commission . . . "to him that know-
the tree of hfe, and its fruit the eth to do good, and doeth it not,
salvation of the soul. Of the rod to him it is sin" (James 4:17).
of iron it is written: Our Father in heaven helps us
That it was the word of God; and extensively when we try to do
whoso would hearken unto the word of right.
God, and would hold fast unto it, they a j r .. ^ .1. . .x, v.-ij c
would never perish; neither could the ^"1 '^ \''' ^^ ^^^^ }^^ children of
temptations and the fiery darts of the ad- ^^^^ ^^^ • ^^^T'^^'^'^^f' ^^ God
versary overpower them unto blindness, }^ ^^^^ "°""'^ ^^^"^' ^"\ strengthen
to lead them away to destruction (I Ne- ^^^"^^ ^"^ fTl^ "1".""' ^^.T^^ ^^^^
phi 11: -^4) ^^" accomphsh the thmg which he has
commanded them (I Nephi 17:3).
The river of foul waters typified ^-l ,.
the great gulf separatmg ''the wicked , Obedience, then, may be said to
from the tree of life, and also from \^ the first law of heaven. It is
the saints of God." The mists of *^^* obedience that the Lord re-
darkness were the temptations of 2;^^'^.' ^^ ^'^ "P°" ^,^^^J^, ^l ^"^
53|-3j^ blessings are predicated. Obedience
is a source of power, enabling us to
T*HE present is an age character- do the will of God, much as is
ized by great mists of darkness prayer a source of power. In obedi-
and evil, and we need to be con- ence lies happiness. We remember
cerned with clinging to the rod of that at one period the Nephites
iron, and the word of God. We were living in great righteousness
must hold fast to the rod, for the and obeying the commandments,
mists of darkness are dense and con- and the historian stated that the
fusing; and it is easy to let go, and people ''lived after the manner of
slip and slide and fall. happiness" (2 Nephi 5:27).
Not only must we feast upon The world needs to be taught
the words of Christ and keep a firm righteousness, and is best taught
hand on the rod of iron, but we, by the word and example of those
as mothers and members of Re- who know the words of Christ and
lief Society, must be "doers of the do the will of the Father. Surely
word" (James 1.22). The purpose the more than 140,000 women,
of the Lord in placing us on this members of Relief Society, living
earth is to see if we will do all with this in mind, can influence
things he has commanded us to the lives and actions of many!
do. When we have done these things.
It is not enough to read and then we may truly pray with Nephi,
study about the gospel of Jesus ''O Lord, wilt thou encircle me
Christ, but we must actually live around in the robe of thy right-
and do his word and his work, eousness!" (2 Nephi 4:33).
Obedience to Christ's words must That we may all be so encircled
often be in the form of action, in the robe of righteouness because
There are many things that we must we have feasted upon the words
do for him, for our fellow men, and of Christ and thereby know all
for ourselves; as there are sins of things what we should do, is my
omission fully as wrong as sins of prayer.
tfn m
emoriam
Matthew Cowley, or The Man of
Many Friends
(August 2, 1897— December ^3? ^953)
EJder Spencer W. Kimball
Of the Council of the Twelve
ELDER MATTHEW COWLEY
IF A DESCENDANT of Lehi
were coining a descriptive name
for Elder Matthew Cowley as is
the custom, he might likely call
him The Man of Many Friends.
The Tabernacle full of loving
folks at his funeral spoke silent but
eloquent testimony to the love
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which this great apostle drew from
his many friends who came long dis-
tances to pay tribute.
Brother Cowley had a pattern all
his own. No other was like him.
With a meeting finished he often
picked up his hat and coat and
wandered down the block. He
stopped at the small cleaning shop,
the candy counter, at the elevator,
or paused on the sidewalk to talk to
people who were not often touched
by others, and when he left them
they who had been discouraged
were smiling, and they who had
been groping in darkness at midday
had taken a firmer hand-hold.
The Lord exhorted his people to
extend invitations to dinner, not to
friends, kinsmen, and rich neigh-
bors who could return the favor,
but to invite the "poor, the
maimed, the lame, and the blind,"
and those who were less able to
recompense. This admonition, our
brother Matthew took seriously to
heart. The humor of his stories,
the twinkle in his eye, the sincere
interest and concern he manifested,
all warmed the heart and stirred
the resolve. The man who had
lost his way now had firmer grip;
the estranged one forgave and de-
served forgiveness; the lonesome
IN MEMORIAM 79
one now had a friend; and the with the Hawaiians, sat shoe-less on
foreign born now felt he had a the floor with the Japanese, climbed
countryman. the ladder to the top of the stone
The Savior's parable of the ninety house of the Hopi, fraternized with
and nine was a part of Elder Cow- the Navajo in his hogan, and sat
ley's philosophy. He found that cross-legged in the thatched roof
the ratio was not one but many home of the Maori. In the islands
to a hundred, and every day his the people near worship him. They
footsteps led him to the stumbling met the plane or boat with smiling
one whose walk became stable by faces, and they sang their farewell
the lift given. He gave vision; he songs with tearful hearts as he left
stiffened backbones and strength- their shores. Peace had settled
ened determinations. down upon them and they would
Elder Cowley was eloquent, live closer to their Maker now that
Someone had urged him years ago their loved leader had stirred their
to perfect his speech, and with de- thoughts and warmed their souls
termined effort, he had mastered a again.
vocabulary of rich and expressive Tumauki Cowley, the Maoris
yet unostentatious words. His voice called him. This meant, great
was strong and penetrating, his die- leader, big chief, or president. This
tion impressive, and people listened was his title favored by him, and
and absorbed his messages. He he glowed when they referred to
commended righteousness and at- him thusly, and as they saw the
tacked abuses. blind seeing, the lame walking, and
The missionaries who came under the sick recovered through the
his leadership in New Zealand re- power of the Lord under his
turned home inspired and set. Al- hand of faith, they regarded their
most without exception they have Tumauki as the Polynesian prophet,
remained true to the faith and con- To them he spoke ''as one having
tinned active in the Church. If a authority."
member of this close-knit society The apostle had real prestige in
met sorrow, misfortune, or tragedy New Zealand not only among the
the entire group was at his side Church members but among the
with their former president in the natives generally and the Euro-
center. There were groceries as peans, the politicians, and even the
well as prayers. clerics of other faiths. With sec-
tarian ministers and priests and
ROTHER COWLEY loved and others, he was invited to participate
was loved by the Lehites in in a national meeting to consider
both the Americas and on all the the welfare of the native people,
islands. He was their champion. Elder Cowley was called upon to
They felt in a very real sense that speak first in the initial meeting,
he accepted them as friend and and he was requested to speak in
brother. He spoke their language, the Maori language as the leaders
ate their food, sang their songs, wished to show how perfectly a
and dreamed their dreams. He non-native could master the Ian-
walked lei-covered in flower gardens guage when he was sufficiently in-
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terested in them. He spoke flu- dieted: 'Tumauki Cowley will be
ently and eloquently in Maori, then the next apostle." At the next
in English. Then, on the last day general conference, October 1945,
of the conference, he was the only Matthew Cowley was called to the
speaker. His clear and sensible apostleship.
plan of vvelfare and individual initia- ^hen I think of Matt (as we af-
tive for his adopted people brought fectionately called him) I thing of
hearty approval and he was asked ' j,^^ ^^^j Samaritan at rescue work
by Parhament officials to use their ^„ t,,^ ^^^^ ^^ j^^i^j^^ j remember
tacilities and dratt a program m 1.1 ^ 1,4. • • 1,0.
,. .,1 1 ■ .^ wg ci 11 |.j^^ woman caught m sm subiect
line with his suggestions. In a ^^ ^^^^^ concerning whom the
couple of days he had drawn up Redeemer said, "Let him who is
a document which Parhament ^jj^out sin cast the first stone";
adopted and made law. j ^^^-^-^^ ^^^ jj^^j^ ^^^-^^ ^,^,,
He urged the people to retain j^^n being blessed in the arms of
their language and all that was good t],^ faster; and I think of the vi-
of their traditions arts, crafts, cus- ^-^^ ^^ p^te^ extending the gospel
toms, and to perpetuate their wood ^^ g,, j^j ^f the earth,
carvmg and weavmg for future
generations. Though I had never met Brother
The death of their friend and Cowley when he was made a mem-
advocate President Rufus K. Hardy t)er of our council, I needed only
brought sorrow to the islanders who ^"^ ^^ip ^^ Hawaii with him to
said in their loneliness that they develop a deep admiration for his
were without 'a friend in court," great but simple faith and a sin-
when Rahiri Harris, a prominent cere affection which I am sure will
Maori, stopped them short and pre- last through eternities.
S/n oft
'une
Anna H. Michie
Awake, oh, my soul, awake!
Cast off the lowly sod;
Knowest thou not that thou art conic
From a wise and gracious God?
Attune, oh, my soul, attune!
Receive of eternal light.
Walk thou with wisdom, faith, and truth
Through the darkness of earthly night.
Arise, oh, my soul, arise!
Cast off the shackles of earth.
Dwell thou in the infinite love
Of thy God who gave thy spirit birth.
Second LPrize Stor^
.A.nnuai [Relief Society Short Storif Contest
4 4
Beside the Still Waters"
Marv Ek Knowles
MARY EK KNOWLES
NATHANIAL Wellman wak-
ened slowly that morning,
and for a short, wonderful
time he thought he was home in
the big bed in the east bedroom.
Any moment now, Sultan would
crow that the day had begun, and
the sun would spread a coat of pale
gold on the window sill.
He lay there, eyes closed, and he
smelled the lusty spring of newly
plowed fields, the smells of horses
and hay and the barnyard. He
thought, got to get up now. Have
to plow today. He opened his
eyes then. He saw the five white
iron beds in the ward, the thin
old men who occupied them, and
disappointment hit him like a blow.
His farm was gone. Ruby Paul,
Amy's husband, had stolen it from
him. He was in a six-bed ward in
a charity home for aged men. He,
Nathanial Wellman, who had
owned the finest farm in the state,
who had always paid his debts and
been a respected figure in the com-
munity.
If only he could use his hands
he'd be out of here and making
his own way! Eighty wasn't old
for a Wellman! Nathanial held
his hands up and looked at them.
They were large hands, but the
fingers were twisted out of shape
\^ith rheumatism. He tried to rub
them together, hoping to get the
blood circulating, but after a few
desperate attempts he let them
drop onto the coverlet.
He lay there thinking of Ruby
Paul and hating him. He thought
angrily, Couldn't you see what
Ruby was like inside. Amy? And
then anger towards his daughter
drained out of him. Poor fittle
Amy! So trusting that she couldn't
believe anyone she loved could be
dishonest, and she had been blind-
ly in love with Ruby.
Nathanial took a letter from the
drawer of his bedside table. He sat
there holding it in his big, twisted
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hands, but he didn't read it. He tell your gratitude to God/' That
knew what it said. ''Forgive me, was what John Lincoln who was
Father ... I didn't realize . . . ." past ninety and had the room down-
Yes, he had forgiven long ago, stairs was always telHng him. "Be
but not soon enough, he thought grateful for a roof over your head
with regret. For a time he had re- and food and clean clothes and
turned all her letters unopened, shoes on your feet. Be grateful for
This letter with an Illinois address a bed at the end of the ward with
had come six years later. By then a window you can open or close as
he was no longer angry, he only you please.
wanted to see her, to learn how Nathanial bowed his head. He
Ruby was treating her, and he had prayed silently, "Oh, God, I am
eagerly opened the letter. grateful this day for my many bless-
It was a short, pitiful little let- ^"|^ * i* ' i* i ^ ^ • j tt
ter, and he could tell she was not He looked out he window. He
well, not happy. He had answered ^^^ ^he brick wall of the laundry
T 4. 1 i 4- t-u^ ^^^-^-^^ ^.^A and the stcaiTi comiug out the vcut.
immediately, but the letter had & . ,
been returned unopened with Fhere was nothing of spring here,
deceased written across the en- I* '^^d come to him through the
1 open window trom twenty miles
velope. ^ -^
^ away.
If only he hadn't put the deed ^j^ ^^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^ ^^H ^^^^^
to the farm in her name that time ^^.|| ^^-^^ ^^^ ^^^^^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^ ^^^
when he thought he was dying of ^^^^^j^ ^^^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^ |.^^^
pneumonia! If only he hadn t tak- ^-^ driveway. By force of will he
en that trip east and left Amy home ^^.^^ ^^ j-^^ ^-^ --^^ ^^ ^^^1^
attending college. When he came ^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^ -^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^
back Amy had eloped with Ruby, b.^akfast. There was a patch of
and the farm was sold! No doubt ^^^^ -^ ^^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^^ ^^
Ruby had told her, We 11 sell the ^^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^ ^.^^ ^-^ ^^^
farm and put the money in an ^^^^^ ^^ ^^^j^ m^imge the hose if
equity for your father, so when he s ^^j^^eone would turn on the tap.
old he won't have to work! There pj^ .^^^ ^^^ j^.^ trousers. He
had been nothmg he could do. Her ^^^^^^ ^ ^^^^j^ jj^ ^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^
signature was legal and binding! knowing what would follow. It
came. "The same kettle of soup!"
TIE replaced the letter in a Nathanial turned his head. Ed-
drawer. He believed there had die Stringer was watching from the
been a child. Ruby's child! he bed across the room. His black
thought. No kin of mine! Yes, eyes were alive with malice and
he forgave, but oh, if he could mischief, his curly hair still blue
have only one more spring on the black, but there was evil in his
farm, even one more day to spend lined face and nothing in the thin,
in the sunshine! emaciated body to suggest the hand-
His spirits drooped. Why wish some, dashing man whose boast
for the impossible. "Count your had been that he could dance and
blessings, Nathanial. Every day drink all night and never show it.
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83
''Saint and sinner both in the same
pot of stew!'' Eddie laughed.
Nathanial thought wryly that
here was the supreme irony of life.
That of all the people he had
known in his life, Eddie Stringer
should be the one with whom he
had to spend his last days! He hur-
ried into his shirt, his gnarled hands
more clumsy than ever in his haste,
anxious to be away from Eddie and
the things he would say.
''Remember when we were kids,
Nat!" Eddie laughed. " 'You'd bet-
ter straighten out, Eddie,' you said.
'Or you'll end up in jail!' You,
working like a horse in the fields!"
Eddie sat up. "Listen, all of
you . . . ."
"Ah, shut up!" Cries came from
the other occupants of the ward.
But Eddie paid no attention.
"Nathanial lived the way the Good
Book said he should, and we're
both in the same kettle of soup
now!"
Nathanial walked out of the
ward, his shoelaces dangling. But
he did not get out in time. The
bitterness was in his heart. He
stepped into the linen closet in the
hall. He leaned his head against a
shelf of towels that smelled of
strong lye and soap.
"Why?" he asked himself. "Why
have I come to this end along with
Eddie? He never did an honest
day's work in his life. He ruined
the lives of all he touched. I was
not perfect, but oh, I did try to live
right and yet now .... It isn't
fair!"
It was all he could do not to cry.
But he held back the tears. I shall
try to go to the end with dignity,
he thought.
Who was he to question the
Lord? He would go out and
he would forget Eddie. But first
there were his shoelaces to be tied.
Tom Ford in the next bed always
tied them, but Nathanial would
not go back into the ward.
He saw the new nurse. Miss
Bandy, coming down the hallway
carrying a washbasin. She was tall
and thin and she looked unhappy.
He stood there waiting patiently.
She said, "You are up and around
early!"
"I thought I would water the
lawn. But my shoes . . . ."
CHE looked down. "Here, let me
lace and tie them for you." She
laced his shoes, and he looked at
the back of her neck. A few ten-
drils of hair had escaped from the
hard, tight knot, giving her neck a
young look. Miss Bandy was new
here, and Nathanial had not had a
chance to get acquainted with her,
but he had met her type before.
Lonesome women who had given
up hope of love and romance.
Miss Bandy straightened.
"There!" Her cheeks were flushed,
and she was smihng.
He said, "Thank you. You have
a very pretty mouth. Miss Bandy.
And when you smile like that your
whole face lights up."
"Why, thank you, Mr. Well-
man." She flushed with pleasure.
Nathanial knew, you make a wom-
an feel beautiful and she becomes
beautiful. She picked up the wash-
basin and walked away, and there
was a spring in her step now.
Nathanial went into the wash-
room. His daily toilet took a long
time. Sometimes he was tempted
to forget it, and then hc would re-
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member that his wife, Lucy, had ried back into the home and down
always praised him for his neatness, the hall to Mrs. Handmacher's of-
Once he had done everything fice. But she was very busy, going
quickly, and it had not been easy through papers, answering the tele-
to learn patience. But now he slow- phone, telephoning the doctor. He
ly and painfully washed his face knew then he had been selfish,
and combed his thick white hair. There were those in the home who
The part was very crooked, but it were ill, and needed more than a
was the best he could manage. He drive in the country,
brushed his teeth. He still had all
his own teeth without decay in OE turned and walked slowly
them and he could enjoy his food. down the lower hall. ''Nathan-
''Oh, God, for my blessings I am ial!" He heard his name spoken
grateful . . . ." in a deep, gentle voice. ''Good
He looked at his face then. What morning, Nathanial."
did it matter that people told him He realized then he was opposite
he had a good, kind face. Eddie the door to John Lincoln's room,
Stringer had an evil face, and yet but he did not answer the greeting.
both of them had come to the He stood there and looked at John,
same end. The old man was sitting in a chair,
Nathanial walked slowly down facing the window, his profile
the stairs to the first floor, holding against the light like the head of
onto the banister. A moment he an old coin Nathanial had once
hesitated in the archway of the owned. It was a noble head, a
parlor. He had never had a visitor, noble face, the sightless eyes seem-
He told himself he didn't care, but ing to see into eternity,
deep, deep down inside he kept Every day Nathanial read to John
hoping. Someday the matron, from the Bible. John said, ''When
Mrs. Handmacher, would say, "Mr. you read to me, Nathanial, I can
Wellman, there is a visitor in the feel the still waters and see the
parlor for you." Good Shepherd."
He turned and walked down the But today Nathanial didn't feel
long hall to the front door. Who like reading about still waters and
would ever visit him? Amy had good shepherds. He turned and
been the last of his family. He walked quietly away. It was break-
went outside and walked towards fast time then, but he could not
the hose and the patch of lawn, and choke down the food. He got up
knew at once it was a mistake, com- and went into the hall and slowly
ing outdoors. Because again spring walked up the stairs. He knew,
came to him, a lusty spring from then, he could not stand another
miles away, and his heart yearned day in the home,
after the country, and it was not He would go to bed, turn his
enough— a small patch of lawn. face to the wall and die. He reached
Maybe someone could drive him the second floor, and the dbor to
out in the country. For only an his ward and stopped. He could
hour! He had to go! He was not face Eddie again. He thought
filled with excitement, and he hur- of the storage closet at the end of
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85
the hall. It was quiet and dark,
and there was in it an old rocking
chair with a broken arm.
He closed the door and sat in
the chair. He closed his eyes and
gave a great sigh, and after awhile
he sank into oblivion. When he
awakened he heard the rattle of
dishes on trays and knew it was
lunch time.
He had not died then, he
thought with wry amusement. And
who are you, Nathanial Wellman,
to say when you shall die? He
stood up. And so God willed that
he should live awhile longer, then
he would try and go to the end
with dignity and purpose. He would
try to make the home his place
''beside the still v/aters."
He would read to John every day.
He would tell Miss Bandy how
pretty she was. He would tell her
every day, and finally she would be-
lieve him, and she would be beau-
tiful and some man would see it
and marry her.
He washed his face, and the cold
water made his skin tingle. He
ate his lunch with appetite and
then he went to John's room.
"Hello, John," he said.
''Are you all right, Nathanial?"
John sounded anxious.
'I'm all right now, John." Na-
thanial could not say why, but he
felt happy, as if he had a great deal
to look forward to. He picked up
the big Bible with its worn leather
cover and its large type. "And what
shall it be today, John?"
John smiled, 'The Sermon on
the Mount, please, Nathanial. Be-
gin with, 'And seeing the multi-
tude, he went up into a moun-
tain ....'" John folded his hands
and waited.
So Nathanial read, and he had
reached, "Rejoice, and be exceed-
ing glad for great is your reward in
heaven," when Miss Bandy ap-
peared in the doorway. "A visitor
for you, Mr. Wellman."
"For me?" Nathanial asked. And
after a pause. "Who?"
She shook her head and smiled,
and he saw that she was wearing
lipstick and had loosened her hair
a bit and already she looked hap-
pier. "I don't know. Mrs. Hand-
macher just said to find you and
tell you there is a visitor in the
parlor."
Nathanial closed the Bible and
put it down. John held out his
hand, and Nathanial took it, felt
the warm pressure of friendship.
Then, wondering, he went to the
parlor.
TUST inside the archway he
^ stopped. His young brother,
Charles, was standing there, smil-
ing at him. Charles as he had been
at twenty. But Charles had been
thrown from a horse and killed
when he was a young man!
He said a bit shortly because he
felt shaken, "I am Nathanial Well-
man. You wanted to see me? Who
are you?"
"I am Michael Paul, Sir."
Amy's son! With nothing of
Ruby Paul about him. But all Well-
man! He sank down weakly on a
chair. The boy pulled up a chair
and sat opposite him, and Nathan-
ial saw that the boy sat as he sat,
on the edge of the chair, with feet
braced wide apart as if to get up
quickly and go about his business.
He saw the hands resting on the
knees, as his hands were resting,
and they were broad, strong, power-
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ful hands. Nathanial asked, "Where
did you come from, lad?"
''Chicago, Grandfather. You
don't mind if I call you that?" he
asked anxiously.
Grandfather . . . the first shock
had passed now and realization was
deepening. He thought, this boy
is my own flesh and blood. And
all at once the room seemed filled
with light and hope and the fresh
clean smell of youth. He wanted
to reach out and touch the firm,
tanned flesh, feel the hardness and
reality of him. "Yd like you to
call me Grandfather," he said sin-
cerely.
''I had a hard time finding you,
Grandfather. I was afraid you
might be dead."
Nathanial had meant it to be
that way. He had worked as long
as he could, and then when his
hands became crippled he had lived
on his savings. When that was gone
he had applied for help, but with
the plea that none of his old friends
know about it.
'This was my last hope," Mike
was saying, "and I had to find you,
Grandfather."
But not for this brief visit, Na-
thanial wanted to cry. It would
have been better if you had never
come. He asked almost fearfully,
"And so now you have found me?"
"There are only you and me left
of all the family. Grandfather."
Hope flickered. That didn't
sound as if he meant to go striding
out of Nathanial's life. He wanted
to say, "It is good not to be alone
anymore, Michael." But he held
back the words. Youth didn't want
to feel obligated and trapped. If
only the boy would just come and
see him once in awhile!
'NSTfTUTE OF RFf rrioM
^''^' ^'AH 84/07
He asked, "Where is your fa-
ther, Michael?"
"He died in January. I . . ."
Mike hesitated and then went on,
bitterness in his young voice. "I'm
trying not to hate him. After all
he's dead, but ... he deserted me
a month after mother died. He
left me with neighbors and never
came back."
Very characteristic of him, Na-
thanial thought angrily. "What did
vou do then?"
"I was put in a home, and I
lived there until I was eighteen.
Then I joined the Navy. I've only
just gotten out of service, and you
know something. Grandfather?" he
asked.
"No, lad," Nathanial said gently,
"What?"
"Mother used to talk about you
a lot. She told me how Dad had
cheated you. I was only six when
she died, but I never forgot. And
all the time I was in the home and
then in the service I thought, I have
a grandfather somewhere and some-
day I'll find him and I'll buy a
farm. But I couldn't remember the
name of the town where you lived,
only the state." He grinned happily.
"But now I have found you! Will
you help me pick out a farm and
live with me? I need you. Say
you'll come!"
^/'T need you ... say you'll come."
. . . Nathanial was afraid he was
going to cry like a weak old man
before his grandson. It was a mo-
ment before he had control of
himself enough to speak, and then
he held up his crippled hands.
"My hands, see! I'd be no good
to you on a farm."
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87
'*It isn't your hands I want,
Grandfather. Fm strong enough
for the both of us. It's your ex-
perience and advice I want."
Nathanial could not beheve it
yet. He had learned not to get
his hopes too high. ''A good farm
takes money. There's no such
thing as cheap land."
''Oh, I've saved my money, and
when Dad died his estate went to
me. I'll use the money from that."
All at once Nathanial wanted to
stand and shout, ''Hear that, Ed-
die Stringer! Ruby took my farm,
and now he gives it back to me!"
He wanted to take this beautiful
boy through the wards and show
him off, saying, "Look at the size
of him, the width of those should-
ers, the bigness of his hands. See
how tall and fine he is! My grand-
son, Eddie Stringer, come all the
way from Chicago to find his old
grandfather! And Fm going to
live with him, I'll spend my last
days on the land!"
Then he was ashamed of him-
self. He thought, my cup run-
neth over! I could not be so mean
and small as to flaunt my sudden
good fortune in the faces of those
who have nothing. Not even to
Eddie could he do that.
"There's enough money for a big
down payment," Mike was saying.
"Of course we'd have a struggle at
first. Maybe you wouldn't . . . ."
"A man can only eat one meal
at a time, Mike," Nathanial said
eagerly, "and wear one suit of
clothes."
"Then you will come, Grand-
father? I've spoken to the matron.
I'll sign the necessary papers."
Nathanial stood up, holding his
shoulders back. He must not trem-
ble now. He said evenly, "I will
be happy to go with you. We will
find the finest farm in the State.
I'll pack my things now." He knew
he was going to cry then. That he
could no longer hold back the
tears. He had to turn and go quick-
ly out of the parlor.
He held the tears back until he
reached the foot of the stairs. He
let them come then, let them roll
unchecked down his cheeks. That
was permitted, surely, without loss
of dignity, tears of happiness. Then
he brushed them away and hurried
up the stairs, his heart singing, "Oh,
kind God, I am grateful this day."
Mary EI: Knowles, Ogden, Utah, has written many excellent stories for The Relief
Society Magazine. Her story "The Gold Watch," was awarded third prize in the Re-
hef Society Short Story Contest in 1943, and her story "Spring Festival" received the
first prize in 1946.
Mary was born in Ely, Nevada, lived for many years in Salt Lake City, and for
a short time in Reno, Nevada. Her family and her writing are her chief interests.
"I have three children," she tells us, "a wonderful husband, and a very interesting
mechanical engineer father, Alma Ek, who hves in Merced, Cahfornia. I am hterature
teacher for the Ogden Twenty-Third Ward Rehef Society. Writing is my hobby, my
husband and children my profession. I am a member of the Blue Quill, Ogden Writ-
ers Club, and the League of Utah Writers, and I would suggest to any ambitious
young writer that she have a family, the larger the better, because a family, especially
the teen-agers, are a constant source of story material."
In addition to the Church magazines, the work of Mrs, Knowles has appeared in
Woman's Day, Today's Woman, The American Magazine, Extension, and many other
publications.
Social Activities in Relief Society
Blanche B. Stoddard
Member, General Board of Relief Society
[Address Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference,
September 30, 1953]
IT was my privilege this summer
to visit in the mission field and
attend Relief Society meetings
and socials there. I asked one sis-
ter who had recently been baptized
what had caused her to come into
the Church. She said she had
moved into the community a total
stranger. One day her neighbor
invited her to go to a Relief Society
work meeting. She met so many
splendid women, learned so much,
and had such a good time, she asked
to go again to some of the other
meetings. She became a Relief So-
ciety member, then a member of
the Church. Her mother-in-law,
who is not a member, said to her,
''I don't see why you didn't join
the group to which I belong." The
daughter answered, 'They did not
invite me." I hope you and I are
not passing up some good oppor-
tunities with our neighbors because
we do not give that little invita-
tion.
The past months, as we have held
conventions in your stakes, we have
emphasized compassionate service,
visiting teaching, and the education-
al part of the Relief Society pro-
gram. For a few moments now, I
should like to speak of another very
important part, an integral part of
the program— the social activities.
You and I can sit together in
regular Relief Society meetings
week after week and not know each
other. But let us sit side by side
making a quilt, enjoying a social af-
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ternoon, or serving together on the
luncheon committee at work meet-
ing, and it isn't long until we know
first names, how many children
each of us has, what business our
husbands are in, and all the things
that make us know each other bet-
ter. And isn't it true, as a rule,
that the better we know each other
the better we love each other? I
heard a Relief Society president, as
she bore her testimony, say, 'There
are only two kinds of people in my
ward, those I love and those I do
not know."
Relief Society activities provide
such an opportunity to make last-
ing friendships. Recently, after a
visiting teachers convention which
I attended, two sisters came up
holding hands. One said, ''We
have been visiting teaching com-
panions for a year and we just love
each other."
I asked, "If it had not been for
Relief Society, would you ever have
met?"
They would not, in all probabil-
ity. We have a unique social oppor-
tunity. We play, sing, work, and
pray together, welding ties of last-
ing friendships based on deep un-
derstanding of each other. I am
sure you can say with me, that some
of your most precious friendships
began in Relief Society.
Recognizing that friendly social
relationships are important to an
abundant life. Relief Society has in-
cluded delightful social occasions
SOCIAL ACTIVITIES IN RELIEF SOCIETY
89
as a part of its program. Through
its social activities, members have
been brought into closer relation-
ship and sisterly love has been
fostered. The social spirit has par-
ticularly characterized the work
meeting. It is recommended that
this day be made a happy social
day in which it is almost impos-
sible for formality and stiffness to
prevail. It is a wonderful time to
invite strangers and newcomers in
the ward to Relief Society. Make
them welcome and give them a
definite part in the day's program.
A S my companion and I went vis-
iting teaching this last week,
we were in a district of lovely new
homes where many of the wives
were young women. Many of them
were entirely indifferent, and had
not been to any of the ward func-
tions. One young mother said she
would not be able to go to Relief
Society because she was so busy
decorating her home, making
lamps and drapes, planting her
flowers, and making her budget
stretch. Her home came first.
What a splendid opportunity for
us! We explained in detail our
wonderful course in homemaking
and home-management and the so-
cial activities of the work meeting.
Immediately, she was eager to come
on the day that would give her
these opportunities. Now, if we
meet her and make her welcome,
introduce her to other young moth-
ers, and even ask her to exhibit
some of the lovely things she has
made for her own home and let
her partake of the social spirit of
the day, I am sure we will have an-
other enthusiastic member of Re-
lief Society.
Many young women have been
career girls and now find a lot of
time on their hands. They are go-
ing to seek social outlets by join-
ing clubs and other organizations
which, in our estimation, cannot
begin to give them the fine associa-
tion and companionship that Relief
Society has to offer. I remember
one such sister. We tried for years
to get her to come to Relief Society.
Finally, someone remembered that
she loved parties, loved to entertain
and prepare unusual meals and set
beautiful tables. So we asked her
to be chairman of the work meet-
ing luncheon committee for the
year. She was delighted. She found
an outlet for her talents. Relief So-
ciety was benefited, and she became
a loyal member.
As I said, work meeting is prob-
ably the best time for enjoyable so-
cial activity. On vacation this sum-
mer I visited a work meeting in one
of the Idaho wards. There were
fifty-eight women present. I knew
only three of them at first, but be-
fore the day was over I felt I knew
each one, a Httle of her background
and her home life. As we quilted
and chatted I learned many inter-
esting short cuts to homemaking
and came home with some choice
recipes. It was a delightful day.
Not long ago I visited another
work meeting. I knew they had
a quilt to do and I love to
quilt. We had a pleasant and prof-
itable morning, but when we went
in to lunch I was amazed to find
they were charging seventy-five
cents for it, Not only amazed, but
embarrassed, because I had not
brought my purse with me, not an-
ticipating any need for it. I was
also a little annoyed. I was put-
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— FEBRUARY 1954
ting in a good five hours on their
]:)azaar quilt, having fun Fll admit,
l:)ut I sort of felt I was entitled to
my lunch. Don't you think I was?
Of course they let me charge it on
promise to pay later, but it rather
spoiled the day for me. I hope no
sister in that ward stayed away from
work meeting that day because she
could not spare seventy-five cents
for lunch.
We feel that sisters who come to
render service should not be ex-
pected also to pay for their lunch.
Permission is given to use Relief
Society funds for the purpose of
meeting the expense of simple
luncheons. We feel that the lunch-
eons are a delightful part of the
day and provide the sisters with
opportunity to display talents in
women to project the program of
Relief Society.
The seventeenth of March, our
birthday, is another splendid oppor-
tunity to show our gratitude and
appreciation for this great organ-
ization. Many sisters may par-
ticipate in the program on that day,
which should be such as to promote
sociability and a feeling of sister-
hood.
ANOTHER wonderful source of
social activity is through our
Singing Mothers organizations.
What if all the mothers in the
world were singing mothers!
Wouldn't this be a different old
world? I am sure nowhere else
could we go to see and hear what
we will tomorrow, as we listen to
table decorations and low-cost, but ^^'^^^ Madsen's Singing Mothers
nutritious menus.
We hope that Relief Society
sisters will never have to pay to go to
the regular meetings other than the
chorus. There will be daughters,
mothers, grandmothers, and great-
grandmothers singing together,
bearing testimony together in
music. There will be no age nor
mitial dues of fifty cents. I heard social barriers in this group. We
of an openmg social for which each hope every ward will have a Sing-
sister was charged one dollar at the jng Mothers chorus comprised of
door, fifty cents to go as her dues, every sister who desires to sing,
and fifty cents to swell the funds Sister Madsen says that if you have
of Relief Society. The entire pur- two women who can sing a duet
pose of the day was defeated, in my together, it is a nucleus for a Sing-
estimation. The opening social is ^ig Mothers chorus. As we go
about the Church we are thrilled
with your singing groups. What
good times they have, how they
learn to love each other!
We feel, sisters, that you stake of-
ficers have a great responsibility in
directing and maintaining the high
one of great importance. There
are wonderful opportunities for this
occasion. Every woman in the
ward, whether she belongs to Relief
Society or not, should receive a
special invitation. She should meet
the officers and the other members
and should learn on that day what standards of the social activities
Relief Society has to offer her and
the part she has to play in its suc-
cess. It should be a day of dignity
and beauty, an outlet for talented
m
Relief Society. See that they are
proper and dignified and in keep-
ing with the policies and aims of
the organization. Inspiration has
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91
guided the destiny of Relief Society,
and intrinsic worth has character-
ized its activities. It was organized
by a Prophet of God after the pat-
tern of the Priesthood. When an
organization has such a birth, such
a history as ours, we must be care-
ful to maintain its activities on a
high plane. I once heard Sister
Layton say that when a woman
reaches a certain age, probably the
greatest possession left to her is her
dignity. After all, Relief Society
is over a hundred years old, let us
help her to stay dignified.
COMETIMES, because of lack of
experience in Relief Society, a
lack of understanding and apprecia-
tion, or because of a desire to catch
interest by introducing something
new and different, activities are con-
ducted which are not in harmony
with Relief Society. Extreme and
offensive costumes are not becom-
ing to women. When programs re-
quire men, it is more appropriate
to use men than to have women
impersonate them. It is unbecom-
ing in Relief Society gatherings to
burlesque things for which we
should have respect and reverence.
Let us remember we are the moth-
ers of Israel and representatives of
the greatest woman's organization
in the world.
Relief Society programs and en-
tertainment need not be somber
and formal. Under certain cir-
cumstances, they may be light and
highly entertaining. However, they
should be more than time-wasters,
which contribute nothing to the ad-
vancement of Relief Society wom-
en. All activities should be worthv
of the time of Latter-day Saint
women and reflect the ideals and
standards of our organization. Of
course we want to have fun, we
want to laugh and have a good
time. In this time of stress and
sorrow and foreboding, we welcome
fun. But we want to go home from
every Relief Society function with
something so good that we will be
lifted up, and with something so
fine it will carry over into our
homes. Our sisters, especially many
of our older sisters, have a great
need for social life under the super-
vision of Relief Society.
We have such good Relief So-
cieties all over the Church, and
much good is being done with the
sisters who attend. But let us lend
every effort this coming year in
reaching out after the inactive ones,
the indifferent, those with heavy
hearts and slipping testimonies.
The Prophet's mother said we
must cherish one another. We are
indeed our sister's keeper. Probably
there is no better way first to reach
her than through our social acti\'i-
ties in Relief Societv.
cKeart cJones
Ida Isaacson
There is a time when speech is cleft;
When breath is silent, sound bereft —
When only heart tones climb into the mind
And tell all that can be told, or left behind.
Such moments as these bare themselves to love
And no one hears but two — and God above.
Valentine for Susan
Doiothy Oakley Rea
4 4 /^ RANDMA, do you think served through thin hps, as she bit
I -IT Fm pretty?" the thread from the dress she was
^-^ Susan Gray didn't turn hemming,
to look at her grandmother as she She tried to sound unconcerned,
asked the question. She continued but she had hurried with the new
to stare into the mirror at the wide velvet in case Fred should ask Su-
mouth, the smooth, high forehead, san for the prom. A heart-shaped
and the deep-set, blue eyes that corsage of violets and roses would
stared back at her. have been so pretty at the shoulder.
''Of course I think you're pretty." Cordelia Gray had wanted the.
Grandma Cordelia Gray squinted best of everything for her grand-
to thread her needle. ''All grand- daughter. It wasn't exactly selfish
mothers think their granddaughters to want it that way, she felt. It was
are pretty. Susan, do you think you more like wanting to make up for
are pretty?" the ways in which Susan had been
"No," Susan said flatly, and forced to take short measure,
plopped into the big chair in front As when Susan's mother had
of the old fireplace. She looked died after Steve, Susan's father, had
into the fire, remembering that in spent all he could earn or borrow
her seventeen years she had lighted trying to fight the ravages of her
many pine wood fires and loved leukemia.
each one a little more than the Steve had procured a good engi-
last. neering job in South America after
"It's not that I mind not being his wife had died. He couldn't
as pretty as Marie Woods. She is take the baby daughter with him,
put together perfect as a Dresden so he had left her with his mother,
doll. It's the Valentine I really who had felt so inadequate when
care about. Grandma." she had looked at the tiny fluff of
"The Valentine? I thought you a girl, delicate as a pink shell,
put Valentine notions away with Cordelia hadn't had a daughter,
your last doll a few years ago." She was widowed when Steve, her
"I don't mean those silly Valen- only son, was ten years old. She
tines we liked in grade school. I had sold the farm, keeping only the
mean like those heart-shaped cor- family garden and the house that
sages of roses and violets at the her husband had built on the lower
corner florists. I saw Fred Miller acre.
go in there, and while I was sort of They had planned for a big fam-
standing by the door, I heard him ily. The house had three bedrooms
order one for Marie." huddled under the sloping roof up-
"I guess that means he will be stairs, and there was the big bed-
taking Marie to the Valentine room next to the parlor,
prom," Grandma Cordelia • ob- Cordelia had taught in the vil-
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VALENTINE FOR SUSAN
93
lage schoolhouse in those years
when she had saved enough to
send Steve to engineering school.
She had baked bread, cakes, and
pies for ten famihes in Newfield,
and with Dan's insurance, she and
Steve had been able to take a prop-
er place in their community. They
had always been offering the big
house for fireside meetings or
parties.
CTEVE'S boyhood had been hap-
py here, and when he went away
to college, he had had as much
money as most young men, and just
as many of the belongings that col-
lege youths considered important
in those depression years of the
1930's.
It was quite different now that
Susan was growing up. There
weren't any savings, and Grandma
was past the time of teaching in
the school, which by now was a
sprawling structure on the avenue,
complete with modern teachers,
perfect lighting, and adjustable
seats.
Students at the high school drove
their own cars— some even had con-
vertibles, Susan said. There were
television sets in most homes, as
well as the deep-freeze, which sure-
ly would have been a boon in the
days when Cordelia had done cook-
ing for other families.
Cordelia and Susan didn't own
a car, a television set, or a deep-
freeze. Steve was able to send
plenty to live on, but not enough
for extras.
Even so, the Gray house had
been a joyous place. Susan col-
lected friends hke a flower collects
bees. They had invaded the house
from bread-and-jelly kindergarten
days, right up to now, when they
gathered around the old dining-
room table with their lessons or
popped pop corn and listened to
name bands on the radio.
Susan had her share of boy
friends, but she could see only
Fred Miller. Cordelia wasn't sure
just what Susan saw in the boy.
She thought he talked in a strange
manner.
Often when he and Susan were
listening to the radio, he would say,
''Dig that crazy tune."
What was that supposed to
mean? Cordelia wondered.
His hair was another thing that
was puzzling. A year ago he had
worn it long behind with a wave
at each temple. Now, when he
came over in the evening, Cordelia
noticed it was barely an inch long
and stood up on his head like a
brush.
'That's a butch haircut. Grand-
ma. All the boys have them,"
Susan explained. "It's a fad like
when I wore my hair in a pony
tail."
Cordelia put the last stitch in
the facing at the neckline of the
new velvet dress.
"You needn't have hurried with
the dress. Grandma. I won't be
going to the Valentine prom. It's
tomorrow night, you know, and I
haven't been asked." There was
the slightest quiver in the young
voice that tried to sound noncha-
lant.
"Harry Daniels would take you
if you would even look his way,"
Grandma ventured.
"It isn't honest to be nice to a
boy just to get a date when you
don't especially enjoy his com-
pany. You said that. Grandma."
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Cordelia smiled. She had tried
to teach this lovely granddaughter
some of the social graces. Now she
found herself forgetting them in
her anxiety for Susan's happiness.
npHE next day was Saturday and
Valentine's. If Susan was griev-
ing about the prom, she gave no
sign. She arose early, put on a
plain blouse and flowered skirt, and
gave the house a real cleaning. She
put a fresh bowl of apples on the
dining-room table and pine nuts
in the brass bowl on the mantle.
In the early afternoon she light-
ed a fire and sagged into the big
chair with a magazine, while Cor-
delia got ready and went market-
ing.
There was a high blue sky on the
afternoon of St. Valentine's Day.
Melting snows clung to the shady
places, but the sidewalks were dry.
Cordelia brushed away some leaves
as she passed the garden fence. The
violets were coming up, she no-
ticed.
Seeing the violets push up their
green leaves made her think again
of the corsage Susan had men-
tioned.
''It seems to me that I love Su-
san as much as anyone loves her.
Why shouldn't I send her a Valen-
tine?" Cordelia was thinking.
She walked a little faster with a
little more color in her cheeks.
There was the corsage in the
florist's window— heart-shaped, with
violets and roses.
''Will you deliver one of those
to Susan at my house?" she asked
the florist.
"Sure will, Mrs. Gray. We've
delivered lots of them to the high
school girls today."
Cordeha paid for the flowers and
hurried out onto the street. She
shouldn't have bought the flowers,
she thought. Now the florist will
be wondering why some young man
didn't order flowers for Susan.
The girl was gone when Cor-
delia returned home. A note in
her young scrawl was on the kitch-
en table. "Grandma, I've gone bike
riding with Fred."
"The nerve of him," Cordelia
muttered. "Susan is all right to
take bicycle riding in the afternoon,
but he takes another girl to the
prom."
Cordelia was glad the florist came
with the flowers before Susan came
home. It would be a shame to
have Susan answer the door think-
ing the flowers might be from some-
one else.
TT was almost dusk. Cordelia laid
out the pretty new velvet across
the big chair. At the shoulder she
fastened the fragrant heart of flow-
ers. On the small white card she
wrote, "Happy Valentine to Su-
san.
Susan didn't go into the parlor
when she came home. She ran
straight upstairs, but not before
Cordelia saw that her cheeks were
as red as the sweater she wore.
Notes of a popular tune drifted
down the stairway and into the
kitchen where Cordelia was trim-
ming some Valentine cookies for
supper.
"Seems like that's the song Fred
thinks is real crazy," Cordelia was
remembering.
When Susan came down in her
old bathrobe and shaggy slippers,
Cordelia knew for sure there was
VALENTINE FOR SUSAN
no date for the prom, but Susan
looked surprisingly happy.
When she finally stepped into
the parlor she saw the dress and
the corsage. She flung both arms
around her grandmother. "What a
wonderful Valentine surprise! I'll
tell you whai let's do, Grandma.
You get all dressed up and so will
I, then we'll sit by the fireplace and
have a \^alentine party for two."
A little later Cordelia and Susan
were settled in front of the fire. A
waltz was being played on the radio,
and the soft aroma of the corsage
filled the room.
Suddenly Cordelia arose and
walked to the mirror. She peered
at the gray hair and the aging face.
"Susan, do you think I'm pretty?"
She turned smiling.
"Oh, yes. Grandma. Fve always
thought so. You are beautiful in
that dress. Fve never seen you
wear it before, yet I'm sure it's not
new . . . because of the style."
"It is very old and I am very
old," Cordelia sighed. "When we
were both much younger, I wore
this dress on a Valentine's night.
Your grandfather said I was pretty.
We were married before the next
Valentine's Day."
For the next few hours, grand-
mother and granddaughter traveled
back through the years. They
looked through the album, and they
went upstairs to the room where
the trunks were stored. They
looked at pictures of Cordelia in
other days, pictures of Grandpa
and Steve and Susan's mother.
Z^TJS °^ FUSION
They found an old Valentine
with two angels holding a pink lace
heart. Inside the heart it said,
"Accept my undying love and de-
votion. To Cordelia from Dan."
Back in the parlor, Susan sat on
the arm of her grandmother's chair.
"You lived in such a nice time
when you were young," she said
simply.
"Any time is nice when you're
young." Cordelia put her arm
around Susan.
"But Grandma, boys don't say
things to girls now like Grandpa
said about his undying love and de-
votion."
As if to emphasize what she had
said, Susan smiled and produced
a crumpled piece of paper from her
pocket.
"This, in case you're wondering,
is my Valentine from Fred. It
says:
Dear Susan, I hope you have a nice
time even if we are not going to the
prom together. I think you are real sharp
and would like you to go with me to all
the rest of the dances this year. The
reason why I didn't ask you to go to the
prom is that Marie asked me to take her,
and because I work in her father's garage
could I very well say no? Please ask
Grandma to expect me for Sunday din-
ner. Yours truly, Fred.
"I see what you mean," Cordelia
smiled. "It is different from Grand-
pa's Valentine, but I guess it means
practically the same thing. You
see, I just remembered. Grandpa
told me that night that he would
like to come over to our house for
Sunday dinner."
Sixty Ljears Kyigo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, February i, and February 15, 1894
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
UTAH SILK AT THE WORLD'S FAIR: The ladies of Davis County con-
tributed a set of furniture (seven pieces) to the ladies reception room in the Utah
Building, upholstered in home-raised silk, it was a sage green brocaded with a spray
of wild sage, the color harmonizing with the other furnishings in the room .... The
raising of the worm is a labor which is extremely interesting, and to the womanly heart
brings out a loving care and interest which makes it more than mere labor.
— Margaret A. Caine
SOUVENIRS OF LILAC TIME: I have the courage to declare myself a devoted
admirer, not only of the beautiful and fantastic, but the weird in nature. It is part
of my composition .... Lilacs are one of my especial weaknesses, for they are as-
sociated with the earliest recollections of my child-life and school-girl history. I never
see a lilac but it calls up tender memories connected with the past .... And, if I
may tell it, the lilac bush oft holds many a precious secret.
— ^Aunt Em
A FRAGMENT
Thou call'st from out the deep recesses of my soul
sweet sympathy ....
And all the while I feel a magic touch
That brings such harmony of sight and sound
And charity and love my bosom swell,
With such intensity no tongue can tell
And thy bright presence vivifies the spell;
And I am treading on enchanted ground ....
— E. B. W.
MUSIC IN UTAH: In the growth of civihzation and the unfoldment of social
development, music and her twin sister poetry take precedence of all the arts, and
present an unmistakable index to national character. The pioneer settlers who crossed
the Rocky Mountains to make homes in the valley of the Great Salt Lake were cer-
tain in the early stage of their peculiar civilization to manifest the genius of music,
and the hosts of Israel beguiled many an hour of their weary march across the conti-
nent by singing the songs of Zion. The first musical organization formed in Utah
was a brass band . . . under the leadership of Captain William Pitt .... In 1857
Dominico Ballo, an Italian, highly endowed with the musical genius of his race, came
to Salt Lake City and electrified the people with his performances on the clarinet
. ... In 1853 David O. Calder, the pioneer teacher of vocal music, came to Salt Lake
City, and settled over Jordan where he taught the first singing school in the Terri-
tory .... In 1862 Professor Charles J. Thomas, who had for years been associated
with some of the principal theatre orchestras in London, came to Salt Lake City, and
at once took charge of the orchestra at the new Salt Lake Theater .... — Selected
BRIGHAM YOUNG AND THE DRAMA: Brigham Young, the leader of mod-
ern Israel in its exodus to these mountains, with his profound knowledge of human
nature, typed with his New England sagacity, evinced consummate wisdom in sup-
plying his people with the means of social and physical revivification. The weariness
of travel, and the labor of making new homes, were enlivened by joyous music, fa-
miliar songs, with the merry dance and social ball .... The projects of organizing a
company with the combination of the musical and dramatic elements, received the
hearty sanction of Brigham Young. — Selected
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
^^'pHE Women of the Year 1953/'
as nominated by Major Gen-
eral Wilham F. Dean of the United
States Army, are the heroic army
nurses who served in the Korean
War. Among those who received
particular mention were: Captain
Iris Craig, Lieutenant Dorothy De-
vers, Lieutenant Lorna Wilson, and
nurse Nancy Jones.
QUEEN Elizabeth II, during her
^ tour of the Commonwealth na-
tions in December 1953, was royal-
ly entertained by fifty-three-year-old
Queen Salote Tupou of Tonga,
who, last June, attended the coro-
nation of Queen Elizabeth in Lon-
don. As the visiting Queen stepped
ashore at Nukualofa, it began to
rain once more, as it had rained at
their previous meeting. Both queens
smiled broadly as Salote opened a
large green umbrella and raised it
above both their heads. Salote's
48,000 subjects had been busy for
many weeks painting the royal pal-
ace, rehearsing the entertainment
program, making arches and ban-
ners, picking pineapples, preparing
pigs to be roasted, and drilling the
Royal Tongan MiHtary Band.
AT the thirty-second National
4-H Congress, held in Chicago
in November, Margaret Ann Ash-
ton of Provo, nineteen years old,
was one of eight to win $300 schol-
arships from Sears Roebuck Foun-
dation. Her national prize was for
home improvement — making a
basement storeroom into an attrac-
tive playroom. Among many im-
provements, she upholstered furni-
ture, made plywood walls, refinished
a piano, made bookcases, tables, a
radio case, and a lamp shade. Wan-
da Lee Peacock of Price received a
United States Savings Bond from
the Kellogg Company, Battle Creek,
Michigan, as a health-improvement
award.
lyfRS. Helen Werner Slocum be-
gan a business with $2.50,
which now grosses $250,000 a year.
With her only resources a second-
hand trailer, she began hauling
boats in it from one state to an-
other, near and far. Now she has
many employees and handles a fair
share of the nearly 5,000,000 small
boats in this country, when they
require dry-land transportation.
"I\7^E extend birthday congratula-
tions to Mrs. Clara Fisher
Samuels, ninety, formerly of Ver-
nal, Uintah County, Utah, now a
resident of San Leandro, California;
and Mrs. Isabella R. Crafts of Salt
Lake City, Utah, ninety-three years
old.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 41
FEBRUARY 1954
NO. 2
oforgetting Self
High on the rocky battlements of
a ridge in the Black Hills of South
Dakota, four faces have been carved
in lasting stone as a memorial
to four great Americans whose
strength, discipline, and foresight
directed the building and the ex-
tension of American constitutional
government. They laid the struc-
tural steel of freedom and built the
shining towers of liberty. Of them
it may be said that ''more than self
their country loved . . . and mercy
more than life."
The faces carved in stone on that
high wall are the faces of Washing-
ton, Jefferson, Lincoln, and Theo-
dore Roosevelt. The lines and the
lineaments of the faces reveal in-
tegrity and vision, courage and con-
templation — qualities which have
made the thoughts and the actions
of these men live each day in
America, and in the thoughts and
dreams of many statesmen through-
out the world.
Let it be said of Washington, as
we think of him in this month of
February, that he evidenced in his
own life that high integrity of pur-
pose which places the self as the
servant of others, as a builder for a
more lasting monument than per-
sonal pleasure or satisfaction. He
dearly loved his home — the broad
acres of Mount Vernon, the great
river, and the columns of his house,
the association of his family. But
he endured the long struggle, the
bitter cold of embattled winters,
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the despair of many failures — en-
during that which he believed was
temporary in the hope of establish-
ing that which would be of lasting
worth. 'Tet us raise a standard to
which the wise and honest can re-
pair," Washington said. 'The event
is in the hand of God."
And what of Thomas Jefferson,
who had written the Declaration of
Independence, and who wielded the
tools of a master in building the
structures which preceded the fram-
ing of the Constitution? Jefferson
was acting as minister to France
during the drafting and the signing
of that document. However, the
lasting wisdom and breadth of his
views, and the uncompromising
honesty of his personality made a
deep imprint upon the design of
government. Although he wished
to grant the fullest liberty which
they might be capable of exercising
to all people, still he was deter-
mined to safeguard the written law
and to uphold the legally estab-
lished codes. "In questions of pow-
er," Jefferson wrote, "let no more
be said of confidence in man, but
bind him down from mischief . . .
by the Constitution."
Well known and well loved, the
introspective face of Lincoln is
sober and brooding, yet kindly and
even magnificent in its expression
of love and tenderness. Through an
era of crisis and tragedy, Lincoln
moved as one dedicated to a great
cause. Forgetting the disappoint-
EDITORIAL 9$
ments and despair of his own life, the extension of American influ-
he visioned the ideal of freedom ence. It was he who saw a greater
extended throughout the land. For- use for the waterways, reclamation
getting self, by the very splendor of of arid lands, the building of rail-
his leadership, he shaped the forces roads, and the wider use of the sea
which 'a thoroughfare for freedom lanes for the commerce of the
beat across the wilderness . . . ," world. Although he championed
It has been said by modern leaders of industrial growth in the nation and
great integrity that the face and the development of the resources of the
life of Lincoln have been guides to territories, still Theodore Roosevelt
them in times of fateful decisions, never lost sight of the roof of lib-
and that the tenacity of his faith erty— the Constitution, and he was
has imparted to them a beacon in ever alert to detect and deter any en-
times of spiritual darkness. The croachment upon the firm pillars of
great man sees beyond the restric- government. He was one who
tions of his own needs and desires, helped to make possible a country
He sees the fundamental concepts ''beautiful ... for amber waves of
which are ageless and forever im- grain ... for purple mountain ma-
perative. "Let every man remem- jesties above the fruited plain."
ber," said Lincoln, ''that to violate ^^e faces of these four Ameri-
the law IS to trample on the blood ^^^ statesmen carved upon the
of his father, and to tear the char- monument in the hills of South
ter of his own and his children's j^^^^^^^ 3,^ p^^t of our heritage, as
5^ y* r ^ r are their thoughts and deeds which
Most recent or the four great . j •, .1 • .i ^ «.4.^-kivi ^^*-
^, , r A • aided so greatly in the establishment
statesmen upon the stage of Amen- , ? l- r jr r
can life, Theodore Roosevelt (1858- ^^^ protection of our edifice of
1919) has become a symbol of the constitutional government,
vigorous growth of the country and —V. P. C.
« ♦ ■
UJirtnaai/ greetings to oformer LPresiaent
KyLmii Ujrown JL^man
Relief Society women throughout the Church are happy to extend
birthday congratulations to our beloved former president Amy Brown
Lyman, who has devotedly served the organization in many capacities, and
who became general president in 1940, serving as president until April
1945. In October 1953, as she stood with our present leaders, at the
ground-breaking ceremony for the new Relief Society Building, many
sisters remembered with gratitude the inspirational service which Sister
Lyman has so willingly and so graciously given. Her activities have ex-
emplified the numerous fields to which a charitable and highly gifted
woman may extend her interest and her effort. At this time we wish her
contentment and joy and many more years with her family and friends
and the thousands of Relief Society women who love her and who have
served under her leadership.
Minor White
WINTER PATTERNS NEAR ANTHONY LAKES, OREGON
'Jr
QJor Such J/is cJhis
Pansy e H. ToweYl
One life is not enough, for I could spend
Ten thousand years beside a mountain brook
To hear its quiet murmuring and look
Upon its pearl-fringed ripples. I could bend
In daily reverence where aspens send
Their whispered prayers to heaven, where the book
Of nature lies wide open, though it took
A thousand lifetimes, read it to the end;
For who can see the winter sunlight cast
Its purple shadows on the mountain snow
Nor want this scene again? Or feel the kiss
Of tender rain nor wish to hold it fast?
Life is too urgent in the time we know
Eternity must be for such as this!
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The Right Touch
Cecil Pugmiie
4 4 TUST the right touch on the
I bodice, Mother, and it will
^ be perfect!" cried Sue.
The light touch! rebelliously
thought Sarah. The very words her
sister-in-law Alice had so glibly used
yesterday, when she had knocked
Sarah's plans for the trip right into
oblivion.
Standing with arms akimbo on
two plump hips, Sarah's usually
snapping brown eyes, now red-
rimmed from long hours of sewing
tiny stitches, carried a stubborn,
hurt expression as they surveyed
her pretty daughter. Golden-haired
Sue, a vision of loveliness, whirled
before her mother in the creamy
wedding gown, as unmindful of her
mother's rebellious thought as she
was of the cluttered dining room
strewn with scraps of sewing on the
table and every available chair.
''Right touch, right touch!" sing-
songed through Sarah's mind.
''We're bringing Dad to your
house directly from the hospital,"
Alice had unceremoniously an-
nounced yesterday over the tele-
phone. The words had stunned
Sarah into silence. There had been
a long pause, and then, "You're the
only one with a spare bedroom, and
besides, you have the right touch."
Just like that— the right touch
and a spare bedroom, and Sarah's
long-planned trip dissolved like
cubes of warmed ice.
Any other time Sarah would
gladly have accepted the responsi-
bility of caring for Father Wood
and his broken leg. But now of all
times! It meant giving up the trip
to Canada to see Margo. Little sis-
ter Margo! Ten years ago Sarah had
kissed the young bride goodbye,
and now Margo's husband had been
coming through town to take Sarah
to Canada. This had seemed a
chance of a lifetime.
Now everything had been
changed with a few words over the
telephone.
Last evening when Jim had ar-
rived home and found his father
ensconced in the spare bedroom,
the room resembling a small hos-
pital, he hadn't said a word about
Sarah's trip. He had seemed sort
of lost and puzzled.
"Right touch! Spare bedroom!"
Why Alice could have given up her
own bedroom for her father. Sa-
rah's mind was a beehive of sting-
ing thoughts.
Just because I'm a Relief Society
president, they think I'm a Rock of
Gibraltar. Just a strong old robot,
with no plans or feelings of my own.
Well, I've got feelings enough that
I don't want to hear light touch
again. Her thoughts clashed on
and on, as she critically eyed each
fold and tuck of the shimmering
satin gown. There was something
definitely lacking in the dress, but,
so far, that sought-for touch had
been elusive.
A breath of summer breeze blew
the white ruffled kitchen curtains
inward, wafting its coolness through
the warm bungalow, carrying along
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102 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— FEBRUARY 1954
the aroma of boiling beans, remind- bye. She had felt hurt and disap-
ing Sarah that Jim and the boys pointed when mother had taken the
would soon be home for supper. dainty scarf, wrapped it in tissue
''We'll have to clear up this mess, paper, and placed it in the old
Sue. It's suppertime." trunk, with the words, ''Until you
Reluctant to take off the shin- grow up to be a lady."
ing gown Sue surveyed herself j j ^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^ ^ ^.
thoughtfully m the miprovised mir- g^^^j^ ^^^^^^^ ^^ j^^^^^j^ j ^^^^^ ^-^1
ror propped upon two dinmg-room g^^ to wear the scarf. After mama
chairs. She turned and twisted, ^-^^^ j .^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^ ^^
this way and that. A definite fling
of her head indicated that she had =;^ * « ♦
made a valuable discovery. MEXT morning, Sarah had Sister
"Mother, I know! I know just Dixon come in and sit with Fa-
what it needs! I saw it m Mailon's ther Wood. Ten o'clock found her
window today. I guess you would in front of Mailon's admiring the
call it a stole— a short stole. It was dainty stole draped across the shoul-
draped over the bodice of a wed- ders of the wedding gown. The
ding gown. It was as dainty as cob- single model posed against an elab-
webs and was caught together in orate background of tinselled silver
front by a cluster of tiny pearls." trees aburst with pink apple blos-
Momentarily caught by Sue's en- soms. Sue was right! It was won-
thusiasm, Sarah brushed aside some derful! Her mind's eye saw it draped
patterns and sank into the nearest above the bodice of Sue's gown. It
chair. As she listened to Sue's de- was the perfect answer to complete
scription, from long ago came the the wedding gown. After finding
memory of another scarf and the the right department, a saleslady
hurting remembrance of a disap- brought the scarf from the window
pointed little girl. and carefully spread it before
Sarah on the glass counter. Close
CHE had been only six! Such a up, it was more beautiful than in
^ tomboyish, sunburned and freck- the window. Shadowy roses on the
led - spattered - across-the-nose little trellis of clinging leaves were woven
^ girl, whom Uncle Felix had sought i^^to a mesh of dainty filigree. It
out as she sat dangling her dirty was scalloped with tiny rosebuds,
foot in the old headgate, trying to Sarah felt a great relief. Making
wash away the prickly-pear thistle the wedding gown had been more
sticking in the sole of her left foot, of a strain than she had realized.
He had brought her a present! and this would complete the dress.
Dear, fascinating, globe-trotting, Mindful that her roughened fing-
story-telling Uncle Felix. And such ers must not pull a single thread
a present! A gossamer, lacy scarf, in the delicate fabric, Sarah stood
a fascinator, even prettier than the spellbound in a dream all her own,
one she had watched Miss Lang visualizing golden-haired Sue in the
drape over her shoulders before complete ensemble. Suddenly, she
telling all the school children good- was jarred from her muse by the
THE RIGHT TOUCH
103
words, ''Siicli a Ixirgain, too! Only
$69.50."^
Sarah's mind clicked back to the
clarity of a calculating machine.
"Whew/' she gulped. "Why,
that's more than my daughter's
whole outfit cost!"
She thanked the saleslady as
gracefully as possible, trying not to
show her amazement at the price
of the scarf.
Feeling as disappointed as a child
who has had a beautiful toy
snatched away, Sarah stood upon
the sun-beaten pavement to collect
her thoughts. Opening her purse,
she fingered some bills for Jim's in-
surance premium, then pursing her
lips she shoved the bills down deep
into the corner of her bag.
Then all of a sudden she chuck-
led. Of course, she could have
made the scarf herself. Her feet
acquired new spring as she squared
her shoulders and made for the
nearest department store. She re-
membered the manv times she had
seen bolts of beautiful lace dis-
played in the yardage departments.
''Laces? Yes, Ma'am, we have
that \'ery piece. I saw the scarf
myself in Mailon's. It is identical,"
assured the clear-skinned girl behind
the counter. Reaching beneath the
counter, she felt for the bolt of lace,
and then called, ''Mrs. Ames, where
is the roll of lace No. 259?"
"Sorry, Miss Hale. I sold the last
bit ten minutes ago."
The morning wore on, noon
came, and late afternoon found
Sarah still hunting the lace. Her
quest had acquired the pattern of
a tiresome game.
"Sorry, just out."
CARAH went the rounds of the
stores before giving up. Fmally,
with tired and aching feet, and feel-
ing defeated and discouraged, she
returned home.
She was surprised to find Sister
Dixon m the kitchen. Sarah had
not expected to find her dinner all
cooked, waiting to be served. Grate-
ful for this unexpected respite, Sar-
ah went to Father Wood. In spite
of Sister Dixon's efforts to catch
each little breeze by opening both
windows, the room was warm and
uncomfortable. Father Wood
looked tired and wear\, but Sarah
had never heard him complain of
anything or anybody. He managed
a cheerful greeting. For the first
time Sarah began to realize that
maybe it was painful for him to be
confined and dependent upon her.
She felt so tired and defeated, her-
self, after tramping hot pavements
all day that her feelings aligned
themselves with the man lying help-
less and dependent in the hot bed-
room.
Life has a strange way of taking"
hold of us and managing us, she
thought. Certainly, Father Wood
would not be lying here dependent
upon her if he could manage other-
wise. He certainly did not ask for
a broken leg. She remembered the
time he had stood up for her
against Jim in trivial things, making
her feel she was something rather
special and not just an accepted
daughter-in-law. She remembered
the times he had turned to her in-
stead of Alice, his own daughter.
It had long been sort of a familv
joke that Alice was the family but-
terfly, gay, pretty, and carefree, but
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irresponsible and not one to turn
to in time of trouble. Jim's broth-
ers and father usually turned to-
ward Sarah in moments of need,
since Jim's mother had died three
years ago.
Sarah fluffed his pillow and threw
wide the door so that he could see
what was going on in the kitchen.
She brought a bookstand and placed
a favorite magazine within easy
reach and then went to prepare a
tray for him.
Sarah felt a deep satisfaction in
seeing Father Wood eat with relish.
Sister Dixon seemed in no hurry
to go home, and it was rather nice
having her bustle about the kitchen.
For the first time, during the hur-
ried day, Sarah felt a sense of re-
laxation. She pulled a chair up by
the bedside and began to laugh
with Father Wood about chasing
an elusive bit of lace all over town.
''Sarah, I didn't know about the
trip, or I would have stayed on at
the hospital," apologized Father
Wood.
Supper over, Jim went to sit with
his father. Sue had not returned
from school, and the problem of
the unfinished wedding dress began
to rankle in Sarah's mind. She
knew Sue would be disappointed
about the scarf. Strange! Disap-
pointment in two lives over a small
thing like a whiff of lace, such a
tiny thing, yet so important at the
moment, mused Sarah.
She climbed the stairs to the at-
tic. While she was remembering
she would take a look at the scarf
which had waited so long for her
to become a lady. I guess I sort of
disappointed it, thought Sarah.
npHE old trunk stood as sturdy in
its four-square-cornered way as it
had when her mother used it as a
chest for her most cherished pos-
sessions. Sarah blew the dust from
its top as she pulled down the fast-
eners. She raised the heavy lid, lift-
ed the top till from its place, and
put it on the floor. Searching in
the bottom recess, she found the
small package wrapped in yellowed
tissue paper. As she untied its en-
circling string, a silken web slipped
from the wrapper and cascaded over
her brown arm. Sarah gasped. She
had forgotten how lovely it was.
Creamy white lace! Real lace! No
imitation, this. It was the most
beautiful piece of lace she had ever
seen. A tiny label stitched in one
corner said, ''Made in Venice."
Dainty orange blossoms were intri-
cately woven on a gossamer network
as sheer as butterfly wings. It
seemed fashioned for a queen.
Sarah draped the web of trans-
parent beauty over her brown arm,
but quickly removed it. It seemed
out of place, just as much today as
it would have been out of place
years ago on the freckled-faced lit-
tle girl. Mindful lest one cobwebby
thread be pulled by her needle-
pricked fingers, Sarah held the scarf
away and in front of her, be-
witched by its sheer loveliness.
A squeak of the rusty hinge on
the attic door jarred her back to
reality.
"Mother! Oh, Mother! Where
did you get it? Why, it's far lovelier
than the one at Mailon's. It will
just make the dress perfect. It's just
the right touch."
"Right touch!" Sarah smiled as
she turned to the blue-eyed girl,
THE RIGHT TOUCH 105
sparkling with admiration and hap- 'Tve wanted to do this for a
piness. long time, Sarah. Just haven't got-
Carefully gathering together the ten around to it at the right mo-
silken ends of the scarf, she placed ment," said Father Wood. '1 want
the bit of beauty into the young it worn by a great little lady."
girl's outstretched hand. Even in the dark, Sarah knew
'Take it, child. It's a bridal gift, that the hard, irregular object was
reserved by your grandmother, from Mother Wood's emerald engage-
Uncle Felix." ment ring.
Jim emerged from a chair in the
Sarah tiptoed into Father Wood's shadows of the room and Sarah felt
room to see that he was comfort- his arms go around her.
able for the night. He appeared to 'Taking this from any other man
be sleeping. Quietly, she pulled the in the world and I'd have grounds
shade and tiptoed back again past for divorce," laughed Jim. 'Imag-
the bed. A strong hand reached ine, a woman wearing an engage-
out and she felt something pressed ment ring on each hand. Sure must
into her hand. have the right touch."
■ ♦ ■
Valentine for iriosemarii
Ethel Jacohson
Rosemary, Rosemary, Rosemary, named for
Who's so delectable? The fairest of roses.
If you've one faihng How well you know that
It's quite undetectable. It's man who proposes!
Listing your charms With suitable suitors
Is a job insurmountable. Pursuing you frantically,
You have so many Make me the one that
They're simply uncountable! You smile on romantically!
cyorever the 'Jjream
Mary Gustafson
Have you ever sat by a fireplace
And dreamed as the dancing flame
Held visions of faces forgotten
Till you almost called a name?
If you have you can answer clearly
That you have seen, as I,
And have known that the flame that quickens
Will swiftly ash and die.
But the dream drifts on forever.
Eddying on through space
Until it can find a welcome
In the smile of an upturned face.
MRS. LILLIE WALKER, WELLSVILLE, UTAH, DISPLAYS SOME OF HER
QUILTS AND HOOKED RUGS
aioovies uieip to Jxeeo crier c/<
eep
^oung
Lillie Walker, Wellsville, Utah, Has Made Two Hundred Sixty Quilts and
Many Beautiful Hooked Rugs
Lillie Walker, seventy-five years old, has been a widow for twenty-two years, but
she has made her own living by doing home nursing and making and selling her beau-
tiful hooked rugs and other items of handwork. Without assistance, she has made and
quilted two hundred sixty quilts, and has designed and completed many hooked rugs
which have given her a reputation for her original patterns and beautiful blending of
colors, as well as expert workmanship.
Mrs. Walker loves to work in the temples and has performed ordinance work in
the Logan, Salt Lake, Manti, St. George, Idaho Falls, and Cardston temples. She
has been a Relief Society visiting teacher for thirty-five years. She seldom misses at-
tendance at Relief Society and Sunday School and often walks a mile to attend these
meetings. Of her twelve children, nine are still living, and she has forty grandchildren
and thirty-seven great-grandchildren. Her life is busy, useful, and happy.
ofrost
Lucy WooIJey Brown
Only the shadows made by trees
Are patches of frost this dawn.
The sun kissed other white dust away;
And left diamonds on the lawn.
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c/o vi/ashington
Lucille Waters Mattson
"It WASHINGTON walked among his men at Valley Forge during the "hard winter,"
■ ■ from which time was reckoned for seventy-five years in the backwoods, and
instilled in them courage and endurance to drill and starve and die for freedom. It
was miraculous that they did not capitulate — those men whose ancestors had come up
from the dark ages knowing little but oppression, lack of opportunity, and autocratic rule.
But the spark of freedom was firmly imbedded, and the blood of Ephraim was among
them; they were fighting upon a promised land for a righteous cause. Though none
could fully understand the purposes as yet, the passion for freedom which burned
in Washington's breast, was fanned to flame by his strength, his courage, the de-
termination of this inspired leader.
We, as Latter-day Saints, accord to him all the greatness, all the personal at-
tributes of character, all the genius of leadership given by the world, and, in addition,
we acclaim him as inspired of God, fulfilling his holy purposes, chosen to free a
favored land for a Prophet to bring upon the earth again the true and everlasting
gospel.
{Bread
Christie Lund Coles
How much the modern child has lost,
Not coming home to the good, warm crust
Of homemade bread with butter, sweet.
Spread thickly for a special treat ....
Windows were steamed, the house oven-warm.
When, pink-cheeked, we entered from the storm.
And found the fragrance, unequaled still.
Of brown-baked loaves. Words cannot tell
How the world became suddenly sunny
With a slice of bread golden with honey.
oCate (Buzzard
MaryhaJe Woolsey
Wind-driven in ghostly hordes, down city streets
And up small country lanes, the snowflakes play
At hectic games — well knowing how brief their time;
Knowing how close behind, spring comes this way.
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QJrom L^edar L^hest to LDressing cJable
Chia Laster
TN small houses and apartments, space economy is the vital keynote today. Many
•*• families have growing pains, and the problem of where to put winter clothes in
summer and summer clothes in winter, and still have a well-balanced bedroom, has
been something we have all faced at some time or other.
Suppose you have an older cedar chest that you cannot do without, and, at
the same time, do not have space for that much-desired dressing table. If this happens
to be the problem in your home, here is a simple solution. Make the chest into an
attractive dressing table! It can be done at very Httle expense and without any ex-
perience at all.
MAKING A DRESSING TABLE FROM A CEDAR CHEST
Materials Needed
The material you choose for your dressing table skirt will depend, of course, upon
the material of your drapes and spread and the other furniture and colors in the room.
But let us suppose that the fabric is rayon taffeta. This makes a lovely dressing table
skirt. You will need about 2 Yi yards, 54 inches wide. Also, you will need one roll
of cotton batting, the width of the chest top. Be sure to buy two boxes of upholstering
tacks, one box of carpet tacks, and have handy a hammer and scissors.
Have a piece of clear glass cut to fit the top of dressing table, which is the top
of the cedar chest. Now, for the cedar chest base, buy these materials and have them
cut in this manner: plywood, /4" thick, cut the same size as the bottom of your
cedar chest. Have legs cut to height desired, using 4" by 4". For leg supports, have
two pieces of 1" by 4" boards cut the same length as the baseboard. Have two pieces
1" by 4" cut the same width as the baseboard. See illustrations A-B-C-D.
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FROM CEDAR CHEST TO DRESSING TABLE
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STAND FOR CEDAR CHEST
General Directions
The cedar chest sits upon this box-Hke base, in order to be high enough for a dress-
ing table, so your first step is to make the base. Take your Yz" plywood baseboard
(No. A) and your two i" by 4" end boards (No. C). Nail together as shown in
illustration. Next, nail on the two 1" by 4" lengthwise boards (No. B) in illustra-
tion. Now, the legs are placed in each corner and nailed securely. When this is
completed, set the cedar chest upon the dressing table base.
Take the cotton batting and cover the cedar chest top to a one-inch thickness. The
cotton is kept in place with the carpet tacks which are placed here and there. Cut
material long enough and wide enough to fit top of cedar chest and stretch over sides
of hd on three sides and back of lid on the fourth side.
Next, pad six inches of the front and sides with cotton and tack in place. Now,
cover with a seven-inch strip of the taffeta material. Use the upholstering tacks and
make a design, as shown in the picture. If you like, a different design can be used.
But leave the bottom row undone until you have gathered your dressing table skirt
and tucked under the edge of strip. The raw edge of the strip is folded under and
placed over gathered skirt. Then the last row of upholstering tacks is hammered in
place.
When this is completed, place clear glass over padded top. It is now completed
and you can place mirror and lamps or whatever you desire on top. But the main
idea is your storage space underneath the dressing table top.
QOays {bad
Gertrude T. Kovan
I look toward the setting sun
And view the night almost begun —
The shadows gathering in the dusk,
A solemn quiet and the hush
Of birds in treetops, hovering there
Within their nests; the evening air
Filled with all memories of the day.
While you, my love, are far away.
cJhe CJinest (career of ^/LU
Pauline M. Henderson
^ ^ /'^^^ ^'^ i^st ^ housewife." seems to me that homemaking Hves
If I was hstening to a radio up to this definition very well.
program the other day, A successful wife and mother
and heard a woman make this reply combines many skills and talents in
to a question concerning her occu- the fulfillment of her role in life,
pation. The words were accom- any one of which, if followed ex-
panied by an apologetic little laugh, clusively, would command a good
as though the speaker were a bit salary and a fair amount of respect
ashamed of her calling. in the world of business.
I thought, suddenly, how often She is a nutritionist, having a
I had heard those same words! working knowledge of all the vari-
Why! I had said the same thing ous food elements necessary to the
myself, many times— and in that health of her family, and she knows
same self-deprecatory tone! how to skillfully combine them to
Perhaps I was in an unusually in- make appetizing meals, three times
trospective mood that morning, but a day, every day in the year,
the incident started me thinking. Starting with four walls, some
Why, I wondered, should we— the furniture, and other inanimate ob-
homemakers of the world— be jects, she becomes an interior dec-
ashamed of this most rewarding of orator, as she creates a home that
all positions in life? is a haven of peace and rest for
I have heard complaints from those she loves,
many women, that simply being a Should one of her family become
housewife does not provide a wom- ill, she is a nurse— so far as possible
an with sufficient opportunity for making up in loving care what she
self-expression, or a large enough may lack in professional skill,
scope in which to develop her tal- As she manipulates the family
ents to the fullest extent. Indeed, finances, she becomes an economist
I have, on occasion, added my voice of no mean ability, stretching the
to this lament. We are prone to budget to cover all her family's
look upon our work as drudgery, present needs, as well as providing
and to dwell enviously upon the a reserve for the future,
lives of our sisters who have made The mother of a family is also
careers for themselves in the busi- a teacher, as she helps her children
ness and professional world. But, through their school years, adding
after giving the matter some seri- much to their education that they
ous thought, I, for one, have re- cannot learn from formal instruc-
vised my opinion. tion.
The dictionary defines "career'' And, in addition to all of this,
as '*a profession or other calling de- the homemaker performs what is
manding special preparation and her most important function— that
undertaken as a life's work." It of spiritual counselor. To her, God
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THE FINEST CAREER OF ALL
has intrusted the molding of the
characters of her children. To dis-
charge this trust is her duty and also
her privilege.
What triumphs in the business or
professional world— however great
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they may be— can compare in im-
portance and lasting satisfaction to
the shaping of human lives?
So, let us wear our aprons proud-
ly as a banner— a symbol of a truly
exalted profession!
JLost ffiittens?
Elizabeth Williamson
The children will never misplace their mittens or gloves if they have their names
firmly attached. The most decorative method is embroidering their names on gloves
and mittens.
If the names are lengthy, use initials. Embroider with wool to match the mittens
or use a bright contrasting color to attract attention.
The Deeper Melody
Chapter 5
Alice Money Bailey
Synopsis: Steven Thorpe, a widower
with three small children, becomes inter-
ested in Margaret Grain, a registered
nurse, who has taken care of his baby
during an attack of pneumonia. Mar-
garet's mother, a widow, who has been
acting as Steven's housekeeper temporari-
ly, decides to continue in this position
until Margaret's marriage to Dr. Rex
Harmon. In the meantime, Margaret has
accepted the position of night superin-
tendent in the hospital, and Steven finds
it impossible to see her. He has been
made vice-president of the Pikes Peak
Machinery Company, when his secretary,
Miss Tate, invites him to the symphony.
4 4 /^ H, thank you/' Miss Tate
I I murmured and hurried
^^ into an explanation of
how she had come to have the tick-
ets, quite by accident, she assured
him fervently.
Steve was sorry he had been led
into it, later, when it came to the
actual going, but only a cad would
wriggle out of it, and Steve did not
look upon himself as a cad. Miss
Tate looked smart and was taste-
fully dressed, when he picked her
up. She talked quite intelligently.
She asked about the children,
especially Phyllis. She knew a sur-
prising amount of the details of
his life. She must have been the
one to type J. T.'s notes, Steve
thought. She encouraged him to
talk about himself and the children,
saying she adored babies, and that
sometime she would like to bring
some gifts for his children.
He felt on edge with her, stiff
and cool, but tried not to show it.
After all, this was a situation large-
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ly of his own making. He had
had no business considering her on
familiar terms, even in his own
mind. Thoughts were uncanny;
they had a way of becoming reali-
ties. In this case, they had certain-
ly been the edge of balance be-
tween saying no to Miss Tate and
accepting her invitation.
The music was superb; it quick-
ened a deadness in him, its flowing
streams pouring into his emptiness.
His life had been too busy and
too complicated of late to include
such things as a symphony. Even
so, he did not remember its having
had such an effect on him in the
old days, an effect beyond enjoy-
ment. Now, it seemed a new
language, plumbing the depths of
his emotions, the color, movement,
and sound exploring his emotions
—the sadness, the loneliness, and
the pathos, ravelling out tired mys-
teries and answering old questions.
It voiced his triumph and spoke
his resolve. It was as if Margaret
sat beside him— that all he had to
do was to reach and touch her hand,
as if the music were a language be-
tween them, a bond, a sesame, a
key. It was in this hour that his
love for her became full and real
and undeniable.
''Do you know I'm here?" Miss
Tate was asking, and her voice
jarred him violently.
He came reluctantly back to re-
ality—the reality of her, instead of
Margaret, here beside him, the
knowledge that Margaret would
THE DEEPER MELODY
113
never share such an experience with
him. There was a bitter taste in his
mouth as they moved down the
lobby.
lyi ISS Tate was chattering along—
the maestro's timing had been
a little ragged. Didn't he think the
flute wasn't quite up to standard?
Her voice sounded like tinkling
brass beside the deeper melody of
his love for Margaret. It stopped
only when one of her friends,
whom Steve recognized dimly and
with dismay as one of the office
force, rushed up to them.
"Oh, Miss Tate! Fm so glad
you made it. Were the seats all
right? I couldn't get the ones you
asked for, but I thought . . . ."
Steve looked sharply at Miss
Tate and caught her frantically
signalling the girl to silence, her
face a study in violence. He was
so shocked by her expression that
he didn't remember for hours that
she had said the tickets came to
her by accident. At first it angered
him, then amused him.
He told Mrs. Grain about it.
''Sounds like a trap to me," was
her summation.
''So long as it caught the right
victim," Steve laughed.
"It won't be the last trap," pre-
dicted Mrs. Grain. "A handsome
young man like you is a natural
prey for lonesome girls. If you
don't choose one yourself, one will
choose you."
"I'll choose my own wife,
thank you," said Steve shortly.
A few nights later, when Steve
had kissed the children good night,
put on his slippers, and was settled
with his paper, the doorbell rang,
and there stood Miss Tate, her eyes
sparkling, her arms laden with
bundles.
"I just brought some little things
for the children— the gifts I men-
tioned—you didn't say I couldn't—
it is such fun— and I do hope they
aren't asleep!" she managed all in
one breath.
Steve's first reaction was of an-
noyance and distaste at having the
children excited at their bedtime-
having his secretary bringing gifts
for them, but she was so excited
there was nothing else to do but
have Mrs. Grain bring them in.
The children clung to their fa-
ther and eyed Miss Tate with
round, unfriendly eyes until she
lured them with her gifts, letting
each one undo his own parcel.
There were dresses of pink and blue
crisp silk for the girls, a doll for
each, with matching dresses. Davey
had a toy train and some new cow-
boy boots. The latter he eyed
solemnly, clutching the train.
"Other Mama doesn't want me
to wear those," he pronounced, but
fell to his knees and became a toot-
ing, chugging train immediately.
CTEVE didn't explain when Miss
Tate was momentarily set back.
The children were so ecstatic over
the gifts that they quite forgot their
diffidence of the strange lady and
gathered around her, all chattering
at once in their treble voices. She
was on the floor with them, alter-
nately showing Davey how to wind
his train and pulling the little
dresses of the girls into place. Steve
had to admit she was charming,
even pretty, with her hair shaken
loose and the flush on her face. He
was always misjudging the girl.
"Pretty dress," said Ilene, her
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blue eyes shining, and Phyllis
echoed, "Oh, pitty/'
Steve's heart smote him, seeing
their pleasure in the pretty dresses.
He had seen to it that they had
the necessary clothes for comfort,
but it had been a long time, in fact
never, that he had bought things
for beauty for the little ones.
'Tm afraid you've opened my
eyes to a new duty. Miss Tate. I
had no idea they were old enough
to know a pretty dress from a mere-
ly useful one."
''How could you know, Steve, be-
ing a man? Only a woman knows
how a little girl feels, Fm afraid."
CTEVE felt a little shock at her
use of his name, but quickly cov-
ered it. After all, Steve was his
name, and there was no use being
a stuffed shirt about it, especially
after the girl had so unselfishly
brought gifts to his children. Her
words made him feel suddenly in-
adequate to bring up his little girls
by himself. Goodness knows what
mysterious benefits he would rob
them of in the ignorance of his
male point of view.
*1 must go now," she said at last.
''Would you call a cab, Steve?"
Of course Steve couldn't let her
go home in a cab after such an
errand, and, somehow, he had made
a promise to accompany her to the
theatre when he returned home
that night.
Mrs. Grain mentioned Miss Tate
at breakfast next morning.
"Yes, it was very thoughtful of
her to bring gifts," said Steve,
spooning cereal into Phyllis' mouth.
"Very nice," agreed Mrs. Grain
without conviction.
Steve wiped Phyllis' chin with a
napkin. "You don't sound sin-
cere," he observed.
"Men/" Mrs. Grain exploded
cryptically. "They don't see
through a thing!" She would say
no more, except that she ought not
to have said as much, it was none
of her business, and that the gifts
had surely delighted the children.
"How's Margaret?" Steve asked,
partly to change the subject, but
mostly because he hadn't seen any
evidence of her having been here
for days, and longing for word from
her. He tried to sound casual.
"Fine!" said Mrs. Grain heartily.
"You still don't," said Steve.
"Don't what?" Mrs. Grain count-
ered.
"Sound sincere. Is something
wrong?"
"I've had six children marry,"
Mrs. Grain said. "I never made the
choice for one of them, but some-
times it is hard to sit back and
watch them make mistakes."
"Look here! Is Margaret making
a mistake? Doesn't she love this
fellow?" demanded Steve eagerly,
too eagerly, he perceived.
"She loves him, all right, or she
would see him differently. Nurses
are trained to worship doctors— to
jump up when one comes near,
wait till one goes through a door
first .... It's 'Yes, Doctor, No,
Doctor.' "
"Oh, they have to, at work, you
know. Lives depend upon it—
upon absolute and quick obedience
of nurses to doctors, but . . . ."
"But what?"
"I have wondered how much of
it affects Margaret in her feeling
for Dr. Harmon, and how much is
real between them. I guess you
could really put all this down as
THE DEEPER MELODY ]15
a mother's case of jitters. It is just conversation with her, his strong de-
that tomorrow she is buying her sire for more to come— of the emo-
wedding dress and it seems so . . . ." tion that had shaken him at her
She stopped, for Steve had presence, his sharp awareness when-
dropped his fork with a great clat- ever she entered a room. He re-
t^r. membered the day he had wanted
''.... so final!'' to kiss her. Now he wished he
"It does, indeed!" agreed Steve had. He would at least have had
fervently, applying himself fever- that to remember.
ishly to stuffing food into the Steve groaned. There was noth-
mouths of the children. For him- ing whatever to be gained from
self, he could not eat another bite, such thinking, and nothing to do
and found excuse to leave the table but what he had done before—
shortly. work, and work hard. There was
***** plenty waiting for him— plenty con-
T OOKING at it coldly, later, he nected with his new position as
realized that certainly she would vice-president of Pikes Peak. It was
be buying her wedding dress. Sure- more than the work and routine in-
ly she loved Dr. Harmon, and, of volved. In giving him stock and
course, there was nothing wrong making him vice-president, J. T.
with the man. Steve, deep in dis- had by-passed some old and faith-
appointment, wondered what he ful employees. While there was
had expected— what he had wanted, nothing anyone could do about it,
Discovery that Dr. Harmon had Steve knew that to many he was a
impossible vices? Was a liar? A newcomer who had to justify J. T.'s
philanderer? Jealousy, Steve thought, faith in him.
could quickly undermine a man's There was J. T. himself. Steve
finer nature. had occasion to think many times
Jealousy had nothing to do with that everything had its price; noth-
Steve's love for Margaret, however, ing was free of payment. It only
with the sinking sense of loss he remained to choose the coin of pay-
had when he thought of her wed- ment. Grateful as he was for J. T.'s
ding, with the knife-edge of despair interest and generosity, and for the
turning in his heart, thinking of her seeming fairy tale opening for him,
beyond his reach forever, once she he came to know what the old man
was married. He tried to think of meant when he said: ''Humor me
other things, to close the unhappy in my whims,'' for J. T. was becom-
subject from his mind, but all ing more irascible every day. Steve
across town, on his way to work, had come to his new duties totally
little snatches of conversation came unprepared in m.any respects, and
vividly to his mind, little visions of lacking in capacity in many ways
her slim white figure moving for the job. He was trying hard to
through his house, of her cradling master each detail, but J. T. always
the little, sick Phyllis, of Davey and seemed to be pushing him just a
Ilene trotting faithfully after her, little beyond his ability. Steve took
arguing "My mama!" "No, my most of it gladly as a means of new
mama!" He thought of his own growth, but the older nxau \?<as not
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above reminding him that he was
the beneficiary of J. T.'s bounty,
and that was harder to take-
sometimes seemed impossible.
'TouVe done a lot for me, and
I appreciate it," he told J. T. once,
''but you haven't bought me!"
''Now, now! Steve, calm down,"
J. T. had shouted. "Can't you let
an old man have his joke?"
CTEVE wasn't so easily appeased.
"You still have your wits, }. T.,
and you don't need to hide behind
Father Time."
To Steve's dismay the intercom
had been open, and report of the
little intercharge went all through
the plant, or so Miss Tate reported,
with mirth. Steve was upset about
it, for he loved }. T. and all he
stood for, but the men looked at
him with deep respect after that.
Very few of them dared to brave
the old man's roaring voice and
belligerent attitude, although all of
them knew his bigness of heart.
The affair of the cable was a case
in point. It was a lifting cable of
one of the cranes— the only crane,
in fact.
Steve noticed it weakening when
he made his rounds. He mentioned
it to J. T., saying they had better
stop loading the orders of ma-
chinery onto the flat cars and re
place it.
"You're just like all new vice-
presidents, Steve — think money
comes easy. Hang it all, we've
only got one crane, and that order
is a rush job."
"Each of our men has only one
life," retorted Steve.
"That cable is still good as new,"
argued J. T.
"It has to be changed," Steve
shot back.
"Look who's giving orders,"
shouted J. T. "Who do you think
you are, the president?"
"I'm next thing to it," Steve gave
back.
"Sure that cable has to be
changed," said J. T. in a voice
which was suddenly soft. "It's going
to be changed just as soon as this
order is filled."
Steve, feeling grateful for the
compromise, not wanting to push
J. T. too far, let it go for the pres-
ent, although he kicked himself for
spinelessness afterward. If a thing
was dangerous, it was dangerous.
Well, tomorrow was Saturday; the
order would be finished and shipped.
The first thing Steve would do
Monday morning would be to have
that cable changed.
To his relief, Saturday passed
without mishap. Perhaps he had
misjudged the danger. Saturday
was also the night to take Miss
Tate to the theatre. It was another
fine experience. Steve had to admit
Miss Tate had excellent taste, but
again he wished for Margaret. In
one moment of suspense Miss
Tate's hand sought his. She seemed
almost unconscious of the act, but
he had the impulse of withdrawal,
however, he returned the pressure
slightly.
It was a mistake, for when they
went to the lobby for intermission
she clung to him possessively, link-
ing her arm in his, and Steve felt
uncomfortable, that she was dis-
playing him as her own. Not that
it mattered. He was a stranger in
a strange land, but as they turned
to leave the lobby for their seats,
they came face to face with Mar-
garet and Dr. Harmon.
(To be continued)
FROM THE FIELD
Margaiet C. Pickeiing, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal
of material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for April 1950^ page 278, and
the Handbook of Instructions, page 123. v^^r&y,
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
•n submitted by Mae P. Matis
FINNISH MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE WORK EXHIBIT
FORI, FINLAND, AUTUMN 1953
Front row, seated, left to right: Senja Aalto, Lahti; Sofia Ranta, Helsinki; Mae
P. Matis, President, Finnish Mission Rehef Society; Anna Liisa Laakso, Tampere.
Back row, standing, left to right: Ida Johannson, Fori; Toini Halonen, Turku;
Maila ValKama, Helsinki; Korttu Myynti, Vasa; Kerttu Rautavaara, Jakobstad.
Mae P. Matis, President, Finnish Mission Relief Society, in reporting on the ac-
tivities of the enthusiastic Relief Society sisters of Finland, writes: "Everything is fine
here in the Finnish Mission. Our sisters are all working hard on bazaars and enjoying
the lessons .... I am enclosing a picture of our mission-wide conference in Fori last
spring. These conferences are always a spiritual feast, and they give a feeling of unity
and strength to the sisters who are so new in this work. The group includes a work
director from each branch participating in the conference. Each of them had brought
an article or two of handwork to exhibit at our conference .... I am so proud of
each of our groups and the things they accomplish. They are mindful of the sick and
poor and always willing to give of their substance to help those less fortunate. . . ,
All the Finnish sisters join with me in sending to all members of the general board
our love and best wishes . . . ."
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Photograph submitted by Virginia K. Campbell
EAST RIGBY STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC AT
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, March 1953
Standing in front of the piano, left to right: Ruth Sessions, chorister; Virginia
K. Campbell, President; Charlotte Brown, organist; Thelma Welker, assistant organist.
Photograph submitted by Elizabeth W. Hatch
IDAHO STAKE, KELLY-TOPONCE WARD RELIEF SOCIETY OFFICERS AND
MEMBERS WHO HAVE WORKED TOGETHER FOR ELEVEN YEARS
Front row, seated, left to right: Elsie Millward, First Counselor; Elva A. Call.
President; Elnora Shipley, Second Counselor.
Second row, standing, left to right: Faye Cooper; Martha Stoddard; Martha
Shipley; Klea C. Perkins, Secretary; Wanda Whitworth; Lenna Bowler; A'vanda Ship-
ley; Bertha Simons; Marcelle Hatch; Ida Miles; DeLila Simons.
Third row, standing, left to right: Ann Whitworth, organist; Grace Whitworth,
literature class leader; Elsa Marie Wilson; Thelma Redford, theology class leader; Idris
Hebdon; Elizabeth Hatch, social science class leader; Agatha Hatch; Grace Byington.
Elizabeth W. Hatch is president of Idaho Stake Relief Society.
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119
Photograph submitted by Mildred M. Dillman
WESTERx\ STATES MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE HELD IN
DENVER, COLORADO, August 27th and 28th, 1953
Front row, left to right: Grace Gardner, President, Pueblo District; Emma Mae
Allen, President, West Nebraska District; Mima Tuttle, President, West Colorado
District; Clarinda Roundy, President, West New Mexico District; Ray E. Dillman,
President, Western States Mission; Mildred M. Dillman, President, Western States Mis-
sion Relief Societ)'; Belle S. Spafford, General President of Relief Society; Kate Whet-
ten, Counselor, Western States Mission Relief Society; Louine Cromar; Hazel Loy;
Colleen Kirgan; Reva Johnson, President, Delta, Colorado, Relief Society.
Second row, left to right: Cloravella Brooks, Del Norte Relief Society; Alma
Schofield, President, San Luis District; Anna Davis, President, Albuquerque Branch
Relief Society; Hazel King, Albuquerque; Bertha Jensen, theology class leader, West
Colorado District; Maymie Riding; Lerena Barlow, work director, West Colorado Dis-
trict; Evelyn McKinnon, Counselor, West Colorado District; Gladys Knight; Mildred
Moss; Florence Grow.
Photograph submitted by Elva J. Beal
LOST RIVER STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT EIGHTH
ANNUAL RELIEF SOCIETY CONCERT
At left, front row. Fern Gunderson, reader; standing directly behind the organ
on the front row, Alta Hansen, chorister; second from the left on the second row,
Elva J. Beal, President, Lost River Stake Relief Society; standing directly in front
of the piano, Bernice Wennergren, pianist; ninth from the left, back row, Mary B.
Tibbits, First Counselor.
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Photograph submitted by Stella C. Nelson
HAWAIIAN MISSION, MAUI DISTRICT CONVENTION, September 1953
Stella C. Nelson, President, Hawaiian Mission Relief Society, reports that the
sisters in the Hawaiian Mission are enthusiastic workers, and the Mau District Con-
vention was unusually successful: "We had eighty-three in attendance at the morning
session, and eighty-two in the afternoon. The theme was 'Better Planning Makes the
Relief Society More Interesting All Year.' Maui District has thirteen active Rehef
Societies, with an enrollment of 175. We were pleased with the large attendance, as
many of the sisters had to come quite a distance to attend. These conventions that
we have held throughout our mission this past year, I am sure, will be a great help in
our work. Already I can see how much improvement has been made and how much
more interest the sisters are taking."
Photograph submitted by Nona W. Slade
RIVERDALE STAKE (OGDEN, UTAH), TWENTY-SECOND WARD VISIT-
ING TEACHERS WHO ACHIEVED A 100 PER CENT RECORD FOR
THREE YEARS ARE HONORED AT BANQUET
May 26, 1953
Seated at left side of left-hand table, left to right: Cora Stoddard; Louisa Ensign;
Thelma Ketcham; Berneice Brown. At end of left-hand table, left to right: Ethel Mar-
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121
riott; Zella Jones; Luella Dustin. At right side of left-hand table, from back to front:
Grace Adderley; Olive Wilson; Erma Vanden Akker, chorister; Carrole Vanden Akker.
Seated at the right-hand table, beginning at the front, left: Ida C. Cook; Ardella
Johnson; Mary Drake; Esther Mitchell; Madohn Jensen; Alice McFerrin; Elsie God-
frey; Alice Baker; Martha Van Braak; Virginia Jensen; Haleen Christiansen; Mary
Workman.
Standing at the back, left to right: Norrine Powers; Lucy Beckstead; Reka Vlaan-
deren; Anna Cole; Mary Burgess; Second Counselor Catherine Souter; President Mar-
garet Reyns; First Counselor Emily Wilson; Secretary Laura P. Gamble; work meet-
ing leader Mary Edith Empey.
Photograph submitted by Betty Buckley
SOUTHERN STATES MISSION, SOUTH MISSISSIPPI DISTRICT, RED
STAR BRANCH WORK MEETING, October 8, 1953
Front row, seated, left to right: Areola Brady, Secretary; Salhe Britt, Second
Counselor; Betty Buckley, President; Grace Reed, First Counselor.
Second row, standing, left to right: Margaret Britt; Menerva Cornley; Katie Smith.
Third row, standing, left to right: Leola Reed; Louise Kimble; Nellie Ward;
Beatrice Dunn; Edith Norton; Hazel Smith.
Fourth row, standing, left to right: Susie Newell; Leanee Britt; Francis Britt; Nel-
he Calcote; Rachel Britt; Mildred Smith; Eunice Smith; Blanche Reed.
Emily E. Ricks is president of the Southern States Mission Relief Society.
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Photograph submitted by Lavena L. Rohner
INGLEWOOD STAKE (CALIFORNIA) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCES, RELIEF
SOCIETY CONVENTIONS, AND FOR SOCIALS
Standing in front of the piano, left to right: President Lavena L. Rohner; chorister
Margaret W. Chapman.
Seated at the piano, Lucille Peel, organist.
President Lavena L. Rohner reports that this group, organized in 1948, has
furnished music for stake conferences, for Relief Society conventions, and for many
socials. They have presented several outstanding Easter cantatas, including the lovely
dramatic presentation of "The Seven Last Words of Christ." Their beautifully ren-
dered numbers are an important part of all stake Relief Society gatherings.
Photograph submitted by EInora T. Loveland
BOISE STAKE VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION,
September 17, 1953
Front row, seated, left to right: President EInora T. Loveland; First Counselor
Edna Millar; Second Counselor Wave Hinckley; Secretary Lillian Call; visiting teacher
message leader Irene Hayes.
More than three hundred women from the nine wards of Boise Stake attended
the convention. President EInora Loveland presented, as a pattern for the visiting
teachers, the following qualities: dependability, tolerance, charity, love, humility, and
prayer. Sister Mary Emma Russell was honored as having served for the longest period
of time — fifty-two years, and Mary Porritt was honored for having served fifty years.
Twenty-four of the visiting teachers have served for twenty-five years. Eighty-three of
the teachers achieved a record of one hundred per cent for the past year. All were
given beautiful corsages and each was presented with a copy of A Centenary of Relief
Society.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
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Photograph submitted by Emma L. Stephens
LORIN FARR STAKE (OGDEN, UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS WHO HAVE
SERVED FOR MORE THAN FIFTY YEARS
Left to right: Annis Badger, ninety-two years old, a visiting teacher for fifty years;
Bertha Simmons, sixty-seven years old, who has served as a visiting teacher for fifty-
one years; Charlotte Swenson, seventy-five, who has served as a visiting teacher for
fifty-two years. Sister Simmons and Sister Swenson still visit their districts each month
Emma L. Stephens is president of Lorin Farr Stake Relief Society.
iuecause of I fie
Bertha A. Kleinman
Before I lose the beauty of today,
And night shall pencil out the horizon.
Let me respond with something brave to say,
Something for you before the day is gone.
Before I lose the glint of this sweet hour,
And day's routine shall portion all my time.
Let me some message with its good empower,
To tell you how I love you, friend of mine!
Before I lose the courage you have taught,
The treasure of conviction you possess,
Let me respond in some reflected thought
To carry on and on its loveliness.
Let me strive on some oracle to be
That you shall yet be glad because of ine.
N DEPARTMENT
cJheology^ — Characters ar^d Teachings
of The Book of Mormon
Lesson 24— Alma, Son of Alma
Elder LeJand H. Monson
(Text: The Book of Mormon: Alma 1-8)
For Tuesday, May 4, 1954
Objective: To point out the influence which righteous men can exert in a de-
mocracy.
A FTER the death of Alma the fa-
ther and King Mosiah, Alma
the son had full responsibility for
the ecclesiastical and secular affairs
of the Nephites throughout the land
of Zarahemla, he being chief judge
and high priest. (See Mosiah
29:42.) The task of administering
the government was based upon
laws Mosiah had formulated, and
these laws had been accepted by the
people. Moreover, the people had
elected their lesser judges and were
aware of the responsibility which
they had to protect and preserve
their newly given liberties under
their representative form of govern-
ment.
Nehoi
Always, however, there are peo-
ple who will not work according to
a pattern established by the ma-
jority. Nehor was one of these
men. In the first year of the reign
of the judges, he struggled to intro-
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duce priestcraft among the people.
He taught that every priest and
every teacher ought to become pop-
ular, and ought not to labor for his
own support, but should be sup-
ported by the people. He contended
against members of the Church be-
cause they preached the gospel one
to another without money and with-
out price.
In lieu of the true gospel, Nehor
taught that the Lord had created
all men and had redeemed all men,
and, in the end, all men should have
eternal life.
Nehor found many people who
believed his words, and he even be-
gan to establish a church. But Ne-
hor was not willing to rely upon his
persuasive power alone, but sought
to enforce his views by means of the
sword.
One day Nehor met Gideon, who
had been an instrument in the
hands of God in delivering Limhi
and his people out of bondage, a
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teacher and a valiant defender of
the faith. Altercations arose be-
tween them when Gideon opposed
Nehor's point of view. As the argu-
ment became more heated, Nehor
unsheathed his sword and slew
Gideon, who was old and not able
to withstand Nehor's blows.
Nehor was given a trial and was
judged by Alma in accordance with
the law which has been established
among the people by Mosiah. By
the law Alma condemned him to
death as a murderer. He was also
guilty of priestcraft and had sought
to enforce it by the sword. Nehor
was, therefore, taken to the top of
the hill Manti and was put to death.
Nehor's death, however, did not
end priestcraft, for there were other
greedy souls who sought for riches
and honor. These men contrived
to preach false doctrines, feigning
a sincere belief in them, because
they knew that the laws of Mosiah
punished a liar, but the law had no
power on any man for his belief.
Resultant conditions brought the
withdrawal and excommunication of
many from the Church.
Persecution of the members of
the Church followed. This persecu-
tion solidified the group. Those who
had sufficient food shared with the
poor, the needy, and the afflicted.
The people realized that all were
equally precious in the sight of God,
that the preacher was no better than
the hearer, nor the teacher than the
learner.
A spirit of greater co-operation
entered among the members of the
Church, and they increased in all
kinds of wealth. They had an
abundance of flocks, herds, grain,
gold, silver, silk, linen, and other
precious things. They regarded
their wealth, not as an end, but as
a means; they did not set their
hearts upon riches but were liberal
to all. They clothed the naked, fed
the hungry, and administered relief
to the sick.
This condition did not exist
among those who did not belong to
the Church. Following such base
and wicked practices as idleness, gos-
siping, idolatry, whoredoms, sor-
ceries, and murderings, contentions
arose among them and they wasted
what they did gather together,
showing how a lack of righteousness
produces economic deterioration
among a people.
Amiici
In the beginning of the fifth year
of the reign of the judges, another
complex problem arose. A minority
group of the people sought to make
Amiici their king. They realized, of
course, that it must be done by the
consent of the people. All the peo-
ple gathered together *'to cast in
their voices concerning the matter
.... and the voice of the people
came against Amiici." Dissatisfied
with the result, and unwilling to
abide by the decision of the ma-
jority, Amiici encouraged his fol-
lowers to disregard the majority, and
he was soon made king over the mi-
nority group.
In the terrible battle which fol-
lowed, the Amlicites were defeated.
Spies sent by Alma followed the
fleeing Amlicites as far as the land
of Minon, above the land of Zara-
hemla. They reported that the
Amlicites had joined with a numer-
ous host of Lamanites and were at-
tacking the Nephites living in that
territory.
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Strengthened by the righteousness
of their cause and by the hand of
the Lord, the Nephites defeated the
combined forces of the Lamanites
and Amhcites * as numerous almost,
as it were, as the sands of the sea"
(Alma 2:27). Alma fought face to
face with Amlici in the battle with
swords, and Alma being strength-
ened by the Lord, slew Amlici.
By the sixth year of the reign of
the judges peace was restored
throughout the land. However,
every soul had cause to mourn—
mourning over the loss of their
loved ones, and the destruction of
their grain, flocks, and herds. The
people believed ''it was the judg-
ments of God sent upon them be-
cause of their wickedness and . . .
they were awakened to a remem-
brance of their duty'' (Alma 4:3)
and turned to their God for help.
Many converts were baptized in the
waters of the river Sidon, and they
began to establish the Church more
fully.
However, in the eighth year, pride
entered the hearts of the people
and wickedness sapped their vitality.
They ''set their hearts upon riches
and upon the vain things of the
world" (Alma 4:8) and did not put
first things first, to seek after the
real satisfactions of life.
Wickedness in the Church be-
came a "great stumbling-block to
those who did not belong to the
church" (Alma 4:10).
AJma Delivers Up the
Judgment-Seat
Recognizing this decline in spirit-
uality and feeling the dire need for
curbing it, Alma delivered the judg-
ment-seat to Nephihah according to
the voice of the people, "and con-
fined himself wholly to the high
priesthood of the holy order of God,
to the testimony of the word, ac-
cording to the spirit of revelation
and prophecy .... This he did that
he himself might go forth among
his people . . . that he might preach
the word of God unto them, to stir
them up in remembrance of their
duty, and that he might pull down,
by the word of God, all the pride
and craftiness and all the conten-
tions which were among his people,
seeing no way that he might reclaim
them save it were in bearing down
in pure testimony against them"
(Alma 4:20, 19).
He preached to them in their
cities and villages, denouncing their
iniquities and calling upon them to
repent. He frequently used the
rhetorical question as a means of en-
forcing his ideas.
Have you sufficiently retained in re-
membrance the captivity of your fathers?
. . . were they destroyed? .... What
grounds had they to hope for salvation?
.... have ye spiritually been bom of
God? .... Have ye experienced this
mighty change in your hearts? Do ye
exercise faith in the redemption of Inm
who created you? .... Have ye walked,
keeping yourselves blameless before God?
. . . . are ye stripped of pride? .... is
there one among you who is not stripped
of envy? (Alma 5:6 ff.).
He answered all of these ques-
tions at once by saying:
Wo unto all ye workers of iniquity; re-
pent, repent, for the Lord God hath spok-
en it! ... . Yea, he saith: . . , come unto
me and bring forth works of righteous-
ness, and ye shall not be hewn down and
cast into the fire — For behold, the time is
at hand that whosoever . . . doeth not the
works of righteousness, the same have
cause to wail and mourn (Alma ^-.t^i ft.).
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Alma did more than call people to
repentance. He gave them his per-
sonal testimony that Jesus Christ,
the Only Begotten of the Father,
should come to earth and atone for
the sins of every man who would
repent and believe in him. Infusing
this testimony into the hearts of his
people, was the most powerful
means he had at his command to
get them to repent and do works
of righteousness, following the Good
Shepherd, Jesus Christ.
Alma Preaches to People in Gideon
After this beginning to establish
the order of the Church in Zara-
hemla (Alma 7:4), and after having
ordained priests and teachers to pre-
side and watch over the Church, he
went to the valley of Gideon to con-
tinue his reform movement. He
complimented them on being "in
the paths of righteousness." He told
them that the time was not far
distant when the Redeemer would
come and live among his people in
a tabernacle of flesh. He said:
And behold, he shall be born of Mary,
at Jerusalem which is the land of our fore-
fathers, she being a virgin, a precious and
chosen vessel, who shall be overshadowed
and conceive by the power of the Holy
Ghost, and bring forth a son, yea even the
Son of God (Alma 7:10).
Alma called upon non-members
of the Church to cast aside their
sins. He also warned them that
God cannot dwell in unholy temples
and urged them after baptism to
walk blameless before him. He
warned:
And now I would that ye should be
humble, and be submissive and gentle;
easy to be entreated; full of patience and
long-suflFering; being temperate fn all
things; being dihgent in keeping the com-
mandments of God at all times; asking
for whatsoever things ye stand in need,
both spiritual and temporal; always re-
turning thanks unto God for whatsoever
things ye do receive. And see that ye have
faith, hope, and charity, and then ye will
always abound in good works (Alma
7:23-24).
Having established the order of
the Church in Gideon, as he had
in Zarahemla, Alma returned to his
own home to rest.
Alma Preaches to People oi MeJek
In the tenth year of the reign of
the judges, Alma went to the land
of Melek, west of the river Sidon.
These people were responsive to his
message and came to him through-
out all the land of Melek for bap-
tism.
AJma Journeys to Ammonihah
When he had finished his work
at Melek, Alma entered Ammoni-
hah. These people were wicked,
and they would not hearken to his
message. They ''reviled him, and
spit upon him, and caused that he
should be cast out of their city," say-
ing:
We know that because we are not of
thy church we know that thou hast no
power over us; and thou hast delivered
up the judgment-seat unto Nephihah;
therefore thou art not the chief judge over
us (Alma 8:12).
Weighed down with sorrow and
anguish of soul. Alma started for
the city of Aaron. But he did not
reach that city, for an angel of the
Lord appeared to him and said:
Blessed art thou, Alma; therefore, lift
up thy head and rejoice, for thou hast
great cause to rejoice; for thou hast been
faithful in keeping the commandments of
God from the time which thou receivedst
thy first message from him. Behold, I am
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he that delivered it unto you (Alma
8:15).
This angel instructed him to re-
turn to Ammonihah and foretell
the destruction of the people ex-
cept they repented. Built up in his
faith and knowing that God was
pleased with his work, Alma re-
turned speedily to the land of Am-
monihah. As he entered the city,
hungry and tired,, he met a man
whom he asked for something to
eat. This man said to Alma:
I am a Nephite, and I know that thou
art a holy prophet of God, for thou art
the man whom an angel said in a vision:
Thou shalt receive (Alma 8:20).
This man, Amulek, became Al-
ma's missionary companion. To-
gether they were to preach repent-
ance to the people of Ammonihah.
God strengthened them and they
had power given to them so they
could not be confined in dungeons
or slain.
And it came to pass that they went
forth and began to preach and to prophesy
unto the people, according to the spirit
and power which the Lord had gixen
them (Alma 8:32).
Questions for Discussion
1. Why did Alma consider priestcraft
dangerous? Discuss priestcraft as set forth
in Alma 1:3; and 2 Nephi 26:29.
2. Why was Alma concerned about the
efforts of Amlici to become king?
3. How does iniquity in our Church
serve as a stumbling block to those out-
side the Church?
4. How industrious was Alma in the
service of God?
5. What can we learn from this lesson
concerning the solution of our national
problems?
ViSitifig cJeacher 1 1 iessages
Book of Mormon Gems of Truth
Lesson 24— '\ . . Seek Not to Counsel the Lord, But to Take Counsel From His
Hand. For Behold, Ye Yourselves Know That He Counseleth in Wisdom, and
in Justice, and in Great Mercy, Over All His Works" (Jacob 4:10).
Leone O. Jacobs
For Tuesday, May 4, 1954
Objective: To stress the wisdom of adherence to the counsel of God.
/^FTEN we attempt to counsel
the Lord, though perhaps we do
not reahze we are doing so. We
tell the Lord what to give us, we
beseech, plead, almost demand cer-
tain blessings, or special help from
difficulties we are in, without re-
membering that he knows, far bet-
ter than we, what is best for us.
In Mosiah (chapter 4, verse 9),
King Benjamin says: "... man doth
not comprehend all the things
which the Lord can comprehend."
If we are always aware of this fact,
then, when we petition the Lord for
blessings and aid, we will say to
him in substance, ''Heavenly Fa-
ther, we desire this blessing very
much, but thou knowest what is
best for us. We will accept thy
decision and thy will."
A young woman was critically in-
jured in an automobile accident.
When friends called to express the
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hope that she would recover, her
father said, ''We are asking our
Heavenly Father that she recover,
but we are bowing to his greater
wisdom to do what is best."
Our role in seeking divine aid is
to ask in sincerity and faith for the
things which we desire and which
we truly feel would be for our good,
and then to leave the decision to
our Fathei in Heaven. Elder Mat-
thew Cowley has said, ''Let us live
worthy of the things we pray for,
and pray for the things we are
worthy of" (General Conference,
April 1952). The matter of wor-
thiness is also to be considered.
In viewing the marvelous works
of the Lord, surely we acknowledge
his supreme power. We recognize
the order and precision with which
he governs the forces of the uni-
verse. How, then, can we doubt
that he knows the needs of his sons
and daughters?
To argue against the Lord's coun-
sel or to look for excuses for not
following it, is very unwise. Some
may say, "I believe I can keep the
Sabbath day by driving up the can-
yons amid the beauties of nature
just as well as by attending meet-
ings." But the Lord has counseled,
even commanded, "Thou shalt go
to the house of prayer and offer up
thy sacraments upon my holy day"
(D. & C. 59:9). There should be
wholehearted acquiescence by his
children and a great feeling of grati-
tude for being so instructed.
To accept counsel from the hand
of the Lord means also to accept
the counsel of his authorized rep-
resentatives. The Lord does not
come to each one of us personally
with counsel; but he gives instruc-
tion through his authorized serv-
ants. In the Doctrine and Cove-
nants he tells us: ". . . whether by
mine own voice or by the voice of
my servants, it is the same" (D. &
C. 1:38).
Willingness to accept counsel
from recognized authority is not a
sign of weakness; on the contrary, it
is a sign of great understanding and
wisdom. ". . . To obey is better than
sacrifice, and to hearken than the
fat of rams" (I Samuel 15:22).
Work TUeeting—^sm^y Money Management
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Lesson 8-Spending Your Health Dollar
Rhea H. Gardner
(For Tuesday, May 11, 1954)
costs are constant. However, health
and medical costs are uncertain and
unpredictable. For this reason, the
cost of ill health is, for most fam-
ilies, the hardest of all expenditures
to meet.
The average family spends about
^^r^OOD health is something peo-
pie appreciate most when they
don't have it."
Buying good health is not the
same as spending money for food,
clothing, and shelter. These needs
can be budgeted because their
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five per cent of its income for medi-
cal and dental care. It may claim
as much as one hundred per cent,
thus completely upsetting the eco-
nomic stability of the family, un-
less a reserve fund has been built up
for this purpose.
Money spent wisely for the pres-
ervation of health pays bigger divi-
dends than does any other kind of
investment. In setting up a budget
for family health, it is well to plan
for costs relative to the preservation
of it. Prevention is as a rule cheaper
than cure.
Medical care is only one factor
in keeping the individual and the
family in a good state of health. The
best medical service cannot be suc-
cessful unless the patient has suit-
able food, good housing, adequate
recreation, practices simple rules of
hygiene, and is reasonably free from
emotional anxieties. Our attitudes
and practices with respect to these
things are all important to healthful
living.
.If all would observe the adage
''don't let fatigue catch up with
you," millions of health dollars
could be saved each year. Often
those persons who do not have time
for short rest periods, end up spend-
ing long periods in complete ''rest,"
either at home or in a hospital.
Even the best medicine is an ex-
pensive substitute for good food.
The most economical places to
spend your health dollars are at the
butcher shops, grocery stores, fruit
and vegetable gardens, rather than
drugstores.
There is no justification whatever for
the widespread use of vitamin pills. They
supply materials that are readily and gen-
erously available in a well-rounded diet.
Infants, small children, and persons un-
able to eat all foods required by the body,
are exceptions. Their diets may need to
be supplemented with certain vitamins.
Act on the advice of your family doctor
in this regard.
This is the advice of Dr. Maxwell
M. Wintrobe, Head of the College
of Medicine, University of Utah.
Being prepared for emergencies
by having a good first-aid book and
a complete first-aid kit handy has
saved many families thousands of
dollars. Regard them as necessities
in your home and provide a first-aid
kit suitable to your family's need.
Life-long illness or even death is
too often the price paid for neg-
lect of one kind or another. For
example, a large percentage of can-
cer is curable if detected in time,
and nearly one hundred per cent of
tuberculosis is curable if treated
early.
Practices that contribute to one's
general good health, aid dental
health, also. It has been estimated
that at least one-third of all dental
troubles could be prevented if we
would brush the teeth correctly at
least twice each day, preferably after
each meal, eat the right foods, and
have a dental checkup every six
months.
Make special effort each day to
include in the diet some raw or
crisp food, such as lettuce, celery,
carrots, cabbage, fruits, hard toast,
or bread crusts. They cost less than
do dental bills that are likely to re-
sult, if these foods are not eaten.
"All persons would benefit from the
standpoint of general health and
especially dental health by keeping
the consumption of confections and
sweetened beverages to a mini-
mum," advises the Council on Den-
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131
tal Health of the American Dental
Association.
Regardless of what one does to
safeguard health, medical assistance
is needed sooner or later by most
of us. Membership in a reliable
health insurance plan will help meet
expenses that might otherwise place
a severe hardship on the family
purse. Prepayment is usually less
costly and easier to bear than post-
payment. In considering such a
plan make sure you understand all
the provisions in the policy.
Do you know how much the seda-
tives and pain killers you bought
last year cost you? Chances are,
more than was necessary, if you let
advertised brands influence your
choice. The same product may cost
four or five times more under a
widely advertised name than one
less known. So long as USP or
NF appears on the label you aie
assured of a safe product.
It has been estimated that more
than four hundred million dollars
is spent annually by Americans for
patent medicines. Some of this huge
sum is spent on drug products that
are dangerous to health, or virtually
worthless for the ailment treated.
Some of these cure-alls contain a
coal-tar derivative that, say medical
atithoritiejS, can seriously affect the
heart. Furthermore, since pain is
considered a warning, and if only
pain is relieved, a disease may go
undetected until a cure is extremely
costly, if not impossible. At best,
patients get a harmless pill that does
nothing to relieve the basic cause
of ill health. The pocketbook is
relieved, instead.
Truly wise parents will not bar-
gain with health. They and their
children will practice simple rules
of hygiene and good health each
day. They will select a doctor from
among the well-qualified physicians
and rely on him for medical advice
and assistance. If specialized treat-
ment becomes necessary, on the ad-
vice of the family doctor, they will
consult a specialist. Self-diagnosis
and self-treatment are dangerous.
Health protection pays, but far
sweeter than the jingling of money
saved, or more money earned be-
cause of the absence of illness, is
the fact that by protecting our
health we can enjoy more years of
life, liberty, and the pursuit of hap-
piness.
Thoughts foi Discussion
1 . Is it easier to get people to fight
disease than to work for health?
2. Our present food supply is the safest
and most nutritious in history, yet never
before has so much been spent for diet
supplements.
Louise Morn's Kdley
All sublimated prayers begun
And charitable actions done
By a God-seeking populace
Will, as distilled, pure dewdrops, rise
To unseen reaches of the skies,
Forming a soul-cloud cumulus,
From which, should there be want or pain,
God's blessings may pour down as rain.
JLiterature — The Literature of England
Lesson 40-Charlotte Bronte (1816-1855)
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Text: Jane Eyre, Modern Library Edition)
For Tuesday, May 18, 1954
Objective: To enter more fully into the imaginative reality of Jane Eyre, that the
significance of this work in the history of the English novel might be better under-
stood.
npHE three Bronte sisters created
their art out of a most barren,
uneventful actuality. Anne's novels
are at least competent; Jane Eyre,
(pronounced 'air") written by
Charlotte, the oldest of the three,
remains after 106 years a great and
powerful novel; Emily's Wutheiing
Heights, though slower to gain pop-
ularity, today is considered one of
the great books in the language.
And the greatness of their ac-
complishment lies not at all in
their restating apparent fact.
Just as in all enduring art, the
Bronte sisters' writing pierces far
beneath the surface of facts and
creates the universal imaginative
reality. Shakespeare's Hamlet has
a greater reality in the imaginations
of men than any factual Hamlet
could ever enjoy. Similarly, the
fictional Jane Eyre is immortal; she
exists, a great imaginative creation,
and one which might better help
us know ourselves and our fellows.
Life Sketch
Her creator, Charlotte Bronte,
was born in 1816, the third of six
children. She was reared in the
Haworth parsonage far out on the
lonely, bleak moors of Yorkshire,
the graveyard immediately on one
side of the house, the moor on the
other. Her parents, Patrick and
Page 132
Maria Bronte, were Irish. Both had
a zest for writing.
When Mrs. Bronte died in 1821,
Charlotte was five. At once Rev-
erend Bronte invited Elizabeth
Branwell, his wife's sister, to come
to Haworth parsonage and rear his
children. She came, and cared for
the children in a mechanical way,
but she took her meals alone, and
gave the children little love or at-
tention.
Patrick, the father, was himself
something of an eccentric. He spent
most of his time alone in his study
writing poetry and reading widely.
Thus the Bronte children had
most of their time to themselves to
wander about the lonely moor, to
read and play. Though their home
was isolated, it was not an unhappy
home. The children fulfilled their
own intense emotional and imagina-
tive needs as best they could.
When Charlotte was eight, the
four oldest girls were sent to a
school for clergymen's daughters
where they were most unhappy. Be-
fore the year ended all came home.
The two sisters older than Charlotte
died of tuberculosis shortly after re-
turning home. It was not long
afterward that Charlotte, now the
leader of the children, began writ-
ing imaginary sketches about a set
of soldiers given her brother Bran-
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133
well. These stories, written by
near-sighted Charlotte in a script so
small that it can be read with ease
only with a magnifying glass, were
as exciting as they were voluminous.
In the fifteen months before she
was fifteen, Charlotte wrote twenty-
three ''novels" or episodes portray-
ing a mythical kingdom which she
called Angria. Most of the main
characters and many plots and
events of her mature writings first
appeared in these childhood crea-
tions.
After attending Miss Wooler's
school, the Bronte sisters acted as
governesses, of which they quickly
tired. Aspiring to open their own
school, they attended Mr. Heger's
school in Brussels to improve their
skill in language. When they were
called home at the death of their
aunt, only Charlotte returned to
Brussels for another year.
When she came back to Haworth,
she advertised for pupils, but none
came. In 1845 the three sisters dis-
covered that each had been writing
poetry in secret, so at their own ex-
pense they published their poetry,
signing it Currer (Charlotte), Ellis
(Emily), and Acton (Anne) Bell.
Only two copies were sold, but they
had experienced the thrill of seeing
their work in print.
At once each sister began writing
a novel, Charlotte writing The Pio-
iessoT, unpublished until after her
death. When it was sympathetical-
ly declined by a publisher, she was
so encouraged that she began Jane
Eyre. In August 1847, almost a year
later, it was completed, and the
publisher's reader was so enthralled
by her manuscript that he sat up
ail night reading it. Published in
October, Jane Eyre was a best seller
by Christmas, and Charlotte was
immediately famous. She went to
London, met the great literary fig-
ures, then returned home to care
for her nearly blind father. Soon
her debauched brother Branwell
died, followed within a few months
by both Emily and Anne, victims of
tuberculosis. She wrote two other
novels, Shiiley and ViJJette. In 1854
she accepted her fourth proposal of
marriage, but within the year she
died in childbirth, age thirty-nine.
Plot of Jane Eyre
Naturally Charlotte is the heroine
of Jane Eyre, and many incidents
parallel those of her own life.
The novel begins with Jane, a
ten-year-old orphan, hated and mis-
treated in the home of her aunt,
Mrs. Reed, who finally becomes
desperate and sends Jane to a semi-
charitable school for girls where
living conditions are frighteningly
inhumane. After eight years at the
school, Jane leaves to act as gov-
ernness at Thornfield Hall, owned
by fierce, disillusioned Mr. Roches-
ter, much older than Jane. Through
a series of spirited conversations
they fall in love and plan to marry,
but at the church it is revealed that
Rochester is already married, having
concealed his maniac wife for more
than a decade in the attic of Thorn-
field Hall.
Despite her intense love for
Rochester, Jane leaves him im-
mediately and, destitute, she is tak-
en in by young Reverend St. John
Rivers and his two sisters. They are
friends at once, and St. John, hav-
ing dedicated his future to a mis-
sion in India, persuades Jane so
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convincingly to enter into a loveless
marriage with him that she is almost
ready to yield, w^hen, mysteriously,
she hears Rochester calling her
name. She rushes back to Thorn-
field to find it in ruins, burned by
Rochester's mad wife. Nearby she
finds Rochester blind and maimed.
Jane marries him. In time his sight
returns and he acknowledges that
God has tempered judgment with
mercy when he is enabled to see his
first-born.
Significance oi Jane Eyre
In tone, point of view, intensity,
and purpose, Charlotte Bronte
soared beyond and above earlier
practices in English fiction. While
earlier English novels recorded what
the heroine said and did, Charlotte
Bronte tells vividly what and how
the heroine felt deep within. Pre-
viously, fiction had been presented
from the point of view of society,
or the group; it is significant that
Jane Eyre's world of reality can be
communicated to the reader only
by telling what happens within one
individual. Without reserve, Jane
shares her secret impulses, her
hopes, and fears with the reader.
This Miss Bronte does so well that
the reader cannot help but live
again the intensities of Jane's own
life as they are poured onto the
page. Thus the subject matter of
Jane Eyre remains as universal as its
appeal is enduring.
Style and Mood
From the first sentence, 'There
was no possibility of taking a walk
that day. We had been wander-
ing, indeed, in the leafless shrub-
bery an hour . . ." to the conclud-
ing chapter beginning, ''Reader, I
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A Perry Picture
CHARLOTTE BRONTE
1816-1855
married him," we are, save for cer-
tain imperfect minor passages, com-
pletely within Charlotte Bronte's
realm of intense, imaginative re-
ality.
Everything reveals Jane to us. For
example, Miss Bronte utilizes de-
scriptions of environment to create
a corresponding mood within Jane.
At the very beginning of the novel,
when, depressed and unloved as a
child, Jane reads in books of ''the
haunts of sea-fowl; of the solitary
rocks and promontories by them
only inhabited" (page 4, Modern
Library Edition); at her left were
"clear panes of glass, protecting, but
not separating me from the drear
November day."
After the evil winter of typhoid,
cold, and starvation at Lowood
School, Jane embodies her own
sense of release in her description
of the grounds:
And now vegetation matured with
vigour; Lowood shook loose its tresses; it
LESSON DEPARTMENT
135
became all green, all flowery; its great elm,
ash, and oak skeletons were restored to
majestic life . . . (page 79).
The restoration of nature's skele-
tons to life symbolizes the restora-
tion of the almost dead human
skeletons within the school who
now bloomed with nature.
Just as Jane's hopes rose at the
prospect of a new life at Thornfield
Hall, so the rising moon which first
revealed Rochester to her was
. . . pale yet as a cloud, but brightening
momently: [from the nearby town] in the
absolute hush I could hear plainly its thin
murmurs of life. My ear too felt the
flow of currents; in what dales and depths
I could not tell. . . . That evening calm
betrayed ahke the tinkle of the nearest
streams, the sough of the most remote
(page 119).
Even so, Jane herself was pale but
brightening; within herself were
deep currents, as well as the tinkle
of streams near and distant. How
better could she create a mood than
by letting nature mirror her own?
Miss Bronte uses the same device
to characterize Rochester when,
months later, he meets Jane in the
garden for one of their brilliant
conversations. Intoxicated by Jane's
courage, sharp mind, and quick wit,
he contemplates the view of Thorn-
field Hall:
I like this day: I like that sky of steel;
I like the sternness and stillness of the
world under this frost. I like Thornfield;
its antiquity ... its grey facade, and Hnes
of dark windows reflecting that metal
welkin: and yet how long have I abhorred
the very thought of it; shunned it like a
great plague-house . . . (page 152).
To the scene he imparts his own
mood and qualities; even as his
character is one of steel hardness, so
does he admire the still, stern quali-
ties of steelness about him; the dark
windows of Thornfield, themselves
symbolizing the remorse and despair
he had known within its walls.
Miss Bronte employs this de-
vice constantly. For example,
Jane's description of her welcome
back to Thornfield after she had at-
tended her aunt's funeral services
tells the great need within Jane
for human love and affection. When
Jane is welcomed with smiles and
enthusiasm by her fellow employ-
ees, she comments that 'There is
no happiness like that of being
loved by your fellow creatures, and
feeling that your presence is an ad-
dition of their comfort" (page 266).
She then tells how, sitting together
with her friends in the warm kitch-
en, "a sense of mutual affection
seemed to surround us with a ring
of golden peace" (page 266). In
this same blissful mood she begins
the next chapter: '\ . . It was as if
a band of Italian days had come
from the South, like a flock of glori-
ous passenger birds" (page 267).
The most important symbol in
the novel is the magnificent chest-
nut tree at Thornfield, split in two
by a violent storm the night after
Jane agrees to marry Rochester.
This tearing asunder of the most
stalwart, ageless object at Thorn-
field predicts not only the cleavage
between the present Rochester and
the one soon to be revealed, but it
also represents two temptations
within Jane, both of which she over-
comes. The first temptation, is to
give herself headlong to Rochester
and run away in defiance of all self-
respect and moral law, and the sec-
ond, is to deny completely her need
for a shared, creative love, and mar-
ry St. John Rivers, the cold, ambi-
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tious missionary who is so intent on
other worldly values that he disre-
gards, even kills the spirit of Jane
and others near him.
The power of Miss Bronte's style
is best revealed in the conversations
between Jane and Rochester, but
these are too long to quote here.
Impassioned, fiery, terse, subtle,
these interchanges not only reveal
to each participant the formidable
powers and character of the other;
these communions of intellect and
spirit also make possible the mutual
respect which rapidly grows into a
consuming, mature love.
Theme
Charlotte Bronte (and therefore
Jane Eyre) rebelled against living
the anonymous life of the average
Victorian woman— sedentary, pas-
sive, inconsequential — surrounded
by the dominance and creative vigor
of a masculine world. Quite justly
Jane Eyre has been defined as one
of the first modern women. Rather
than bow to the conventional view
that women are somehow a lesser
species of humanity, Jane demands
the right to be a free, mature per-
son, to own her soul and to be al-
lowed to express her entire person-
ality and integrity in her life-quest
for self-realization. For Jane the
kernel of life is human love, but
true love and understanding can en-
dure only when the individuality
and integrity of both partners is
not only recognized, but encouraged
to fullest growth within the mar-
riage relationship.
The novel tells how the maturing
Jane Eyre succeeds in freeing her-
self from ''a conventionality which
is not morality'' and a "self-right-
eousness which is not religion."
Her indomitable spirit rises above
the hatred and jealousy of Mrs.
Reed, the bigoted hypocrisy of
Reverend Brocklehurst, the me-
diocre dullness of Mrs. Fairfax, the
affected snobbery of the Ingrams,
the withering religious zeal of Eliza,
the shallow selfishness of Georgiana,
and the ascetic denial of self and
human affection in the Reverend St.
John Rivers.
Jane's supreme test comes when,
finally, she learns that her love for
Rochester is returned, but that she
must leave him at once. Earlier,
disguised as a gypsy, Rochester had
shrewdly and accurately defined her
character as one who says:
I can live alone, if self-respect and cir-
cumstances require me so to do. I need
not sell my soul to buy bliss. I have an
inward treasure, born with me, which
can keep me alive if all extraneous de-
lights should be withheld .... Reason
sits firm and holds the reins, and she will
not let the feelings burst away and hurry
her to wild chasms .... (pp. 216-217).
In this hour of trial, when almost
maddened by the thought of losing
her, Rochester begs Jane to run
away with him to France, he asks
her, "Who in the world cares for
you.^ or who will be injured by what
you do?"
Jane replies:
I care for myself. The more solitary,
the more friendless, the more unsustained
I am, the more I will respect myself. I
will keep the law given by God; sanctioned
by man .... Laws and principles are
not for the times when there is no tempta-
tion: they are for such moments as this,
when body and soul rise in mutiny against
their rigour; stringent are they; inviolate
they shall be ... . Preconceived opinions,
foregone determinations, are all I have at
this hour to stand by: there I plant my
foot (page 344).
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137
Realizing the firmness of her re-
solve, Rochester confesses defeat be-
fore this ''resolute, wild, free thing
defying me, with more than cour-
age— with a stern triumph" (page
345)-
And thus Jane, at the period of
most tense emotional strain, main-
tains her spiritual and moral integ-
rity. When finally she does come
to the invalid Rochester to offer
herself as his future wife and com-
panion, she can offer a complete,
whole woman, not a physical entity
only, or one soul-scarred by remorse
—remorse which had so nearly de-
stroyed the soul of her beloved
Rochester before she restored him.
Throughout, Jane Eyre is pitched
in a higher key than many novels.
Its intensity seldom lessens; its pow-
er comes from the moral and emo-
tional struggles within, rather than
between, characters. The imaginary
reality created within its pages is
enduring, since the values upon
which it is built are those of cour-
age, individual freedom, integrity,
and love. Indeed Jane Eyre is a
great experience.
Questions for Discussion
1. Which characteristic of Jane Eyre is
most appeahng to you? Discuss.
2. Why is a knowledge of Charlotte
Bronte's personal life so vital a preliminary
to reading Jane Eyre.^
3. What is Miss Bronte's great con-
tribution to English fiction?
4. Discuss the justice of calling Jane
Evre "the first modern woman."
Social Science — The Constitution
of the United States
Lesson 7— The Great Compromises of the Constitution
and the Fight for Ratification
Elder Albert R. Bowen
For Tuesday, May 25, 1954
Objective: To become familiar with the great issues of the Constitutional Con-
vention and how those issues were compromised, and to observe the devices used to
create "checks and balances" as a means of protecting the fundamental freedom of
the individual. Also to point out that the Constitution was one of the most thorough-
ly studied and debated documents ever presented to a nation for adoption.
New Framework of Government
OEFERENCE has already been
made to the fact that the Con-
stitutional Convention, held at Phil-
adelphia, was called for the osten-
sible purpose of revising and
strengthening the Articles of Con-
federation. This was the recom-
mendation of the Annapolis Con-
vention (see lesson 5) in addressing
Congress with a petition to call
such a convention. In the minds
of many of the delegates, ideas had
been germinating for a long time
regarding concrete steps which
would have to be taken to remake
the National Government.
James Madison was the leader in
this regard. He was twenty years
younger than Washington, but en-
joyed the support and friendship of
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that great man. Madison was a stu-
dent of government and had had
many years of experience in govern-
ment in his native State of Virginia.
He it was who was to prove to be
chief architect of the Constitution.
Madison and his friends came to
the Convention determined to do
anything necessary to draft a frame-
work of government which would
be workable. Furthermore, they
came prepared to offer a plan to the
delegates.
The debates upon the so-called
Virginia resolutions very soon made
it apparent that much more than a
revision of the existing government
was required, and the delegates be-
gan the consideration of forming a
new government. Gone forever
was any idea of revision of the
Articles of Confederation.
Three Basic Difieiences
All of the delegates subscribed to
the view that a stronger national
union should be set up. The ques-
tion was the manner and the form
in which this should be accom-
plished. There were three basic dif-
ficulties which had to be overcome
and finally compromised. The Rist
was the fear of the smaller states of
being swallowed up and submerged
by the larger, more powerful states.
The second involved the matter of
slavery, and the thiidy fear of na-
tional taxing power.
Question of Representation
The questions of national repre-
sentation and taxing power were, by
far, the most troublesome of the
three. The larger and more power-
ful states, such as Massachusetts,
Pennsylvania, and Virginia, were
staunch advocates in favor of a
strong national government which
would have veto power over the
laws of the individual states where
state laws should be in conflict with
laws passed by Congress. They also
wanted representation in Congress
determined on the basis of popula-
tion.
On the other hand, the small
states wanted to be protected from
the power of the large states, whose
representatives in Congress would
be able to out-vote them on any
basis of proportional representation.
It should be remembered that
under the Confederation the states
had equal voting power in Congress.
The problem was how to reconcile
the principle of representation in
that body. The small states were
fearful that the large states would
always dominate the national gov-
ernment and thus exclude them
for all practical purposes, from any
voice therein. This conflict of in-
terest between the states was the
greatest obstacle of all. Each side
stated its unalterable determination
never to yield.
The Connecticut Compiomise
Nevertheless, this great difficulty
was solved by the device known as
the Connecticut Compromise. Un-
der the Connecticut plan, which
was finally adopted, the legislative
branch was divided into two houses.
The lower house composed of pop-
ular representatives elected upon
the basis of population was to origi-
nate all revenue bills. On the oth-
er hand, the small states were to
have equal representation in the up-
per house, or Senate, which was to
be chosen by the legislatures of each
state.
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139
It was agreed that the Senate
should have the power to propose
amendments to the revenue bills,
even though it could not originate
them. The smaller states were mol-
lified because the principal of equal
representation had been preserved
in the Senate, in which place they
would be able to make their voices
heard on all national issues. By
conceding equal representation to
the small states in the Senate, the
larger states were given a consider-
able degree of control and voice in
the matter of raising revenues,
which would naturally fall more
heavily upon them, because taxes,
like representation in the House of
Representatives, would be based up-
on population. The solution of this
great problem required, by far, the
most time consumed in drafting the
Constitution. Once it was solved
and agreed upon, a solid foundation
for agreement on all other questions
in dispute was laid, and upon this
great compromise the success of the
Convention became solidly assured.
Piohlems Presented hy Shveiy
On the issue of slavery, of course,
the dispute was between the slave-
holding and non - slave - holding
states. This dispute did not con-
cern the abolition of slavery, as
some have erroneously supposed. As
a matter of fact, slavery had become
a well-accepted social institution in
America. There was, of course,
some sentiment against it, but not
to the point of becoming a move-
ment which threatened its exist-
ence. In general, the non-slave-
holding states were, in principle,
against any further importation of
slaves. Maryland and Virginia were
not greatly concerned about having
the slave population increased be-
cause they were well supplied. In
the Carolinas and Georgia, however,
the need for slaves had not been
satisfied, and these states were anx-
ious to have the trade continue.
The next serious issue related to
slavery was on the question of
whether the slaves should be count-
ed as part of the population in de-
termining the matter of representa-
tion in Congress. The decision
having already been made that pop-
ulation should determine represen-
tation in the House of Representa-
tives, how then should these slaves
be regarded? Should they be count-
ed as property or as persons? The
slave-holding states, in addition to
not wanting the importation of
slaves interfered with, wanted the
slaves to be enumerated as part of
the population for determining rep-
resentation in the lower house of
Congress. This issue was finally
compromised by including three-
fifths of the slaves ('The ratio rec-
ommended by Congress in their
resolutions of April 18, 1783," Far-
rand, The Fathers of the Constitu-
tion, page 122) for determining the
basis for congressional representa-
tion, and by specifically providing
that the importation of slaves into
the United States would not be in-
terfered with for twenty years.
The non-slave-holding states were
the ones in which most of the com-
mercial and manufacturing interests
were concentrated. They wanted the
National Government to exercise
broad powers over commerce be-
tween the states and foreign coun-
tries and to control navigation.
Massachusetts and New York had
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already developed substantial ship-
ping interests and American ships,
mainly from these states, were
already to be found on every ocean.
If the maritime states could have
their way, the National Govern-
ment would be given powers which
would foster and develop this grow-
ing and flourishing trade.
In exchange for the concession to
the slave-holding states on slavery,
they, in turn, agreed to the granting
of broad power to the National
Government over commerce and
navigation.
Question oi National Taxing Power
The third great matter for con-
stitutional debate was the national
taxing power. This debate also end-
ed in a compromise. The delegates
divided generally according to their
sectional interests and also accord-
ing to the character of their par-
ticular economies. States with a di-
versified economy wanted the na-
tional government to raise revenues
by taxing the export and import of
goods. The states in which the
economy was based upon the rais-
ing of a single crop, or perhaps two
or three crops of agricultural prod-
ucts, were fearful of any power in
the hands of the National Govern-
ment which would permit the tax-
ation of exports.
The Southern States were largely
agricultural, one-crop states, natural-
ly fearful of any taxes which might
be levied upon the export in foreign
trade of the principal source of
their wealth. An economy based
upon such a narrow base as cotton
or tobacco could be easily bankrupt-
ed and ruined by an excessive export
tax. It was finally agreed that Con-
gress should have power to tax im-
ports, but taxes on exports were ex-
pressly forbidden.
Executive Department
There were many other questions
debated in the Convention upon
which time could be spent to em-
phasize the monumental task which
the Constitutional Convention as-
sumed in framing the Constitution.
One of the most interesting ques-
tions was that of the executive.
When the Convention opened, the
delegates had no clear idea of the
kind of executive they would set up.
They hit upon the unique device
of the presidency. This was certain-
ly an innovation in government.
The office was unknown in the
world. There had never been a
chief of state with such a title. At
first a multiple executive was de-
bated, but this idea was finally dis-
carded in favor of the single head of
the state. The executive was given
no power to make laws, only to ex-
ecute or carry them out. He was
given power to veto legislation
passed by Congress, but his veto
could be overridden by a two-thirds
majority in both houses of Con-
gress. It was also provided that a
president could be removed by im-
peachment. He was given power
in foreign affairs to negotiate trea-
ties which would be ratified with
the advice and consent of two-thirds
of the senators present voting to
ratify. He could also appoint judg-
es and ambassadors. The appoint-
ment of judges was to be for life
during good behavior, so while the
president could name the judges,
he was powerless to remove them.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
141
Judicial Department
The Constitution made provision
for a judiciary consisting of a Su-
preme Court and such inferior
courts as Congress should create.
The legislative branch, therefore,
could provide for courts and judges
and fix their salaries. The appoint-
ments of judges would, however, be
made by the executive with the con-
currence of the Senate. Once
named, salaries of judges at the time
of their appointment could not be
cut off or decreased in their amount,
and finally, they could only be re-
moved by the process of impeach-
ment. The judicial system set up
mider the Constitution was to have
far-reaching effects upon the Ameri-
can Government. It was not gen-
erally realized at the time that the
courts would exercise any veto pow-
er over the President or Congress.
However, that is exactly the way in
which the judicial system has
worked, because the courts may de-
clare the acts of Congress uncon-
stitutional and void, and may re-
strain the executive from arbitrary
or unlawful exercise of power over
the people.
Government of "Checks and
Balances''
There were naturally many other
problems which had to be resolved,
for instance, the terms of office of
the members of Congress, the term
of office of the President, the ad-
mission of new states into the
Union, and the machinery of
amendment and many other neces-
sary parts of the governmental ma-
chinery which had to be devised.
The result was to make the United
States a government of the people.
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with ''checks and balances" to in-
sure that no one branch of the gov-
ernment would dominate the other
two. The states could not be
coerced by the Federal Government,
but the people of the states were
made subject to its laws. Thus, the
people of the United States live
under a dual system— the state gov-
ernment and the Federal— and are
subject to the laws of both.
Signing oi Constitution
Because some of the delegates re-
fused to sign the Constitution,
Gouverneur Morris devised a form
which would give the Constitution
the appearance of being unanimous-
ly adopted. This was accomplished
by writing at the very end. ''Done
in convention by the unanimous
consent of the states present." In
order to overcome any appearance
of departure from authority given
to the convention, which had been
instructed to revise the Articles of
Confederation, the convention rec-
ommended to Congress that the
Constitution be submitted to con-
ventions of delegates chosen in each
state by the people thereof. This
was for accomplishing the indirect
ratification of the Constitution by
the people. It was not known if a
sufficient number of the state legis-
latures could be prevailed upon to
accept the Constitution, and there-
fore the opening phrase of the Con-
stitution, was made to read: "We,
the people of the United States."
Ratification by States
The Second Continental Con-
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submitted by the Constitutional
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for ratification without one word of
approval or disapproval. The Con-
stitution was to go into effect when
ratified by nine states.
The contest over adoption was to
prove long and difficult. Delaware
acted first and ratified December 7,
1787. Pennsylvania ratified next
on December 12, 1787; New Jersey,
December 18, 1787; Georgia, Janu-
ary 2, 1788; Connecticut, January
9, 1788; Massachusetts, February 6,
1788; Maryland, April 26, 1788;
South Carolina, May 28, 1788; New
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and South Carolina, ratification was
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and New Hampshire, by slim ma-
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very important states, the Union
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LESSON DEPARTMENT
143
isty were published. Fifty of them
were written by Hamilton, thirty by
Madison, and about five by Jay.
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in haste on November 21, 1789.
Rhode Island finally capitulated on
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could never have become complet-
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
„ , RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
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Marianne C. Sharp ... - - First Counselor
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Associate Editor ---..-.-. Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager -----.-.. Belle S. Spafford
Vol. 41 MARCH 1954 NO. 3
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SPECIAL FEATURES
Relief Society Responsibilities Joseph Fielding Smith 150
The American Red Cross and Its Program 167
Wilderness Road Willard Luce 186
My Paradise — Cowslip Hollow Emily Wilkerson 190
Today I Reveal Them Rose A. Openshaw 194
FICTION
"One Sweetly Solemn Thought" — Third Prize Story Ruth MacKay 153
Their Pictures „ Mary C. Martineau 163
Heritage Mildred Garrett Enos 175
The Deeper Melody — Chapter 6 Alice Morrey Bailey 196
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 148
Sixty Years Ago 168
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 169
Editorial: The Lifeblood of Relief Society Marianne C. Sharp 170
Announcing the Special April Short Story Issue 171
Notes to the Field: Organizations and Reorganizations of Stake and Mission Relief
Societies for 1953 172
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Margaret C. Pickering 201
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Shrubs for Your Garden Dorthea Newbold 159
Old Quilts Velma Mackay Paul 179
Chloe Call Later Makes Her Own Quilt Designs 192
A Sunken Window Garden „...Celia Luce 193
Way Down Inside Margaret Lundstrom 205
Bathroom Tricks: Potted Plants in the Bathroom Elizabeth Williamson 206
Brighten the Corner Where You Are Caroline Eyring Miner 207
POETRY
The ReUef Society — A World-Wide Sisterhood — Frontispiece Phyllis Hodgson Holbrook 147
Against the Dark „ Ouida Johns Pedersen 158
Queen of Queens Gene Romolo 167
Relief Society Elsie Scott 171
Nocturne Grace Barker Wilson 173
Sunrise on Cliff Mountain Gertrude T. Kovan 174
"For Which the First Was Made" : Christie Lund Coles 178
"Seek After These Things" Rhea M. Carrick 189
Loneliness Vesta N. Lukei 191
Communication Dora Toone Brough 192
Morning Is Her Delight Lael W. Hill 200
Hurry Home - Elsie McKinnon Strachan 206
Our Town Evelyn Fjeldsted 207
Spring Fantasy Verda Mackay 207
Orchard in Bloom Eva Willes Wangsgaard 208
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Relief Society Responsibilities
President Joseph Fielding Smith
Of the Council of the Twelve
[Address Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference,
September 30, 1953]
Ifeel honored in being invited to
come here this afternoon to
give to you a brief address in
relation to the Relief Society of the
Church. And I know you are just
as well acquainted with the organ-
ization of the Relief Society as I
am; nevertheless, I jotted down
from the history a few items in re-
lation to the organization and the
instruction that was given at that
time by the Prophet Joseph Smith.
As you know, the society was or-
ganized March 17, 1842, in Nauvoo.
And on that occasion the Prophet,
John Taylor, and others were pres-
ent and assisted. 'The Female Re-
lief Society," I am quoting, 'was
organized in Nauvoo by the Proph-
et Joseph Smith" who stated ''that
the purpose of the society is to
furnish the sisters of the Church
an organization through which they
may actively foster the welfare of
the members." The duty of the so-
ciety was stated to be "to aid the
poor, nurse the sick and afflicted,
and in a general way, under the di-
rection and guidance of the bishop,
to engage in the charitable work in
behalf of all those requiring assist-
ance."
This was the first organization of
women in the world, so far as his-
tory records, and I think that is
quite an honor to think that the
women of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints took the
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first step in the interest of the
women.
"This is in keeping with the gen-
ius of the gospel," the Prophet said,
"for the Lord provides duties and
labors for all the members of the
Church, both men and women,
wherein service may be rendered
for the temporal as well as the
spiritual salvation of man."
The Church was so organized
that all the members may find in it
some activity. As you know, most
of the so-called Christian churches
depend upon their minister. He
does all the work, looks after the
spiritual interest of his members,
but they do not have the work di-
vided among the members. But the
Lord has so arranged things in The
Church of Jesus Christ, that every
man and woman in it may find
some responsibility or something to
do. So it was as natural as it could
be for a Relief Society to come into
existence, so that the women could
have a society of their own, not only
to engage in the duties which I have
read, but that they might, in all par-
ticulars, labor in the interest of the
women of the Church and, for that
matter, in charitable matters in the
interest of all the members, male as
well as female. And so, by revela-
tion, this organization was estab-
lished. Just as necessary in the
Church as any other department.
RELIEF SOCIETY RESPONSIBILITIES
151
TN his instructions, the Prophet
said: "Do not injure the charac-
ter of anyone. If members of the
society shall conduct themselves im-
properly, deal with them, keep all
of thy doings within your own bos-
om and hold all characters sacred."
I think that is very wise advice,
not only in the Relief Society but
in the quorums of the Priesthood
and everywhere else within the
Church. We should guard the
character of every member. We
should see that there are no in-
justices done.
Again, on March 30, 1842, he
said:
None should be received into the so-
ciety but those who are worthy. All dif-
ficulties which might and would cross our
way must be surmounted. Though the
soul be tried, the heart faint and hands
hang down, yet we must not retrace our
steps. That sympathy alone must not de-
cide our judgment. All must act in con-
cert or nothing can be done. Sisters
should move as did the ancient Priest-
hood, in unity. It should be a select so-
ciety, separate from all the ills of the
world, choice, virtuous, and holy. The
society was to assist by directing the mor-
als and strengthening the virtues of the
community and save the Elders the
trouble of rebuking and that they might
have their time for other duties.
Now, that is from the historv.
There are a great many duties,
responsibilities, that are given to
our sisters, not all of them are in-
cluded in these items that I have
read. It is the duty of the Relief
Society, not only to look after those
who are members of the Relief So-
ciety, but their labor should extend
beyond those borders. Wherever
anybody is in trouble, needs help,
in difficulties, sick or afflicted, we
call upon the Relief Society. Ac-
cording to the words of the Proph-
et here, 'Tt is their duty also to as-
sist in seeing that there is no in-
iquity in the Church." I take it
that those labors would rest more
particularly upon them in relation
to the sisters of the Church, and
they can perform a great and won-
derful work by encouraging the way-
ward, helping them, bringing them
back into activity, helping them to
overcome their weaknesses or sins
and imperfections, and bringing
them to an understanding of the
truth. I say there is no limit to the
good that our sisters can do.
You are called upon constantly
by the authorities in the stakes and
in the wards. And I don't know
what in the world our stake presi-
dents and bishops in the wards
would do if they didn't have these
good sisters of Relief Society upon
whom to depend; whom they can
call to their service, many times, to
handle situations that would be very
delicate, that is for our brethren,
but which our sisters may perform
to the very greatest advantage. It
would be a wonderful thing if all
the members of the Church were
perfect. If that were the case we
would all have less responsibility,
both the men and the women, but
that time has not come. We have
members among our sisters who
need encouragement, a little help
spiritually as well as temporally, and
nobody can do it better than our
sisters who belong to this great and
wonderful organization.
TN this work the sisters may lend
their aid in encouraging and
helping the wayward, indifferent,
the careless, just as the brethren of
the Priesthood are called upon to
do in behalf of the wayward, care-
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brethren. We should all work to to us,, and the sisters can do far
bring to pass righteousness and en- more, in my opinion, laboring with
deavor to bring back into activity the sisters, than the brethren would
those who have drifted and neglect- be able to do.
ed the duties of the Church. Now, may the Lord bless you ni
We keep a record that's fairly ac- it, in all these things. I am very
curate of all the male members of grateful that you are studying the
the Church who are inactive, men doctrines of the Church. Now, I
holding the Priesthood who are not am not going to say much about
magnifying their callings; and the that nor go into details in relation
men in the Church, members of to it, because you have topics com-
the Church, who hold no Priest- ing up in the latter part of this
hood. We have our brethren labor- meeting. But the Lord expects the
ing among them to try to get them sisters to be qualified with a testi-
into activity. niony of the truth to understand the
We have a great many sisters, doctrines of the Church just as he
likewise, who are delinquent and does those who hold the Priesthood,
careless, and who are not living ac- If we gain exaltation, which we
cording to all the Lord has revealed hope to obtain, it is necessary that
and required of them. I know of we prepare ourselves by knowledge,
no record, however, that gives us by faith, by prayer. And when the
the number, or an approximate Lord said, ''Seek ye first the king-
number, of the sisters who belong dom of God and his righteousness,"
to that class. But here is a work he was not talking just to a body of
the Relief Society can labor in as men, it was a mixed congregation,
well as clothing the naked, feeding And righteousness is required of all
the hungry, caring for the dead, and those who have entered the waters
attending to sucli other duties of baptism and have obtained the
which fall upon them which they remission of their sins,
perform so faithfully and acceptably May the Lord bless these good
in the Church. sisters who preside over you in this
It would be a glorious thing if organization. They are wonderful,
we could all live as did the Nephites as you have learned. I have some-
for two hundred years when the thing to do with them once in
Lord said, or at least the Prophet awhile; occasionally they come to
writes, that there was no iniquity me and to Brother Petersen with a
among them, no envying, no strife, problem; we try to help them. But
no wickedness of any kind. What they are capable and can solve most
a glorious thing that must have of their problems without any help,
been! And the prophet says, there The Lord bless them, bless all the
could not be a happier people any- other sisters who are presiding in
where than were these people at the various stakes and in the wards,
that particular time. Our duty is and all those who are active in the
to labor, to strive, to cry repent- organizations. And so I pray in the
ance, to be diligent in all the duties name of the Lord Jesus Christ,
and responsibilities which are given Amen.
cJhifd [Prize Stor
y
Jinnual [Relief Societif Short Story Con
test
4 4
One Sweetly Solemn Thought"
Ruth MacKav
RUTH MACKAY
THE words had burned nito
Prue's brain as soon as she
had read them. Addressing
a Relief Society conference, Presi-
dent }. Reuben Clark, Jr., had said,
"And this is your work and ours,
to save not only Zion, but the
world."
Thoughts chased through Prue's
mind of the need for saving the
world, its people sadly disillusioned,
putting their faith in one material
thing after another, and gaining no
peace of mind or soul.
She suddenly realized the bus had
stopped, and, with a cheery word
to the driver, she alighted. As she
crossed the road to climb the hill to
her home, she breathed deeply of
the pure mountain air. She looked
with affection at the row of tall
stately gums growing on the road-
side, the crisp brown bark hanging
in strips from the trunks, showing
the clean yellow boles beneath. A
soft wind lazily stirred the crimson
tinted leaves, and through them she
could see into the field beyond,
where the wattles with their crop
of fluffy, golden balls glowed in the
setting sun.
Prue sniffed appreciatively at the
scent which wafted to her on the
breeze, and turned to go down the
old track which led to her home,
stopping by the gate to pick
some buttercups and forget-me-nots
which grew there in profusion.
Somehow, today, the familiar scene
seemed even more beautiful. As far
as she could see were mountains,
rising and falling into the distance,
always shaded with the mist that
made them look dark blue. The
fleecy white clouds billowing up
above them into a clear blue sky
completed a picture that Prue could
always visualize. The peaceful se-
renity of the scene brought balm to
her heart.
But the silence was shattered as,
with a whirring of wings and rau-
cous laughter, a kookaburra flew
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from the trees onto Prue's shoulder, nervousness, when she got on her
Jacky was the pet of the neighbor- feet, she stammered and stuttered
hood; he had fallen from the nest so much that it affected her breath-
when young, and Prue had nursed ing, and she could only gasp out a
him till he could stand and fly. He few words. Locked up inside her,
was very tame, and would hop into were beautiful thoughts of love, of
the kitchens nearby for the titbits belief in the gospel, together with
that were given him, flying harm- boundless gratitude to the mission-
lessly out of the way of unfriendly aries who came out to Australia to
cats, and laughing uproariously at seek out those who were looking for
their frustration from roof or chim- the truth. She felt very humble
ney tops. that the Lord had led them to her
Prue took him into her arms, door. If only she could reveal what
stroking the soft brown and fawn her conversion had meant to her,
feathers. He flew ahead of her as the feeling of at last coming home
she let him go, knowing he would the moment she had entered the
be rewarded with a piece of meat chapel; the deep, abiding testimony
when she got home. Prue fell in she had gained, with the sincere de-
love with this beautiful world, her sire to live all the principles of the
heart filled with gratitude that her gospel to the best of her ability,
life could be spent amidst such Her life had been completely
pleasant surroundings. changed by the visit of those two
But the thought came back to ^1^^^^ If only she had the ability
her, 'This is your work and ours, ^o tell others a 1 these things may-
to save not only Zion, but the be it would help them, too, to ac-
world." ^^P^ *^^ gospel.
That night she lay tossing, un- QUDDENLY, as as though a ray of
able to sleep. What could she do, O ^.^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^
in her humble way, to save the p^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^5 ^ ^^^ ^^
world? She did her work as a mem- ^^-^^ ^-^^^ ^^^^ humbly and sin-
ber of the Relief Society, and tried ^^^^-^^^ ^^^-^^ ^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^^ ^^^1^
very hard to do all that was re- President Clark had designated to
quired of her as Relief Society presi- ^Yiem. She would overcome that
dent. Yet, she felt that that wasn t f^-i'^g ^f j^^^g^ 5^ ^Yiat she could
what President Clark had meant, explain to others who were investi-
There was something more required ^^^^^^ ^Yie truthfulness of this won-
of her. But what? What must she ^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^ j^g^ ^^ly she believed
do? in it with all her heart and soul.
Towards morning, her thoughts She knew it wouldn't be easy, for
went back to the previous day's she was well past forty, and it would
testimony meeting. How she en- be hard to overcome a lifetime of
vied those members whose fluency diffidence, but overcome it, she
of words enabled them adequately would.
to express their love and steadfast The next day saw her timidly
faith in the gospel. No matter how climbing the steps of a city college
much she tried to overcome her where night classes in public speak-
'ONE SWEETLY SOLEMN THOUGHT"
155
ing were held. She approached the
enquiry desk, fully conscious of her
mature years as she passed groups
of young students chattering gaily.
'Tes, Madam?" asked the super-
cilious young clerk.
''I would like to join the public
speaking class/' she said, in a quiet
little voice.
Taking a long pink form from a
drawer, the young man enquired,
very crisply, ''Name; Address; Ex-
perience?"
''No experience"— he looked at
her as though she had committed
a crime, explaining that the teach-
er, Mr. Bell, was a very busy man,
being as well a radio news com-
mentator, therefore he had no time
to waste on beginners.
Seeing her obvious embarrass-
ment, he stopped, and Prue, nerv-
ously twisting her fingers, said, "Oh,
Fm sorry, I really shouldn't have
come."
Perhaps touched by her sweet
smile of apology, he unbent to tell
her, "You go over to Room 5,
Block E, and have a talk with Mr.
Bell; he may be able to help you."
Then, as if ashamed of being found
out in a kind action, he resumed
his writing.
Prue wandered past the radio
school and the art school and found
Block E, Room 5 on the first floor,
and Mr. Bell was there interview-
ing his prospective students. And
what an array they were. Prue's
heart sank even further. Three busi-
ness executives, two top engineers
of the electric company; an archi-
tect, a research fellow in science at
the university; a young German
scientist, and others of equally high
scholastic qualifications.
Standing there in her pale blue
frock and large navy picture hat,
Prue did not realize the appealing
picture she made as she waited for
Mr. Bell to speak to her. What
made him take her she never knew,
but she was grateful for being ac-
cepted, and determined to do her
best.
When the class began, she had
to take her turn with the others in
getting up to say just why she want-
ed to learn public speaking. She
managed to explain that she want-
ed to help others. Mr. Bell looked
queerly at her, shrugging his shoul-
ders and giving a sly wink to one of
the men. A peculiar reason this;
usually it was to help the men in
their business, or with political as-
pirations, but to help others! Well,
of course, she was a woman, and
women had funny ideas.
npHE next six months for Prue
were a nightmare. Each Thurs-
day night they each had to speak
for from four to ten minutes on
subjects chosen by Mr. Bell. And
such subjects: political questions;
international affairs; economic prob-
lems; and so on. Public library
patrons and attendants came to
know the little figure as she pored
over books, taking copious notes in
the lunch hour period from her
work.
Several times, in talks given by
the men, religion had been men-
tioned, but always in a facetious,
disparaging way. It hurt Prue to
liear them speak this way, but she
realized they knew no better, for
they did not have the blessing of
the restored gospel.
Then one week she was asked to
speak on "The Message of Easter."
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Here v^'as a subject on which she
did not have to go to hbraries to
gain the necessary knowledge. Lov-
ingly she thought out the opening,
the body of her talk, and the clos-
ing, using the knowledge the mis-
sionary elders had taught her
through the years.
When her turn to speak came,
the thoughts of her beautiful sub-
ject brought a light to her face, and
a sweet, patient smile to her lips,
and the words came without effort.
Returning to her seat, she was
startled when passing Graham
North, the architect, as he hissed
at her, ''Oh, you're too good, I
always feel like singing hymns and
taking up a collection when youVe
finished speaking."
Mr. Bell, as usual, allowed one
of the class to criticize the speech,
lie nodded to Mr. North.
Oh, no, thought Prue, not he,
he has no time for religion, and he
just doesn't understand. And he
was the one who had so distracted
her attention in one of her talks
that she had broken down com-
pletely and couldn't continue.
Her worst fears were realized.
Graham completely and sarcastical-
ly tore her talk to shreds. Still
smiling, but inwardly sick at heart,
she wondered if it were worthwhile
to continue with the lessons. She
had been foolish to come at all; she
was out of her depth and would
never make a public speaker. Oh,
why hadn't they taught such things
when she went to school? But even
if they had, she wouldn't have bene-
fited, for she had to leave school
when she was thirteen, her father
having died, she had to help with
the family finances.
Feeling utterly crestfallen, she
made her way out of the building,
followed by some of the younger
men of the class. Turning to say
goodbye to them at the street cor-
ner, one of them halted her, saying,
"What religion do you belong to?
Some of the ideas you gave in your
talk tonight are new to me."
'I'm a Mormon," she said simply.
Then followed, right there on the
street corner, an hour of discussion.
Questions and answers flew back
and forth. Sometimes they agreed
with her, mostly they did not, and
she invited them to the chapel so
that they could learn more. Two
of them did come to the next sacra-
ment meeting, being deeply im-
pressed with the obvious sincerity
of all who took part, and with the
warm friendliness of the saints.
Prue's heart sang with joy, and she
determined she would carry on with
the lessons, and eventually achieve
a measure of success with her speak-
ing.
'T^HE following I'hursday, as she
sat in her seat awaiting Mr.
Bell's criticism of her talk on "The
Racial Problem of South Africa,"
she squared her shoulders; she
mustn't be afraid of criticism, she
must learn to take it, and use it to
better her efforts.
Mr. Bell addressed the class, "T
think you will agree with me that
the talks given by our lady member
here have all had one definite
characteristic— a kindly love of peo-
ple, a desire for their betterment,
and a high personal moral standard.
Here is someone who devotedly be-
lieves in something, something she
wants to share with others. I would
like to say we are happy and privi-
"ONE SWEETLY SOLEMN THOUGHT'
157
leged to have her here with us."
Prne sat stunned. Surely her
poor, miserable little efforts at
speechmaking could not have had
that effect. Yet, they had, for the
class applauded vigorously. The gos-
pel was surely more marvelous than
ever if it could shine through her
halting words and phrases on eco-
nomics, racial problems, and the
like.
Suddenly shy, she turned and
faced the class, murmuring, 'Thank
you/' but a chill hand caught her
heart as she glimpsed the look of
distaste on Graham North's face.
Thursday came round agam, but
Prue could not go to the college,
for some missionaries were return
ing home, and there was a farewell
social at the chapel. She wondered
if their parents ever fully realized
the immense amount of good these
lads did out here in the mission
field. Nothing a convert could
ever do could ever repay them for
the great blessing of the gospel that
they brought. It was sad to see
them go, for you came to love them
as your own sons. But how nice
for them to be once more with
their own folks.
Hurrying along the next week,
Prue realized she was going to be
late. She entered the classroom
and saw all were seated and the les-
son about to begin. Mr. Bell smiled
a welcome at her, saying, ''Here's
Mrs. Martin now.*'
She looked wondermgly at him
as they greeted her with applause,
and he explained, ''When you
didn't come last week, and were
not here at your usual time tonight,
we were afraid you had left us, so
that is just an expression of their
relief that you are still coming."
She took the chair he indicated,
only to find she was sitting next to
Graham North. Smiling at him,
she got out her books.
OER talk that night was impromp-
tu, and she realized herself that
it wasn't good, so when Graham
was called on to criticize, she braced
herself for what she knew would be
coming. But, somehow it was dif-
ferent. Gone was the sarcasm in
Graham's voice— it was soft and
pleasant— and he was showing her,
in a kindly way, where her faults
lay. Then he concluded that he
appreciated the kindness and toler
ance that she gave to all of them.
When called upon to give his
own talk, the class sat quiet. Here
was a Graham they did not know.
Instead of opening in the loose,
bantering way in which he usually
did, his voice was firm and clear, as
though he had a message to deliver.
He compelled their complete atten-
tion as he went from point to point,
likening his work as an architect to
that of the work of Christ.
Prue stared at him. Was this
the man who had always spoken so
lightly of moral standards?
Classwork over, he leaned toward
her, "How did you like the way I
brought in religion tonight?" he
asked.
With eyes shining, she said, with
all sincerity, "I thought it was fine."
He put his hand on her shoulder,
saying seriously, "Listen, girl, you've
got the only answer for the troubles
of this world. I've tried hard to
find your weak spot, but you've
always given me back sweetness and
understanding. You're a good mis-
sionary for Christ, and do you know
what? I've started reading the
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Bible again, something I haven't
done for years, and I can read it
now with a new understanding."
Leaving the college building,
Prue's eyes were full of tears, and
her heart overflowing with gratitude
that she was privileged to be a mem-
ber of the Church that had the re-
stored gospel. There came to her
mind a little legend she had once
heard of the nativity of Christ.
The whole world was full of won-
der the night Christ was born— the
animals gave of their breath to
warm the air, the flowers gave of
their fragrance to give it sweetness,
the birds gave their song, and the
butterflies their color. But the poor,
humble little worm had nothing to
give, so he picked up a fallen petal,
and crawled painstakingly to the
manger where the Christ child lay.
In turning, the babe touched the
worm and to this day it glows so
that it is called the glowworm.
The touch of Christ can make us
all glow, thought Prue, and maybe
this is what President Clark meant,
when he told us to save the world.
To keep that spirit of love and un-
derstanding so bright within our-
selves, by adhering to the principles
that we are taught— then would our
lights so shine before men, that they
would be drawn by their brilliance.
Ruth MacKay, Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada, appears for the first time as a winner
in the ReHef Society Short Story Contest, with her offering "One Sweetly Solemn
Thonght." A convert to the Church, Mrs. MacKay, has traveled in many parts of the
world. "I am an Australian," she tells us, "and this story is the first one submitted,
the only other publication being an article, 'We Seek After These Things' published
in The Rehef Society Magazine in 1951. I am at present working on a book. I ar-
rived in the United States last June, and proceeded to Canada for the wedding of one
of my daughters, of whom I have three: Ruth, married, and living in Australia; Joan,
married, and living in Canada; and Yvonne, studying at Brigham Young University.
For nearly two years, after the return to the United States of Sister Myrtle G. Chris-
tensen, because of ill health, I acted as president of the Australian Mission Relief So-
ciety. I am an accountant by profession, being formerly head of the administration
and finance of the Press Attache's office of the Netherlands Legation in Australia."
J^gainst the Jjark
Ouida Johns Federsen
Hyacinths, fragrant tapers of the spring.
Kindle the ground to new remembering;
New seedlings force their tender roots in stone
Crevices to splinter granite bone.
Then waking turf renews its emerald sea;
Refutes once more the grave's finality.
Seeing once again the earth's reprieve
From darkness, we are strengthened — and believe.
(bhruos for LJour (garden
Dorthea Newhold
Deseret News Garden Editor
A shrub is anybody's plant. You the size the shrub will attain at ma-
just can't go wrong with them turity.
unless you plant them too With wise selection of shrubs, you
close together and fail to give them can screen out unsightly views, make
a yearly pruning. You can have a mass plantings, have a flowering
whole garden of shrubs, colorful the hedge, or divide your garden area
year around. You can use them to into rooms for greater beauty. At
give your garden complete privacy, the same time you will shut off, to
to separate one section from the a degree, the noises from a busy
other, and, best of all, the shrub street, creating a beautiful retreat for
garden is easy to maintain and in- family and friends,
expensive. Foundation plantings using de-
Shrubs are woody plants of bushy ciduous shrubs offer the gardener an
habits, developing several stems in- opportunity to create a planting
stead of a trunk as does a tree. They that is original and suitable to his
are a permanent part of the garden, own home. With thought and care-
yet, surprisingly, little thought or ful placing of shrubs, he will have
imagination is given to the selection a planting that will not be seen
and arrangement of shrubs. Too around every other house along the
many shrubbery plantings are dull street.
part of the year. One reason for Flowering shrubs planted close to-
this is the monotonous over-planting gether for a hedge should be left un-
of a few well-known kinds. The over- clipped, but should not be allowed
planting of Spirea Van Houtti is an to grow without a yearly pruning
example. so they become an unsightly tangle.
Every garden has its own peculiari-
ties and some varieties of shrubs will TN areas where winters are severe,
not thrive in it, but there is such a no flowers are more welcome
wealth of material to choose from than those which appear early in the
that there is no excuse for the over- year. Pussywillows— one clump of
planting of one variety. them— will prove to be a delight to
Before making a selection of young and old, for who can resist
shrubs consider the location, and the the charm of those gray catkins as
exposure, whether the shrubs will be they emerge from their brown win-
in sun or shade; whether you have ter coats.
heavy soil which retains the moisture Fortunate are those who can suc-
or soil that is light and dry. Con- ceed with witch hazel — its lovely
sider, too, the amount of space to be blooms come so early in the year to
filled, for this will determine wheth- signal that spring is on its way. Daph-
er you will select a dwarf, medium, ne cneorum is a choice plant for
or large-growing type of shrub. A edgings for the shrubbery border or
good nursery catalogue will give you for rock gardens. Viburnum burk-
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woodi can't wait for the leaves to
show up, but puts out a dazzhng
beautiful waxy flower that wafts its
fragrance over the newly awakened
garden. Then the forsythias — sev-
eral varieties, come along, bowing
their wands of yellow bloom to all.
Cydonia japonica, with its brilliant
orange to red blooms, seems to be
the signal for all the spring flower-
ing shrubs to put on their show, for
then the real display in shrubdom
begins.
Spireas, Viburnum carlesi, Vi-
burnum tomentosum, and other vi-
burnums, flowering almonds, Prunus
triloba, honeysuckle, weigelas, burst
into an extravagant display.
Then come the lilacs. What mir-
acles of beauty, of color, of fragrance
are these! The old common laven-
der and white, the elegant new
French varieties, or those Persian
beauties with their soft plumes of
lavender flowers— all are an asset in
the shrub border.
Then a lull comes, and the ex-
quisite beauty of the mock orange
enhances the scene— it seems to have
waited purposely till now to show
its perfect beauty. As a lower-grow-
ing companion, its white flowers
covering every stem, we see Deutzia
gracilis— perfect for the front of the
border.
Hypericum — St.-John's-wort, a
low-growing shrub, is an excellent
ground cover, is welcome in every
garden, for it blooms from early sum-
mer until hard frost.
With the summer, Spirea An-
thony Waterer, Potentilla fruiticosa,
the altheas, Vitex agnuscastus, Cary-
Courtesy the Deseret News
FORSYTHIA (SPRING GLORY)
Gives an excellent display every spring
(yellow flowers).
opteris incana, the hydrangeas, the
faithful smoke tree, and tamarix,
will bring another riot of color.
■pALL and its accompanying frosts
make us conscious of those shrubs
which hold their leaves a bit longer
than does the average shrub, and
conscious, too, of colorful leaves.
The privets can be depended on to
hold their leaves well into the bitter
cold weather. Cotoneaster, most of
the varieties of euonymus, beauty
bush, viburnums, snowberry, and
pyracantha will hold their leaves
well, some of them until December.
Now come colorful berries and
foliage— these are extra beauty divi-
dends and gardeners accept them
with gratitude. Euonymus altaus
compactus has foliage of an unbe-
Opposite Page: Deciduous shrubs, evergreens, and other trees used to bring
privacy into a small garden or to divide the garden into rooms. Trees may be used to
frame the home or to frame a lovely view.
Photograph, courtesy the Deseret News.
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Courtesy the De&eret News
HARMONIOUS ARRANGEMENT OF SHRUBS
Juniper at the entrance; trimmed snowberry bushes; pyracantha bushes at the corner,
giving height where it is needed.
lievable brilliance. It is of a com-
pact growth and will grow in semi-
shade.
Berried shrubs — they are an open
invitation to the birds to stay with
us a bit longer — promise luscious
feasts for a long time. Snowberry,
pyracanthas, honeysuckles, coton-
easters, Berberis euonymus, maho-
nias, and some of the viburnums will
produce a crop of berries.
Now it is winter, and we have
almost completed our cycle, and we
wonder what to use for winter color.
We can depend on dogwood, the
red-twigged and the yellow twigged
varieties, to bring life and color to
the sleeping garden. There are some
willows that have a yellow bark and
will add color to the winter land-
scape. Kerria japonica shows stems
of bright green — the forsythias
show stems of a deep brownish pur-
ple.
For ease of upkeep, for sheer
beauty, and little cost, nothing can
surpass a garden of shrubs.
Their Pictures
Mary C. Martineau
TO be sure Virginia didn't have
soft brown eyes with a mourn-
ful expression in them, neither
did she have brown hair parted de-
murely in the middle and kinked
evenlv down on both sides, as the
enlarged picture showed when the
canvasser finally brought it after she
had given up hope. But he had ac-
complished some things that she
noticed at a glance, as he leaned it
up against the kitchen door and in-
vited those present to inspect it at a
distance. He had caught her youth
in the oval, wrinkleless face with its
soft rosy cheeks and deeper rosy
lips, and her dress— oh, it was a
masterpiece! It was just perfect:
mahogany brown cashmere with
reverses turned back, revealing a
deeper brown but exquisitely match-
ing satin front, which was gathered
at the neck into a satin ''choker"
collar of the same color.
Virginia looked and looked at
the picture; she was inwardly
pleased, but she said, 'Why didn't
the artist make my hair almost
black and glossy, and why aren't my
eyes just dark and not so docile?
I've a good notion not to take it
at all."
The canvasser bent his head sad-
ly and said in a most contrite man-
ner, "It's hard to remember every-
thing. Madam, and when I thought
of you and looked at the photo-
graph, I must have imagined that
your hair and eyes are as the en-
larged picture shows, and I am sure
your eyes are browner than you
think. The color of your beautiful
dress makes them look that way to
me.
''Nonsense," said Virginia.
"How do you like the frame,
Madam?" asked the canvasser humb-
ly. ''Great care was used in the
choosing of it, for it is of full oak,
and the designs on it are Venetian,
I am told, and the gilt is really
gold," he went on, as if divulging
a great secret.
Virginia smiled about the real
gold, but replied, "The frame is all
right," and going to the cupboard
and reaching up on the top shelf,
she brought down a brown wallet,
and from it extracted a ten-dollar
gold piece. She handed the money
to the canvasser, who backed away
from the picture and from the door
in a most polite manner. Hurriedly,
he got into his buggy, which con-
tained enough enlarged pictures for
the whole countryside, and away he
drove up the lane as fast as his old
horse could be persuaded to trot.
He had a picture for the Glens
whose little boy had been drowned
in the river; a picture of Mrs. Del-
bert's mother sitting on a straight
chair. The pictured lady had a
most somber face, a double chin,
and a striped dress. He also had a
picture of Grandpa Weathers in his
Civil War uniform, when he was
young, and he had a picture of
Marthy Jenkins' oldest daughter,
with her hair let down her back,
and so on. He was in a hurry to
get them all delivered, realizing how
lucky he was to have the ten dollars
already in his pocket, but he would
be luckier if the other patrons
would accept theirs and pay up.
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164 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1954
AFTER he was gone, Virginia in the doorway. ''Well, by the
turned to her boys, who had continental," he said, taking his old
said nothing, and asked, "What do white felt hat off and rubbing his
you think of it?" hand through his hair, 'where in
The youngest one said, "It's thunder did that come from?"
awful pretty. Ma, and almost like "Don't you like it, John?" asked
you," but the oldest one said, "I Virginia.
think your photograph is the pret- ''It doesn't look a confounded
tiest. Ma. Did you get your photo- thing like you, Virginia. I think
graph back?" you got bit that time." Then, notic-
Virginia thought he was right in ing the snap in her eyes, for she
some ways, but the photograph was never could stand to have anyone
only black and white, and her pic- think that she was green enough
ture on it was only one of a family to get bit, he said, with his own eyes
group, and she thought it quite mar- twinkhng, "Now, you know your
velous that it had been singled out eyes have some life and sparkle in
as promised and made into a large, them, but the eyes in that picture
colored picture all framed and ready look like a dying calf's."
to hang on the wall. Now Virginia was smiling and so
She said, "Yes, Son, here is the were her eyes. John came forward,
photograph. He gave it back just hung his hat on a nail behind the
as he promised, and, while the pic- door, poured some water from the
ture isn't all it should be, yet I bucket on the washstand into the
promised to take it, so we'll hang it tin washbasin and proceeded to
up and make the best of it." wash his face and hands before tak-
Virginia liked to look at her pic- ing his place at the table with his
ture. The hair was so smooth, just family.
the way she always combed hers in Supper began in the usual man-
the morning, but never had a ner by his asking the blessing, and,
chance to look at again all day, ex- afterwards, Virginia glanced up for
cept as she happened to glance in just an instant at the sad brown
the mirror above the wash-bench as eyes in the picture, smiling to her-
she washed and combed the chil- self and wondering,
dren's hair for dinner. As she looked
at the picture again, she liked, too, A ^L the wives along the country-
the looks of the soulful brown eyes side were pleased with their
and wished she knew the secret that pictures, and the canvasser went
lay behind them, for her own eyes away with more orders, to his own
laughed when she was happy, and surprise and to the disgust of the
they snapped when she was angry, husbands from whose flat pockets
Why couldn't her eyes be always the ten dollars had been wrung,
sweet and appealing like the ones John said he'd throw the next can-
in the picture, though of course not vasser off the place, if he ever
so dull looking. caught him coming there again.
When John came in to supper, One evening she caught John
the picture was the first thing that looking at her picture as she sat
caught his eye. He stopped short knitting by the fading light of the
THEIR PICTURES 165
window. He was lying on the old Bye and bye he ran down and sat
lounge resting and telling her about still waiting her verdict, and Vir-
the happenings of the day, but look- ginia had a verdict. Going to the
ing at her picture with kindly eyes family album, she slid a youthful
and with a sort of longing, she photograph of John out of it, and,
thought, in his own. handing it to the canvasser, said.
On the very next day, when John ''See that you take good care of
had gone to take a grist to the mill, this, I wouldn't lose it for the
the canvasser came again. lie drove world."
down the lane and tied his horse to He promised faithfully. After be-
a tree. Upon getting out of his ing told to make John's hair a light
buggy, he took off his duster and brown and soft and curly, not dark,
put it back on the buggy seat, ad- as the photograph showed it, and to
justed his derby hat, picked up his be sure to make his eyes blue, a
samples, and came to the door. heavenly blue, and not to forget the
Virginia met him with a curt dimple in his chin, the canvasser
''How do you do," and drove the left the house,
flies back with a paper as he hurried Now the ordering was to be kept
through the screen door that closed a secret so Pa would be surprised
after him with a bang. He stood in and awfully happy when his picture
meekness until invited by httle came. It was a glorious secret, but
Bill to sit down, and then he sat Virginia spent a sleepless night try-
down and said with a smile, '1 see ing to figure out where she could
you have your lovely picture hang- possibly get another extra ten dol-
ing up. I hope your husband liked lars, for she knew very well that
it. I'm sure he couldn't help liking John didn't have a cent to spare,
it. I came today to see if you Why school would be starting soon
would consider sending one of him —what could she have been think-
to be enlarged. I think it would ing of anyway— the children would
please him mightily. Sometimes hus- need shoes and slates— and every-
bands feel neglected in such mat- thing? Why, oh, why did she
tejs /' always give herself something to
Virginia almost caught her breath worry about? John would probably
as she remembered how John had only be vexed anyway. Bye and bye
looked at her picture when he she fell into a troubled sleep, m
didn't know she saw him. Yes, she spite of her worry and John's deep
thought to herself, that was it, he snores, and slept till daylight,
was feeling neglected. I will send
his picture-but how can I manage 'TIME went by and the secret held.
[l? John went about his farm work
As the canvasser talked on and with great energy, and the canvas-
on, persuading the persuaded, she ser was forgotten by everyone ex-
turned the idea over in her mind cept Virginia. She had a skel-
and let him talk. The little boys eton in her closet now, and she
gathered close about her also urg- could hear it rattle quite often. It
ing her here and there whenever must not escape, so she put the lit-
the canvasser paused at a comma, tie blue teapot on the top shelf,
166 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1954
and every time her fears grew high So he said no more,
she took a httle of her egg money Then the great day came. John
or a httle of the milk check and was in the field mowing when the
dropped it in, thus silencing the canvasser drove down the lane; but
rattle. John spied him and, quickly as he
One day John brought a traveler could, he drove his horses to the
to the house. The traveler was in- near end of the field, unhitched
quiring about the best place to ford them, and hurried to the house,
old Bear River, and he also wanted But he arrived just as the canvasser
some dinner for himself and some had delivered the picture, pocketed
hay for his own team. In true the money, and was getting into
Yankee style, John invited him to his buggy.
stay to dinner and then took the Virginia had accepted the pic-
horses to the corral and gave them ^ure hastily, handed over the mon-
huge forkfuls of hay. ey, and got rid of him almost be-
Virginia hardly knew what she fore he realized it, for she had seen
could feed the man, or the family John coming and remembered the
either, for that matter, but so as threat. She hated scenes,
not to disappoint John, she had a jo^^ said, "How do you do," and
chicken killed and fried it, baked the canvasser answered, "How do
hot biscuits, mashed the potatoes, yo^^ ^o," and drove away. John
brought butter and milk from the ^ame on quietly into the house, as
cool cellar, and, with a little honey Virginia drew a long breath,
for dessert and John to tell bear simultaneously they turned, and
stories, the dinner was a great sue- ^j^^^.^ ^^^ the picture of John
cess
,^,, - 1,1 propped carefully against the kitch-
When the man was ready to leave \^ rloor
with John, to show him where the ,,,^,- '. , ^„ , , , , .
r 1 ^ 1 . 1 4- \/- • • o ^ What the . . .? began John, but
ford was, he turned to Virginia, and, _,. . . . , ,,^, ^? ^ ^ .t_
after thanking her for the nice din- V.rgm.a cned Oh, that man-the
ner, he handed her a ten-dollar gold P'^'"'-^ ,^°e^" * ^°°\ ^}>'^ ''"^^^ y°"'
• , ry. T u ' i.1. o^ J lohn. See the dark hair and the
piece! To John s utter surprise and J^^^^ • , , ^, ^ i. t>
. T- .1 4- J 4. xT^ mustache Oh, John, 1 m so sorry,
great disgust, she accepted it. Nev- ^"'^•^'-^^ v. ^ , j , ;
er had such a thing been heard of John only stared at the picture
before in the vaUey anywhere. • • • the handsome face so unlike
Imagine, taking pay for a meal of him in color, and yet there were the
victuals. But Virginia was desper- merry blue eyes and the dimple,
ate-she could hear the skeleton rat- which John noted, silent, but in-
tle. Pa couldn't. wardly pleased.
John remarked, upon his return Virginia broke in, "It's just hor-
to the house, that he had his opin- rid, John, and I accepted the mon-
ion of anyone who was small ey to pay for it to surprise you."
enough to take pay for doing a good "And I love you dearly," John
turn. Then Virginia's eyes really said, putting his arms around her.
looked something like the eyes in "It's not so good, darling, but we'll
her enlarged picture, as she said hang it up along with yours." And
sadly, "I'm sorry, John." he did.
cJhe J/imerican uieci Cross and iJts U^rocjmin
^^npIIE Red Cross personifies, as nearly as any organization of which I
can think, those great and noble virtues of man that are the richest
heritage from the Almighty."
Thus spoke President Dwight D. Eisenhower at the dedication cere-
monies at the new District of Columbia Red Cross Chapter House on Oc-
tober 1, 1953.
"We have many examples nowadays of man's selfishness, man's bru-
tality and inhumanity to man, man's readiness to forget the golden rule
and to hve by some standard that he thinks will immediately advantage
him at the expense of his fellows," the President said.
''We have this in the international field. We have it far too often
and discouragingly among groups or classes at home. The Red Cross, the
nature of its slogan, of its purposes, the work that has been done through
it, and the people that belong to it, bring to us, as we tend to gather dis-
couragement about such things, realization that man is also made of nobler
qualities than those of selfishness and greed and personal advantage. He
is made up also of sacrifice, of nobleness, and love for fellow humans."
The Red Cross has been distributing gamma globulin since 1944,
largely as a measles prophylaxis, but recently, the organization was called
upon to undertake an immediate and dramatic expansion of its operations
to make available all the gamma globulin possible for the inoculation of
children in the polio fight. In accordance with standard Red Cross prac-
tice, this gamma globulin was provided to the American people without
charge for the derivative.
As a result of this plan, the Red Cross will turn over to the Office
of Defense Mobilization more than 11,118,000 centimeters of gamma
globulin by the end of 1954. The organization will continue to make
available approximately one million centimeters annually after that date
through fractionation of plasma derived from blood that becomes out-
dated or otherwise not suitable for use as whole blood in its civilian pro-
gram
Everyone's help is needed to support the Red Cross in its campaign
to accomplish its tasks which "are almost overwhelming in their magni-
tude todav."
slueen of slueens
Gene RomoJo
You, who rule the realm of home
By patience, love, and piety,
Wear the crown of womanhood
With loyal grace most regally;
Of all who reign upon the earth,
You are queen of queens in \crity.
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^ixtij LJears J/Tgo
c
Kxcerpts F'roni the Woman's Exponent, March i, and March 15, 1894
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of thi:
Women of All Nations"
A PARTY FOR JANE S. RICHARDS: One of the most pleasant evenings of
the season was spent at the residence of Apostle Franklin D. Richards January 21st,
1894, it being the 71st Anniversary of the birth of the Apostle's beloved wife and our
esteemed friend, Jane S. Richards. At 7:30 p.m. their spacious rooms were crowded
with smiling faces, each one being anxious to extend congratulations and heartfelt
wishes for many happy returns of the day .... The amiable lady was taken by storm;
shaken and embraced without consent. No mercy was shown, everyone seeming to
think they had a perfect right to a birthday kiss and a shake of the dear hand ....
— E. B. W.
OVERWORKED
But after the strife and the weary tussle,
When life is done, and she lies at rest,
The nation's brain and heart and muscle —
Her sons and daughters — shall call her blest;
And I think the sweetest joy of heaven.
The rarest bliss of eternal life,
And the fairest crown of all will be given
Unto the wayworn farmer's wife ....
— Ella Wheeler Wilcox
A PLEA FOR MORE KINDNESS AMONG WOMEN: To every woman whose
eyes these words may reach, I would say: Be kind to your own sex. Would that my
voice could reach the farthest ends of the earth when I write ''Women why so unkind
to each other?" We see it every day in every position and avenue of life — on the
street, in the stores, on the cars and even in the Churches .... I tell you my Sister
Woman it is not the opposite sex whose words slash us, it is our own petty feelings
and glib tongues .... And shall we not try to be more loving, more charitable? We
are made of one clay, children of one Father, with common hopes and aspirations.
— Alta Witbeck
DEATH OF A GREAT ACTRESS: Mme. Elise Hwasser, who died recently, was
for forty years the greatest Swedish actress. Mme. Hwasser delineated the heroines in
Ibsen's dramas, and also played the leading Shakesperian roles. She retired to private
life in 1888. —Selected
RELIEF SOCIETY MEETING IN THE FOURTEENTH WARD, SALT
LAKE CITY: President M. I. Home, presiding . . . spoke of a Psalm of David,
which speaks of the people coming to a wilderness, of the many blessings here re-
ceived. President Zina D. H. Young said, "Faithfulness to the gospel will make men
and women free." Spoke of the temple, said every stone is a freewill offering of the
saints. "Think of it, sisters, a temple where God and heavenly beings can come. Think
of our young ladies, hear them speak and testify . . . full of the Gospel, full of intelli-
gence." — Lydia D. Alder, Act. See.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
pOLLOWING are some of the
highhghts of the past year 1953,
of particular interest and concern to
women.
Forty-four out of forty-eight states
have women legislators.
According to the Metropolitan
Life Insurance Company, the mar-
riage rate in the United States for
1953 fell to the lowest point in
twenty years. However, the rate of
live births was higher than ever be-
fore in our country.
Scotland's Earl of Home rebuked
working mothers for the increased
rate of juvenile delinquency.
According to a ''Study in Human
Starvation," two thirds of the world
has to subsist on a deficient diet; yet
there is plenty of food in the world
for all.
A CCORDING to a study of 1303
women workers by the Wom-
en's Bureau of the Department of
Labor, those of fifty years and older
had fewer absences because of ill-
ness than any other group.
pROVO-born lieutenant governor
of California, Goodwin Knight,
became governor when the ex-gov-
ernor, Earl Warren, assumed the
duties of Chief Justice of the Su-
preme Court of the United States.
Since he is a widower, heavy social
responsibilities will rest upon his
two daughters, Marilyn, twenty-six,
(Mrs. Robert Eaton) and Carolyn,
twenty, still attending college.
jyjRS. MARCUS (Caroline Jo-
sephine Ballantyne) FARR,
ninety-two, died in January. She
was the last surviving member of
the family of Richard Ballantyne,
organizer of the Sunday Schools of
the Church.
gIRTHDAY congratulations arc
extended to Mrs. Melissa Ann
Wells Dial of Willard, Utah, nine-
ty-eight, Mrs. Roxie Cutright, Boise,
Idaho, ninety-three; Mrs. Nan S.
Richardson and Mrs. Margaret Ho-
mer Earl, Salt Lake City, ninety-
two; Karen Petersen Andersen,
Sandy, Utah, ninety-one; and Mrs.
Ann Eliza Allen Coombs of Center-
ville, ninety.
jyilSS JEANETTE JANVRIN
won a trip to the United
States and Canada for capturing the
title of Great Britain's ''Perfect Sec-
retary." She says an ideal secretary
should have a pleasing appearance
and a personality which combines
efficiency with tact and warmth;
also a retentive memory for faces,
facts, and appointments important
to her employer.
Page 169
EDITORIAL
VOL. 41
MARCH 1954
NO. 3
cJhe JLifehlood of uXeuef Societii
'T^HE gospel opens to man the
portals of eternal life; and in
the gospel plan each individual has
opportunities offered to him, the ac-
complishment of which will help
him gain eternal life for himself.
When the gospel was not on the
earth, woman, in the eyes of law
became a mere chattel. With the
restoration of the gospel in 1830, she
was recognized again in her rightful
position, and less than twelve years
later, the Prophet Joseph Smith
turned the key in her behalf in the
name of the Lord, and promised
that knowledge and intelligence
should flow down from that time
henceforth.
In March 1842, in commenting
on the establishment of Relief So-
ciety, the Prophet wrote in his his-
tory: ''Our women have always been
signalized for their acts of benevo-
lence and kindness; but the cruel
usage that they received from the
barbarians of Missouri, has hitherto
prevented their extending the hand
of charity in a conspicuous manner;
yet in the midst of their persecution,
when the bread has been torn from
their helpless offspring by their cruel
oppressors, they have always been
ready to open their doors to the
weary traveler, to divide their scant
pittance with the hungry, and from
their robbed and impoverished ward-
robes, to divide with the more needy
and destitute; and now that they are
living upon a more genial soil, and
among a less barbarous people, and
possess facilities that they have not
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heretofore enjoyed, we feel con-
vinced that with their concentrated
efforts, the condition of the suffer-
ing poor, of the stranger and the
fatherless will be ameliorated" (D.
H. CIV, pp. 567-568).
The great majority of Relief So-
ciety members today live "upon a
more genial soil," and the conditions
have resulted in greatly ameliorating
the suffering of the unfortunate.
Countless are the acts of unselfish
devotion of these Relief Society
women.
But as the one hundred twelfth
anniversary of the Relief Society is
observed on March 17, 1954, let a
prayer be voiced, silent or vocal, for
the plight of Relief Society sisters
who today are living under condi-
tions reminiscent of the descrip-
tion of the suffering of the saints
in Missouri.
In these days bread has been torn
from helpless offspring; wardrobes
have been robbed and impoverished
so that no coverings remain to en-
fold the dead or the newborn; the
old are left to die; the young are
taken from their mothers for hours
daily so mothers can leave home to
do the work of men side by side
with men.
Yet, in spite of persecution, re-
ports reach the general board tell-
ing of the unnumbered acts of
heroism— "the concentrated efforts"
performed by the sisters of Relief
Society under such cruel usage. At
the peril of imprisonment and
death. Relief Society sisters perform
EDITORIAL ^7^
the tasks for which Relief Society home life and richer living. The life-
was divinely established. And they blood of Relief Society is the solicit-
will be rewarded according to the ous, loving action which flows from
words of the Savior: "Inasmuch as the individual member to a person
ye have done it unto one of the least in distress, either material or spiritual
of these my brethren, ye have done distress; and these individual streams
it unto me. of mercy, concentrated, bring life to
The heartblood of Relief Society the whole body of Relief Society en-
is not its cultural and homemaking circhng the globe,
activities, vital as thev are to better — M. C. S.
uielief Society
Elsie Scott
In every woman's heart there hes enshrined
The need to love and help mankind.
And surely we the women of this latter day
Are doubly blessed, for God has shown the way
And through his chosen servants here on earth
His voice is heard.
He guides, directs in everything we do —
The teachers, visiting homes, taking a message tnic
The charity that faileth not.
To help the sick, the sad, and all who need.
And while we do this work
The Lord is waiting, quick to bless
That we may gain a greater happiness.
jTiinoancing the Special J/Lpnl Short Story SJssue
'pHE April 1954 issue of The Relief Society Magazine will be the special
short story number, with four outstanding stories being presented.
Look for these stories in April:
'The Best Years of Her Life," by Pansye H. Powell
"What It Takes," by Kay Islaub
"Second Best," by Blanche Sutherland
"The Part-Time Heart," by Hannah Smith
TO THE FIELD
fey rganizat tons and LKeorganizations of Q!>take
ana ll Lission Uxeuef Societies for ig^S
ORGANIZATIONS
Stakes
Butte
Calgary
Cannon
Dallas
Houston
Klamath
Layton
North Pocatello
North Tooele
Salmon River
Missions
Foimeih Part of Appointed President Date Appointed
Brazilian
Chinese
East Central States
East German
French
Great Lakes
Japanese
Mexican
Spanish -American
Tahiti
Texas-Louisiana
West Central States
VN^est German
Page 172
West Central States
Mission
Lethbridge and East
Lethbridge Stakes
Pioneer Stake
Texas-Louisiana
Mission
Texas-Louisiana
Mission
Northern California
Mission
North Davis Stake
Pocatello Stake
Tooele Stake
Lost River Stake
Gretta L. Karren
Freda Kenney
Mabel H. Miller
Allene Bremer
Sadie Ollorton Clark
Mae Belle Nielson
Oma E. Wilcox
Bertha M. Pieper
Leona P. Boyce
Elizabeth G. Hoggan
June 28, 1953
November 15, 1953
March 1, 1953
October 18, 1953
October 11, 1953
March 22, 1953
January 25, 1953
June 21, 1953
March 29, 1953
October 18, 1953
REORGANIZATIONS
Released President Appointed President Date Appointed
Mary P. Howells
Hazel M. Robertson
Edna H. Matheson
Lena W. Glaus
Beth C. Woolf
Ella C. Burton
Ethel L. Mauss
Kate B. Mecham
Ivie Huish Jones
Vilate B. Pearce
Leone R. Bowring
Reta F. Broadbent
Luella W. Cannon
Lorene M. Sorensen
Mission Closed,
Transferred to
San Francisco Stake
Adriana M. Zappey
Mary Ethel E.
Gregory
Rachael L. Lee
Florence H. Richards
Hazel M. Robertson
Jennie S. R. Bowman
EflFie Nina N.
Bowman
Frankie G. Orton
Phyllis D. Smith
Marteal W. Hend
ricks
Bernice O. Dyer
October 6, 1953
December 31, 1952
October 8, 1953
October 20, 1953
June 27, 1953
June 11, 1953
September 10, 1953
June 18, 1953
December 4, 1953
February 6, 1953
November 20, 1953
November 19, 1953
October 29, 1953
NOTES TO THE FIELD
173
Stakes
Beaver
Bonneville
Cassia
Cedar
Chicago
East Lethbridge
Emigration
Franklin
Gooding
Humboldt
Hyrum
Idaho Falls
Kanab
Layton
Lethbridge
Liberty
Long Beach
Mill Creek
Monument Park
North Carbon
North Davis
North Weber
Parowan
Pioneer
Reno
Snowflake
South Idaho Falls
South Sanpete
Tooele
Union
Uvada
Wasatch
West Utah
Yellowstone
Young
Zion Park
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liocturne
Grace Barker Wilson
A sudden silence always falls with dark
Upon the desert where the daytime wind
Blows noisily through sagebrush and mesqnite
In a strange dissonance of music, stark
And urgent. Night comes down, soft-moccasined,
And makes a muted harmony complete.
''m^-:Al.
Don Knight
MAROON LAKE, NEAR ASPEN, COLORADO
(bunnse on (^liff lliountain
Gertrude T. Kovan
Between two mighty mountains
An ancient cliff towers high.
Its dim peaks and sharp edges,
Reach far into the sky.
When night comes, first ascending
Long valleys far below,
Sometimes the light still Hngers,
A faint, rose-colored glow.
But ohl to watch Cliff Mountain
In the bleak and early dawn
As the first, faint tints of sunrise
Break through mists of darkness gone!
I watch this magic stirring
Across each crevassed peak.
And I know that higher than Cliff Mountain
Are the answers that I seek.
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Heritage
Mildred Garrett Enos
4 4-1 ^ AIL, Mommie/' Kathie's
I y I blond braids gleamed as
she laid the packet of
mail on the table.
Looking down, Beth saw a yel-
low envelope protruding from un-
der a magazine. Her heart skipped
a beat. Telegrams were few here
at Twin Knolls Ranch. Her hand
trembled as she ripped it open, her
throat was dry.
At first disbelief, then relief and
joy filled her being.
''Kathie!" she swept her daughter
into her arms and kissed her sound-
ly. "Margaret Marie is coming!
She's coming here to visit us!"
She swung Kathie around in a lit-
tle dance, knocking the butter pad-
dle to the floor. And then, because
the words were joyful to her tongue,
she repeated, ''Margaret Marie is
coming!"
**Is she my grandma?" Kathie
asked with interest, firmly believing
that only grandmas and grandpas
were occasions of such joy.
Beth kissed her again, laughing.
''No, pet, she isn't anyone's grand-
ma." And then she sobered. "She's
just about the most wonderful
friend I've ever had. She lives in
a country called England way across
the ocean in a great wonderful
house just filled with oil paintings
and piles of silver that have been
in her family for generations." Beth
paused for a moment, remember-
ing. "But bad times came to her
country, and Margaret Marie started
teaching to help out. She liked it,
so she still teaches."
Kathie brightened. School was a
warm subject to her. "Can I play
my school record again, Mommie?"
she asked. "The one where the
teacher has school?"
"Again? Oh, dear, Kathie!" And
then she reconsidered. "All right,
love, all the way through two
times!"
Kathie scampered away, and Beth
picked up the butter paddle, her
words to Kathie still lingering in her
mind. Oil paintings and piles of
silver. She looked at the worn
wooden paddle that had been in
her own family for years. And some
of the joyful anticipation of the
coming visit began to seep away.
She rinsed the paddle under the
faucet and attacked the bowl of yel-
low butter vigorously, a thoughtful
expression on her face.
Later, with Kathie out to play and
the baby down for a nap, Beth
escaped to the back bedroom and
pulled her big trunk out of the
closet and dumped the contents in
the middle of the floor.
Family heirlooms! She began to
sort them. A quilt that it was ru-
mored had been Grandmother Wil-
son's pride and joy. The only pret-
ty thing in her bare little home.
Beth sighed. It was certainly worn
to tatters now, as were the yellowed
baby clothes. There was a frail
book of poems, a cracked, white
crockery tureen. Truly, the west-
ward-bound wagons and handcarts
had spared no room for family
treasures.
If only I had something, Beth
thought desperately. She laid her
head on a corner of the trunk while
Great-Grandmother Curtis' voice
came back to her . . .
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''And there I was with my moth-
er's china that I had managed to
bring all the way across the ocean
with me. And Fred said it was
either the china, or the box of seeds
and cuttings couldn't go West, so
I gave the china to a neighbor that
had been right kind to us. She gave
me a side of bacon and a bag of
white pea seed for it."
Side bacon and white pea seed!
Beth felt like crying as she dumped
the stuff back into the trunk.
CHE had devised a plan of sorts
by the time Kirby came home
for lunch, and so intent was she on
it that she missed her usual pleas-
ure in his comforting masculine
presence.
''Margaret Marie is coming for a
visit, Kirby," she told him as he
kissed her.
His eyes lighted with pleasure.
"No! When?"
"Day after tomorrow."
"How did she manage?" he
asked with interest.
"Exchange teacher," Beth replied.
"She's simply thrilled. Says she can
visit five days before she'll have to
assume her duties."
"That's fine," Kirby said. "Give
you girls time to catch up on the
six years since you were an ex-
change student in England." He
grinned. "After all, since then
you've acquired a husband, a five-
year-old daughter, a son with a defi-
nite will of his own, and a rundown,
poorly stocked ranch, with a view!"
They both glanced toward the
west wall of the dining room.
Through the wide expanse of the
newly installed window, the two
peaks of Twin Knolls Mountain
rose in silent majesty in the dis-
tance.
But somehow it didn't look quite
as wonderful to Beth as it had just
yesterday. Instead, she noted with
dissatisfaction the old - fashioned
round dining table set for lunch
with the plain white plates and the
dime-store silver. Only it wasn't
silver. Not even the plated kind.
Just plain, stainless steel.
A picture of the dining room in
Margaret Marie's house rose in her
mind. Wide-beamed ceiling, pol-
ished sideboard, gleaming silver.
She took a deep breath for courage
and asked urgently, "Kirby, remem-
ber the sterling pattern we selected
the week of our honeymoon?"
"Sure do," he replied. He lifted
a lid on the pot. "What's for
lunch?"
Beth swallowed with difficulty.
She had a wild urge to dump the
pot, bottom up, over his head.
"Do you suppose," she asked in
an even voice, "we could afford to
start us a set now?" At the look on
his face she added rapidly, "Just the
most basic pieces, Kirby, knives and
forks and spoons!"
He sensed the urgency in her
voice and looked at her sharply.
"Beth," he said gently as he slipped
an arm around her waist. She felt
his regret even before he finished.
"The big window and the drapes
just about did it for us till we har-
vest again next year."
Something in her heart refused
defeat. ''Are we always that broke?"
she asked in bitter rebellion, and
hated herself for the hurt in his
eyes.
"Yes," he answered briefly.
OETH swallowed again. "There
are other ways," she said des-
perately, "monthly payments are
available on items of that sort!"
HERITAGE
"We're just getting started,
Beth," he rephed quietly. "There
are so many things. The children
to provide for, stock to feed, pay-
ments on the truck."
She turned away in defeat. But
the hurt and the desire stayed with
her all afternoon, and the next day.
As she moved about her self imposed
tasks, she kept seemg the house
through Margaret's eyes as she
waxed and polished and baked.
And, added to that, was the burden
of her coolness to Kirby.
He offered to drive her to the
train two hours early next day.
"Give you time to shop for any
extras you might need in the way
of food," he said.
Beth was grateful but unappeased.
He's trying to make it up to me,
she thought sadly, but he just
doesn't understand!
In front of the grocery he op-
ened the door for her. 'Til ride
the children while you shop," he
said, "pick you up in plenty of
time."
"All right, Kirby," she said.
Next door to the grocery was a
jewelry store. In spite of herself,
Beth's eyes turned to the window as
she passed. A display of silver,
shiningly beautiful, met her gaze.
It won't hurt just to look, she
told herself desperately, and a mo-
ment later she stood before the long
glass case.
"Isn't it beautiful?" the woman
clerk asked, smiling at her.
"Yes," Beth replied. She wet her
lips. "Could I see that pattern
please?"
The clerk laid it before her. The
knives and forks, the iced beverage
spoons, the salad forks, and serving
pieces. A dazzling assortment.
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Beth looked at the pieces hung-
rily, like a child with her nose to
a window, she thought.
"It's so easy to own," the clerk
encouraged, "nine or ten dollars a
month is all."
Beth hesitated. "I'm not sure m\
husband would approve," she stam-
mered.
"Some women even manage out
of their grocery allowance," the
woman said, watching her.
Beth looked at the pieces again.
Nine or ten dollars a month, she
thought. Could I manage it?
And then she went cold with
horror. What am I considering?
she thought frantically. She
dropped the piece she was holding.
"My husband and I have to approve
these things together," she said
firmly, and, turning, she fled ....
nPHE house has never looked so
sad and neglected, Beth thought
as they reached home. Odd that she
had been able to see so many possi-
bilities in the place when she and
Kirby had first looked at it.
The first flush of young love, she
thought, with the back of her mind
as she took Margaret Marie's wraps.
"Kirby will bring your bags," she
said, "and you can clean up. In
the meantime I'll fix us a tray. I
know you must be starved!"
"Oh, Mommie!" Kathie cried,
"I want Margaret Marie to listen to
my school record!"
"Later, Kathie," Beth said, and
escaped to the kitchen.
She did a beautiful job with the
tray. Embroidered napkins, hot
buns, and a pat of butter, white-
clover honey, and slices of cheese,
a large bowl of fruit. At least the
food is bountiful, she thought.
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Vaguely she heard the record player skies, for amber waves of grain, for
start playing Kathie's school record, purple mountain majesties above the
She picked up the finished tray fruited plain . . . ."
and started for the dining room. At And there it was before Beth's
the door she stopped. Margaret stinging eyes, the heritage her peo-
Marie was standing in front of the pie had left her! She bowed her
new window looking outward. The head. 'Torgive me," she whispered,
valley stretched away westward in a ''forgive me! I forgot that a herit-
panorama of contrast. Harvested age isn't always inside the house!"
fields, a grazing flock of sheep, roll- The door opened and Kirby came
ing orchard slopes, and the tall spire in. Across the room his eyes met
of the ward church reaching up- Beth's. She looked back until the
ward toward the infinite. And tlie look became one of their very spec-
whole overshadowed by the tower- ial ones. And her heart relaxed,
ing mountain peaks .... There would never have to be fur-
In the background Kathie's record ther words, or explanations,
reached the second half: "And now. She moved forward again as the
children," said the recorded voice, song ended, and Margaret Marie
'we will all stand and sing." And the turned from the window, her own
childish voices began the song that eyes filled with tears. "My dear,
is the special property of every niy dear!" she said. And reaching
country-loving American. out she took the heavily laden tray
". . . Oh, beautiful for spacious from Beth's proud hands.
c/or Vi/mch the ofirst Viyas 1 1 Lade
Christie Lund Coles
The fruit-fair flesh nature had clothed her in,
Delicate as glass, supple to the touch,
Has wrinkled with the years, grown parchment thin,
And withered as an apple dried too much.
Her step so laughter-quick, her hand so firm.
Are slowed and weakened by the rushing tide
Of years that moved and passed, serving their term,
Leaving her with the age her heart denied,
And her eyes, too, that kept light from flame
Of what she was once, beautiful and young.
Though now, more than before, they speak a part
Of her too long, too thoughtlessly unsung.
Now, when vanity and youth's mask are gone,
We see her spirit's proud, clear echelon.
Old Quilts
Veima Mackay PauJ
SOMEONE has said that the wooden pegs. They built huge
American quilt can be a docu- outdoor ovens for baking and in-
ment of American life A list door fireplaces of stone and mud.
1 ^-^^'J^'r^ ^^ T"^"' 1^"!'' They built their own wagons and
tn^nf TJ^^- '""'f *^' sleds and made their harnesses from
rend of the times socially, re- ^he leather of animals. They not
Tf?; , r^^'r"^- • . . ^-ly -^de everything they ^used,
Be ore artistic designing found they used everything they made,
its place m quiltmaking, quiJtmg .L, , ^ ^ . , i- •, ,
Itself was a necessity, and necessity . Where homes were established
always has been the mother of in- ^Y ""^^ 1^'^ V u^ \™ ^^^K""^
vention. For centuries, the people '*,™P5 ^^^ underbrush, and they
of the cold countries of Siberia, P^°^'^ ^"^ P^'"*'^ ^^^'' ^^^P^'
Manchuria, Northern Tibet, and ^^e women dug from their own
other lands of similar climate, wore ^^^^ ^^^Y ^"^ ^^^^ pottery, milk
padded clothing for warmth. Coarse P^^^' ^^^^^^ ^"^ ^^^" crocks, and
wool from the animals was tied be- ^^^^^ i^S^- ^^ey built kilns and
tween layers of cloth and made ^^^^ *^^|^ w^^^-
into clothing. From this primitive ^11 this— and families too! Large
quilting, de\eloped through the families, and they clothed them
ages, we have taken-for-granted with cloth from their own looms
quilted articles used in every home ^^d spinning wheels, and shod
and establishment today. them with hides of animals. It is
Centuries ago, the Crusaders re- because they endured great hard-
turned from the Far East with elab- ships and made untold sacrifices,
orate specimens of needlework, ap- our courageous forefathers were
plique, embroidery, and quilting, able to establish a foothold in a
Soon it began to appear in outer new world and lay the foundation
finery, royal furnishings, and church for our present-day security and
vestments. happiness.
It was, however, when the Pil- Parties were few in the old days,
grims, beginning a fresh life in a They grew out of necessary gather-
new country, were faced with the ings, such as a barn raising, making
problem of producing everything apple butter, or a quilting party,
they owned, that the art of bed- When a farmer needed a barn or
quilt-making really began. a new house, he assembled his ma-
They literally carved their homes terials bit by bit. On a fixed day,
out of the forest. Farm lands were his neighbors and friends came to
cleared of stones, which were used help him build the structure, and
to build barns and houses, and it was usually finished by nightfall,
piled along border lines for fences. They brought their whole families;
They built furniture from the tim- little girls minded the babies, little
ber, which was also their only fuel, boys worked with their elders. No
Having no iron nails, they used one was idle.
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The families brought with them
enormous baskets of food, and the
women spread long tables and
cooked hot food over the fires.
These were bright days in the some-
what drab lives of the women, and
they made the most of the occasion.
They imparted news and friendly
gossip and received it in return.
Conversation ran from personal
items to new dyes for wool and new
style rag rugs. They exchanged
recipes and home remedies for the
sick. Herbs and brews played an
important part in their lives, and
they often exchanged herbs from
their gardens as well as flower seeds.
npHE young girls exchanged patch-
es of calico and lovely paisley,
or chintzes of figured brown and
pink and minutely flowered prints.
Few materials of this kind had
found their way to America, and
every inch was treasured. They also
exchanged finished squares for
quilts, either pieced or appliqued,
and many cross-stitched their names
and the date on their patches.
When enough were exchanged
(usually twenty-five) a hopeful
young lady could sew her patches
together. At the next quilting bee,
she could have her "top" quilted,
and when it was completed, she
proudly laid it in her dower chest.
It would be a treasured keepsake,
for each patch had been designed
and stitched by the hands of a lov-
ing friend.
All quilts were not so beautifully
conceived. It was before the day
of woven blankets, and bedding was
a dire necessity. All old pieces, as
well as new, had to be saved for
their use. Faded material was dyed,
and the wool had to be washed and
carded by hand, and laid in straight,
neat piles. Never was a scrap of
anything wasted. When a quilt
was worn out, it was re-covered,
and new warmness and color were
added. The popularity of the old
''crazy patch" was due to the fact
that anything of any size, shape, or
material, could be used. The irregu-
larity of patches and color grew ar-
tistic and soft, as the maker out-
lined the gay patches with fancy
featherstitching and embroidered
birds and flowers on the plainer
ones.
Thus, by spinning the flax, card-
ing the wool, weaving materials, and
making quilts, pioneer women cre-
ated with their own- hands the
beautiful things they longed for in
their hearts.
Quilts are of two principal types,
pieced or appliqued. The common-
est are the pieced or patched, be-
cause one can utilize scraps— and the
designing of only one patch is
necessary. The rest are repetitious.
An appliqued quilt is more elab-
orate, and requires more careful
planning for color and design. Each
block may be a different design,
but must remain in balance. Best
of all, an appliqued quilt allows an
expression of ideas impossible in a
pieced one.
r\F all the quilts I have had the
privilege of photographing for
magazines, the most beautiful, un-
usual, and elaborate is one made in
1829 for the late Reverend Vinton
of Maryland. It is now in the pos-
session of his great-great-grandson's
family. It is in its fifth generation
and is in perfect condition. This
quilt deserves special comment.
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181
PLATE 1
When the Reverend Vinton re-
signed his charge, the Ladies Aid or
Women's Society of the church,
presented him with this quilt. Each
patch is signed with the maker's
name, and the entire quilt is ap-
pliqued in the most elaborate de-
signs. The coloring is magnificent.
The center block is his church.
Even the shades and brickwork are
appliqued. The tree behind the
church has birds in its branches.
To the left of the church, is a
floral arrangement with easily eight
shades of coloring. A finely print-
ed brown material was used for the
dove which holds the Holy Bible.
The minister's name is also ap-
pliqued on the book. To the right
of the church is a patch work con-
taining a wreath and his prayer book.
It, too, bears his name. The patch
above the church has a pleasing
wreath and a dove of peace, while
below the church is a bowl of fruit.
The pears are yellow and cream, the
apple red, grapes blue, and a sec-
ond bunch of something is red. The
object that resembles a football is
a watermelon with a slice out. The
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black seeds are appliqued on the
pink surface. To the right of that
patch is another made up of symbols,
possibly of his lodge. A "seeing
eye" is between two arrows. At
the bottom of the wreath is an
hourglass, above it an arrow, three
rings, and something else. In the
center of the wreath is a shield,
with a heart on which is an open
hand, or palm. An eagle stands on
a pedestal facing an owl perched
on seven stars and a crescent. The
right half of this wreath is of brown
acorns and small green oak leaves,
the left side is of red berries and
green leaves. Elaborate plants,
wreaths, etc., make up the rest of
the quilt, and a beautiful border
encompasses the entire quilt. It
was undoubtedly used on a large
poster bed, for it measures three
yards each way.
TN the Art Institute of Chicago,
is a magnificent quilt called the
Circuit Rider's Quilt, made some-
where in the Midwest. Entirely in
PLATE 2
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183
applique, it was made, in 1862, for
the courageous preacher who made
the one-hundred-mile circuit to vis-
it his widely scattered parishoners
in six communities. Forty women
of the United Brethren Church
made the forty-two blocks, only five
of which are alike. They are floral
wreaths, rose clusters, grapes^ tulips,
ferns, leaves, berries, and geometric
designs. The center is a shield of
our own American flag. This one
quilt alone records the days of the
traveling minister and the simple
faith of the country people.
A very old popular pattern is
shown in Plate 2. It was made over
eighty years ago, and is called the
Four Winds, and sometimes the
Princess Feather. The plumes alter-
nate in color, dark green and dark
red, the center being orange. As
often happens, one swirl was laid
out in the opposite direction (up-
per right) and probably not noticed
until too late. However, it is not
too noticeable, because of the bril-
liant coloring and the fine feather
quilting.
Plate 3 is a good example of an
PLATE 3
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PLATE 4
early pieced quilt. It is called the
Irish Chain. Only two colors were
used with white, a deep figured red
for the center block throughout,
and a figured green for the outer
blocks. The quilting is in very
fine squares of no more than one
inch.
Plate 4 is an example of beau-
ty, skill, and fine workmanship. A
figured red and yellow was used
for the center of each tulip, and
solid red for their sides. Solid
green was used for the leaves, and
border. It is entirely appliqued,
and the quilting is in squares of one
half inch. Skill was required in ar-
ranging the pattern, since each
motif is not on separate squares
that could be sewn together. In
this case, the maker appliqued her
pattern on nine squares of white
muslin, each eighteen inches square.
Sewn together, it made a piece one
and one half yards each way. She
then appliqued the four inner mo-
tifs around the center one on the
muslin already sewn together, and
"dovetailed" her patterns. Twelve
single tulips, facing in, were ap-
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185
pliqued around and completed the
pattern. The border of tuhps and
running band of green is twelve in-
ches wide, making the entire quilt
two yards and six inches square.
The background quilting is in one-
fourth inch squares, and the tulips
and leaves are quilted around. On
an applique quilt, no quilting
should be on any of the pattern.
Otherwise, the pattern could not
stand out.
Plate 5 shows a one-hundred-
year-old quilt of four patches, each
one yard square with a six inch
border. The flowers are shaded
from shell pink to turkey red, with
green leaves and stems.
Plate 6 is another four-patch
quilt, with a red strip around the
border to match the solid red cen-
ter of each. The leaves are solid
green. The quilting, which did not
photograph well, is really elabor-
ate.
TT is interesting in old quilts to
find the similarity of designs. In
Plate 1, for instance, the top center
block is very similar to one called the
eight-pointed star. In the same
PLATE 5
PLATE 6
plate, the second from the top on
the left is exactly like the one in
The President's Wreath. It has
been popular for the past hundred
years.
There is no end to names for
quilts. The following I have gath-
ered from country sales, museums,
and stories on quilts. The very
same may have different names in
different parts of the country. They
include: the Log Cabin, the Mill
Wheel, Princess Feather, Oak Leaf
and Tulip, Fox and Geese, Hen
and Chickens, Grandma's Flower
Garden, Indian Trail, Barn Raising,
Variable Star, Evening Star, Star
of Bethlehem, Pin Wheel, Bear's
Paw, World Without End, Dutch-
man's Puzzle, Chimney Sweep,
Dolly Madison Star, Rocky Glen,
Confederate Rose, Covered Wag-
on, Cross and Crown, Jacob's Coat,
Rose of Sharon, Rob Peter and Pay
Paul, Doves in the Window, the
Drunkard's Path, the Wheel of
Fortune, Double Wedding Ring,
Soldiers Return, and many, many
more.
Wilderness Road
Willard Luce
TFIERE are many little roads
in Utah. They twist among
the aspens and the pine and
the fir. They crawl along the face
of the mountains, looking down
into the valleys and deserts. They
wind through the sand, among the
yucca and prickly pear. They drop
into the deep, magnificent gorge of
the Colorado River and creep be-
tween the twisting river and the red
sandstone ledges a thousand feet
high.
One of the most interesting of
these is the Hite road. It climbs
the plateaus from Richfield on
Highway 89 and winds down into
the flame-colored gorges. Part of
this road is so new that it is not
shown on many maps. Part of it is
very old and traverses ancient In-
dian trails. Part of it climbs up over
8,000 feet, where the heavy snows
keep it buried until late spring. Part
of it drops down to 3,400 feet, and
crosses the Colorado by ferry at
Hite in the upper reaches of Glen
Canyon near the mouth of Tra-
chyte Creek, a northern tributary.
Figs and pomegranates and other
semi-tropical fruits arc raised here
in a remote and sequestered paradise.
Willnrd Luce
MRS. ARTHUR CHAKI'IN RUNS THE FF.RRY A
ON THE COLORADO
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WILDERNESS ROAD
187
Hite is the best known ford, and
the only practical crossing for auto-
mobiles, along that lonely and peril-
ous stretch of river between Navajo
Bridge over Marble Canyon in
northern Arizona, and Moab in
eastern Utah. And, although far
from a straight line, it is the short-
est distance between Capitol Reef,
near Fruita, and the Natural Bridges
National Monument, some forty-
seven miles from Blanding in the
southeastern corner of Utah.
According to Western definition,
a reef is an upthrust area with a cliff
face; and that's a pretty good de-
scription of Capitol Reef National
Monument. The roadway follows
along the base of the craggy reef,
switching back and forth down a
dry stream bed. It climbs up past
the Chimney Rock, and on up to
the edge of Mummy Cliff; then it
drops back down again.
At the bottom is Fruita, a small
farming community in the heart of
the Monument. The green of its
fields and orchards makes a sharp
contrast to the red sandstone ledges.
In spring the peach and cherry and
apricot blossoms offer an unforget-
table sight against the green fields
and red ledges.
Six miles farther on, the road
enters Capitol Gorge. Here huge
sandstone chffs rise 1200 feet on
either side of the chasm, which
twists and turns, and finally squeez-
es down to The Narrows. In this
shadowed place the gorge is only
eighteen feet wide, but the ledges
still rise a thousand feet in the air.
The road and the dry stream bed
are one and the same, an excellent
place not to be during a flash flood!
AT Hanksville, the last town in
this wilderness, the road turns
south for several miles before swing-
ing back towards the east and drop-
ping down into North Wash. Down
the wash, the road is rough. It
crosses and recrosses the alkali-filled
and cottonwood-lined watercourse.
It bounces over the top of water-
rounded stones, and wiggles through
sand-filled stretches. And always it
drops lower and lower, until it
finally comes out onto the banks of
the Colorado River, where the ele-
vation is only 3,400 feet.
The seven-mile drive downriver
between the cliffs and the stream is
a breath-taking experience, with the
canyon walls swinging in to crowd
against the river, then retreating.
The willows and the tamarisk hug
the water's edge, while the desert
primrose and prickly pear blossom
on the rocky hillsides. It's an in-
tensely colored country, a rugged,
contrasting country.
The Hite ferry is a toll ferry, a
wooden barge propelled by a gaso-
line engine. The great river at flood
tide is 640 feet across, and its south-
east brink is surmounted on the
southeast side by an ancient stone
fortress, standing aloof and lonely
above the river. The ferry, in use
all the year around, has been oper-
ated at times by a woman— Mrs.
Arthur Chaffin— an expert at guid-
ing the heavy barge which carries
dozens of trucks and cars across the
river every day.
After leaving the ferry the road
climbs upwards again and crosses
the rugged and mysterious White
Canyon country forty-two miles to
the Natural Bridges National Mon-
ument. In the Monument there
are three large and picturesque nat-
WILDERNESS ROAD 189
ural bridges set roughly in a triangle, for the Capitol Building in Wash-
three miles apart, thus making a ington, D. C.
nine-mile hike in order to see them ^^^^ ^^^ bridges the road climbs
all Besides the bridges, in this ^ ^^j ^ the strange moun-
lofty chasm country, there are re- ^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^le Bear's Ears,
mote and protected Indian ruins, ^^^ ^^ ^^^^ eu, Mountain, across
ancient petroglyphs, and wonderful ^ ^^^^^^ ^^ Blanding and Utah
scenery majestic in its loneliness Highway 47
and isolation— reaches of rnckscape & ; ^/•
which even yet have not been com. It's a good dirt road, this wilder-
pletelv explored ^^ss road, but one not to be taken
The Owachomo natural bridge is ^" ^?^ v^eathtx. It is best in any
only a short distance from the road, ^^^her to take along extra water
and is by far the best known of the ^^^^^ bedding, gas and patching and
three. The Sipapu, however, is ^^P^"; materials for tires. It is a
larger and more impressive, reveal- ^^^g^ ^^'^'^ I'^f^^ ^^*^ ^^"^^^^
ing the patient work of winds and grandeur-a road full of adventure,
water over the long centuries. It stark beauty, and many surprises,
has a span of 261 feet and arches 22 Respect this road for what it is,
feet above the canyon floor. There and you'll have a once-in-a-lifetime
is enough space beneath the bridge trip.
Photograph on opposite page: The Narrows, Capitol Gorge, Capitol Reef National
Monument, Utah. Photograph by Willard Luce.
» ^ «
Seen Jtfter cJkese c/mngs
(Verses for The Relief Society Magazine)
Rhea M. CarricI:
Oh, little book, within your cover lies
The truths of heaven bared before our eyes.
There are beauties of earth and of the skies;
The love of friends and happy family ties.
Upon each page, some gracious, helpful thought —
In poetry or prose, it matters not —
God's plan to build a perfect life is taught;
Nor can it fail when his advice is sought.
Oh, little book, a clearer vision springs
From growth in knowledge of all lovely things.
Until the very heart itself takes wings
And, merged with sister hearts, contentment bring?
Your mission to the wodd has just begun.
You cannot falter till the race is run
And all God's children have become as one;
Content, at last to say, "Thy will be done."
My Paradise — Cowslip Hollow
Emily Wilkeison
THE sun came creeping slowly with it the pungent odor of sage-
up the far side of the deep brush and the choking, fine dust
blue mountains in the dis- from the beating of trails by many
tance, filling the lowlands with mist hard hoofs. I hugged my little
and shadow. The chill morning air lunch sack closer as the descent
tickled my nostrils until I filled down the hill into the seep lands
both lungs with the refreshing began. We slipped and slid over
breath, driving away all slumber, the bare ledge that sloped gently,
I dressed under the Balm of Gilead the weather-worn ridges affording
trees, aware only of the early morn- the beasts a toehold, then, on down
ing songs of the thousands of birds, the hillside we went, brushing
There was the plaintive call of the roughly against the trees, and now-
mourning dove that came from the and again curving about such sharp
surrounding hills. A meadow lark, turns in the trail we fairly met our-
just four yards away, sitting on the selves coming down,
top of a fence post, soloed in turn. North Hollow offered patches of
"Utah, Utah, Utah's a pretty little white and yellow clover, rich with
place!" From the willows below sweet nectar, which the bees were
the house came the great chorus of busy gathering and taking to a little
blackbirds. dark hole in a ledge to store for
As the sun peeped over the dark winter use.
hills, changing the misty pink The tall patches of wiregrass
clouds into bold golden-red, the grew thick where the courses of the
chorus mounted into a glorious cli- small streamlets came creeping out
max. Then the notes died sweetly of the ground, each, in its own turn,
away, as the birds dismissed their slithering eastward until they all
musical convention to go about united to form a little waterfall over
their daily tasks. the last two ledges. There the
The homeliness of chores about stream would run and hide again
the farm never seemed to register in the soft sand that made up the
their ugliness upon me, for my days valley below. There were the mel-
were ushered in with music. ons we had planted between the
I followed the long string of milk roots of gnarled cedar trees and
cows along the north trail. The the ledge. The little vines today
swishing of their tails, as they bat- were turning yellow. This, I knew,
tied the natural pests of cows on a was a sign there were not the right
warm summer day, kept rhythm things in the soil to raise melons,
with the clicking of their heels and By noon the cows, my pony, and
the steady ting, ting, of the bell on I had moved one more hollow to
the lead cow. the south— Cowslip Hollow, so
The heat was beginning to shim- called because of the large bed of
mer up from the earth, bringing wild cowslips that clustered about
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MY PARADISE— COWSLIP HOLLOW
191
the stream near the mouth of it.
This hollow was my paradise. In it
lived all anyone's imagination could
create. There was little Yosemite
Falls, which I used often for a
shower bath. Not far from this,
the great throne, on which one sat
and imagined herself a queen. But
best of all was the stage just below,
with its organ behind it, its choir
seats that tiered the whole hillside.
When you were standing in the
pit ready to conduct this choir, di-
rectly behind you and half a mile
across the valley, were the great red
ledges to echo and amplify the
choir.
I found a beautiful tapered wil-
low, and with this I led my choir.
I had learned to whisper, and the
soprano would whisper back. I
could, if I was careful, pitch every
part, and the choir would sing, and
then the red ledges would answer
back. The hills would come alive,
and all those seats would fill, and
we would sing, and I would thrill
from head to toe.
This day, after my choir had ren-
dered an anthem, and before the
strains had fully died away, I
turned and saw, sitting on his horse
watching me, Duchesne George.
His long black braids fell over each
shoulder, and the familiar weather-
beaten face smiled kindlv. He
nodded and pointed to the hills
above and behind me and said,
'Tou make 'em all talk, make talk
more."
I smiled and nodded. Half for-
getting my audience, I decided to
play an organ interlude. I whis-
pered, my hillside organ whispered,
and far across the valley the red
ledges whispered back. I went from
note to note, releasing all I could
remember of what the birds had
told me in the early dawn. With
the organ playing bird music, my
great choir burst into song. I stood
in my make-believe cathedral, a
master of music, a composer of
song. Again, as the last tremor of
the organ was dying away, I looked
behind me, for in my triumph I had
forgotten the gentle Indian. He
was gone. I could see him slowly
riding south on the dusty road.
The shadows of evening were
gathering; already my cathedral was
chill. I mounted my pony and
started my charges up the hill. We
pushed our way over the topmost
ridge and came through the cluster
of cedars. The Master Painter was
dipping the western sky with deep
purple and flecking it with crimson
and gold. In the east, behind us,
the cotton clouds were touched
with pink, and they floated softly
in the blue dome of the sky.
JLoneliness
Vesta N. Lukei
Without
An island shore
To edge with foam, the sea
Lies barren as a meadow with
No tree.
CA/oe Ca// JLater I Hakes uier (cywn sluiit LOestgns
Chloe Call Later, Rigby, Idaho, who recently celebrated her sixty-fourth birthday,
has designed many silk quilts and other articles of exquisite handwork. She is an
artist in free-hand design, and no two of her quilts are alike. Her patterns range from
lovable bunnies to a "proposal under a weeping willow tree." This love of artistic
expression began when Mrs. Later was a girl in Primary, when she pieced blocks to
make a quilt top and presented the finished article to a needy family in the ward. Her
first baby quilt, or carriage robe, was made in 1928 for her first grandchild. Since that
date she has designed and made over two hundred silk quilts. She has also assisted in
making hundreds of quilts in Relief Society and has directed the making of many
other quilts. A soft, golden silk quilt is now being completed by Mrs. Later in an-
ticipation of the graduation of one of her granddaughters. Each of her children, and
every married grandchild has, to this date, received one of her lovely silk quilts. Mrs.
Later's talents and industry also extend to many other types of handwork, including
crocheting, embroidery, and the making of exquisite bags and greeting cards.
Mrs. Later has served in all of the Church auxiliary organizations, except the
Sunday School. Her Relief Society activities have been extensive, including eight
years as work director for Rigby Stake Relief Society, five years as president in Bremer-
ton, Washington, ten years as a member of the sewing committee in Rigby Second
Ward, and thirty-six years as a visiting teacher. Mrs. Later is mother to nine chil-
dren, grandmother to eighteen, and great-grandmother to two. She also does gen-
ealogy work and sings in the ward and stake choirs.
e
ommunication
Dora Toone Brough
Prayer is a key God gave to us
Whereby we might commune with him;
To seek for wisdom, peace, and truth.
And keep faith's light from growing dim.
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Willard Luce
Jt (bunnen Viyindow (garden
Ceiia Luce
jV/fORE and more new homes are being built with basement rumpus or recreation
-^ ■*■ rooms. But, unless the house is built into the hillside, the basement windows
are usually tiny and in the basement wall, with the natural lighting having all the
charm of a first-class dungeon. If the house is built to provide for large basement
windows, it looks like a house on stilts.
A sunken garden adjacent to the basement window solves the problem beautifully.
It allows for a large window in the basement room. It also presents a beautiful view
from the inside. On eye level are the tops of the flowers, making them seem as
though they were a part of the room. Behind the flowers, the retaining wall makes
a lovely pattern background, and beyond is a glimpse of the rest of the garden.
The light from the large window makes the basement room as livable as the
rooms upstairs.
From the outside, the sunken garden adds a delightful surprise to your landscaping.
The retaining wall hides the flowers until one is very close, then a blaze of hidden
flower beauty is suddenly discovered.
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Today I Reveal Them
Rose A. Openshaw
N
O one can steal the treasures of
my childhood, which I have
kept locked in a jewelled box in a
remote corner of my heart. The
jewels are composed of hope and
joy and tears, and today, for the
first time, I shall take them out one
by one and reveal them.
Some of them, perhaps, may
strike an echo in your own soul,
for no doubt you have treasures that
are quite similar.
These treasures are priceless; and
while once they were concrete acts
or objects or words, through mem-
ory they have resolved themselves
into cherished scenes or pictures,
and of these was the fulness of my
childhood composed.
It was composed of being carried
on my father's shoulders to church,
until the gash in my foot, cut on
broken glass in a stream, mended;
or of mother holding the injured
part over a plate of live coals, from
which smoke from burning sugar
twirled and swirled upward, to cure
it.
Of finding a beautiful doll with
brown hair and eyes on the only
Christmas tree we ever had, long
stockings hung from mantels over
the fireplace being the usual order.
Of hugging in rapture the wooden
cradle my father in his tenderness
made for my doll.
Or being unable to play, or scarce-
ly to eat when mother's head ached;
and of worrying and praying for her
all the day long, when she made the
horse and buggy trips to Phoenix,
for sometimes the horse was balky
and she might get hurt!
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Of corn-roasts in which neighbors
of all ages took part, and of the
glorious game of ''Run-Sheep-Run,"
played by all of us afterwards.
Of my chum and I being com-
mended by our teachers for "al-
ways being prepared," and so priv-
ileged for out-of-door study. Of the
fig tree between our homes where
we nailed a box and daily placed
notes when we couldn't visit each
other.
Of being surprised, when I was
ill, by the gift, from my sister Delta,
of a gorgeous jade velvet hood, lace-
decorated in ecru, for my doll,
which has endeared my sister to
me through all the long years that
have followed.
Of helping my brother Frank lo-
cate and repair weak places in
fences, working with redoubled en-
ergy after his words of praise that
I was better help than the boys
he had had.
Of getting up entertainments,
aided by my chum, to which the
entire village paid a nickel admis-
sion charge. Much of the program,
of dialogues, tableaux, readings, and
welcoming speeches was composed
by ourselves.
Of being present for a campfire
meal just as the desert's shadows
were growing purple-faced from
stretching their long limbs before
retiring, and of smelling the aroma
of potatoes, onions, and bacon
stewing together, and the fragrance
of hot bread fresh from a bake-
oven.
Of standing around with my lit-
TODAY I REVEAL THEM
195
tie friends wondering if any food
would be left, when the General
Authorities from Salt Lake, or the
county school superintendent, were
served hot biscuits, mashed pota-
toes, stewed chicken, and gravy, and
creamy rice pudding (as only mv
mother could make), and the table
refused to accommodate all at one
time.
r\F tying, with my chum, in a
Book of Mormon chapter-read-
ing contest, and winning a beautiful,
pearl-handled pen.
Of picking turkeys, both at
Thanksgiving and Christmas, to
earn money for Christmas presents
for my parents. (Hard was the work
for tender hands.) Of sponsoring
sewing clubs so we could make pin-
cushions and other items for gifts
out of scraps of silks and ribbons.
It was such joy to give!
And of my most dreaded task of
all— taking milk five miles away to
the dairy in the old buckboard
(buggy) mornings. Five miles dis-
tant the dairy stood, and there was
much to intimidate a small girl
along the way.
Of gathering plums with the first
tint of rose on their cheeks and
burying them in a shallow hole in
the moist earth, supposed to hasten
ripening, then of digging them
every day to see if they had ma-
tured.
Of helping my married sister,
Etta, whose health was poor, with
her laundry and dishes, and keeping
her company nights, homesick to
the core of my being for mother,
with our house less than a block
away.
Of riding to a Phoenix circus in
the back of a wagon— seeing the
strange animals and the unbeliev-
able performance, and being treated
at the noon-hour to what seemed
a meal of meals— baker's bread and
bologna.
Of visiting the ostrich farm in
Phoenix, seeing the long, graceful
plumes milliners fastened together
to adorn hats and of seeing the
huge, ivory-colored, massive-shelled
eggs firsthand.
And of the incomparable happi-
ness of hunting the first wild
flowers of spring. Oh, the exulta-
tion that swelled my heart in the
joy of discovering the fragile, fra-
grant blooms! Comparable it is to-
day to finding glorious truths
concealed in the tall green grass
of books and sermons. Yet while
these shall live on eternally, the
flowers wilted before we finished
our mile-long trek!
Too, how we thrilled to the love-
liness of the first tiny eggs in the
well-woven, basket-like nests, hid-
den away in the leaf-fluffy trees.
Oh, mine was a happy childhood
—a happy, carefree existence, and
made more so by the knowledge
of the abiding love and unity exist-
ing between my parents, for never
to my knowledge, did one unkind
word ever pass between them. And
I thank them— thank the dear ones
from the bottom of my heart for
saving me the heartaches, the stab-
bing grief and pain that would have
cut so deeply into tender hearts had
it been otherwise.
<^^v.
The Deeper Melody
Chapter 6
Alice Money Bailey
Synopsis: Steven Thorpe, a widower
with three small children, is in love with
Margaret Grain, a registered nnrse who has
taken care of his baby during an attack
of pneumonia. Margaret's mother, a wid-
ow, is temporarily acting as Steven's
housekeeper, gnd Margaret has accepted
the position of night superintendent at
the hospital until her marriage to Dr. Rex
Harmon. In the meantime Steven has
been made vice-president of the Pikes
Peak Machinery Company and finds him-
>self unwillingly accepting invitations from
Miss Tate, his secretary. One night as
Steven and Miss Tate are leaving the
theatre they meet Margaret and Dr. Har
mon.
STEVE had never seen Margaret
out of uniform before, and he
noticed how stunning she was,
a second before he recognized her.
From looking coldly elegant beside
her partner, she suddenly turned
radiant when she saw Steve.
''Steve!'' she said, ''Steve Thorpe/'
Her greeting was so warm and
friendly that her partner eyed him
with suspicion, and he felt Miss
Tate stiffen at his side. He intro-
duced her to Margaret.
"Rex, this is Steve Thorpe, little
Phyllis' father."
The two men shook hands civilly.
Steve commented, 'T thought you
were on duty at this time of night,"
and she answered: "My night off!"
That was all. Certainly it wasn't
enough to set free a strange hope
in Steve's heart— a hope that flew on
stunted wings and floundered to im-
potence. All night long he argued
with himself that her look of glad
recognition was nothing more than
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the cordial greeting of a friend, and
all night he was haunted by it. He
admitted ruefully, to himself, that
Dr. Harmon was a distinguished
looking man, in a distinguished pro-
fession, and was a perfect compli-
ment of her chic beauty.
"When is this wedding?" he
asked Mrs. Grain next morning at
breakfast.
"Margaret's?"
"Yes, Margaret's. Exactly what
day?"
"It will be on a Monday— two
weeks from tomorrow," informed
Mrs. Grain. "Hadn't you better be
doing something about replacing
me?
"I can't replace you, Mother
Grain," said Steve. He should have
been thinking of that, the effect on
his children, when Mrs. Grain would
be gone and he had to plunge into
the nightmare of a new regime. In-
stead, he had been thinking of him-
self—with Margaret lost to him for-
ever, and his heart lunged in panic
at the few days left.
"The children haven't taken to
Mrs. Hall a bit, and I have only one
more week with them, you know.
Steve, you ought to get married."
"So I've heard," said Steve cryp-
tically. "Any suggestions as to the
victim?"
"That Miss Tate would marry
you at the drop of a hat!"
"I don't love Miss Tate, nor does
she love me for that matter."
"I wouldn't be surprised if you
married her, or she married you.
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197
just the same," said Mrs. Grain
equably.
It stirred fury in Steve. "Mrs.
Grain/' he said, '1 have been ad-
\'ised a number of times to remarry.
Each time my advisor has said the
same as you say, you should remarry.
Each has neglected to suggest that
I fall in love again. I have always
had an idea that two people should
love each other, in order to marry.
Perhaps I am old-fashioned or ju-
venile in my thinking. Perhaps I
should be set straight on this."
ly/fRS. Grain sat up and looked at
Steve in surprise. *'My land!
You're just as right as you can be,
Steve. I know I would feel the same,
even at my age, if I were consider-
ing getting married, but here I go
advising you to just get married,
without any feeling at all, just as a
matter of convenience." She put
her chin in her hand, considering.
"Still, I know literally hundreds of
couples who are married who don't
really love each other," she went on.
"Some of them respect each other,
though, and it seems to work out
pretty well. Maybe you ought to
think of that, Steve. You do need
a wife— and your little ones need a
mother. Maybe you will never love
again, and . . . ."
"I do love again, Mrs. Grain, and
anything less is not good enough
for me. I love your daughter. I
love Margaret."
"So you love Margaret," Mrs.
Grain said after a long moment.
"I might have known."
'Tou see how hopeless it is?"
"Does Margaret know this?"
'^Gertainly not. She has enough
to think about, without me being
a nuisance to her."
"It is never a nuisance for a
woman to know a man loves her."
"You can't be serious! At this
late date? It was already too late
when I met her. You know that."
"I don't know any such thing—
but it will be in two more weeks."
"What are you saying?" A pulse
was thudding heavily in Steve.
"What would Margaret say to all
this?"
"I haven't the slightest idea," said
Mrs. Grain coolly. "But I think
any girl has the right to choose be-
tween the men who love her."
"Of course!" agreed Steve, direct-
ly hit by her logic. He went swift-
ly to the telephone and called Mar-
garet. Her sleepy voice ran through
his veins like an electric shock.
"I have to see you, Margaret."
"Is anything wrong? Phyllis?
Mother?"
"Everyone is fine. Gould I come
and see you right away?"
"Steve!" There was a long si-
lence, then her voice came small
and miserable. "I'm sorry. Dr. Har-
mon is free today. He'll be here
for me in half an hour."
"This afternoon, then? Before
you go on duty?"
"We're going for a drive. We'll
not be back until barely time for
me to get into my uniform."
"How about tonight, when you
come off duty?" Steve persisted.
"He's picking me up then."
"Is there any time when I can
see you?"
"Saturday. It's my day off . . . ."
"This won't wait until Saturday,"
said Steve desperately.
"Gan't you tell me now, over the
phone?" Margaret suggested. "Give
me some idea what you have in
mind."
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1954
*'It concerns you and me, Mar-
garet, and I don't want to discuss
it over the telephone."
'1 think Vd better not see you—
at all," said Margaret, her voice sud-
denly weak.
''As you wish/' said Steve through
stiff lips, and hung up, his hope de-
flated.
"I^THY had her voice changed?
Why had she not made some
way for him to see her? Steve was
sure she could have. Had she
guessed his message? Of course she
had, and certainly she wouldn't
want to see him. He was a fool to
hope, anyway. What woman in her
right mind would want a man with
a family of children, the position of
being a second wife?
Still, Steve himself had rather
rosy prospects. Being vice-president
of PPMC was no small thing, and
J. T. had assured him that he would
not only become its president, but
its eventual owner. Nevertheless,
Steve felt anything but secure. It
depended solely upon him— if he
could increase his capacity to cover
all the responsibilities, and he was
not sure he could. Some inward
adversity seemed to dog him since
he acquired his new status, some
loss of self-assurance, and he won-
dered if the seeds of eventual fail-
ure were deep within him.
He studied, he worked, he went
over old ledgers and old methods,
crammed on facts about their clien-
tele. He knew selling and business
management all right, and had a
pretty good knowledge of machin-
ery, but he soon learned that the
head of a company must know
every man's job almost better than
he did himself. The company was
staffed with experts, so Steve spent
hours in each department, not spar-
ing himself. Each morning he
went forth determined to be fully
adequate for the day's requirements,
but each night's appraisal left much
to be desired in his own opinion.
Some of it, he knew, stemmed
from his domestic problem, fear and
concern for his children, their rear-
ing with hired help, and some of
it, most surely, was a result of his
frustrated love for Margaret, and of
his shock in finding in himself the
ability to love again, with the alter-
nate fire and ice of hope and despair.
Now, after this morning's conver-
sation with her, she seemed again
completely beyond his reach.
The work into which he had re-
solved to plunge was there waiting
for him when he arrived; the men
had already started to load the
heavy machinery of a new order on-
to the flatcars. Steve charged into
J. T.'s office.
''I thought you said we'd change
that cable before we started loading
another order," he said furiously.
"Steve, but do you realize this
is the Kettle Creek machinery we're
loading— and it's several weeks over-
due now."
''I don't care whose machinery it
is," said Steve. ''If you don't give
the order to stop it, I will."
"You give it then," said J. T.
softly. "I wondered just how long
before you would. I have been
watching you, boy. You've been
addled a lot of times when your
mind should have been clear, and
your stand firm. You're still think-
ing in terms of a salesman. A word
to the foreman the minute you saw
that cable needed fixing, would
have done it. In fact, he should
THE DEEPER MELODY
199
have seen it and told you. I was
beginning to be a mite disappoint-
ed in the future head of the com-
pany/'
'Tou mean you were baiting me
all along?" Steve demanded hotly.
''And if so, why do it when men's
lives are in danger?"
"You don't test a man in extrem-
ity without an extremity/' said J. T.
"You old walrus!" Steve took
time to say before he went down
the ramp to stop the crane.
JT was too late, for even as he lift-
ed his arm to signal, the cable
broke, plunging a roll-crusher sick-
eningly between the flatcar and the
dolley. Fortunately for Sam Dil-
lon, who was directly underneath,
the edge of the car broke the fall,
or he would have been killed in-
stantly. As it was his upper thigh
was struck.
The men were organized in saf-
ety, and it was only a few amazing
seconds until an ambulance was
there and Sam was on the way to
the hospital. Steve ran for his car
and followed.
The day was a nightmare of wait-
ing outside Sam's door, breaking the
news to Sam's wife, comforting her,
waiting outside the operating room
while Sam was in surgery, but Sam
finally woke up from the anaes-
thesia to give him a wavery grin.
"The doctor says you're going to
be all right, guy," he said. "We'll
take care of the family, so don't
worry/' ,
Then Steve decided he wouldn t
leave because an accident had
brought him to Margaret's hospital,
and at three o'clock she would be
on duty somewhere within it. He
was going to see her whether she
wished him to or not. He curbed
himself to wait until three-twenty
so that any business might be
cleared away, then he sought the
main floor and the door marked
"Superintendent of Nurses/'
She was at her desk, and, mirac-
ulously alone. She looked up from
her work and joy flooded her face.
"Steve!" she said, rising and put-
ting an impulsive hand out to him,
a hand which Steve tried not to
crush. "Steve, how nice to see
you." He saw her remember that
morning's conversation, and then
flush.
"It is good," said Steve, searching
her face. It was as he remembered
it, the clean line of her jaw, the
wide, clear brown brows beneath
the white wing of her cap, the
smooth skin and the sweet upturn
of her mouth. Light from a nearby
window made her eyes seem a
translucent blue, her teeth translu-
cent pearl, when she smiled, and
touched a satin patch on one cheek
where Steve longed to kiss. "It was
very good— so good that I had to
see you again. Have you forgot-
ten us?"
"Oh, no, not forgotten. I think
of you a great deal— and the babies,
but I thought it best for me and
for the children— and for you, Steve,
for me not to come again/'
Oh! So she had guessed, just as
he thought, and was trying to dis-
courage his romantic intentions.
Well, it was too late for that. "I
can't forget you, Margaret. My
house is haunted by you. I have to
talk to you. Right now."
"I'm on duty, Steve," she hedged.
"The hospital rules . . . /'
"I have to break down a barrier
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somewhere. It might as well be
hospital rules!"
"pOR answer she picked up the
telephone. ''Don't disturb me
except for an emergency/' she told
the operator. She went over and
closed her door, drew up a chair
for Steve, and resumed her seat be-
hind her desk.
"Now/* she said, ''go ahead."
Steve was suddenly disconcerted.
Now that he had his way, he was
overwhelmed with doubts. This
was not the time nor the place to
tell Margaret his love. It was cer-
tainly not the circumstances he
wanted. He had imagined hours
of conversation preceding his decla-
ration. If he must blurt it out in
these sterile surroundings, this
clinical atmosphere, what little
chance it had would come to noth-
ing.
On the other hand, if all her free
time was devoted to Dr. Harmon,
and she was avoiding him, and
would not see him voluntarily, this
moment loomed up as his single
opportunity. This most important
moment of his life was threatened
every moment with interruption,
threatened by this fear which para-
lyzed his tongue. J. T.'s words came
starkly to him ''. . . you have been
addled a lot of times when your
mind should have been clear."
There came to him a deep truth,
the race is already lost to the timid,
the doubtful, the ones lacking in
faith.
Margaret was watching him, and
he realized he had been gazing at
her while he thought. He took a
deep breath and straightened in his
chair, acting a courage which he
did not feel.
"I came to tell you that I love
you," he said. "I want you to be
my wife."
{To he continued)
I Horning Sds uier 'Jjehght
Lael W. Hill
Morning is her delight — she wakens smiling,
Barefoot, she dances over the dawn-cool floor;
She runs from one room to another, eager, calling
In formless words, finding new day every^vhe^e.
Still in her small white gown, she slips out softly;
Sky is no brighter than her sky-bright eyes.
Only the breeze can touch a leaf more deftly;
Sparrows turn toward her laugh, lawn tickles her toes.
Captured at last into shoes and a dress for playing,
Given the usual toys (soon scattered and spilled)
She watches for sun through windows with curtains blownig
Morning is her dehght, she is morning's child.
FROM THE FIELD
Margaret C. Pickering, General Secretar}^- Treasurer
All inaterial submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Societ}' presidents. See regulations governing the submittal
of material for ''Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for April 1950, page 278, and
the Handbook oi Instructions, page 123.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Elizabeth H. Zimmerman
WESTERN CANADIAN MISSION, EDiMONTON, ALBERTA, FIRST AND
SECOND BRANCHES, CHILDREN'S CLOTHING MODELED
AT BAZAAR, November 7, 1953
Left to right: John Felt, modeling boy's suit; Paula Fairbanks, wearing a house-
coat; Lynn Car, wearing a jumper and jacket; Dianne Armstrong, wearing a skirt and
waistcoat; Brenda Prince, wearing a party dress.
One hundred fifty pieces of children's clothing were made for this bazaar, held
in the Edmonton meetinghouse. Six other display sections were represented, including
eighty aprons, fourteen quilts, 180 pounds of chocolates, several pieces of linens, 106
novelties, and six hundred cookbooks. Relief Society presidents are: Melba McMul-
lin, Edmonton First Branch, and Hattie Jensen, Edmonton Second Branch.
Elizabeth H. Zimmerman is president of the Western States Mission Relief Society.
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202
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l^hotograph submitted by JennaVee Hall
GOODING STAKE (IDAHO), HAGERMAN WARD VISITING TEACHERS
ACHIEVE loo PER CENT RECORD FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS
Photograph taken at the opening social, September 29, 1953
Front row, left to right: Celia Jacobson; Elda Haycock; Bishop Gold; President
Venice Prince; Secretary Eileen Low; Second Counselor Elaine Pugmire; First Coun-
selor Blanche Allred; Chariot Watson, visiting teacher message leader.
Second row, left to right: Flora Chatterton; Wilma Larson; Nora Barlogi; Stella
Farnsworth; Ethel Boyer; Twila Bendorf; Helen Allen; Lavern Allen.
Third row, left to right: Odetta Stringer; Alta Sherwood; Donna Claiborne;
Thelma Green; Edna Kenitzer; Iris Pugmire; Rella Finch; Georgia Clark,
JennaVee Hall is president of Gooding Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Anna H. Toone
CANADIAN MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN TORONTO,
November 7, 1953
Anna H. Toone, President, Canadian Mission Relief Society, reports that this con-
ference was unusually successful: "We had 185 Relief Society sisters in attendance.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
203
I^rom the two branches Timmins and Sault St. iMarie twelve sisters traveled one thou-
sand miles to attend this conference. Some of these had never been in a Latter-day
Saint meetinghouse before, as they had met in little groups of from twenty to forty
members. There were two sessions held, and lunch was served. A display of hand-
work and welfare from the various branches was exhibited. It was a glorious occasion;
the spirit of the Lord was present in rich abundance. Those who were present were
enthusiastic and stimulated in Relief Society work."
Photograph submitted by Muriel S. Wallis
UINTAH STAKE (UTAH), DAVIS WARD RELIEF SOCIETY BAZAAR
October 1953
Left to right: Vera Olsen, President; Viola Goodrich, First Counselor; Cora Cook,
work meeting leader; Stella Sadleir, Second Counselor.
As a summer sewing project the members of Davis Ward Relief Society made
121 different types of articles from colorful feed bags. These articles were displayed
at the county and State fairs. They were then sold at the Relief Society bazaar. This
unusually successful project was outstanding in the great variety of useful articles made
and the fine spirit of co-operation developed among the sisters.
Muriel S. Wallis is president of Uintah Stake Relief Society.
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Photograph submitted by Elsie J. Brinkerhoff
KANAR STAKE (UTAH), ORDER VILLE WARD, TWELVE
RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENTS
Front row, seated, left to right: Lillian B. Carroll (1924-27); Martha Porter (1927-
33); Lucy H. Esplin (1933-36); Chastie Esplin (1936-40); Mercy Chamberlain (1940-
44)-
Back row, standing, left to right: Bessie E. Brooksby (1944-46); Velma B. Car-
roll (1947-49); Mahalia T. Sorensen (1947-1949); Arvilla J. Heaton (1949-1950) and
1952 - ); Helen A. Neilson (1950-52).
Inserts: left, Helen Jane Palmer (1917-21), now a resident of St. George; right,
Emma Seegmiller Higbee (1904-17), now a resident of Cedar City.
All of these women, except the two last mentioned, who have moved away, are
still loyal and active members of the Orderville Relief Society.
Elsie J. Brinkerhoff is president of Kanab Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Helen B. Walker
POCATELLO STAKE fIDAHO) RELIEF SOCIETY HONORS N'lSITING
TEACHERS OVER SEVENTY-FIVE YEARS OLD
Front row, seated at the left: Kezia McDonald and Marie Ames; at right:
Margaretta Coffin and Ruth Morgan.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD 205
Second row, standing, left to right; Martha Richards; Elizabeth Rupp; Mary
Breedlove; Bertha Meyers; Ahee Hayball; Sarah Gray; Anna Belnap; Harriett Peterson;
Lilhe Reddish; Margaret Norman; Gertrude Watson; Necha Barron; Eliza Jackson;
Agnes Whitmore; Lucy Richards.
Third row, standing, left to right: Bertha Pieper, First Counselor; Helen Walker,
President, Pocatello Stake Relief Society; Hermoine Horton, Second Counselor.
At a party given to honor the visiting teachers of the stake, special recognition
was accorded to these sisters, all of them o\'er seventy-five years of age. A short his-
tory of the Relief Society service of each woman was given and each was presented
with a corsage.
SX^ay ^JJown cJ^ aside
A'largaret Luiidstrom
i'i'nnHERE'S a homely little fellow!" The woman in front of me nudged her com-
•■■ panion as she spoke.
*'I should say so!" came the reply. "Like a mud fence, he is."
Jimmy walked on across the stage, his straight little body intent as he carried the
Cub Scout banner proudly.
Is Jimmy homely? I wondered. I'd never thought so. And if Tom had, he'd
nc\cr told me. Wouldn't we know, when we'd looked at him every day for eight years?
Think of the way he got up in the morning, his eyes bright from sleep as he
chirped. "Good morning. Mother, I loxe. you!"; or the smile he gave the doctor when
he was told he had the mumps, and it was the day before the school picnic.
"It hurts so much to smile," he said, his voice a whisper, since it had to squeeze
past the lump in his throat, "that I guess I couldn't probably stand it to cry, so that's
why I'm not."
And the day Annie left the gate open, and the puppy got out, and the busy street
with its inevitable car. I dreaded telling him, piling his heartache and tears on top of
my own. But he put his arm about my shoulders and rubbed his snubby, freckled nose
against my cheek and whispered, "That's all right. Mommy. Don't cry."
I looked again at Jimmy as he stood there on the stage, over at one side, now.
And when I looked at the backs of the women in front of me, and I thought: you don't
really see Jimmy. If you did ....
And all the way home, walking along the shaded streets with his plump, sticky
little fingers entwined through mine, I kept trying to think of something. Something
like "Beauty is only skin deep," only, of course, that wasn't it. The irony of it made
me chuckle. Jimmy's fingers squeezed mine and his round face turned up to me.
"You're laughing at yourself, aren't you. Mom?"
"Yes. But how'd you know?"
He skipped twice on one foot, and scuffed a stray leaf from the toe of one shoe.
"We-e-11 . . ." he drawled thoughtfully, "it came from way down inside you."
He skipped again. "And it was quiet, like nobody else had to hear if they didn't want
to."
It was after that, maybe a dozen steps nearer home, that I felt the pity. It was
a heavy thing in my chest, and it was for those two women who had sat in front of me
who hadn't been able to see a little boy's beautiful heart because it lay behind a plain,
little face.
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to gladden, you and I," I have believed with all my heart that it was our very great
responsibility to be cheerful and thus to lighten the burdens of those about us.
It is not nearly so important in life what happens to us as the way we take what
happens to us. Some people have the happy faculty of making steppingstones out of
obstacles, and some have the great misfortune of making mountains of trouble out of
molehills.
My mother had sheer genius for living a gloriously complete and happy life in
the midst of poverty and adversity. As a little girl, she tried to work her "Happy Game"
on her younger brothers and sisters. Living in Mexico in the early days of Latter-day
Saint colonization was very difficult, and sometimes the families were hungry. I have
heard my uncle tell how mother would say to him, "Now, Thomas, you know you've
had all the pancakes you could eat. You've really had plenty," and he had nodded
assent, although he hardly knew why.
Mother has seen good in everything that has come to her, and so has been re-
markably cheerful and has cheered others. Her humble home has always been to her
the most wonderful home a person could ever have, her children the kindest and most
considerate, her town the most friendly. And so they were to her. She saw the silver
lining while it was still dark to others.
"It's the songs ye sing and the smiles ye wear that are making the sunshine every-
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a personal responsibility to "put on a smile" and "make a little sunshine wherever
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The past records that once our town
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On homes and fields that were enclosed
By hills that formed a citadel.
The hawk still hangs aloof in skies
That bend above tranquility;
The prairie wolf is heard no more —
Our town has walked with destiny.
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A Milky Way of fragranee
Has paused on earth tonight.
The apricot is festooned
With living Pleiades,
And never stars of heaven
More radiant than these.
And light was never whiter
Than this syringa hedge,
And never was there cherry
To swear a whiter pledge.
More white than hills of winter
This fragrant living snow,
More luminous than Stardust,
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford ------ President
Marianne C. Sharp ----- First Counselor
Velma N. Simonsen ----- Second Counselor
Margaret C. Pickering ----- Secretary-Treasurer
Mary G. Judd Evon W. Peterson Christine H. Robinson Charlotte A. Larsen
Anna B. Hart Leone O. Jacobs Alberta H. Christensen Edith P. Backman
Edith S. Elliott Mary J. Wilson Mildred B. Eyring Winniefred S.
Florence J, Madsen Louise W. Madsen Helen W. Anderson Manwaring
Leone G. Layton Aleine M. Young Gladys S. Boyer Elna P. Haymond
Blanche B. Stoddard Josie B. Bay
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ----------- Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor --------- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager --------- Belle S. Spafford
Vol. 41 APRIL 1954 NO. 4
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SPECIAL FEATURES
The Resurrection of Jesus Marion G. Romney 212
Join the Crusade Against Cancer Sandra Munsell 228
Nevada's Valley of Fire Willard Luce 236
Double Beauty Lena Woodbury 237
Participation in Relief Society Can Help Achieve True Happiness Edith Kaneko 259
"Within Our Reach" Donna Day 262
FICTION — SPECIAL APRIL iSHORT STORIES
The Best Years of Her Life Pansye H. Powell 216
What It Takes Kay Islaub 223
Second Best Blanche Sutherland 229
The Part-Time Heart Hannah Smith 248
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The Deeper Melody — Chapter 7 Alice Morrey Bailey 266
GENERAL FEATURES
S-ixty Years Ago 238
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 239
Editorial: Arbor Day Velma N. Simonsen 240
Nellie W. Neal Resigns from the General Board 241
Notes to the Field: "A Centenary of Relief Society" Out of Print 242
Book of Mormon Reading Project 242
Prelude Music Florence Jepperson Madsen 243
Books for Organists and Pianists 244
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Margaret C. Pickering 268
From Near and Far 280
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Summer Fireplace Elizabeth Williamson 245
Let Your Table Tell a Story Helen S. Williams 246
Gardening for the Home Freezer C. W. McCullough 253
New Designs for Easter Eggs 256
Handwork Hobbies Bring Happiness (Rose Paskett Cooke Thompson) 258
TV Viewers — Down in Front Eloise Strinz 265
POETRY
"Even the Moonlight," — Frontispiece, by Eva Willes Wangsgaard, 211; "Stanzas on Light,"
by Mar^hale Woolsey, 215; "Forever Mine," by Delia Adams Leitner, 222; "The First Spring
Crocus, ' by Thelma W. Groneman, 235; "It Happens Every Spring," by Verda Mackay, 247;
"Directions for Gardening," by Maude Rubin, 257; "First Bloom," by Sudie Stuart Hager, 257;
"Desert Flowers," by Vesta N. Lukei, 257; "Tulips in the Wind," by Evelyn Fjeldsted, 261; "It
Must Be Spring," by Hilda V. Cameron, 261; "S-unshine and Rain," by Ruth K. Kent, 261; "After
Long Years," by Beatrice Knowlton Ekman, 264; "Apprehension," by Alice Whitson Norton, 265;
"Dogwood Time," by Mary Gustafson, 279; "Silent Return," by Blanch Kendall McKey, 279.
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Eva Wiiles Wangsgaard
Even the moonlight treading cherry bloom
Leaves prints invisible upon the white;
And sunshine's nimble fingers on the loom
Of summer lend their urge to petal flight.
But sun of these: wild roses pink with spring,
Marsh marigolds, or cool delphiniums,
Will burn their beauty on the heart and bring
A prescience born of joy, when winter comes.
The goldenrod's long brushes painting sun
On autumn's scene outline the form of grief—
For every petal lost a seed begun.
An April bud for every fallen leaf.
However deep the darkness where we wait
Our eyes will open on a light as great.
The Cover: Night-Blooming Cereus, Photograph by Josef Muench
Frontispiece: Jefferson Memorial, Washington, D. C.
Photograph by Ewing Galloway
Cover Design by Evan Jensen
The Resurrection of Jesus
Elder Marion G. Romney
Of the Council of the Twelve
THIS response to an invitation, shepherds the angel said, 'Tear
graciously extended by the not .... For unto you is born this
able Editor of The Reliei day in the city of David a Saviour,
Society Magazine, is made in hu- which is Christ the Lord" (Luke
mility and with sincere apprecia- 2:10-11).
tion. It affords opportunity to bear Second, that he suffer the pains
witness to the resurrection of Jesus of all men, which he did, principal-
to a very select group— the women ly, in Gethsemane, the scene of his
of The Church of Jesus Christ of great agony. He himself described
Latter-day Saints, and other readers that suffering as being of such in-
of this great Magazine— and to set tensity that it caused ^'myself, even
forth, in part at least, the basis up- God, the greatest of all, to tremble
on which that witness stands. because of pain, and to bleed at
When we speak of Jesus being every pore, and to suffer both body
resurrected, we mean that his pre- and spirit— and would that I might
existent spirit, which animated his not drink the bitter cup, and shrink
mortal body— from his birth in the —Nevertheless, glory be to the
manger until he died on the cross— Father, and I partook and finished
re-entered that body; and they two, my preparations unto the children
his spirit body and his physical of men" (D. & C. 19:18-19).
body, inseparably welded together, Third, that he give his life. His
arose from the tomb an immortal death on the cross, after having
soul. been rejected and betrayed and after
Our belief is, and we so testify, having suffered appalling indignities,
that Jesus not only conquered death seems not to be in dispute, even
for himself and brought forth his among non-believers. That he gave
own glorious resurrected body, but his life voluntarily, with the express
that in so doing he also brought purpose of taking it up again in the
about a universal resurrection. This resurrection, is not so universally
was the end and purpose of the accepted. Such, however, is the
mission to which he was set apart fact. He was, it is true, maliciously
and ordained in the great council slain by wicked men, but all the
in heaven when he was chosen to while he held the power to stay
be our Savior and Redeemer. them. 'T lay down my life," he
Concerning his earthly ministry, said, ''that I might take it again,
his role as Redeemer required of No man taketh it from me, but I
him four things: lay it down of myself. I have pow-
First, that his pre-mortal spirit er to lay it down, and I have power
be clothed with a mortal body, the to take it again" (John 10:17-18).
accomplishment of which was heav- This power was inherently his by
en announced when to the lowly virtue of his being born of the Vir-
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gin Mary (a mortal), the Son of
God (an immortal celestialized Be-
ing).
Having thus taken upon himself
mortality, having suffered for the
sins of all men in Gethsemane, and
having given his life on the cross,
there remained for him but to break
the bonds of death— the fourth and
last requirement— to complete his
earthly mission as Redeemer. That
the whole of his mortal Hfe moved
toward this consummation he had
repeatedly taught. It was fore-
shadowed in his statement about
laying down his life and taking it
up again. To the sorrowing Martha
he had said, ''I am the resurrection,
and the life" (John 11:25); and to
the Jews, ''Destroy this temple, and
in three days I will raise it up"
(John 2:19).
J^ESURRECTION was so for-
eign to human experience that
even his believing followers had dif-
ficulty comprehending it. The doc-
trine, however, had been heard
even by the crucifiers. Being dis-
turbed by it, they came to Pilate
"Saying, Sir, we remember that that
deceiver said, while he was yet
alive. After three days I will rise
again." So with Pilate's consent
they set a watch ''lest his disciples
come by night, and steal him away,
and say unto the people, He is ris-
en from the dead" (Mt. 27:63-64).
Thus it came about that these hire-
ling guards unwittingly became wit-
nesses to the opening of the tomb
by the angel (Mt. 28:2-4), the final
preliminary to the appearing of the
"risen Lord."
The evidence that Jesus was resur-
rected is conclusive. Five times on
the Sunday following his crucifixion
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on Friday afternoon, he revealed
himself.
First to behold him was Mary
Magdalene. Early in the morning
Peter and John, having verified the
fact that the body of Jesus was not
in the tomb, went away. But Mary
lingered in the garden weeping.
Turning back from the empty
tomb, she "saw Jesus standing, and
knew not that it was Jesus. Jesus
saith unto her. Woman, why weep-
est thou? whom seekest thou? She,
supposing him to be the gardener,
saith . . . Sir, if thou have borne
him hence, tell me where thou hast
laid him, and I will take him away.
Jesus saith unto her, Mary." Recog-
nizing his voice, "She turned her-
self" as if to touch him, saying,
"Rabboni; which is to say, Master"
(John 20:14-16). Tenderly restrain-
ing her, he continued, "Touch me
not; for I am not yet ascended to my
Father: but go to my brethren, and
say unto them, I ascend unto my
Father, and your Father; and to my
God, and your God" (John 20:17).
Later, about sunrise, "Mary the
mother of James, and Salome," and
other women went to the tomb with
spices to prepare the body for final
burial. They found the tomb open
and the body gone. To their con-
sternation, they were met by two
men in shining garments, who said,
"Why seek ye the living among the
dead? He is not here, but is risen"
(Luke 24:5-6). As they went to
tell his disciples, Jesus himself met
them, "saying. All hail. And they
came and held him by the feet, and
worshipped him" (Mt. 28:9).
Later the same day, as Cleopas
and another journeyed to Emmaus,
Jesus, unrecognized, drew near and
went with them. Inquiring into
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the nature of their conversation,
they repeated to him the reports of
the women. At their seeming
doubt he said, ''O fools, and slow
of heart to believe all that the
prophets have spoken." Then op-
ened he their understanding of the
scriptures concerning him. Tarry-
ing at Emmaus, ''he took bread, and
blessed it, and brake, and gave to
them. And their eyes were opened,
and they knew him; and he van-
ished out of their sight." (See Luke
24:13-31.)
In the evening as the disciples
heard the reports that Jesus had
appeared to Simon and to Cleopas,
''Jesus himself stood in the midst
of them." To quiet their fears and
give assurance that he was not a
spirit, he showed them his hands,
his feet, and his side, saying, "It is
I myself: handle me, and see; for a
spirit hath not flesh and bones, as
ye see me have .... And while
they yet believed not for joy, and
wondered, he said unto them. Have
ye here any meat? And they gave
him a piece of a broiled fish, and of
an honeycomb. And he took it,
and did eat before them." (See Luke
24:36-43; John 20:19-23.)
npHUS, on this eventful day, did
his former associates behold
his glorious resurrected body. Not
only did they see him, but they
heard his voice and felt the wounds
in his hands, feet, and side. In
their presence he handled food and
ate of it. They knew of a surety
that he had taken up the body
which they themselves had placed
in the tomb. Their sorrow was
turned to joy by the knowledge that
he lived, an immortal soul.
For forty days he ministered
among his disciples in the Holy
Land. He appeared unto his dis--
ciples again at Jerusalem, when
Thomas was present, and on the
shore of the Sea of Tiberias, where
he directed them in casting for fish,
invited them to dine, gave them
food to eat which he himself had
prepared on a fire of coals, and in-
structed them in the ministry. On
a mountain in Galilee he commis-
sioned the eleven to teach the gos-
pel to all nations. And finally, after
he had blessed them at Bethany,
they saw him "carried up into heav-
en." (See Luke 24:50-53.)
His mission being ended in Pal-
estine, he paid a visit to the Ne-
phites in America, that they, too,
might know of his resurrection. His
Father introduced him to them as
"my Beloved Son, in whom I am
well pleased." When they saw him
descend from heaven, they de-
scribed him as "a Man . . . clothed
in a white robe." He announced
himself as "Jesus Christ, whom the
prophets testified shall come into
the world." They saw him, they
heard him, and at his invitation
they all "went forth, and thrust
their hands into his side, and did
feel the prints of the nails in his
hands and in his feet," and knew
of a surety and did testify that he
was the resurrected Redeemer.
(See 3 Nephi 11:7-15.)
As he revealed himself, after his
resurrection, to his followers in the
Holy Land and to the Nephites in
America, so he has revealed him-
self in our day. Indeed, this dis-
pensation opened with a glorious
vision in which the Prophet Joseph
was visited by the Father and the
Son. He heard their voices, for they
both spoke to him. He was given
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a personal introduction to the res- am he who Hveth, I am he who was
urrected Jesus by the Father him- slain; I am your advocate with the
self. He beheld their glorious bod- Father." (D. & C. 110:1-4).
ies and afterwards thus described From the foregoing accounts
them: 'The Father has a body of come our mental pictures of the
flesh and bones as tangible as man's; resurrected Jesus. But the convic-
the Son also" (D. & C. 130:22). tions we have, our testimonies that
Some twelve years later the Sav- in the spirit world he was chosen
ior revealed himself to Joseph and ordained to be our Redeemer;
Smith, Jr., Sidney Rigdon being that he was born of Mary, the Only
with him. They two bore testi- Begotten Son of God in the flesh;
mony 'That he lives! For," said that he suffered for our transgres-
they, "we saw him, even on the sions; that on the cross he volun-
right hand of God; and we heard tarily gave his life for us; that in
the voice bearing record that he is the resurrection he broke the bonds
the Only Begotten of the Father" of death for himself and for all
(D. & C. 76:22-23). men; that he arose an immortal
In the Kirtland Temple the soul, the first fruits of the resur-
Prophet saw him again, this time rection, appearing first to Mary
in company with Oliver Cowdery: Magdalene and then to the others
"The veil was taken from our as recorded; that he visited the Ne-
minds," they wrote, "and the eyes phites; and that he has revealed
of our understanding were opened, himself in this dispensation to Jo-
We saw the Lord standing upon seph Smith and others— do not
the breastwork of the pulpit, before come alone from these accounts,
us; and under his feet was a paved Our own convictions and testi-
work of pure gold, in color like monies come by the witness of the
amber. His eyes were as a flame of Holy Spirit, the Holy Ghost, by
fire; the hair of his head was white whose power we know these ac-
like the pure snow; his counte- counts are true, and by whose pow-
nance shone above the brightness er we become witnesses to the truth
of the sun; and his voice was as the of the recorded events along with
sound of the rushing of great wat- those who experienced them. To
ers, even the voice of Jehovah, say- obtain and bear this witness is our
ing: I am the first and the last; I mission.
» ♦ ■
Stanzas on JLight
Maryhale Woolsey
I. Inseparable
How wrong to think of shadows
Existing where deep night is!
There cannot be a shadow
Except where light is.
II. "Also the Morning ..."
Never was there a night, but it made way
For rosy dawning and the gold of day.
Light never fails returning; have no fear,
Death's darkness will be brief, with morning near.
The Best Years of Her Life
Pansye H. Powell
AUNT Tabitha's rocking chair
had sat in the same spot in
the Higgins hving room for
over seventy years; except, that is,
for those brief intervals of house-
cleaning when it had gone to the
front porch along with the horse-
hair sofa, the whatnots, and the
heavy rag carpets. Aunt Tabitha's
mother had brought the chair with
her from Kentucky when she
moved to Missouri as a bride in
1885.
It was not a particularly hand-
some chair, but it was comfortable
and fitted to Aunt Tabitha's bony
form. She regularly made new cov-
ers for the plump cushion that
always lay on its seat and for the
back-rest that eased the straight-
ness of its back; at intervals she
added a coat of paint to freshen
the wood. At various times it had
been painted red, blue, and green,
as her fancy dictated. Its redeem-
ing quality as a piece of furniture
was that it was comfortable for her,
and that it was unobtrusively a part
of the general decor of the room.
It was old— but so was Aunt Ta-
bitha.
She was as old-fashioned in ap-
pearance as her chair. She wore
her still brownish hair in a bun on
the top of her head, severely plain;
she dressed as she had for the past
fifty years— in dark print house
dresses at home, and in simple black
away from home.
Everyone in Mooresville knew
Aunt Tabitha. She had always
lived there, except for a brief year
when she had attended a young
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ladies' seminary in Grantsborough,
twenty miles away. Her stay at the
seminary had ended abruptly when
her older sister Mandy married.
There was no one else to stay with
her mother and father but Tabitha.
She had gone home willingly
enough and had eased the last years
of her aging parents without much
thought of herself.
No suitors had vied for her hand.
As the years went by, she had
found much affection in Mandy's
growing family, becoming friend
and confidante to her nieces and
nephews and later to Mandy's
grandchildren. She had lived quiet-
ly, and most people thought hap-
pily following the unbroken tenor
of Mooresville ways.
Then Aunt Tabitha fell one win-
ter day and broke her hip.
Fortunately for her, she fell on
her front steps and was seen by a
neighbor passing by. When Dr.
Starks arrived, he looked very seri-
ous and ordered Aunt Tabitha tak-
en to the Gainsborough hospital at
once. Two hours later, she was in
a hospital bed, her little house left
lonely and locked against a possible
prowler.
Mandy and her family did all
they could to make the hospital
stay pleasant. At the end of two
weeks. Dr. Starks held a private
conference with Mandy, the gist of
which was that Aunt Tabitha's hip
would be a long time healing, and
she must not live alone, now or
ever again. Next time she fell, she
might not be so lucky.
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lyi ANDY called a meeting of her
family, unknown to Aunt
Tabitha. Who could move out to
Mooresville to live with Aunt Ta-
bitha? Or should they talk to her
and convince her she should come
to live in the city with one of them?
All the time the family had sat
around debating these questions,
the youngest grandchild, Ted
Browning, had sat without speak-
ing. Everyone knew he was Aunt
Tabitha's favorite of Mandy's
grandchildren; he had spent weeks
of his adolescent vacations out with
Aunt Tabitha, and she had con-
tributed liberally to his college
training in business administration.
Now, he was successfully estab-
lished in a growing brokerage busi-
ness and about to be married to a
young schoolteacher.
With all this before him, no one
expected that he would even think
of setting up housekeeping in
Mooresville, so everyone was much
surprised when he said, "Maybe
Ellen and I could go out there
when we are married."
''Better speak to Ellen about
that," his sister Irene protested.
'Til bet she'd have a different
idea."
"How could you manage the trip
to town every day?" Mandy ques-
tioned.
"It's no farther than people in
New York and Chicago drive to
work every day. And if the roads
are impassable, there's that little
train that makes the trip in every
morning— and there are buses."
"But the house . . ." began his
older sister Marion.
"Oh, Ellen and I could fix that
up. I'll bet she'd get a kick out
of all those antiquated belongings.
Anyway, I'll ask her tonight and
we'll see what then."
So the family conference broke
up, with the other nieces and neph-
ews secretly relieved that there
might just be a way out of the di-
lemma that would require no sac-
rifice on their parts.
When Aunt Tabitha was ap-
proached on the idea of moving in-
to town with Mandy, she registered
a decided negative. "Absolutely
not," she declared. "I'm not going
to move out of the only home I
have ever had. I belong in Moores-
ville and there's where I'm going to
stay."
In spite of pain and discomfort,
she was still the old Aunt Tabitha,
with plenty of fire yet.
That night Ted went to see her
during the evening visiting hours.
Ellen went with him. Ted ushered
her proudly into Aunt Tabitha's
room, where the elderly woman lay
patiently suffering the discomforts
of her inactivity.
She smiled as they entered and
put out her hand to Ted. "Well,
Ted," she said, "it's good of you
to come to see your old auntie
again. And this time you've brought
Ellen. How are you, my dear?"
"I'm just fine," Ellen spoke
cheerily. "And you're looking ever
so well."
"I'm doing all right, I guess; but
it's a long time to be lying here and
nobody in my house to keep the
cobwebs down."
"That's just what we've come to
see you about," Ted hastened to
put in. "How would you like for
me and Ellen to move into the
house and help you with every-
thing?"
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Aunt Tabitha's face broke into
smiles. 'I'd rather have you and
Ellen than anyone else I know/'
she said, "but are you sure you want
to do that? It's not a very fine
house, you know. It's warm in
winter and cool in summer; but it's
not very fancy for a young couple
to go into."
''Oh, we've talked it all out," El-
len answered. "If you're wiUing,
Ted will drive me down tonight
and we'll look it over. We'll need
your key to get in, of course.
Would you mind if we did some re-
decorating?"
"I guess a bride would want
things to be fresh and clean," Aunt
Tabitha agreed. "You go ahead.
The doctor says Fm to be here an-
other four weeks, and then he will
let me go home."
Two weeks later they had the
wedding. Ellen and Ted came to
see Aunt Tabitha before they left
on their honeymoon trip, which
they were shortening in order to
have time to arrange the house be-
fore Aunt Tabitha returned to it.
"We'll have everything ready for
you when you can go home," they
promised. "Don't worry about
anything."
Aunt Tabitha smiled after them,
as they walked off together, Ted's
arm possessively about Ellen's waist.
T\7HEN the day came that Aunt
Tabitha was to be allowed
to go home from the hospital, Ted
arranged for an ambulance to take
her to Mooresville. She was care-
fully moved and returned to her
little home and into a hospital bed
which nad been placed in her room.
Too tired to do more than sleep,
she did not look around her until
she awakened the next morning to
see the sun streaming into her bed-
room windows as it had always done
and to hear robins chirping on the
lawn as they had done all her life.
She moved her head carefully,
looking at all the familiar furnish-
ings of her room. The wallpaper
was different, but she liked the
freshness of the tiny sprigs of sweet-
peas and green leaves. The curtains
were new crisscross tie-backs of
spotless white organdy; but the
furniture was the same — her high
bureau with the little mirror atop;
her marble-topped washstand; and
her chintz-covered box that made a
seat under the south window. On
her little bedside table stood a tiny
brass figure with a bouffant skirt
which she discovered to be a bell.
In looking at it, she accidentally
rang the bell.
Immediately the door of her
room opened gently and a cheerful
voice said, "Good morning. Aunt
Tabitha. How are you?" Ellen,
crisp in starched pink gingham, her
face smiling, came in.
"Fm just fine," Aunt Tabitha
said, "and I like the way you have
made my room so nice for me."
"We put your own bed away
until you are able to leave the hos-
pital bed. It will be ready to put
up for you as soon as you are able
to get around. Shall I bring your
breakfast now? Here, you freshen
up a bit while I get your breakfast."
Aunt Tabitha felt a glow of hap-
piness and contentment. Surely
this was to be the best time of her
life. Young people with her in
her own home. She ate a hearty
breakfast. When Dr. Starks came
the next day, he promised she
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219
sluoTild be up and about in a chair
within a week.
j ]f UST as he promised, a week later,
I "^ Aunt Tabitha had a coming-out
iparty. Only Ted and Ellen and
Dr. Starks were present, but the oc-
casion was a merry one for all that.
Dressed in a pretty blue robe over
her gown, her hair carefully combed
into a neat bun on top her head,
she was moved carefully from the
bed into a wheelchair, and Ted
pushed her slowly from her bed-
room into the narrow hall of the
^ little house and down it to the liv-
ing room.
Aunt Tabitha gasped with sur-
prise when she saw what had hap-
pened to the living room. The room-
size rag carpets had been taken up
and the floor polished into a mir-
ror. A large oval rug had been
made from the carpet, and small
throw rugs from the same source
filled in at doorways to the hall
and dining room. New wallpaper
and paint had brought freshness.
Instead of the lace curtains that
had hung at the big bay window,
long full drapes were pulled back
to let in sunshine and air. Ellen
had brought her spinet piano; the
horsehair sofa had been cleaned and
rubbed until the rosewood gleamed.
^ The whatnots stood in the corners
^ as before, but the room was differ-
ent and more charming than it had
ever been.
Ted pushed Aunt Tabitha on
through the dining room, which
was unchanged except for paper
and paint, and into the kitchen,
which gleamed with a new electric
stove and refrigerator and linoleum.
Aunt Tabitha drew in her breath
in astonishment. "Well/' she ex-
claimed, 'Td no idea you were do-
ing all this."
"I hope you don't mind," Ted
anxiously commented. "We thought
we might as well be using some of
our things. Wc kept all yours and
put them in the shed behind the
house, so they'll be there if you
ever want them."
Aunt Tabitha did not answer.
"She's growing tired," Dr. Starks
said, "Musn't keep her up long
this first time. Tomorrow maybe
she can stay up a little longer."
They took her back into her own
room, carefully transferring her
from chair to bed and lowering the
back of the bed so she could drop
off to sleep if she wished.
The next day Aunt Tabitha
seemed listless and had a poor ap-
petite. She did not want to get up
into her wheelchair. She lay
apathetically, speaking only when
spoken to and then only in mono-
syllables. Ellen was distraught.
Finally she called Dr. Starks.
"I don't know what's the mat-
ter," she said. "Aunt Tabitha
seemed to be getting along so well
—and now today she hardly touched
her breakfast and lunch, and she
just lies there, staring at the ceiling
and doesn't even want to talk."
"I think she had a little too
much activity yesterday." Dr.
Starks did not seem concerned.
"Let her rest and don't bother her.
Tomorrow she'll likely be herself
again."
Ellen worried over Aunt Tabitha
until Ted came home at six. She
had spent the afternoon preparing
a delicious chicken dinner, because
she knew Aunt Tabitha was espe-
cially fond of dumplings. She had
gathered fresh flowers from the
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garden she was so carefully tending
for Aunt Tabitha and had placed a
big bouquet of daisies and sweet-
peas on Aunt Tabitha's table. Even
these had not elicited any response
from her. She had glanced at them
as Ellen brought them in and had
then looked away.
I7LLEN went out to meet Ted in
the driveway. She was almost
in tears. 'Ted/' she whispered, *'l
don't know what's the matter with
Aunt Tabitha. She's so different
today. Do you think she may be
dying?"
Ted's alarmed expression showed
the sincerity of his concern.
"What's happened?" he demanded,
as he hurried to the side door.
Ted stepped softly through the
doorway into Aunt Tabitha's room.
She looked up at him with an ex-
pressionless face. He tried to be
cheerful and to act as though
everything was as usual.
"Hello, Aunt Tabitha. How are
you tonight?" he asked, in what he
tried to make his usual tone.
She looked at him and spoke
hollowly, "Ted, I am not so well."
"Do you hurt somewhere? Shall
I get Dr. Starks?"
"No, he can't help me. I guess
I'm just not meant to get well,
Ted."
"But you were getting well, un-
til we put you into that wheelchair
yesterday. Did we hurt you? Did
we hurt your hip?"
"No, Ted. I wasn't hurt. You
didn't hurt my hip at all."
Ted knew Aunt Tabitha. Some-
thing was wrong, and she wouldn't
be all right until what was wrong
was made right. But what was
wrong?
Aunt Tabitha motioned Ted to
sit in the chair beside her bed. For
a moment she did not speak, then
she said, "Ted, when I am gone, I
want you to have this house and
everything in it."
"Thank you. Aunt Tabitha. But
that's something to be thought
about a long time from now."
She continued as though he had
not spoken "... on one condi-
tion."
"What is that. Aunt Tabitha?"
"On the condition that you
always keep everything that is in
the house. I would not like to go, •
knowing my things were not ap-
preciated." There were tears in her
voice.
"I can assure you. Aunt Tabitha,
Ellen and I will observe your wish-
es in this matter. We have done
so, and we will continue to do so."
She looked at him sadly.
"Well," he demanded, "haven't
we?" •
Aunt Tabitha did not answer his
question. Instead she turned her
head wearily and motioned him to
leave.
TT was two o'clock in the night
when Ellen awakened Ted. She
was shaking him vigorously. At first
he could not remember what it was
she was talking about. "Ted," she
was whispering, "I think I know
what's the matter."
"Matter?" he sleepily rejoined.
"What's the matter?"
"The chair," she cried excitedly.
"It's the chair. I forgot about it."
Ted was wide awake now. "Of
course that's it," he agreed. "We
should have remembered it was her
pride and joy. Well, tomorrow I'll
dig it out of the back shed and put
it back into the living room."
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221
"Oh, but Ted/' Ellen wailed,
''that awful green will just spoil all
I've tried to do in the living room—
and there are layers and layers of
paint under that.
"Makes no difference," Ted stout-
ly rejoined; "if all it takes to make
Aunt Tabitha happy and well is
that old rocker, in it comes, green
or not. I'll get it out before I leave
for the office."
Ellen gave up the struggle. Ted
could be very firm when he chose.
And somehow she rather liked his
attitude toward Aunt Tabitha.
True to his word, Ted located
the old rocker in the back shed the
next morning. It needed dusting,
so Ellen cleaned it thoroughly,
shaking the seat pillow and the
back rest to make them more pre-
sentable. She placed it by the win-
dow where Aunt Tabitha could not
fail to see it when she awakened.
AN hour later, there was a ring
from Aunt Tabitha's room. El-
len found her sitting up straight in
bed, her eyes full of life, as she
glanced from the chair to Ellen and
back again.
"Where'd that chair come from?"
she demanded. "I thought you had
thrown it away."
"Oh, now. Aunt Tabitha," El-
len answered gently, "we haven't
thrown away anything of yours. I
just moved the chair out of the liv-
ing room temporarily."
"It's the one thing in this house
that I love most of all/' Aunt Tab-
itha said. "When I thought you
had done something with it, I just
felt I'd lost a lifelong friend. Now,
I know you will love and care for
this house as I always have."
Ellen was soon on the telephone,
calhng Ted's office. "Ted," she
chirped, "everything's all right. It
was the chair all the time. She
thought we had disposed of it—
that was all that was the matter."
"Is she going to get up today?"
he queried.
"Is she? She's up now— sitting
in the rocking chair, in the living
room. Goodbye now. I'd better
go in there, before she falls out."
Back in the living room, Ellen
found Aunt Tabitha looking around
her with a puzzled expression.
"What's wrong, Aunt Tabitha?"
she asked.
"You know, Ellen," Aunt Tab-
itha answered, "I think this chair
doesn't look right in this room.
Wrong color. My mother told me
once that this chair is really made
of fine walnut. Couldn't we have
the paint removed and the natural
wood brought out again?"
Ellen's smile was radiant. "Won-
derful," she beamed. "You just sit
there quietly until I come back.
I'll call Stone and Grooms and
have them pick up the chair today.
They'll have it back in no time."
Left to herself. Aunt Tabitha
looked about her contentedly. The
room was ever so much nicer than
it had been when she went to the
hospital. She patted the arms of
her httle rocker gently, picturing
it as it would be when it came back
from the furniture man. She would
make new covers for it herself—
after Ellen chose the material, of
course. She smiled happily to her-
self. These would be the best days
of her life, after all.
Then, carefully, ever so carefully,
she began to rock slowly.
Willard Luce
MOUNT TIMPANOGOS, UTAH
CJorever 1 1 Line
DeJJa Adams Leitner
This is the old home place, and here
I come returning, worn with travel stains;
Strangers to me possess these verdant fields,
But something mine forever here remains.
The apple trees in petaled fragrance stand,
The sheltered garden pool in willov/ shade;
The old stone fence, clothed in its ivy robe.
Recalls my father's toil and what he made.
I pause awhile, relive my carefree youth;
I shall go on — perhaps return no more.
But from this tryst with memory I shall take
Comfort for sunset years — a treasure store.
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Kay Ishuh
MAUREEN got up as soon as suspected the girl was on the verge
the alarm went oflE. She of hysteria, and as they sat down
moved automatically to on the edge of the bed, she had
close the window and then around taken one of Beverly's hands and
to Harvey's bed. "Harvey! Wake up, said, "We're so happy you came to
honey! It's six-thirty." The last was be with us, Beverly. We all want
lost in a yawn. you to be as happy as possible
In the bathroom she surveyed here."
herself in the mirror. If there was Beverly's eyes had clouded with
any comfort in being forty, it was tears, and her "thank you" had
to be forty and not look it. She had been barely audible,
very few wrinkles, and the new "And we're all so delighted about
haircut certainly minimized the ef- the baby . . . ." But Maureen had
feet of gray that was just beginning not gone on, because Beverly, with
at her temples. Maureen was grate- a quick gesture, had pushed her
ful that she did not look as tired dark hair back from her face, and
as she felt. She was bone-tired, dog- the eyes that met Maureen's had
tired, several varieties of tired. held a look of wild apprehension.
It wasn't just that she had been "Yes, the baby. My mother
up with Dickie at least half a dozen died . . . ." She could not speak
times during the night. Even after for a moment and her throat moved
his coughing quieted down, and convulsively. "She died when I was
she got back into bed, she couldn't born."
sleep. Her thoughts kept going to Maureen had moved quickly and
the dark-eyed girl sleeping in the put her arm around the trembling
room that used to be John's before girl. "They have so many methods
he went overseas. to make childbirth safer now, and
John's wife had been with them we'll get a good doctor," she had
a month now, and she still seemed comforted her as she helped lay out
as tense and frightened as she had her night things, and saw her safe-
the night she arrived. She had been ly in bed.
weary and bewildered that night, Beverly had seemed calmer the
and the welcoming committee had next morning, and it was obvious
been noisy— the entire family: sev- she was fighting for courage, but,
en-year-old Dickie and the fourteen- after a month, the fear still seemed
year-old twins, plus Grandma Dunn to be there,
and, of course, Harvey and herself. *****
It was difficult to restrain the chil- lyrAUREEN scrubbed her teeth
dren, and even Grandma Dunn had and washed. Then she went
been curious and excited about back to the bedroom and shook
John's wife. Harvey again. "Come on, dear, it's
When Maureen had finally taken after six-thirty."
Beverly up to John's room, she had This time he grunted and sat up
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on the edge of the bed, looking big
and tousled and not at all like a
successful grain buyer in his polka-
dot pajamas. ''Dickie coughed," he
mumbled.
"Yes," she answered his state-
ment. ''But he's sleeping now. Fm
going to let him sleep. He can't go
to school with that cough."
Harvey lumbered sleepily into the
bathroom, and Maureen began to
dress. Dickie's cough was a worry.
He'd had far too many colds this
winter. Her mind drifted back to
the more urgent worry. She must
forget her own heavy fear concern-
ing her older son and find some way
to comfort his wife. Terror could
be destructive, and Beverly and the
new life within her must be kept
secure and safe for John when he
came home.
After dressing, Maureen looked
in on Dickie, whose seven-year
length was curled into a relaxed
mound under the jumbled covers.
His breathing was easy, and he
didn't look feverish.
Then she quietly crossed the hall
and opened the door to the room
her fourteen-year-old twins shared.
They were already awake, and she
had apparently interrupted a low ex-
change of words, for Jean was wip-
ing angrily at reddened eyes, and
Jill's whole attitude, as she jerked
bobby pins out of her hair, was one
of impatient defensiveness.
To Maureen, it was a constant
source of surprise that her twins
were alike in time element only.
They did not share a single twin
characteristic. Where Jill was gre-
garious and aggressive, Jean was
quiet and shy. The identical shape
and shade of their brown eyes were
denied in the fiery sparkle of Jill's
flashing looks, the soft warmth of
Jean's calm observance.
Now Jill turned quickly to her
mother. "Mother, I think Jean is
just plain selfish about her purple
shoes. They just match my dress,
and she isn't even going to the
dance . . . ."
Jean didn't speak, and Maureen
could sense her waiting for her re-
sponse—her mother's judgment in
the case of the purple shoes. "The
wisdom of Solomon, the patience of
Job . . . ." Those had been her
own mother's words and that was
exactly what it took to rear chil-
dren.
The argument of the purple shoes
had been going on for several days,
and Maureen felt sure the onlv
reason the usually generous Jean re-
fused the shoes was because she
wanted so much to go to this par-
ticular dance herself and didn't
have a date.
"Jill, those shoes belong to Jean.
She saved the money for them by
making her school skirts instead of
buying them ready-made as you did.
If she doesn't want you to wear the
shoes I suggest you stop asking."
Maureen didn't like the smug look
on Jean's face. "You better get up
Jean, it's nearly seven."
lyrAUREEN closed the door to
the twins' room and won-
dered if she had done and said the
right thing. Jill, who was slightly
lazy, had no right to expect to reap
the rewards earned by industrious
Jean, and yet smugness concerning
possessions was not good, either.
Where was the right place to draw
the line?
On her way downstairs, Maureen
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225
passed Beverly's door and wondered
if the argument had awakened her.
In the last month she had won-
dered what Beverly must think of
their noisy, energetic household.
She had felt distressed that Beverly
should become aware of the myriad
daily problems to be met and
solved with the children, and yet
while she was living here, it was im-
possible to insulate her against
their everyday life.
In the kitchen Maureen moved
quickly and efficiently to pre-
pare breakfast, her hands doing
tasks so familiar that she scarcely
had to think as she worked. She
remembered when John had first
written about Beverly. He had
met her at a M.I.A. dance. Maureen
knew at once that this girl was spec-
ial as far as John was concerned,
but she had been taken completely
by surprise when, after knowing
Beverly but one month, John had
written and asked his mother to get
his recommend from the bishop, as
he and Beverly planned to get mar-
ried right away.
Less than three months after the
temple ceremony, John had been
sent overseas. There had not been
time for a trip home, but he had
called on the phone, and it was
then he had told them that they
were expecting a child and asked if
Beverly might come and stay with
them.
"She has no family, Mom, and
she's scared," he had said.
''Of course, John, she must come
here with us. There's your room.
We could fix it up for her. Why,
she must come here!" Her voice had
risen with urgency. So it was settled
and Beverly had come.
As if it were yesterday Maureen
remembered her own fear when she
knew she was going to have John.
And her own mother's words,
"Maureen, women have been hav-
ing babies since time began, and
most of 'em seem to live through
it. The really hard part about hav-
ing a baby is rearing it to be a use-
ful person. Most women can, and
do, have babies, but it takes real
courage and love, plus the wisdom
of Solomon and the patience of
Job, to rear 'em to be fine men and
women."
These words had been a comfort
to her. They had made her feel a
kinship with all other women down
through the ages, and she had de-
cided to concentrate on being a
good mother when her baby ar-
rived.
H
ARVEY'S kiss on the back of
her neck brought Maureen back
to the present. She turned and
moved into the circle of his arms,
and they stood in a warm embrace
without speaking. Each morning
before the children came downstairs
they stood so and seemed to draw
strength from each other for the
day ahead. Neither of them spoke,
for words were unnecessary.
Maureen sighed and drew away
from the comfort of the embrace
to turn the pancakes that were
cooking on the stove. "Drink your
orange juice, dear."
"Yes, ma'm," he imitated Dickie.
But he picked up his glass of juice.
"What's the trouble? You seem to
be in the glumps this morning."
"Harvey, I'm worried about Bev-
erly. She seems to be so nervous,
so ... so frightened." It was hard
to put her feeling into words.
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"She does appear to be a little
apprehensive. But who wouldn't
be, living with such a batch of in-
laws?" He chuckled and began to
butter his pancakes. Before Mau-
reen could voice any further doubts,
Beverly came into the kitchen.
''Goodness, guess I've overslept
again." She smiled shyly. 'Tou
could probably call it a habit, Fve
done it nearly every morning since
I've been here."
''Good morning, Beverly." Har-
vey beamed at the pretty, dark-
haired girl, and Maureen was thank-
ful for his gracious way with her.
"There's no need for you to get
up. You should sleep as long as
you want to." Maureen smiled af-
fectionately as she handed her a
glass of fruit juice.
"Oh, I don't feel like I have to
get up, it's just that I enjoy ... I
mean it's so nice the way you all
have breakfast together." Her lovely
eyes grew concerned. "How is Dick-
ie? I heard him coughing."
"Well, he's sleeping and I think
his temperature is gone. It's hard
to say . . ." Maureen began as Jill
flounced into the room.
"Hi, everybody!" She seated her-
self with an air of tragic melan-
choly.
"Morning, darling. Who ruffled
your feathers so early in the morn-
ing?" Harvey grinned at her.
She didn't return his smile, but
let the corners of her mouth droop
further. "I don't see how anyone
can be as selfish as Jean is. She's
nothing but a dog-in-the-manger.
She isn't even going to the dance.
She doesn't have a date."
"I don't want any old date! I
don't even want to go to the silly
dance." Jean's bravado, as she
walked into the kitchen, was be-
trayed by the slight quaver in her
voice.
Maureen felt it was time she
stepped into the argument. She car-
ried a plate of pancakes to the table.
"I think you are both behaving
more like four than fourteen."
She went on conversationally,
"Isn't Todd's cousin here from Salt
Lake? He seemed like an awfully
nice boy, and no one here would
know he was a year younger than
Todd. In fact, I thought he was
the same age when I met him."
Maureen watched the light dawn
on Jill.
"Mother, that's a wonderful idea.
Why didn't I think of it?" Jill
turned to her sister. "Would you
go, Jean?"
"Oh, I don't know. I don't
think . . . ." Jean's pessimistic words
were denied by the hope that was
suddenly shining in her eyes.
Jill leaped up from the table.
"I'll call Todd right now."
T ATER, after Maureen had kissed
her husband goodbye, she
watched the twins start out for
school arm-in-arm. It seemed that
Todd's cousin wanted very much to
take Jean to the dance, but because
of that temporarily important one
year's difference in age, he had been
too shy to ask. Jill would wear
Jean's purple shoes, and, in fair ex-
change, Jean would have the loan
of Jill's crystal necklace. With a lit-
tle luck, Maureen thought, that
might be the last major crisis today,
but there would be something else
tomorrow.
The comfortable old house
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227
seemed quiet and peaceful as she
walked back to the kitchen. ''Why
don't you put on some more pan-
cakes while I go check Dickie?" she
asked Beverly, who still sat at the
table, staring intently out the win-
dow.
The girl smiled and moved to-
ward the stove, and, when Maureen
came downstairs after looking in on
the still sleeping boy, the pancakes
were steaming on the table.
They often sat over breakfast
this way in the morning, and it had
given Maureen her best opportunity
to get to know Beverly. She had
found the girl sincere and sweet.
Not once since the night she came
to live with them had she men-
tioned her fear of having the baby.
At times she seemed relaxed and
normal, and then again Maureen
saw a look of apprehension.
Now Beverly spoke almost before
Maureen was seated at the table, as
though she had been planning the
words while she waited, ''I want to
talk to you about something, it's . . .
well, I . . . Fm so frightened . . . ."
She seemed unable to go on.
Maureen put down her fork
slowly. Here it was. Now the fear
would be out in the open. And
that would be best. But did she
have the answer? Could she find
the words that would comfort
Beverly? The answer that would
quiet the destroying fear?
''Beverly, women have been hav-
ing babies since time began. With
the care you get today . . . ."
"Oh, I'm not worried about the
baby being born. It's . . . ." Bev-
erly began.
"But I thought you . . . the night
you came . . . ." Maureen interrupt-
ed her, and then could find no
words to voice her astonishment.
OEVERLY laughed self-conscious-
ly. "I guess I acted like that at
first. But, anyway, I'm not fright-
ened about that anymore."
"Then what . . .?" Maureen was
at a loss for words again.
"Well, it's partly Dickie. I mean
he's been so sick. His cough must
be a worry." Beverly spoke slowly.
"Dickie will be all right, Beverly.
Nearly all children have a bad win-
ter now and then. Colds or coughs
or both. Dr. Morse gave me a good
tonic for him yesterday." She smiled
reassuringly. "Why Dickie will be
back to school in a week."
"Yes, I know. But you've been
up so many nights, and you're so
patient," Beverly went on. "And
then the twins. They're adorable
but . . . well, life is so complicated
for them. Everything is so vital.
And you always seem to know what
to say and do. Like this morning at
breakfast."
"The twins are in one of the
stages that all children go through.
They're almost impossible to live
with now, but in a year or two
they'll suddenly be young women."
Maureen laughed ruefully. "And
difficult as they are, I hate to see
them grow up."
"I know. And then there's John."
Beverly's eyes clouded with misery.
"At first all I could think of was
what it meant to me to have him
go away. But now I see all the
years, all the love and patience that
made him what he is. Now I have
an idea of how hard it must be for
you ....
"Yes, it's hard." Maureen felt
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heavy with sadness. "But every
mother knows that someday her
children will leave the home, and
even while her heart cries out
against their leaving, she knows
that it is the way of life. A thing
she must face, only war makes it
much worse." Her eyes met Bev-
erly's. '*I hope you never have to
send a son to war."
"That's what I mean." Beverly's
voice was almost a whisper. "Giving
birth to my baby doesn't seem such
a problem anymore. It's after they
get here. I don't know if ... I
don't know if I have what it takes
to be a mother."
Maureen let her body relax into
the kitchen chair and felt part of
a heavy burden slip from her
shoulders. Beverly would be all
right. She had stopped thinking of
herself and was becoming con-
cerned with the real job ahead of
her. She had stopped worrying
about the birth and was feeling her
first responsibility toward the new
life that would be put in her hands
soon, slowly understanding that
this new life would take all the skill
and love and courage she could
summon.
The older woman smiled into the
young girl's eyes. "When the time
comes . . . you'll find you have
what it takes," she said.
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KAY Webster turned the chops
and lowered the fire under
the skillet before lifting a
flushed cheek for Don's homecom-
ing kiss. There were tired lines
around her mouth, and a strand of
fair hair had escaped its pin.
"Dinner's late," she said, hurried-
ly putting plates and silver on the
table in the breakfast nook. "Mr.
Martin brought in some extra con-
tracts to be typed— in triplicate, too,
mind you, and at five-thirty."
"Well, I'm late, too," Don con-
soled. "That's what comes of hav-
ing to ride with Carson. He's
alwavs behind time."
*'l wish we had two cars," Kay
interjected impatiently, "or you
would pick up the baby, and I'd
come home by bus. No— that
wouldn't do. I'd be later than ever.
Oh, well, wash Bobby's hands and
put him in his chair, will you, Don?
And start him on his dinner. He's
so hungry and tired. Mrs. Meredith
was just about to feed him when
I finally got there."
Don laid an envelope beside his
own plate silently and picked up
Bobby from the floor, swinging
him to his broad shoulder.
"Hi, old man," he said, his broad
face tender, "how about a wash-
up and then that egg, I see there?"
Bobby rubbed his eyes with a
small, grubby hand. ''Egg," he de-
manded, "egg."
Kay fluffed the potatoes, stined
gravy, and was sliding a pan of rolls
from the oven when Don and Bob-
by returned, sleek and smiling.
"That oven!" she ejaculated.
"These rolls are too brown."
Don sniffed appreciatively at the
warm odors emanating from the
steaming utensils. "I like 'em brown.
And chops! Who wants steak
when chops are half the price?"
He levelled Bobby into his chair
and gave him his spoon. "Did you
see what I brought home, honey?"
he asked eagerly.
Kay shook her head. "Dinner's
ready," she said.
Don sat down, opened the en-
velope, and passed the contents
over, then straightened back, a smile
lighting the broad planes of his
face. "How's that?" he inquired.
Kay dropped her eyes to the
paper, then, ''Tho car," she ex-
claimed. "In full, Dan, in full?
Well, that's off our shoulders."
"Yep. Our car at last, and still
in good shape, and now . . . ." He
grinned at her.
Kay poured milk into Bobby's
cup. "And now. What do you
mean— and now?"
Don took an appreciative bite of
his chop. "And now, you can quit
working, honey. See?"
"Quit!" Kay remonstrated. "The
car's paid for, yes, but there's still
the house."
"I can take care of that. The fifty
dollar raise I got, you know."
"But that's not all, Don," Kay
broke in, her blue eyes impatient.
"The furniture is all secondhand
stuff, as you know. The stove and
refrigerator are both on the ragged
edge. And then, I want one of
these automatic washers— instead of
spending half my evenings wash-
ing and drying clothes." Kay stopped
for breath.
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*'But if you weren't working,
you wouldn't need to wash even-
ings, honey/' he objected. ''We'll
get all those things in time. Be
reasonable, won't you?"
IZAY laid down her fork patiently.
'^ "But Don, Bobby's all right.
Mrs. Meredith is wonderful with
children, better than I would be.
Bobby has playmates there, all
about his own age. He'd be lone-
some here all alone."
''He'd get acquainted with his fa-
ther and mother," Don argued
shortly. "The way it is now, we
rush him to Mrs. Meredith's so
early he can't even have breakfast
here. Then, at night, after he's had
his dinner, he's tired and goes to
bed. That's no way for a family
to live."
Kay's lips trembled. She spooned
baby food onto Bobby's plate, wiped
egg smears from his mouth. "Well,
Fm too tired to argue," she said.
"I just told Mr. Martin this morn-
ing that I'd stay on, so I guess I'll
have to."
Don shrugged and finished his
meal in silence, his mouth set grim-
ly. But as they were preparing for
bed, he renewed his plea.
"Kay, think it over, won't you?
I want a real home and a wife who
isn't all tired out when I get here,
where dinner's ready, and the kid's
not too tired to play a little while.
Can't you understand?"
Kay, seated at the dressing table,
took the bright stones from her ears
and started brushing her short,
blond hair.
"I'll think about it," she said
shortly. "Anyway, there's no hur-
But she was too tired to think,
this night as always, and in the
morning there was no time. Don
doesn't know what he's asking, she
reasoned with herself. Besides, I
like working, and Mrs. Meredith is
so lovely with Bobby. Breakfast,
lunch, and naps right on time. And
she's teaching all the children good
manners and how to get along to-
gether. I couldn't do it.
T/"AY met Margery Holt in the
drugstore downtown that noon
when she went in after lunch to
get some toilet articles. Marge had
her baby with her, almost the same
age as Bobby.
"Still working, Kay?" she asked.
"Yes, but Don's beginning to fuss
about it," Kay answered. Then, "Do
you think I'm unreasonable. Marge?
You stay at home, you know how
it is. I want to keep on working
until we have some of the nice
things."
"Well, of course, Don makes
more than Ed. But staying at
home's no cinch. I'm real tired at
night, and we don't go out much as
we can't afford a baby-sitter very
often. Bobby's all right, isn't he?"
"Oh, yes, fine. Mrs. Meredith is
wonderful. She takes care of four
children, all under two. Some are
creeping, some just staggering
around. And the jargon!" Kay
laughed. "She told me this morn-
ing that Bobby said 'Mawy' the
other day. She thought he was try-
ing to say Meredith."
Margery laughed. "Of course,
that's natural. He sees far more of
her than of you."
Kay winced, but did not reply,
while Margery continued, "And
once they get started talking ....
My Danny was slow, too, but he's
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been saying Da da and Mum for
two or three weeks. Ed was so
proud, you'd think no child ever
talked before."
''Mum, mum/' Danny interrupt-
ed. ''Da da!" his tiny hands wav-
ing in an ecstasy of accomplish-
ment.
Kay smiled down at him, a small
stirring of jealousy in her heart. It
wasn't any lack in Bobby, of course.
She'd start tonight saying Da da
and Mummy over and over. It
wouldn't be long.
"And his first step," Margery was
bubbling on. "Oh, that was a day.
Maybe, it's because Danny's our
first, but Ed would hardly let the
child rest a minute. 'Stand up now,'
he'd say, 'like a little man. That's
it. Now, come to Daddy.' Over
and over, he'd urge him until I had
to step in and put him to bed."
She laughed. "I suppose it's the
same with you."
Kay nodded. She wasn't going
to tell Marge that they hadn't
known about Bobby's first step
alone until he was really walking.
Mrs. Meredith had too many first
steps to report, maybe.
"Well, I've a tub of laundry wait-
ing," Marge exclaimed. "Come up
some Saturday and we'll compare
children. So long."
^^'CAY Mummy, Daddy," Kay
^ coaxed Bobby that night as
she was preparing him for bed. She
pulled a tiny shirt from over his
small blond head. "Mummy, Dad-
dy."
"Mawy," Bobby replied stolidly.
"Mawy."
"What's that he's trying to say?"
Don asked from his seat on the
bed.
"Meredith, I guess. At least,
Mrs. Meredith thinks so," Kay re-
plied shortly, "or imagines," she
added. "Though with all those
babies gabbing away, I don't know
how she'd know who really did say
it."
Don's face was inscrutable. He
started to speak, thought better of
it, and lapsed into silence.
"Did you think any more about
giving up your job, Kay?" He asked
later as she washed and he wiped
the dishes.
"No," she answered crisply.
"Well, do," he urged. "You're
looking tired, honey. I'd think
you'd rather stay home."
"Marg Holt stays home and she
gets tired, too," Kay interjected,
"real tired, she expressed it today.
They're having a hard time finan-
cially, too. I believe she envies
us."
Don shrugged and carried a load
of dishes to the cupboard. "I wish
I'd never let you go back to work,"
he said grimly.
"Then the car wouldn't be paid
for, maybe not even the doctor bill
for Bobby, and a lot of other
things," she flashed. "Don't for-
get that."
She wiped off the table, hung up
the towels, "I've some things to
wash out," she said shortly.
"Okay," Don said, his mouth a
grim line. "Anything I can do?"
"No," Kay answered and watched
him out of the kitchen. Perhaps
Don had forgotten how things had
been, she thought, her hands deep
in soapsuds. They had married on
faith and a shoestrong. She had
her job, he had his and, of course,
with one rent to pay instead of
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two and home-cooked meals so
much cheaper than restaurant ones
they had decided they could get
along. They had for a time. The
furnished apartment did very well
until they found an unbelievable
bargain in a house. They had furn-
ished it with unclaimed furniture
from a storage place, all on time, of
course.
Then, their luck had faded. Don's
car gave out, and they had to buy
another, and Dr. Wellman in-
formed them that Bobby was on
the way. Soon, there was only
Don's salary. Doctor bills mount-
ed, crib, carriage, layette had to be
bought, later, hospital bills, nurses
and pediatricians to be paid. The
first of the month became a night-
mare of juggling salary against gro-
ceries, bills, and house and car pay-
ments. There never was enough
to go around. Kay watched Bobby
through many a minor upset to
save another doctor bill.
'pHEN, she had found Mrs. Mere-
dith. Kay reached for the soap
box, recalling her first encounter
with her. She had gone for a walk
in the park with four-month-old
Bobby and a sudden rainstorm had
sent her up on the porch of a near-
by house for shelter. Suddenly, the
door opened and a pleasant woman
had appeared.
"Come in, my dear," she ex-
claimed. "You're getting wet. I'm
Mrs. Meredith."
Thankfully, Kay accepted and
found inside what seemed to be a
room full of bassinets, cribs, play-
pens, all with children in them, all
nearly the same size.
"Are they all yours?" she asked
in bewilderment. 'Twins or trip-
lets, or . . ." she stammered, look-
ing from one to the other.
"Oh, no," Mrs. Meredith laughed.
"I only take care of them. It's just
another way of earning a living."
She picked a string of plastic balls
up and handed it to the occupant
of a bassinet. "I love children, and
it's much easier if they're all about
the same age."
"But— but where are their moth-
ers?" Kay gasped.
"Oh, working. Diane, here has
a father in Korea, Jerry over there
in the play-pen, his father is dead.
Mary's mother works to make ends
meet. Different reasons, you
know," she explained. "But sit
down and let me see your baby.
Boy, isn't it?"
Kay complied, and by the time
the rain had ended and Mrs. Mere-
dith had disclosed her terms, she
was thoroughly imbued with her
new idea. Everything, the room,
the babies were shining clean, the
children seemed happy and well
cared for. This would be the an-
swer, and Mr. Martin, her employer,
had told her any time she wanted
to come back, he'd find a place for
her.
"Would you take Bobby?" she
had asked. "I really need to work,
we're so in debt. And I'd feel per-
fectly safe if he were here."
Mrs. Meredith hesitated and
looked about. "I've never taken
more than four at a time," she ob-
jected. "I'm afraid not." She
brightened. "Judy's mother is get-
ting better. Perhaps it won't be
too long before she can care for her
herself. Give me your name and
telephone. I'll call when I can take
him."
Bobby had gone to Mrs. Mere-
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dith at six months of age, ten
months ago. They'd paid their
debts, one by one, bought a few
pieces of furniture, finished the pay-
ments on the car— and now ....
Kay poured the pan of suds into
the sink, filled it with fresh water,
and started rinsing small shirts and
stockings, overalls, and sweaters.
Now, with an automatic washer,
Bobby's clothes would all be clean
and dried by the time he was in
bed and she'd be through for the
night. She crisscrossed a cord in
the kitchen and hung up the small
garments with a sigh of relief. May-
be this was the last time. There
wasn't a single reason why the
washer might not be decided upon
tomorrow, or the next day at the
latest.
rjON made only a small objection,
going with her to decide on the
make and size most suitable. After
that, life went along as usual, ex-
cept that Kay wasn't so tired at
night, and they had their evenings
together.
'T guess you were right, Kay,"
Don owned grudgingly one even-
ing. The weary lines had disap-
peared from the face she bent over
her mending. "At least, about the
washer," he amended. ''What's that
you are sewing on?"
"Bobby's overalls. I've mended
and mended them but hand-sewing
doesn't hold. I believe I'll get a
sewing machine. It would really
be a saving. I could make the
drapes for this room for a third of
the price they charge."
Don shook his head wearily.
"Here we go again," was all he said.
Kay went on, "And I saw a sofa in
Hanagan's window, just the color
I want." Kay turned and looked
about the room. "Everything's so
shabby. Now, with new drapes,"
she went on brightly, "and another
chair, you wouldn't know the place."
"Honey, honey," Don begged,
reaching forward for her hand.
"Let's be satisfied with what we
have until I can manage. I'll get
the sofa and the drapes, and after
a while the sewing machine. Just
be patient, won't you?" He patted
her hand. "Those are just things,
and meanwhile we're losing a real
home. Bobby is, too, if you'd only
see it."
Kay turned her head away. Was
she unreasonable? Don looked so
eager, it seemed to mean so much
to him. Then, suddenly, something
of the old panic she had felt before
and just after Bobby's birth re-
turned. Who knew when bad luck
might strike, and they'd be faced
with bills again— every month turn-
ing this way and that, balancing this
against that. She was doing this as
much for Bobby's sake as for
theirs, she thought irritably.
She pulled her hand away from
Don's. "Another year maybe," she
promised, "just to be safe."
■pvON pushed back his chair and
got up abruptly, his dark eyes
hard as a stranger's beneath the
thick, dark brows. "And you have
no faith in me and my ability to
take care of you and Bobby."
"It isn't that," Kay objected, but
she knew it was.
"Or are you a coward?" Don
asked bitingly. He picked his hat
from the closet shelf and walked
out.
Kay gathered up her mending
with unsteady hands. She wasn't a
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coward, she wasn't, and she didn't
doubt Don. She only wanted to do
the best for all their sakes.
Later, in bed, she turned and
tossed until Don returned, finally
dropping off to sleep, promising her-
self that when the sewing machine
was paid for, she would stop work.
But not now, she told herself fever-
ishly, Don would just have to un-
derstand.
One afternoon, several weeks lat-
er, Mrs. Meredith called. Bobby
seemed to have a cold, she said, his
temperature was up a little. Prob-
ably, nothing to worry about, but
Kay should come and get him. The
other children must be protected.
He did seem quite feverish, Kay
found. She bundled him up and
carried him to the car, trying to
hush his crying. It couldn't be seri-
ous, Bobby was always so well. But
she'd call Dr. Wellman. Then she'd
call the office, and say she wouldn't
be back that day, and after that,
Don.
"It's too early for a diagnosis,"
the doctor reported. 'There are a
number of things it might prove to
be. I'll leave something for his
fever and the cough. Keep him in
bed and no visitors. It might be
contagious. I'll see you tomorrow."
Contagious? Oh no, Kay thought,
dismayed. I'll call Don.
Don arrived home early, his dark
face anxious. '1 got hold of John-
son and he brought me," he ex-
plained. "How's Bobby?" He stood
over Bobby's bed. "Probably just
a cold," he said without conviction.
"Do you suppose it's something he
caught over at that Meredith wom-
an's?"
"No," Kay replied. "I called 'that
Meredith woman' as you term her.
She said the other children were
all well. It's probably something he
picked up at the zoo where you in-
sisted on taking him Saturday."
Don shrugged and looked at her
in silence. Then, "I wanted you
to go, too, remember? We have
so few pleasures together with Bob-
by, honey. Saturday afternoon is
our only day."
"And my only day for finishing
those drapes," she replied in a tense
voice.
jyY the fourth day, telltale spots
appeared on Bobby's face, and
the doctor's verdict was measles.
"Measles," Kay exclaimed. "Oh,
all children have measles. How long
will it take to clear up? My job,
you know."
"Two weeks, probably," the doc-
tor said. "That is, if everything
goes well, and there are no compli-
cations."
Kay sobered instantly. "Compli-
cations?"
"Bronchitis, ear trouble, even
pneumonia is possible. But keep
him comfortable, no chilfing, no
drafts. Care is the necessary
thing."
After the doctor's departure, Kay
stood watching Bobby, his small
flushed face against the pillow. He
coughed hoarsely and opened his
eyes. "Mawy," he called, "Mawy!"
Kay bent and touched his hot
little forehead. "Mommy's here,
Bobby. This is Mommy. Do you
want a drink of water?"
Bobby turned his face away.
"Mawy," he sobbed, "wan Mawy."
He means Mrs. Meredith, Kay
thought numbly. "Mawy can't
come, Bobby. Daddy will be here
soon, though."
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''No. Mawy/' Bobby sobbed over
and over, ''wan Mawy/'
That night Bobby woke scream-
ing with an earache. He cried
constantly for "Mawy," until the
doctor arrived with a sedative.
"Who is it he's calhng for?" he
asked, "a playmate?"
"No, a Mrs. Meredith who has
been caring for him," Kay replied
slowly.
"I see. Too bad. Of course, she
couldn't come." He turned in an
attempt at jocularity. "Bobby'll
have to get along with just his
Mom and Dad. Usually, a good
combination, though," he smiled.
"If the baby's not better by morn-
ing, call me."
Kay studiously avoided Don's
eyes. She knew what he was think-
ing. He and she were second best
in the eyes and heart of their own
baby. And it was her own fault.
She had sold their birthright for a
mess of pottage. His first step
alone had been for Mrs. Meredith,
his first word had been her name.
The mess of pottage was a box of
receipted bills, a washer, living-
room drapes, and a sewing machine.
Don was able and more than will-
ing to care for his family's real
needs.
She threw herself down beside
the bed where Bobby was lying in
a drugged sleep and wept. "You
must hate me, Don," she sobbed
hopelessly. "I hate myself. It's
not only me but I've robbed you,
too. I've given away Bobby's baby-
hood, as if it were nothing. And
nothing can bring it back, ever/"
She felt Don's hands lifting her.
"I don't hate you," he said, his face
against her hair. "I love you. I know
you thought you were doing right,
I've known that all along. You
just were scared of unpaid bills,
which we could pay in awhile with
careful budgeting and not buying
unnecessary things."
He raised her chin and kissed her
trembling lips. "Besides, by another
month Bobby will have forgotten
all about Mrs. Meredith. You'll
see.
"Do you think so, really? It seems
mean, she's such a nice person,"
Kay sympathized, then brightened
at a new determination.
"I'll call her in the morning and
the Martin Company, too. They can
both start advertising in the Want-
ed columns. Bobby and I are go-
ing to be occupied otherwise from
now on," she concluded, with a
glow of gratitude in her heart for
her decision.
c/he ofirst Spring (^rocus
Thelma W. Groneman
Come with me and I will show you
Where the first spring crocus grows
Beneath a hedge in wild abandon,
Spills its gold on melting snows;
Catching the robin's liquid notes,
Coaxing the spring along to share
The joy of newborn life and love.
Come, and I will take you there.
Nevada's Valley of Fire
Wilhid Luce
Willard Luce
ELEPHANT ROCK IN THE VALLEY OF FIRE, NEVADA
POLITICALLY, Nevada's Valley
of Fire has a checkered history.
At one time it was up for consider-
ation as a national monument.
When this was dropped, Nevada
itself took it over as a State Park.
Finally, the State withdrew its sup-
port, and the Valley is now under
the Department of the Interior,
Bureau of Land Management. It is
being considered as an addition to
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the Lake Mead Recreation Area,
and as such would be placed under
the supervision of the National
Parks Service.
But, regardless of the Valley of
Fire's political affiliations, it is still
a mighty interesting place to visit.
Nevada Highway 40 is only twenty-
three miles long, running from the
Lake Mead Recreation Area to
Crystal, on U. S. Highway 91 and
NEVADA'S VALLEY OF FIRE
237
93. Much of this twenty-three
miles is through the jumbled red
ledges of the Valley of Fire.
Extending the borders of the
Recreation Area would place the
Valley of Fire under the jurisdic-
tion of the park rangers who could
help protect it from vandals who
are now robbing it of its petrified
trees, smashing and shooting its
signs, and generally marring its
natural beauty.
The Valley receives its name from
the jumbled strips of red sandstone
ledges which lie like long, red welts
across the drab Nevada landscape.
Brilliant at any time, these ledges,
two hundred to eight hundred feet
high, become flaming red at sunset.
The tops of the ledges are jagged
and broken, making the ledges ap-
pear even more like falls of flame.
Within the Valley are numerous
stone formations, including two
elephant rocks. Fossils of marine
reptiles and partial skeletons of
camels have been found. Side roads
lead to petrified trees and petro-
glyphs.
Picnicking areas, constructed by
the State of Nevada, are still fairly
intact; but be sure to bring your
own water. Near the eastern
boundary of the Valley is the grave,
marked by a large headstone, of a
soldier who didn't. His death hap-
pened a long time back, when the
road was part of the old Mormon
Trail to Las Vegas and Southern
California. He died there in the
shadow of his wagon, only a few
miles from the Muddy River and
less than half a mile from a spring
up in the rugged sandstone ledges.
Water, like gold, is where you find
it there in the desert.
[JUoubie {Beauty
Lena Woodbury
IN April^ Los Robles is the most beautiful street in Pasadena. It is lined on either
side with the camphor tree, a well-branched evergreen with shining leaves. The
trunk and branches are dark brown, almost black, a striking background for the glisten-
ing foliage. In April the old leaves turn red and yellow and drop in great profusion
as the new growth appears. The sidewalks are covered, the street is covered, the gut-
ters are piled high.
Is it Los Robles I love or is it memories of such scenes of my childhood? I am
kicking through the leaves on my way to school, those great piles of red and gold and
brown the rich treasures that the trees almost overnight have cast at my feet. I hear
the crackle of them as I scuffle along. I see them flying before me m the wmd. All
this flash of color and movement is mine to catch and to remember.
I see my dearest older sister, even then a mother with several children, coming to
visit mv mother. Seeing the lawn so covered with leaves, she kicks her feet joyously,
flings herself down into the leaves, rolls delightedly down the slope. What freedom
what joy' At the bottom of the lawn she rolls^ right into the small irrigation ditch full
of water which had been hidden by the carpet of leaf color.
As T drive up Los Robles in April I laugh. The laugh is for an autumn of long
aeo A Utah autumn. For those who are no longer children, beauty is always double.
The beauty of today, and just as immediate, the beauty of yesterday, are tied inseparably
together by the ribbon of memory.
(bixti[ ijears KyLgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, April i, and April 15, 1894
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
AN ETCHING: It was a bright, clear morning in the Wasatch Range. The
lofty, alpine valley near the head of the canyon, high up among the peaks, lay gleaming
in the morning sun. White stemmed quaking aspens stood out in sharp relief against
a background of dark pines. Their pale green leaves, shot through with golden sun-
beams, trembled lightly in the gentle breeze .... Above and beyond the fringe of
trees stretched an unbroken forest, and still beyond, yet in the near distance, rose rocky
cliffs and snowy summits, outlined in grey and white against the deep blue sky ....
—Anna D. Thrall
SCHOOL OF OBSTETRICS AND NURSING: Mrs. Lizzie H. Shipp, professor
and practical teacher of obstetrics, will open a school of obstetrics in Salt Lake City
the first Monday in May. A half yearly course will be taught for the unprecedented
low terms of ten dollars.
• — Selected
WHEN THE SUMMER COMES AGAIN
There will be glad rejoicing
When the summer comes again.
When the rivers break their fetters
And the rills throw off their chains ....
All living things as in one voice,
Will unite in glad acclaim ....
The vestments of glad adorning,
Will be worn through earth's domain ....
All its forces northward streaming
When the summer comes again.
— L. M. Hewlings
WOMAN FARMER: Mrs. Virginia C. Meredith of Cambridge City, Indiana,
proprietor of one of the finest Shorthorn herds in the country .... believes there is
no spot equal to a farm for at once furnishing a competence and enabling a woman to
establish a beautiful home and bring up her children nobly.
— Selected.
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN SANPETE: The Relief Society Con-
ference of the Sanpete Stake of Zion convened in the Spring City Meeting House,
December 16th. President M. A. P. Hyde presiding. The branches of the Relief So-
ciety of Fayette, Gunnison, Sterling, Moroni, Chester, Mt. Pleasant, Wales, Spring City
and Ephraim represented. Counselor Sarah Peterson was pleased with the humble
spirit manifested. Spoke at some length on the storing of grain and culture of silk.
President Canute Peterson advised the sisters to gather wheat for it will be needed ....
— Mary A. F. Hansen, Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
P
RESIDENT BELLE S. SPAF-
FORD, of the general Rehef
Society board, acted as the Utah
vice-chairman of the 1954 cam-
paign of the Crusade for Freedom.
Last year, while serving in the same
office, she received a personal ci-
tation from the national committee
for her outstanding service. This
was signed by Admiral C. E. Wil-
son, Henry Ford, and H. S. Miller.
On a percentage basis, Utah was
the highest 1953 contributor to the
fund, of any state in the Union. The
effect of messages distributed by
broadcast, balloon, or otherwise, to
the people behind the Iron Curtain
from the people of America them-
selves (not the Government) is
astonishingly inspiring to the re-
cipients.
nPENLEY ALBRIGHT, after a
courageous come-back from po-
lio, became, in 1953, the first United
States girl ever to win the world
figure-skating championship. One
critic comments, ''She did to figure
skating what Pavlova did to the
ballet." A pre-medical student at
Radcliffe, she has no ambitions to
become a professional skater.
TN January, Mrs. Hattie Whitney
^ (Sidney G.) Saville died. She
was a granddaughter of Newell K.
Whitney, first presiding bishop of
the Church in Utah, and the last
member of the family of Horace K.
and Mary Cravath Whitney, pio-
neers of 1847. ^^^ ^^'^s ^ former
president of Ensign Stake Young
Women's Mutual Improvement As-
sociation.
TLONA KARMEL was a young
high school girl in Poland when
the Nazis invaded. She spent two
years in concentration camps, where
she wrote poetry on the backs of
work sheets. She was later gradu-
ated from Harvard University, where
she is now a teaching-fellow. Her
first novel, Stephaniaj was a Literary
Guild selection last spring.
jyi ABEL BORG JENKINS, Salt
Lake City musician and teach-
er, was recently paid a high tribute
by internationally famous Utah
pianist Grant Johannesen, who
spoke of his former teacher as being
the ''most important" in his long
career of piano study.
OIRTHDAY congratulations are
extended to Mrs. Augusta Sten-
quist, Tremonton, Utah, for her
ninety-ninth birthday; Mrs. Julia
Caroline Beal Burr, Provo, Utah,
ninety-six; Mrs. Amanda L. Pope,
Garden City, Utah, ninety-five;
Mrs. Anna Rogers Moyes, Salt Lake
City, Utah, ninety-four; Mrs. Sarah
Ann Smith Boren, Salt Lake City,
ninety-two; Mrs. Amy Keister,
Grand Island, Nebraska, ninety-
two.
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EDITOWAL
VOL. 41
APRIL 1954
NO. 4
Jtrbor CO
ail
Plant thou a tree whose grief less leaves shall sing
Thy deed and thee, each fresh unfolding spring.
— E. M. Thomas.
■pVERY nation has in the pages
of its history some heroes, some
great deeds, or some incident in the
national life which it desires to hold
in remembrance, or some object to
which it attaches some special
significance. There are a number
of the days on the calendar which
are specially set apart as holidays
in the United States. Most of these
days are kept in remembrance of
the past, but one of our American
holidays turns its face toward the
future, rather than toward the past.
It is Arbor Day, which is kept as
a symbol of progress, so that the
children of the present may be able
to prepare a blessing for the chil-
dren of the future.
Arbor day owes its origin to }.
Sterling Morton, a former secretary
of Agriculture, when he was a mem-
ber of the Nebraska State Board of
Agriculture in 1872. Before the in-
auguration of this day, Nebraska
was called the treeless state. On
the first Arbor Day, more than a
million trees were planted. During
the next twelve years over
350,000,000 trees, vines, and shrubs
were planted.
In the West there were many
treeless plains, and this beautiful
and useful custom of planting trees
at once aroused the interest of other
states, and the plan was generally
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taken up throughout the country.
Arbor Day is set aside for the plant-
ing of trees and shrubs around the
homes, along the highways, and in
other places, where they are need-
ed, for future blessings and enjoy-
ment. The purpose of this celebra-
tion is to impress upon our boys and
girls, our future American citizens,
the necessity of planting trees for
the security of our nation's material
welfare, and to implant in their
hearts a love of nature. Teachers,
concerned over the rapid destruc-
tion of the forests, have used the
occasion to tell children of the im-
portance of trees and to teach them
their importance to the well-being
of the nation.
Whatever the date that Arbor
Day is observed in the different
states, it is a wonderful time
for families to enjoy happy rec-
reational hours together. Take a
drive out into the country, note
the quickening of the earth as a
result of the warm sunshine that has
penetrated the ground, see earth
coming to life. An urge will fill
your beings to plant. Why not
plan a day of activity for the whole
family? If there is a new tree to
be planted sometime during the
spring, why not allow the children
to enjoy the pleasure and make a
ceremony of it rather than to hire
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someone to come from the nursery driveway look at your house and
for that purpose. Planting is the lot with the eye of a keen, observ-
most delightful business of garden- ant stranger. What do you see?
ing. Trees should be planted with Do your home and its surroundings
intelligent thought. They should live up to their full potentialities
be carefully selected and tenderly as beauty spots? We may not be
cared for after they are planted, able to have costly homes, but we
Children should be taught in the all can have clean, attractive yards
home and in the schools to love and well-kept houses. Those who
trees, the kinds to select for plant- hold office, whether church or
ing in different localities, how to civic, should especially see to it that
plant, and then how to protect and they set a worthy example in this
care for trees. He who plants a tree regard.
plants a future beauty and joy, and Get the spirit of Arbor Day, do
not only for his own, but for a fu- some planting that will beautify
ture generation. your property and your surround-
However, we must remember Ar- ings. Encourage and help those re-
bor Day means more than planting sponsible for doing so, to beautify
trees. Shrubbery, plants, and seeds the grounds around the public
of various kinds should be planted, buildings in your town. Let us each
yards should be cleaned, lots and make this world a more beautiful
the property around our homes place in which to live by truly ob-
should be made more sightly. The serving this Arbor Day.
next time you drive into your home —V. N. S.
Tiellie W. Tieal [Resigns from the (general [Board
TT is with regret that the general board announces the resignation of
Nellie W. Neal as a member of the general board. Sister Neal came
to the board in May of 1949 with experience and knowledge of Relief
Society work from her position as a stake Relief Society president.
Since her appointment to the board. Sister Neal has conscientiously
and full heartedly carried out every assignment given her. She has given
careful attention and thought to the work of education committees and
special committee work. Particularly outstanding was her preparation of
a set of lessons for special study. Her artistic ability was recognized and
used on occasions.
Sister Neal was alwavs ready to subordinate her personal wishes to
the furtherance of Relief Society procedures and willingly carried out all
instructions and recommendations. Her devotion and ability will be great-
ly missed bv her associates who wish her success in her future endeavors.
TbJtadu
TO THE FIELD
xyl L^entenarii of uielief Society \:yut of Lrnnt
A
Centenary oi Relief Society was published for the one hundredth an-
niversary of Rehef Society in 1942 and contains much valuable his-
torical information concerning the activities of the society during its first
one hundred years. It is now out of print, and the general board does not
contemplate reprinting it, so we suggest that each organization, stake and
ward, preserve one copy for reference. Those stakes or wards which
already have them in their libraries should see to it that they are properly
bound to preserve them and that the name of the organizaion is either
printed on the cover or written on the flyleaf on the inside, so as to indi-
cate clearly that it is the property of the society. Those organizations
which do not already have a copy in their libraries should try to obtain
one from someone in their stake or ward and have it bound. We recom-
mend this same plan be followed in the missions. We suggest that these
books be bound in one of the new synthetic materials, such as fabricoid,
as this binding is considered more durable than leather.
We have arranged with the Desert News Press, Salt Lake City, to
bind the Centenaries in blue fabricoid with a 24-carat gold seal and letter-
ing on it, according to our specifications, so that they may all be bound
alike, and stamp the name of the society on the cover in gold for $2.25 per
copy postpaid. A month to six weeks should be allowed for binding the
books which should be sent direct to the Deseret News Press, 31 Richards
Street, Salt Lake City 1, Utah. We recommend that stakes make this an
early project so that every organization may preserve a copy of the
Centenary.
[Boon of niormon uieaaing [Project
DEPORT forms on The Book of Mormon reading project will be sent
to stake Relief Society presidents in May 1954, and should be returned
not later than July 15, 1954. The general board wishes to encourage all
sisters to do the reading of The Book of Mormon for this year, which in-
cludes from the Book of Jacob through the 8th chapter of Alma. In order
for a sister to receive credit, the reading must have been done during the
year in which the lessons have been studied in Relief Society.
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(Prelude 771
USiC
Florence Jepperson Madsen
Member, General Board of Relief Society
npHE word prelude means: preced-
ing or introductory. Prelude
music has reference to the prelimi-
nary music played just before the
meeting begins. Its purpose is to
introduce or create an atmosphere
appropriate to the occasion. It sets
a background for what is to follow.
The music chosen for the prelude
may be sacred or secular, depending
on the nature of the gathering in
which it is to be used. For instance,
if it is to be played before a patri-
otic meeting, a type of music is re-
quired that will stimulate a feeling
of dynamic patriotism, the type that
makes an audience want to sing
along with the music. It should,
therefore, be vigorous in tempo and
have pronounced rhythmical ac-
cents.
On the other hand, a religious
service requires prelude music of an
entirely different nature, music that
is sustained and tranquil and which
generates a feeling of deep spiritual
fervor and devotion. Such music
stimulates listeners with an attitude
of silent, worshipful meditation and
prepares them for devotional serv-
ice.
The organist and the pianist who
have studied considerably have
naturally accumulated a great num-
ber of musical compositions cover-
ing a wide variety of styles and
types. The organist will have
learned many numbers that can be
used in church. The pianist, how-
ever, will have studied an entirely
different kind of repertoire; there-
fore, will have fewer of the slow,
sustained compositions that are best
suited for church service. Neverthe-
less, there are many numbers, such
as Schumann's 'Traumerei" and
Handel's 'X'argo," that can be
played effectively on the piano as
preludes in religious service. Other
similar numbers may be found by
looking through piano compositions
in music stores.
Through this procedure one may,
at the same time, determine wheth-
er or not one has the necessary
technique with which to play the
selected numbers. This is also an
excellent way to become acquaint-
ed with new music materials.
Another important factor in re-
lation to prelude music is that of
the timing element. The music
should cease at the moment the
meeting is to begin. This means
that the composition has been cor-
rectly timed often enough to as-
sure its rendition in the allotted
time. On occasion it may some-
times be necessary to shorten a
number in order to use it. This
involves careful judgment as to what
should or should not be used. How-
ever, when the composition is played
it should still give the impression
of completeness. There may also
be occasions when it will be neces-
sary to lengthen a number. This
can be done, most generally, by re-
peating certain strains or parts of
the composition or by playing it
through again. Here, again, timing
is a vital factor.
Efforts should always be made to
use appropriate prelude music and
to correlate it with the spirit and
subject of the day.
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[Books for (cyrgamsts and [Pianists
A. REED ORGAN BOOKS:
Organ Voluntaries, volumes I and II, Schreiner and J. Fischer $2.50
Thiity-Eight Voluntaries for Reed Organ, Jackson & G. Schirmer 1.00
Thiity-Eight Voluntaries ioi Reed Organ, J. Fischer
volume I 1.00
volume II 1.50
Keed Organ P/ayer, Walter Lewis and T. Presser .90
Foity-Thiee Organ Voluntaries, Lorenz 85
Gems for the Organ, Shelley and G. Schirmer 1.75
Harker's HnTmonium CoUection, G. Schirmer 1.00
Ninety-Thiee Short Pieces for the Hammond Organ or Piano,
Jackson and G. Schirmer (written in two staves) 2.25
B. SACRED PIANO MUSIC:
Sabbath Day Music for the Piano, O. Ditson 1.00
Church and Chapel Vohmtaries, Dreisbach and G. Schirmer 2.00
Chapel Musings, Perry and Presser 75
C. PIPE ORGAN BOOKS:
Devotional Organ Music, Asper and Carl Fischer (also for
electronic organ) 2.50
Organ Voluntaries, volumes I and II, Schreiner and J. Fischer 2.00
Church Music for the Smallest Organ, Nevin and J. Fischer 1.00
Organ Melodies, Landon and Presser 1.50
EccJesiae Organum, William C. Carl and John Church 2.50
Organ Musings, Presser 1.50
Chancel Echoes, William M. Felton and Presser 1,00
Organ Vistas, Presser 1.50
Twenty-Five Pieces for the Small Pipe Organ, Schreiner and J. Fischer 2.50
The books listed are recommended by the Church Music Committee.
SUPPLEMENTARY LIST OF BOOKS RECOMMENDED FOR
ORGANISTS AND PIANISTS
Peery's Piano Voluntaries, Lorenz 1.25
Church Service Selections for Organ or Piano, No. 2, Rodeheaver 1.25
Chapel Voluntaries for Organ or Piano, Edward B. Marks 75
Chapel Voluntaries for Organ, Harmonium, or Piano, Edward B. Marks
(from Books I to X, inclusive) (2 staves) 75
Thirty-Two Short Pieces for Hammond or Pipe Organ, G. Schirmer
(arranged by Charles Boyd) 1.50
The Sacred Hour at the Organ, Arno, Carl Fischer 2.00
Sunday Piano Music (For Church and Home), Presser 1.00
Piano Voluntaries, Presser 1.00
Sacred Piano Album for Home and Church, Carl Fischer 1.00
Twenty Preludes and Postludes for Pipe Organ, Truette, Schmidt 1.00
The Liturgical Organist for Pipe or Reed Organ or Piano,
J. Fischer and Brothers (two staves) (volumes 1-6) 3.50
Belwin Organ Album, Belwin Music Company (volumes I, II, and III) 1.50
Classic and Modern Gems for Organ or Piano, Presser 1.25
Instrumental Church Service Selections (for Organ or Piano) Rodeheaver Co. 1.25
Church and Chapel Voluntaries ior Piano, G. Schirmer 2.00
School of Organ Playing (op. 31) edited by Shippen Barnes 2.50
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BOOKS FOR ORGANISTS AND PIANISTS
245
Because of the fluctuations in the prices of music, the above hst can only be
approximate.
The Etude, a monthly music magazine, has in it an organ and a piano department,
with a question and answer division. The cultivation of the voice and choral work
are also stressed. The chorister, as well as the organist, will find valuable information
and help in this magazine. It can be found in most libraries, or one may subscribe for
it. It is published by Theodore Presser Company, Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania, $3.50 per
year.
If the music hsted above is not available' at your local music store, it may be ob-
tained from the following dealers:
Beesley Music Company, 70 South Main Street, Salt Lake City, Utah
Daynes Music Company, 45-47 South Main Street, Salt Lake City, Utah
Glen Brothers Music Company, 74 South Main, Salt Lake City, Utah
2546 Washington St., Ogden, Utah
57 North University St., Provo, Utah
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Q/irepic
ummer c/irepiace
Elizabeth Williamson
Arrange this pleasing composition for your fireplace for the summer months. Use
a large piece of aged wood, or driftwood, which you may have had to clean up a bit
by using a wire brush or sandpaper. Some pieces of driftwood have worn smooth
as satin and need no cleaning whatsoever. Behind the wood, place a transparent bow
which will not be obvious, and use Michaelmas daisies or small flowers with small
foliase Dried field grasses are attractive, also. These almost neutral arrangements
are dehcate and will not clash with brighter and more colorful flower arrangements m
other parts of your room.
Hal Rumel
TABLE ARRANGEMENT BY FLORENCE C. WILLIAMS
JLet LJour cJahle oJell a Story
Helen S. WiUiams
LOVE of parties is instinctive, virtually, to most of us. Friends just naturally seek
friends to sew, to knit, or chat with, or to be entertained by someone who is
talented in music or storytelling.
To some a party means just to get together — nothing more — nothing less. To
Florence C. Williams, however, a party, either large or small, is an occasion, an event.
No matter who the guests are, whether they are two or three precious old friends who
come for a bit of lunch, or twenty, or fifty persons of distinction invited to dine formally,
Florence Williams gets an idea and develops it into an ingenious work of art, interest,
and originality.
What are the guests going to do? Have they any special interest? What are their
hobbies? What season is it — and what is at hand to make this party something in
particular? These are the questions Mrs. Williams asks herself when she begins to plan
for a party.
On her table and at her parties she uses the essential principles which make for
artistry: first, beautiful color; second, a focal point of interest; third, a flowing rhythm;
fourth, original and unique accents; and fifth and most important, harmony and beauty.
Above is pictured a table set for a sewing-bee luncheon. It is exquisitely planned
in every detail. Yet everything used could be found in almost any home. Three, six.
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LET YOUR TABLE TELL A STORY 247
or eight could sit around this table and catch the spirit for a dehghtful afternoon of
sewing.
A lovely bouquet exquisitely proportioned rises from a plain wicker sewing basket.
Because the basket happened to be lined with yellow satin, Mrs. Williams chose pale
yellow as her color scheme, and carried out all the details in harmony with the color.
Daisies with yellow centers, grouped artistically, give the arrangement great style. They
are arranged high and to one side. Then the soft ball of white yarn stuck with knit-
ting needles, and the skeins of yellow wool in light and dark shades, balance the bouquet
perfectly and create her focal point of interest on the table.
Any lovely arrangement must have a feeling of motion, and the rhythm of this
table is achieved by the pale yellow ribbons running artistically out from one side of
the basket, with spools of yellow and white thread slipped on them and tied in casual
bows.
The clever and necessary accents are the buttons, tape measures, and tiny emery
bags in the shape of strawberries. These follow the graceful curving lines from the
centerpiece to the corner of the table, creating a lovely sense of rhythm. They add
interest and carry out the theme for the afternoon of stitching and knitting.
A beautiful table always gives a feeling of complete harmony. The cloth, place
cards, flowers, and gifts must blend to express the central idea.
Thus the cloth used is pale yellow organdy, around the edge of which are ap-
pliqued daisies, duphcates of the ones growing out of the basket. The place cards are
large daisies (they may be artificial or natural). Their centers httle pincushions with
yellow and white headed pins stuck upright in them. On the corner of the table rests
the guest prize which carries out and completes the unusualness of the central idea.
The box was originally just a plain plastic spool box bought at a notion counter,
but it has been glorified for this lovely spring sewing bee with various shades of yellow
thread. Each spool has a tiny ring of seed pearls, circling its top. The box itself, fit
for a queen, has been adorned with gold braid and rows and rows of little pearls. The
recipient of this lovely and unusual gift will have it to adorn her sewing table for
months to come as a gentle reminder of a wonderful afternoon as the honored guest of
a friend who entertained so beautifully.
Yes, Florence Williams is an artist. She loves people, and her hobby is planning
and giving ideas for parties, ideas that make her parties linger on and on in the mem-
ories of those who attend.
Surely after an afternoon at this lovely sewing party, the guests would leave hum-
ming softly to themselves, "We are sewing, daily sewing," and thinking, why I could
do a table on that order myself, and have my friends come to a party at my house!
S/t uiappens ibvery Spring
Verda Mackay
Blossoms burst their bonds
Fragile as chantilly lace
Which each new spring is changed;
Thus nature weaves a different pattern
With all things rearranged.
The Part-Time Heart
Hannah Smith
MAL was taking her out to
dinner later, so Evelyn
hadn't eaten with the family,
but she had sat at the table with
them. There was a lot of talking
to catch up on, with her grandfa-
ther home again after so long a
time. The dining room on a chil-
ly California evening was a pleas-
ant place, with the overhead light
drawing the seven Adams faces into
an animated circle around the table.
The words and phrases ran to-
gether: '']oe says he hates the
Korea weather . . . you give the
flag salute tonight . . . four years
before they put the road through
. . . pinch of rosemary in it . . .
you can always borrow a bugle . . . /'
Rob, her twenty-year-old broth-
er, was teasing his mother with a
far-fetched account of his pre-medic-
al school day; nineteen-year-old Kat
had a letter from Joe Hanson in
Korea she kept trying vainly to read
aloud, and her father and Philip
were arguing in a serious, impor-
tant undertone about the scout
meeting in the family basement
that night. Then there was
Cramps; there were so many things
everyone wanted to ask him, even
though they had been plying him
with continuous questions ever
since he got back from his trip to
Ecuador.
Evelyn sat with her chin cupped
in her hands, her blonde hair fall-
ing forward in two soft fans on
either side of her intent, pretty
face, looking first at one and then
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another of them, but most often
at her grandfather, so worn and
sparse-looking, his eyesight failing,
but still seeming so young, hope-
ful, and full of the serene happi-
ness she always associated with him.
She felt an echo of the same happi-
ness within herself, with the family
all together again at last, and ahead
of her a long evening with Mai.
Mai! She caught a glimpse of
the clock and gasped out loud.
''Oh, no!" She jumped up. ''It
just can't be seven-thirty already!
MaFs coming at eight!"
"Hurry, hurry!" jeered Kat. "Old
Sobersides will be mad if you're
late."
"Won't Deadpan wait for you?"
Rob drawled, sticking out a long
leg as if to trip her, as she started
pell-mell for the door.
Evelyn gave them an absent-
minded grimace and dashed for the
stairs. Running up to her room,
she thought wryly of their nick-
names for Mai. She couldn't won-
der at them, really— there were two
Mais, the reserved, stiff-faced one
the family always met on his fleet-
ing appearances in the front hall,
and the Mai she knew and loved—
the endearing and affectionate one
who made her feel so special and
priceless, the Mai she was going to
marry.
She knew, though, that after what
had happened Saturday, Mai would
be even more stiff and uncom-
municative tonight than usual. It
would never do to let him know
THE PART-TIME HEART 249
she had been dawdhng at the table evening— the first any of us had
instead of getting ready; it would seen him for five whole years. I
only add another point in the score couldn't have been away when he
he was totaling against her family, came, now could I?"
When the doorbell rang, she "If it hadn't been that it would
grabbed up her coat and purse and have been some other vital family
ran, but when she got to the land- affair." Mai shook off her hand
ing she saw that Mai was already and strode ahead to open the car
inside, talking to her mother. From door. ''Won't you be seeing your
above he looked polite enough; grandfather every day from now
there was even a smile on his dark, on?"
craggily handsome face, but Evelyn Evelyn sighed, getting into the
went down the steps so fast she car. She turned on the overhead
was breathless when she reached the light so she could smile into Mai's
downstairs hall. face as he came around and slid
under the wheel.
LJER mother turned a calmly "I love you, Mai," she said, plead-
pleasant face and Evelyn drew ingly. "And this is the anniversary
an unconscious sigh of relief. of the night we met. Let's not
"Evie tells me this is a big even- fight, darling."
ing, Mai. A celebration." Mrs. Ad- ''But it wasn't a year ago to-
ams smiled up at him as she put night," Mai said stonily.^^ "It was a
her arm around Evelyn. Usually year ago Saturday night."
Evelyn would have returned the ''I wanted you to come over, too
hug, but now, with Mai's eyes on —to spend the evening with all of
her, she busied herself drawing on us. We had such a nice . . . ."
her 2loves. *'I know. A nice family even-
"I've been counting the min- '"&• . ,. . ,
utes!" she said gaily. ^ . Sl?e ran a ca,ohng finger along
..T^ n .»» 1 J J i-T, his law, and he smiled reluctantly.
"Really? he said and there was .^^^ ^^j ^ ^^ „ ^^ ^^.^ .^^^
a faint edge of hostili y in his voice. .^ ^^^^^ ^^ ^| sometimes that I
He steered her out the door with ^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^
the briefest of goodmghts to her ^ou love me devotedly-part time."
mother and-]ust as she had feared ^^^ ^^.^ ^^^ g^ ^^^^^^^ ^-^
-flared out at her before they were ^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^.^^ ^g^^j .^^^^^ ^^^
off the front steps. ^^ ^^-^^-^ ^^^^ pj^^.^ special? I'm
"Counting the minutes? Is that starved."
why you broke our date Saturday p^g started the car. "Well, I
night?" made reservations at El Polio for
"Oh, honey!" Evelyn put her dinner, and I've got tickets for the
hand on his topcoat sleeve, looking play at the Biltmore."
up at his face. Even in the dark Evelyn put her cheek against his
she knew his expression— that baf- shoulder for a brief minute. "Oh,
fling blend of reticence and hurt. that's lovely. Just like last year.
"I told you over the phone how You're sentimental."
it was, Mai! Cramps got home that "Pretty foolish," he replied gruff-
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ly, "to be so sentimental, I mean.
A man lays himself wide open when
he's in love with a girl/'
"Oh," Evelyn laughed, "you
know that's what I like about you!"
They drove into the parking lot
beside the Mexican cafe and Mai
helped her out. "I even got the
same table we had last year," he
announced.
Evelyn nodded with delighted
recollection, as he seated her, won-
dering if the two guitarists in the
balcony weren't even playing the
same music they'd played a year
ago. "Everything's exactly the
same. Except that there are a lot
more drippings on this candle, the
proprietor looks a good bit fatter,
and Kat and Joe aren't . . . ."
CHE broke off quickly, hoping
Mai hadn't heard, but when he
sat down she saw that his eyes were
resentful again.
"You wish they were, I suppose.
Evelyn, can't you spend even one
evening away from your precious
family?"
She reached out to touch his
hand, to make him look at her.
"Mai," she said, holding his troub-
led gaze, "Mai, I promise you, you
come first with me. If you really
knew my family, you'd know they
wouldn't . . . ."
"Well, well! Look who's here!"
Neither Evelyn nor Mai had seen
the tall, bald man or the little,
bustling red-haired woman until the
pair stopped beside their table.
"Been wanting to meet this
man!"
Mai gave them a blank stare,
then glanced at Evelyn. She was
returning their smiles with what ap-
peared to be joyful warmth.
"Why, hello. Aunt Laura! Uncle
Fred! How nice!"
"We won't be butting in if we
sit with you, will we?" The little
woman was already motioning to a
waiter. "Bring a couple of chairs,
will you?"
Mai had struggled to his feet; he
took Aunt Laura's coat, shook
Uncle Fred's hand. He didn't look
at Evelyn.
"My this is a pleasant surprise,"
Aunt Laura kept saying. "Been
wondering when we'd see you,
young man!" She wagged a coy
finger at Mai, and Evelyn groaned
inwardly.
"Marry into the Adams family,
boy, and you'll see relatives a-plen-
ty!" Uncle Fred was saying, giving
Mai a heavy wink. "Are those en-
chiladas any good?"
Mai nodded. "Very," he said.
He sounded polite enough, but the
painful color in Evelyn's cheeks
deepened.
Aunt Laura kept up a steady flow
of high-pitched inconsequential
chatter, punctuated by Uncle Fred's
heavy rumble, and Evelyn replied,
smiled, nodded, as her misery in-
creased by the minute.
When the waitress came for their
dessert order, Evelyn shook her
head. "We'll have ours somewhere
after the show," she said quickly.
"We're in a bit of a hurry; we're
going to a play."
Out in the car she turned to Mai
with a rueful smile. "Mai," she
pleaded. "I'm sorry. Aunt Laura
is— well, sort of silly, I know. We
don't see them often, but they're
very good-hearted . . . ."
Her voice trailed off, knowing
her words sounded weak, defensive.
THE PART-TIME HEART
251
"lyf AL laughed shortly. "Sure you
didn't tell them we were com-
ing? That you'd feel lonesome
without some of the Adams clan
along?"
She sighed, *'0h, honey, what
can I do to prove to you that I'm
not tied to my family? That this
idea is . . . ."
"I'll tell you," Mai said suddenly,
seizing her hands. "Evelyn, let's
get married next week. No wedding
breakfast. No reception."
Evelyn stared at him, wide-eyed.
"Oh, Mai! There's no reason for
us to . . . ."
"Isn't there? You said once you
didn't want a big fuss. Was that
just talk?"
"No! No, I meant that. But a
wedding breakfast at home with
just the . . . ."
The motor roared. "Just the
family/" Mai said. He backed
swiftly out of the parking lot. He
gave her one bitter glance. "Just
the family," he repeated scornfully.
"Not even a groom, maybe. That
sums it up, I guess."
Evelyn saw that he wasn't driv-
ing toward the theatre, but she
didn't care. She stared straight
ahead.
"It— it would hurt Mom's feel-
ings . . . ."
"Marriage is made for two. And
no more," he insisted.
Of course Mai was right. Per-
haps she was too dependent on her
family, but how could she hurt
their feelings?
They had stopped in front of her
house.
"Well," Mai said, and his voice
was distant, gentle. ''I guess this
is goodbye, isn't it, Evie?"
All at once she was in his arms,
and he was kissing her.
"No, no," she whispered, but that
was all she could say.
npHE house was quiet when she
opened the door, although it
was still early. When she tiptoed
upstairs she saw there was a light
under her grandfather's door, and
she went by as quietly as she could
to her room. As she sat by the
front window, the clock downstairs
struck eleven- thirty, then twelve.
Still wide awake, she opened her
door and saw that the light still
shone from under her grandfather's
door. She needed to talk with
someone who would understand.
Then she heard a slow step and a
hesitant tap on her door.
She opened the door a crack.
"Yes?" she whispered.
It was Gramps, looking very small
in his too-large, shabby bathrobe.
"Thought I heard you moving
around. Thought maybe you'd like
to come over and talk awhile be-
fore you go to sleep."
His near-sighted gaze was eager
and lonesome, and she thought, in-
voluntarily, of the long years he had
been gone— how she had missed
him. She followed him across the
hall.
"Why don't you get into bed?
I'll read to you," she said, knowing
that his eyesight could no longer
cope even with a newspaper head-
line.
"Fine!" he said. "That would
be fine, dear."
"Anything in particular?"
He pointed to the Bible on his
bedside table. "Anything. You
choose."
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She opened the book at random
and began to read, her mind on Mai
and her own problem. The words
hardly made sense to her, but she
kept her voice at a lulling, steady
monotone, and in awhile the old
man fell asleep. She put the book
down quickly and tiptoed out, con-
scious that some fragment of what
she had read was staying in her
mind, but she pushed it back as
she had the rest of her thoughts.
She stood at her own window again
and saw Mai walking up the front
steps. She ran quickly down the
stairs to meet him, before he could
ring the bell, wondering why he
had returned.
**0h, honey, honey, I couldn't
wait until morning," he said. "I was
so afraid you would never want to
see me again.''
It was then that the words she
had read to her grandfather came
back to her, as sharply clear as if
Mai himself had said them to her
aloud. "Perfect love casteth out
"Mai," she said, "Fm not going
to have a hurry-up wedding with-
out my family there. Tonight
when we were talking, I thought
you were right, that I was too
entangled in my family. But now
I know what is wrong between
us. Mai, you're the one with the
part-time heart. You can't trust me
when I'm away from you; you won't
believe in my love. As long as you
feel that way, our marriage would
never succeed. We have to have
faith in each other."
He clutched her arm. "Evelyn,
you make your choice — it's I or your
family."
She shook her head. "If you went
to the other side of the world to
live, I'd go with you. That's not
the question; I know that now. If
you're so jealous now of my family,
so suspicious, it would only be
someone, something else, if we went
to the end of the world together."
He let go of her arm and drove
away, while she stood watching him
from the front door.
When she awakened, sun was
streaming in the windows. She sat
up and caught a glimpse of her pale
face in the mirror, and the memory
of the previous night clutched at
her.
Was I wrong? she wondered.
Just as she was starting to fasten
the belt of her dress, the doorbell
rang. She hardly noticed it, but
the sound of the voice in the down-
stairs hall stopped her, her eyes
widening with incredulous hope.
She ran into the hall and looked
over the banister. Sure enough,
Mai was talking to her mother. He
hadn't seen her. She cou'ldn't read
his expression or tell anything from
the tone of his voice.
". . . mind calling Evelyn?" he
was asking.
"Of course. She isn't up yet,
though. Why don't you come in
and have some breakfast with us
while you're waiting?"
Evelyn held her breath. Mai hesi-
tated for a long second. Then:
"Why, yes," he answered. "Yes,
I'd like to."
Forgetting how she looked, aware
of nothing but the golden miracle
of the morning, Evelyn ran down
the stairs.
"Mai! Mai!" she called. "Wait
darling! Wait for me!"
She caught up with him at the
door and they went in to join the
family together.
(gardening for the aiome freezer
C. W. McCuIIough
To enjoy a garden, put on a wide hat and gloves, hold a little trowel in one hand,
and tell the man where to dig.
npHE above plan has a legion of either gardening or home freezing,
devotees, but this article is not These are widely discussed in seed
dedicated to those who practice catalogues, government bulletins,
their backyard agriculture vicarious- and magazine articles that you
ly. Rather it is directed to those probably have in your home. Others
who prefer the fruits of their own are available at your library or
labors; those who find the spring through contact with your county
catalogue of the seedsmen the most agent, your state agricultural col-
fascinating document in print; those lege, or state department of agri-
who react instinctively to the chal- culture and home economics,
lenge of a freshly plowed or spaded A garden should be carefully
plot of ground. planned, not only to insure the
Home gardening, probably almost planting of varieties that do well in
as old as man, has experienced the your particular climate and altitude,
greatest uplift in its history during but of equal importance, to insure
the last few years with the discovery that what you raise will find a ready
of the means of preserving food- market on your table. A great mis-
stuffs by quick freezing. When man take of tyro-gardeners is the grow-
perfected this new means of put- ing of vegetables the family do not
ting Jack Frost to work, more was care for. Consider the turnip! If
accomplished than just to introduce turnips carry a low popularity rat-
an ingenious kitchen appliance. Bar- ing with your family, plant them
riers to the seasons were broken sparingly, or better, not at all. Use
down, barriers between the menus the space for crops the youngsters
of the frigid, temperate, and tropic- like, and, if you must, get your
al zones— and in our little backyard turnips downtown at lunch,
gardens— the barriers between sur- Another mistake is over planting,
plus wastes and economic usage, the temptation to use up that pack-
The home freezer has given ''the age of seed. If your garden must
man with the hoe" a new incentive be laid out in long rows, it is often
and value. wise to divide these rows in half
Thanks to the home freezer, the with stakes, and limit plantings of
products of a garden that could be a variety to a half row.
enjoyed only for a brief season, can
now be prisoned in an icy package JN planning a garden for freezing
and kept practically garden fresh the products, one must give first
throughout the year. place to those that freeze well and
No attempt will be made to cov- are old standbys: corn, peas, beans,
er the entire field of desirable re- beets, carrots. Then you can make
gional practices or the pitfalls of your choice from a long list that in-
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eludes cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli,
spinach, squash, melons, and as-
paragus, guided by family tastes, the
amount of ground available, and cli-
matic limitations. To round out
your garden patch, some space
should be allotted to small fruits,
strawberries, and raspberries.
Here are a few general sugges-
tions:
Spinach and broccoli: keep plantings
small and follow with later plantings, ten
days to two weeks apart.
Corn: If your season is long enough
for early and late varieties, plant each in
blocks of several short rows rather than
one long row. You will get better polli-
nation and better filled ears. Ear worms
can be controlled by dusting with an ap-
proved insecticide or dabbing on crank
case drainings as soon as the silks appear.
Peas: The larger varieties, such as
Stratagem, Dwarf Telephone, or Giant
Stride yield heavier and are easier to pick
and shell.
Cabbage and cauliflower: Buy the
plants for these! Dust with a powdered
insecticide several times during the grow-
ing season to outwit the bugs. After
cauliflower heads have formed, tie up
leaves around heads to prevent sunburn.
Strawberries: The everbearing va-
rieties are best for the home gardener.
They provide fruit all summer and well
into the fall. The Centennial is recom-
mended. Plant in rows eighteen inches
apart, spacing plants a foot apart. After
three or four years of bearing, dig up a
third of the patch and replant with
young runners. Repeat this every year,
and you will have young plants always
coming on. Everbearing strawberries tend
to bear heavily and then go into short rest
periods, followed by new bearings. These
bearing and rest periods vary with ages
of plants, so by staggering the ages of
your patch you will always have berries
for table use. Keep well watered, and
if berries become small, scatter a good
commercial fertilizer along the rows and
wet down with lawn spray. For regular
irrigations, row waterings arc best.
Raspberries: Here again, the ever-
bearing varieties are recommended. Rasp-
berries require plenty of elbow room;
three to four feet between rows and at
least two feet between plants. Single
plants fill up unused corners attractively.
If heavy snows tend to break down canes,
drive stakes into ground in the fall and
tie up plants. Remember that the canes
that grow this year bear the berries next
year.
Weeds: If treated right they are the
gardeners best friends. A well-weeded
patch is necessarily a well cultivated one.
Get after weeds early before they get the
upper hand and stunt the growth of the
things you've planted.
Time for Freezing
One of the delights of growing a
garden is that many varieties mature
quickly. The dividends accrue rap-
idly both in terms of table use and
largess for the freezer. Nearly all
garden products can be frozen sat
isfactorily; the exceptions being
onions, lettuce, and other salad
greens, radishes, and tomatoes.
With your own garden close at
hand, you can pick, pack, and freeze
each product at the peak of its
goodness and thus retain vitamin
and flavor richness.
Freezing is one of the simplest
and least time-consuming ways to
preserve foods at home. A complete
guide of the preferred methods of
preparing, packing, and cooking all
types of foodstuffs suitable for freez-
ing is to be found in Home and
Garden Bulletin No. lo. Home
Freezing of Fruits and Vegetables,
published by the Superintendent of
Documents, Washington, D.C. It
will be mailed to you for fifteen
GARDENING FOR THE HOME FREEZER 255
cents. More detailed directions not cook or otherwise wrap before
may be found in Your Home Fieez- freezing. This insures a firm cob
er, by Ann Seranne (Doubleday & and no cobby taste after cooking.
Co., Inc., New York, $3.75) and Snap beans are usually cut or
ihe Complete Book of Home broken into short pieces. For va-
Freezmg, by Hazel Meyer (J. P. ^iety, try freezing a few packages
Lippmcott Company, Philadelphia, of the whole beans. These are par-
^4-95 )• ticularly nice for salads and can be
One general rule should be re- substituted for asparagus either as a
membered. Nothing but the best base or for top garnishment.
is woithy of freezer space. What Cantaloupes and wateimdons
you put into your locker, if properly ^hen frozen provide another tasty
handled and protected, can be pre- sahd ingredient. Cut choice ripe
served in the same good, fresh con- meat into balls or cubes and pack
dition in which you freeze it— but f^ a container.
it will not be improved It is ex- p^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^ ^^^^^^ u^^^^^.,
treme ly important to be sharply ^^^^^ ^^ -^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^i^^^^.
critical of the fruits and vegetables f^^^^ . ^^^ ^ ^^^ ^^^-^^ ^^^3
you select for freezing. Discard -^ ^^^' f^^^^^f ^^^j^ ^^^ „„,
everything with bruised or overripe ^™ ^d. Allow an hour at room
spots, as well as the underripe that temperature for peaches to thaw,
have not reached their full peak of ^ ^^-^^ ^^^^ f^^ ^p^i^^^s. Peel and
^^^^^* slice just before serving. Dieters
who cannot eat sugared fruits will
Preparation for Deep Freeze find these a delectable addition to
Everyone who uses a deep freeze their menus,
for any length of time picks up Fiuits, such as peaches, apricots,
many ideas and practices that are and pears, tend to turn brown when
not always found in the books. Here frozen. This can be prevented by
are a few gathered here and there adding one half teaspoon of ascorb-
that may contribute to a fuller and ic acid to each quart of the sugar
more varied use of your freezer: syrup used in packing them.
Vegetables, being pre-cooked be- All fruits should be served as
fore freezing, need less time for soon as thawed. A few ice crystals
cooking than fresh ones. Cook just in the fruit improve the texture
long enough to tenderize and thus for eating raw. Allow six to eight
preserve vitamins, bright color, and hours for thawing a one-pound syr-
fresh flavor. Vegetables should be up packed package in the refrig-
cooked at once after thawing, start- erator; two to four hours at room
ing while they are still partially temperature; one-half to an hour
frozen. in a pan of cold water. Fruits
Corn is best cut from the cob packed in dry sugar thaw somewhat
after blanching. For winter gour- faster. A little experimenting will
mets a few whole ears may well be give you the proper time intervals
frozen. For this, choose choice of your type of container between
ears and leave the husks on. Do freezer and serving.
I ie\K> ^Jjesigns for ibaster (bggs
Courtesy Dennison Manufacturing Company
Here is a basketful of ideas to help you design the many eggs to fill some lucky
youngster's Easter basket. The simplest of materials are used to create these amusing
art studies in egg form!
Starting with the basic form — the egg — we suggest that you buy a dozen china
ones, the type farmers use to set an example for their negligent flock. These are sturdier
than their genuine brothers and will keep indefinitely. Of course, if you prefer, you
may use real ones, either hard boil or blow each egg before decorating it. Eggs may
either be dyed with any pure food dye or covered with pastel crepe paper. In addition
to material used for coloring eggs, you will need bits of colored crepe paper, paper lace,
doilies, paste, scraps of mat stock, ribbons, tiny gummed dots and hearts.
To make these masterpieces proceed as follows:
GENERAL INSTRUCTIONS
Step 1 — Color eggs — dye them, following the directions on the dye package, or wind
them with Yi inch wide strips of crepe paper cut across the grain, pasting strips fre-
quently as you wind so they will stay in place.
1. CYNTHIA: Here's a charming little lady all done on an egg! Wrap the egg
first with pink crepe paper (or use a pink dye) to give her a lovely glowing complex-
ion. Her dashing hairdo is made from narrow strips of yellow crepe paper curled around
a knitting needle on the ends. Her mouth is a gummed heart — her eyes light blue and
white crepe paper, with curling black eyelashes. A paper lace doily makes a fetching
hat, especially when dashingly decorated with a pompon of slashed light blue crepe
paper.
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257
2. PERSONALITY EGG: Use the favorite colors of the recipient for this egg,
a nice pastel one for the background, with two contrasting colors teaming up to make
the two-strand braid. The name is written with a Vi inch wide strand of a deeper
shade, twisted to make a fine cord. Trace name on egg first. Apply paste over written
name with a toothpick to hold twist in place. Trim edges from a paper doily, paste
in place, allowing it to flare slightly. Paste braid over inside edge of doily.
3. FLOWERS IN A FRAME: Cover the egg with orchid-colored crepe paper
and decorate it with a braid of pink and deep rose crepe paper. Make rosebuds by
cutting two-inch wide strips of crepe paper across the grain in several shades (light
pink, dark pink, red, yellow). Unfold a strip and wind it on itself to make a tiny roll
about Vi inch thick, then cut oflF remaining length of crepe strip and paste another
color to the roll. Roll this second strip around first roll to make a V^ inch thick strip.
Repeat process with third color to make a three-colored rose. Paste end of last strip
down to roll, and paste ''rosebuds" on egg, using a few leaves cut from green paper
to complete the bouquet.
4. QUIGLEY THE QUACK: Wrap two eggs with canary yellow crepe paper.
Cut two bill patterns from mat stock and cover with amber crepe paper. Paste to
narrow end of one egg. Cut eyes from colored writing paper (blue), and for the
center of the eye, cut a small square of black paper. Paste eyes on sides of egg. Paste
the "egg head" on top of another paper-covered egg towards the wide end. Wind
around the neck a strip of yellow crepe paper tie ribbon and make a bow. Then paste
the completed Quigley to mat stock covered with amber crepe paper.
^Jjirections for (gardening
Maude Rubin
One principle of landscaping,
As all good gardeners know,
Is planting taller plants in back
In front plant something low.
For the back, I chose chrysanthemums
You know how tall they grow —
In front, placed English daisies
As something sweet and low.
I watered them; I studied books
On gardening in all phases.
My daisy flowers are big as mums —
My mums look just like daisies!
diirst {Bloom
Sudie Stuart Hager
In springtime every woman knows
(No man could ever guess)
The way a half-grown peach tree feels
In her first pink party dress!
LUesert cy lowers
Vesta N. Lukei
The brief
Bright jewels of spring
Are spilled in amethyst.
And topaz drifts across the gold
Of sand.
MRS. ROSE PASKETT THOMPSON AND SOME OF HER
BEAUTIFUL HANDWORK
uiandx^ork (jLobbies iunng uiappiness
Rose Paskett Cooke Thompson, Corinne, Utah, has made hundreds of rugs,
doihes, tablecloths, and decorative items.
Mrs. Thompson, sixty-two, has made about five hundred braided rugs, six hundred
pieces of miscellaneous crocheting, crocheted edges on more than one hundred fifty
handkerchiefs. She has given away about four hundred pieces of crocheted work, and her
crocheting has been exhibited in twelve states. She also makes exquisite artificial
flowers. She has another hobby of raising outdoor flowers, specializing in iris, of which
she has about two hundred varieties, and roses of seventy-five varieties.
Her Church work has included many years of service in the Primary Association, in-
cluding four years as ward president; teaching in Sunday School; and visiting teacher
and theology class leader in Relief Society. She has thirty grandchildren (including
step-grandchildren) and four great-grandchildren.
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^Participation in (Relief Society Can SKelp
Jxchie\?e oJrue uXappiness
Edith Kaneko
THE greatest happiness is ere- teachers was Brother Payton Alex-
ated through service— serv- ander, and his Seminary teacher was
ice to our fellowmen and to Brother LeRoy Whitehead.
God. Happiness comes from with- After our marriage we decided to
in. It is the result of satisfying the strike a happy medium and settle
soul. We have a responsibility to in Spanish Fork, which is about
be happy, not alone because of its halfway between our former homes,
effect upon us, but because of its That was in 1941, when war clouds
effect upon others. By living the were hanging heavily over us, and
commandments of God and giving I often wondered how the people
of our time and service to others, of Spanish Fork would react to our
we may forget our difficulties and coming, since there were strained
also spread happiness to others. feelings between the people of the
In regard to this, I asked our land of my ancestors and the people
ward Relief Society President, Pearl of this, our beloved country. Would
Fillmore, what the Relief Society they accept us, and if they did, to
has done for her. Was it just a whom could we look for compan-
lot of hard work, or just what did ionship?
it mean to her? Such questions ran through my
She told me, 'Tes, there is a lot mind constantly as we worked at
of hard work— hours and hours of making a home for us and our Httle
it; but the joy Fve received from boy, who was just one year old at
seeing the happiness that has come the time. As if in answer to a
to others through my efforts has prayer, one day in the autumn of
repaid me many fold. Also, coming that year, two Relief Society visit-
to Relief Society meetings and as- ing teachers came and invited
sociating with the sisters has helped me out to Relief Society. Sister
to take my mind off our trials and Ann Nelson and Sister Fanny Vin-
tribulations." cent have probably forgotten this
I should like to relate my person- little incident, but I have not, he-
al experience, because in it I can cause the visit they made to me
best explain how true happiness was opened up a way towards a greater
passed on to me through an act of and brighter life. Little do they
kindness by two of the Relief So- realize how much they have con-
ciety sisters of my ward, an act that tributed toward making my life
may have seemed trivial to them. what it is today. They were so
I was born and reared in Tre- friendly and so sincere that I had a
monton, Utah, and my husband strong desire to attend their meet-
was born in Salt Lake City, but ing.
spent most of his life in Gunnison, However, I was just a little hesi-
Utah. One of his high school tant, so I asked my husband how
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he felt about it. He told me that portunity to satisfy my desire to
since I was invited, I should go. So sing.
two or three weeks later I attended As time went on, I was getting
my first Relief Society meeting, to the point that I thought that I
still a bit doubtful. But all my ^ad attained the height of happi-
doubts and fears left me when I ^ess, but, on second thought, I rea-
entered the meetinghouse and went ijzed that I had not, and I would
into the Relief Society room. Never never attain that goal, because I
before had I been in a place where ^^s not a member of the Church,
friendliness prevailed in such rich and for that reason my services to
abundance. I could feel that the the Church were very limited.
T'^''^ 1^^ Lord was there, al- j ^ ^^^^ little boy to
^u^'^u Kl^"^ "''*^''"^ ^^''''^ *^^ Sunday School, because I felt that
Church at that time. .^ ^^^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^^ ^-^ ^g.
ligious training began at an early
^EVER will I forget the warm age, more so because it had been
welcome extended to me by neglected in mine. I believe it was
Sister Ida Anderson, who was the during these moments that my de-
president at that time. I shall never sire to join the Church grew strong-
forget her kind personality and the er than ever. I often hoped and
sweet smile with which she quickly prayed that some day I would be
put me at ease. I did not have the able to serve the Church and the
privilege of knowing her very long, Lord in the same capacity as all
as she passed away a short time my friends were doing,
later. I went home from Relief years slipped by, with this desire
Society that day with a feeling of growing stronger and stronger. Our
satisfaction that there are friends, boy^ Dayij, was nearing the age of
if we look in the right places for eight, and it was my fervent wish
them, and I had a stronger desire gg ^gll as my husband^ to see him
than ever to go back again. baptized into the Church at this
It wasn't very long until they age so that he could take advantage
asked me if I would like to become of the spiritual opportunities which
a member, and this was a great sur- the Church offered these young
prise to me, as I thought that only children.
those who belonged to the Church r^^^^ j ^^^ . ^ ^^^ wonderful
were allowed that privilege. As time -^ ^^^j^ ^^ .f ^-^ ^^^^^ts could join
went on, I became more and more ^-^^ ^^^ the three go down into
acquainted with the activities of the waters of baptism together. But
the Rehef Society and of the j ^^^j^ ^^^ that my husband was
Church in general. ^^^ ^e^^y f^^ this yet, and I did not
A short time later I was asked to want to be baptized unless he was
join the Singing Mothers, and no with me, because in these few years
one can realize the joy I experi- I had learned that a man and wife
enced from my participation in that must be together, for neither can
work, because I love music, and up attain exaltation without the other,
to that time had had very little op- It was my earnest prayer that some
PARTICIPATION IN RELIEF SOCIETY
2^1
day he would see the Hght as I had
already done and accept the gospel.
r\AVID'S eighth birthday came
and went, and we did nothing,
and by the time he was eight and
one half I began to wonder if my
hopes were in vain, but I wouldn't
give up, because something told me
that everything would turn out all
right. Then about two months be-
fore David's ninth birthday, when
I asked my husband what he
thought about it, he said, *'If that
is what you want, then that is what
I want. I, too, am ready."
The following day— the day of
our confirmation— it all seemed like
a dream that we were actually par-
taking of the sacrament, and as we
took it we felt the presence of the
spirit of the Lord as we had never
felt it before. Until this day we
had been merely existing. From
that day on, we really began to live.
Now we are able to participate in
all activities of the Church just like
the other members, and thus our
service to the Lord is not limited.
But we realized the height of
happiness had not yet been reached
at this point. We learned that in
order to have this joy in the world
to come, we must go to the house
of the Lord and be sealed to each
other. Meanwhile Duane and Paul
had joined our family, so two years
after the baptism, the five of us
went to the Salt Lake temple and
were sealed to each other for time
and for all eternity, and now we
have little Diane, born under the
true and everlasting covenant. We
have found true joy. I need ask
for no more. All this spiritual
wealth was brought to us through
the little service rendered by the
two Relief Society sisters.
cyulips in the Vi/ind
Evelyn F/eldsted
Bending forward in a gale, they seem
To all be going somewhere far away,
But, in the changing evening wind, they turn
And seem to hurry back while it is day.
Morning finds them standing straight and tall,
A garden study in tranquihty.
Undaunted by the wind and lingering frost,
They raise their regal heads triumphantly.
^t Tllast (Be Spring
Hild^ V. Cameron
It must be spring,
For my honeysuckle vine
Is splotched with pastel beauty
Like a lovely valentine.
And at dawn this morning
I heard a robin sing;
Though chilly winds torment me,
I know it must be spring.
Sunshine and U\
ain
Ruth K. Kent
It takes a lot of clouds
To make it rain all day;
It takes a lot of sun
To drive the clouds away;
It takes a lot of frowns
To make a child look sad,
But only one big smile
To make a child feel glad.
"Within Our Reach"
Donna Day
THE boy, emerging from the ture lay down the long, straight
flow of sleep, lay quietly in autumn road,
his bed on the back porch. The wheels of the car stirred and
With intense loneliness, he con- rattled the brown leaves, and
templated the tremendous and mov- they scattered down the road be-
ing quietness of awakening. Could hind them as noisily as rustlers on
one awaken and continue dream- a midnight ride. A sagebrush plain
ing? The slow consciousness of his appeared as the road ran level and
surroundings took shape out of unbroken to the base of the distant
shadow. That first light brought mountain. Then the land swept
the sudden realization that tomor- upward to the lift of the crater's
row they would go to the crater. No, shoulder. The crater was not as big
not tomorrow. Today/ Lifting as the boy had anticipated,
himself abruptly, he started to The mother parked the car at
climb out of bed. There were so the base of the mountain, and the
many wonderful things to see and two started the climb up the steep
think about. side. It was a desolate slope, warm
Suddenly his mother stood in the and dusty. Coarse cinder ash
kitchen doorway looking upward, sucked at their feet. The pea-sized
Out of the glowing east, spears of lava fragments were pierced by
sunlight illuminated her face and scrub brush and rough salt grasses,
put a glitter in her pale hair. She Their breath came in short gasps,
shook out her apron as if it were with the sensation that the world
sun crumbs she was scattering. was slipping back while they were
Quickly the boy was out of bed standing still. But, at last, they
to inquire fervently if his mother reached the first level, where an old
remembered the promised visit to road wound around through the
the crater. red and. gray rocks. The boy and
Could she forget when a pair of his mother sat down to rest. It was
wide, inquiring eyes looked at her? changed air they breathed, ancient
The boy dressed quickly in the and aromatic,
circle of the warmth made by the Shortly the boy stood up and
kitchen range. The bacon sput- studied the magic-shaped cone that
tered and the eggs bounced in the towered above them. The crest
bubbling water. seemed to have risen a little toward
After breakfast he carried their the sky like an elevated, dancing
lunch to the car. When, at last, platform. The boy gazed up with
he was in the car, he could not sit an awe that is only for those who
still. His heart knew a strange are young. The whole marvelous
soaring. He had waited all summer mystery of creation came rushing
for this trip to the crater. Adven- down to meet him, and then, he
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was off up the old road that curved tous journey from which no child
around toward the heart of the era- returns the same.
^^^- She lay down beside the boy on
The mother rose and followed, the hard flowing rock. The top of
humbly, the golden and jubilant life the crater lay baking in the fire of
of childhood. the October sun. She could feel
her skin broiling a little in the heat.
A few minutes more and the wind- It was not an invisible thing. She
ing road on the crater's flank could see the heat dancing and v/av-
ended. Then, gully by gully, ing like a veil. But the heat was
fold by fold, over the fire-red rock as nothing, for the mother sat with
they advanced, pathless, toward the her son in a magnificent frame, sur-
top. The ancient volcanic stream rounded by the silent beginning,
spilled down the sides in rude, lim- and received into the enduring past,
itless convolutions. Their feet Centuries and centuries of time
crunched and slipped, the sliding pressed against them, each distort-
rocks flung handfuls of lost echoes ed convolution of cold lava became
down through the ragged crater a chapter of history compiled
edges. Light from above, refracted, through the ages. Eons of rain and
stung their eyes, and flooded the wind had beaten and chiseled the
jutting rocks with a thousand colors, crater. The fiery birth of creation
They finally stood on the top, on lay sleeping all about them. The
the edge of the highest cone, and desolate and violent country was
surveyed the gaping chasm below, part of their homeland and their
Two smaller craters overlapped the heritage, stretching from the base
western side. of the cones to the dark lines of
The boy flung himself on his mountains on the horizon. Cloud
stomach, staring transfixed, his shadows passed above the timeless
mouth open a little, his tousled wilderness, followed by sunlight
head tilted on one side. His hazel that crept across the land,
eyes, lost in wonder, were never
still. A dye made of sunshine and HPHE boy and his mother watched
afternoon stirred his hair to quietly for a long time and
creamed gold and coppered his skin, knew the communion of silence,
Those were moments of breath- which was the strong binder of their
less silence while the crater yielded affection. Finally, the boy stood up
up its peculiar, savage kind of beau- with restlessness, stretched himself
ty that whipped and sharpened the with one sharp movement. Then
imagination. Then the mother he opened his arms wide, taking m
heard the boy s fast, indrawn breath, all the crater, the whole earth, the
The boy was regarding the scene everlasting heavens, in a great em-
with both curiosity and consterna- brace. His face was pleased, warm,
tion. His eyes were squinting, now, For a moment the face turned to-
with intensity of purpose, his wide ward the mother was the face of a
forehead puckered. His mother young child before a lighted Christ-
knew he had started that momen- mas tree. His mother reached up
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and took his hand in hers. He play-
fully tugged her to her feet.
Across a lazy spot where salt grass
and rabbit brush crowded each oth-
er in the shallow soil, then down
into the wide mouth, they threaded
their way. Down scaly outcrop-
pings the boy picked a path, with
his mother's slender shadow behind,
down steps cut in the immemorial
past. It was a wonderful thing to
go plunging down, digging heels in,
the sensation of falling, yet not
falling, stiffening the knees and dig-
ging the heels in, the sheer joy of
descent.
Time had tamed the giant vol-
cano with its spectacular eruptions.
Strange shapes, which marked its
death agonies, crowded the wide
pit. Against the blue steep of the
sky, terrifying crags overhung the
rim; the black angular rocks, sheared
and smoky, clung about the walls.
Stealing through a gap between two
towering stones, the mother and
the boy entered the crater, shad-
owed from the afternoon glow by
the southern pinnacles. Concealed
in the mottled shadow, they mount-
ed a dais of weird, grotesque stones
and climbed the precipices with
their eyes, up and up to the gaping
hole cut by the ancient lava flow.
It was like standing in a great
amphitheater with a ragged hole in
its side, tremendous, dark, leached
by a thousand storms, brimming
with reflected lights. The fragile,
transparent blue of the sky deep-
ened above until the color could
reach no further intensity. It broke
off suddenly into a bank of clouds.
To the mother, it was like being
alone in the vast universe, but to
the boy, it was part of the eternal
earth, something he had always
known, like the slow awakening on
an autumn morning.
It was one of the perfect days of
life snatched from the confusion
of living, a day of pleasure that
nothing could corrode, nor time re-
move, a part of the precious herit-
age of childhood— and of mother-
hood.
The hour, the height and depth
. . . everything had sharpened their
appetites. They would be fam-
ished by the time they reached the
car.
The mother watched the boy for
a moment longer, then she slowly
followed him up, up toward the
slanting light.
Kjifter JLong LJears
Beatrice Knowlton Ekman
After long years of questing to and fro.
This homely kitchen is a restful place;
Tlie smell of burning pine, the rudy glow
Of firelight upon each loved one's face . . . .
Let me find anchor here and end my quest
In this old house that memory has blessed.
qJ V Viewers — LOown in cfront
Eloise Stiinz
'T^HE problem of keeping the youngest member of our family seated during a television
-'■ program, arrived with the nevv' set. The youngest was given the place of honor on
the ottoman, front row center aisle. Being a wiggler from way back, he wouldn't stay
put. With his head in front of the screen, we viewed the back of his neck.
Young children have an excellent close range vision. This accounts for their desire
to sit close to a viewing screen. However, their interest is too short-lived to retain one
position long. Since their boundless energy must be considered, miniature seats are out.
The preservation of our family television unity cost only $2.76 — and a little sewing
time. I made a slipcover for the crib mattress our baby had outgrown. For the ben-
efit of mothers who must use the crib for the next in line, a second-hand crib pad,
sterilized, can be obtained for a few dollars.
With four and one-fourth yards of thirty-six inch denim, at fifty-nine cents a yard,
a packet of snap fasteners costing twenty-five cents, I had everything I needed to work
with. Denim may be obtained in plain colors or in designs of floral pattern and plaids.
A standard crib mattress measures fifty-six by thirty inches, and is four inches deep.
Cut the top and bottom covering first. Allow five extra inches on the top cover. This
will be used as a flap at the open end.
On the remaining material, mark strips four and one-fourth inches wide. Nip and
tear in strips. Sew the strips together. Twice the length and once the width will be
used for the sides of the cover. The remainder of the strip will be used for a ruffle.
Roll hem on one side of the strip, to be used for the ruffle. On the raw side of
the strip, measure every three inches and pleat one inch of material with a basting stitch.
For the top covering, hem one end with a one-inch fold. Roll hem either side
for a depth of five inches. Attach the ruffle with the design facing the design of the
top cover. Pin the siding strip, its design turned away from you, on top of the ruffle.
Sew the width of the cover, starting at the end of the rolled hem. This pleating, or
ruffle, encircles the top cover. While working on the bottom cover, the material is
turned wrong side out. Do not attach fasteners until the slip cover is finished. Then
mark carefully as this assures a better fit.
The mat, with its slip cover, resembles a well-tailored pillow. It can be tucked
away in a closet when not in use. Don't be surprised if the older children find it
comfortable to lounge on. Of course, the legal owner will have something to say
about this.
No longer is it necessary to tap our youngest on the shoulder during a program and
say, "Pardon me, but your head is showing."
^ytpprehension
Alice Whitson Norton
The gentle voice of springtime called,
"Come walk with me" —
But I denied the urgent voice.
Lest I might see
Along a path I'd marked with gloom
A crocus border in full bloom.
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The Deeper Melody
Chapter 7
Alice Money Bailey
Synopsis: Steven Thorpe, a widower
with three small children, is in love with
Margaret Grain, a registered nurse who
has taken care of his baby during an at-
tack of pneumonia. However, Margaret
is engaged to Dr. Rex Harmon, and, as
the time for her marriage approaches,
Steven feels that he has little chance of
winning her. In the meantime he has
become unwillingly involved in a romance
with Miss Tate, his secretary at the
Pikes Peak Machinery Company. Mar-
garet's mother, a widow, who is temp-
orarily acting as Steven's housekeeper, tells
him that she thinks he should declare his
love for Margaret even though she is
about to become the wife of Dr. Har-
mon. Accordingly, he seeks an oppor-
tunity and tells Margaret that he loves
her.
4 4 T love you, Margaret/' Steve
I repeated. His words were a
pebble dropped into a pool
of silence; her reaction to them like
widening rings of light— the deep
look of joy, the swift glad lift of her
eyes, the radiance in her face, which
brought Steve to his feet, his heart
pounding mightily. Suddenly he
was around the desk, and she was
in his arms. Kissing her was a lost
interval in time and space. Its mo-
ment, brief or long, was part of
infinity, part of eternity. She was
the first to pull away.
"Steve! Steve, it's no use."
''Margaret! I love you so much.
Look at me, darling."
"I can't," she said. "I'm on
duty. I'm engaged to Dr. Harmon."
Steve released her and stepped
back. "I know that. I've thought
of nothing else for weeks. Believe
me, Margaret, I'd have come before
if I'd thought I had either a right
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or a chance. You've drawn me like
a magnet since the very first. I felt
you were my own, made for me.
I was sure long ago, but there was
Dr. Harmon. There were my chil-
dren. It seemed unfair to ask you
to share such responsibility."
"I'm trained to responsibihty,
Steve," said Margaret. "Besides I
love the children— Davcy, Ilcne,
and little Phyllis. I could take them
for my own. In spite of me, I did
take them for my own. I found
myself planning for them as they
grew. I couldn't sleep, sometimes,
thinking of them, feeling I was run-
ning out on them. That was why
I shut myself off from them."
"And their father?" prompted
Steve. "Were you a little drawn to
him?"
"Please, Steve," she said, lifting
miserable eyes to his. "I have felt
guilty enough about that. I didn't
tell Rex, but I tried to make it up
to him."
Steve's heart leaped. A million
questions pressed his tongue. He
leaned across the desk to her.
"You don't love him. You love
me!"
"What are you saying? He's a
wonderful man, and a genius in his
field."
"That is not love," Steve began,
and the telephone rang.
It was the dreaded interruption,
an emergency. Before his eyes
Margaret was transformed from an
appealingly uncertain woman— all
woman— to an alert nurse, full of
authority and decision; from the
THE DEEPER MELODY
267
circle of his arms, from being his
own a moment ago, she receded
from him rapidly, becoming remote
in the urgency of her work. From
this distance she spoke to him with
finality.
''Steve, this is madness. The in-
vitations are out— some gifts have
already arrived. Dr. Hanson and
his wife have loaned us their beau-
tiful home for the reception. Every-
thing is arranged. Of course I shall
marry Dr. Harmon,*' she said, and
disappeared swiftly down the hall
on her soundless nurse's shoes.
CTEVE left the hospital with
mixed feelings. Her answer had
cut him sharply, left no opening, no
possibility of continuance. His hope
of changing it was balked by sheer
lack of time, but the remembrance
of her quick look of joy, her radi-
ance, her tacit admission that she
was emotionally drawn to him were
warm knowledge. And that kiss!
If she could deny that, she was less
of a woman than he thought.
It was knowledge and memory
that turned inevitably to pain, how-
ever, as the days followed. It was
part of all the beauty he wanted
to share with her, and could not,
of the flowers that were on every
hand, the flowers which were the
usual messengers of a man's love
for a girl, which he could not send
—lilacs, violets, roses coming to bud
on the trellises in the May sunshine.
There were other messengers-
books, candy, letters. She had his
message, straight and hard, and bare
of embellishments. Bombarding her
with pleadings now might be only
an annoyance to her during the days
which should be those of happy
anticipation. They could, granting
he were persistent enough, harry
her into a confused and forced de-
cision. Much as Steve wanted her,
he told himself, he could bear no
half measures. Certainly the next
move was hers.
The week was a nightmare. Part
of Steve worked furiously on the
job, went through the motions at
home, smiled at the correct time,
said the right words, made the right
moves. Part of him stood back and
watched almost impersonally the
holocaust seething within him. He
must again assume his old responsi-
bility for the little ones, which late-
ly had been left mostly to Mrs.
Grain. Eventually they would fill
his time and his thoughts, and
neither would be a loss, for, along
with the worry over them and the
compounded fears he had for them,
they were a constant delight, a
source of perpetual amazement to
him, as well as heart-tugging pathos,
as when they talked of their moth-
er.
"Did my real mama die?" Davey
asked one day.
"She went away," Steve said.
"Did she go to heaven?"
"Yes, Davey. She's waiting there
for us. Some day we'll go to her."
"Ilene go to heaven Saturday,"
Ilene put in brightly. Everything
in the past was to her "last morn-
ing," and everything in the future
was "Saturday." "Ilene go Satur-
day. See Ilene's mama. Bring her
home again." She laughed and
shook her curls in gamin delight,
and Phyllis laughed, too, clapping
her hands and wrinkling her small
nose.
"Saturday I'll take you all to
the circus," Steve promised, to
(Continued on page 275)
FROM THE FIELD
Maigaiet C. Pickering, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal
of material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for April 1950, page 278, and
the Handbook of InstiuctionSy page 123,
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Laura M. Wilkin
OOUIRRH STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS FURNISH MUSIC FOR
THE OFFICERS MEETING OF RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL CONFERENCE,
September 30, 1953
Front row, left to right: Verena Waldron, First Counselor; Laura M. Wilkin,
President; Elmina Toone, Second Counselor; Coy Manning, chorister.
At right end of second row, in dark dress, Ireta Arave, organist.
This group, which presented the music for the opening session of the Relief
Society General Conference, September 30, 1953, also presented in Oquirrh Stake last
spring the Easter cantata "Resurrection Morning," by B. Cecil Gates and Ida R. All-
dredge. Sister Marianne C. Sharp of the general presidency of Relief Society was guest
speaker. A special scriptural reading was given by Pearl Apostle. Special solo and trio
numbers of the cantata were given by Ward Coon, Ivor Pickering, Shirley J. Duke,
Betty Lou Jones, and Alice Gourley; Betty Heath, Helen Jeppson, Florence Cockerill,
and Jeane Smith. Pianist was Billie C. Andreason. This same group has sung for
stake conferences and other special meetings sponsored by the Church and the com-
munity recently.
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NOTES FROM THE FIELD
260
Photograph submitted by Esther Miller
MARICOPA STAKE (ARIZONA) FORMER RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENTS
Seated, left to right: Vida Brinton (1945-1952); Fanna Dana (1909-1913).
Standing, left to right: Mary Davis (1938-39); Clara Goodman (1939-1943);
Eleanor Shupe (1932-1938); Irene Brown (1943-1945).
Not in the photograph is Mary Clark, deceased, who served from 1913 to 1932.
Esther Miller is the new president of Maricopa Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Claire B. Jones
CEDAR STAKE (UTAH), CEDAR FIFTH WARD VISITING TEACHERS
HONORED FOR FIVE YEARS OF ONE HUNDRED PER CENT
VISITING TEACHING
Front row, seated, left to right: Viola Bauer; Vera Nelson; Arvilla Adams; Belle
Jones; Lauretta Perry, stake Secretary; Verona Mosdell; Ardella Ford, First Counselor;
Lillian Randall, President; Lamona Langford, Second Counselor; Rena Lawrence; Thel-
ma MelHng; Nell Heywood; Maude Robinson.
Back row, standing, left to right: Leah Bess; Henrietta Leigh; Genevieve Mailing;
Harriet Hunter; Beth Ence; Astella Cason; Rose Lawrence; Olive Knell; Lottie Bladen;
Mary P. Bauer; Theressa Peterson; Alice Matheson; Carol Draper; Caroline Jordan;
Loie Jean Murray; Nina MulHner.
Claire B. Jones is president of Cedar Stake Relief Society.
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Photograph submitted by Edith Anderson
WEISER STAKE (IDAHO) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED AT
CONVENTION, December 29, 1593
Front row, seated, left to right: stake board members, beginning second from the
left: Second Counselor Lucille Chandler; President Delia W. Alder; First Counselor
Dorothy Zaugg; literature leader Hazel Closner; Magazine representative Amy R. Wil-
liams.
Edith Anderson, stake Secretary, reports: "We hold a convention each year. We
stress the true spirit of visiting teaching and twelve visits each year to each Latter-day
Saint family. We honor those teachers who achieve 100 per cent visiting teaching. Some
of our teachers have been so honored for nine consecutive years. One hundred thirteen
visiting teachers out of 187 in the stake were honored this year for 100 per cent rec-
ords. Only part of the teachers are represented in this photograph."
Photograph submitted by Amelia H. Robertson
BIG HORN STAKE (WYOMING), POWELL WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESIDENTS SINCE 1934
Front row, seated, left to right: Mary Helen Giles; Ethel Winkelman; Louise
Hawley; Ruth Hecht.
Back row, standing, left to right: Vada Tirrell; Zona Roper; LeNore Lewis; Irene
Safford; Elizabeth Bunn.
Ameha H. Robertson is president of Big Horn Stake Relief Society.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
271
Photograph submitted by Luella W. Walker
SOUTH SUMMIT STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS FURNISH MUSIC
FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, September 13, 1953
Standing at extreme right: Edna B. Taylor, stake chorister.
Standing at left of the piano: True R. Field, organist.
Luella W. Walker is president of South Summit Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Lyle J. Coombs
FRESNO STAKE (CALIFORNIA) WARD AND BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY
OFFICERS, January 1954
Front row, left to right: DeLoris Carruth, President, Fresno Second Ward Relief
Society; Zella L. Sheley, President, Tulare Branch Relief Society; Marguerite Mangine,
President, Exeter Branch; Thelma Little, President, Hanford Branch; Corine Watson,
President, Merced Ward; Emerald Mentzel, President, Dinuba Branch.
Back row, left to right: Virginia Castillo, Secretary, West Fresno Branch; Ina Clay,
President, Chowchilla Ward; Ethyl Buttcane, First Counselor, Coalinga Branch; Sarah
C. Thomas, President, Avenal Branch; Barbara Works, President, Fresno First Ward;
Golda Henderson, President, Visalia Ward; Naomi McEwen, President, Los Banos
Branch.
Ascencion Carillo, President, West Fresno Branch, and Eva Winsett, President,
Coalinga Branch, were absent on account of illness when this photograph was taken.
Lyle J. Coombs, President, Fresno Stake Relief Society, reports: "All of the of-
ficers were very modest when we asked for pictures for the Magazine, but we felt that
they all should have recognition for what they have done. As a group, they are re-
sponsible for the Fresno Stake showing improvement all along the line, as shown by
our annual report."
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Photograph submitted by Grace C. Crandall
KOLOB STAKE (UTAH), SPRINGVILLE EIGHTH WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
MAKES ONE HUNDRED PER CENT VISITING TEACHING RECORD FOR
SIX YEARS SINCE ORGANIZATION
Officers and Visiting Teachers, front row, seated, left to right, members of the
presidencies who have served during the past six years: Minerva Jessee; Helen Robbins;
Hazel Harrison; Floss Phillips; Margaret Huntington; Ethlyn Eddington; Ina Otteson.
Second row, standing, left to right: Emily Crandall, who recently celebrated her
ninetieth birthday; Ellen Erdman; Chloe Fox; Ileen Jensen; Mamie Curtis; Carrie
Rawle; Stella Harmer; Mildred Graham.
Third row, standing, left to right: Mary Frandsen; Floss Taylor; Lillian Crandall;
Florence Simkins; Anabelle Llewellyn; Naomi Johnson; Ella Curtis; Edna Smart;
Camilla Judd; Preal York; Bessie Brammel; Norma Strong; Nellie Anderson; Easter
Harmer; Rowena Rigtrip.
Grace C. Crandall is president of Kolob Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Vinetta R. Simpson
WEBER STAKE (UTAH) ELEVENTH WARD VISITING TEACHERS MAKE
ONE HUNDRED PER CENT RECORD FOR THREE YEARS
Front row, seated, left to right: Rhoda Mumford; Leela Ferrin; Ellen Weaver,
Secretary-Treasurer; Lillie Belnap, Second Counselor; Pearl Dransfield, President;
Maude K. Smith, First Counselor; Annie Hiatt, oldest member, ninety years old.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
273
Second row, seated, left to right: Hannah B. Evans; Frances Owens; Lelia Wright;
Janie Ophenkins; Jennie Bragonjie; Vinetta Simpson; MiUie Garff; Priscilla Sneddon.
Third row, seated, left to right: May Hansen; Eva Bothwell; Anna Boyle; Rhoda
Wilker; Muriel Saxton; Annie Terry; Dora B. Peterson; Sadie Masters; Edna Hunt;
Alice Kihlstrom.
Fourth row, standing, left to right: Eva Galbraith; lone Toller; Marjean Nasfel;
Isa Law; Dorothy Grange; Helen Watkins; Cleora Bywater; Violet Stoney; Ella Burt;
Lois Purdie; Lillian Binnie, visiting teacher message leader; Roma Broun; Ethel Ehlert;
Viola Royle.
Not present when the picture was taken were Dorothy Tanner, Gwen Evans, Helen
Russell, Mary Donaldson, Rosetta Young, Mae Rowan, Laverna Shumaker, Carry Wads-
worth, and Vivian Putman.
Pearl VanDyke is president of Weber Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Nina J. Langford
SOUTH OGDEN STAKE (UTAH), SOUTH WEBER WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
AT WORK MEETING, September 1953
Front row seated, left to right: Eillen Roberts; Verda Bouchard, theology class
leader; Lamanda Ray; Luella H. Byram, Secretary-Treasurer; Mattie G. Ray, stake
theology leader.
Second row, seated, left to right: Eliza Rawson; Cora Poll, former secretary-treas-
urer, who served for many years; Mary Cook, former president; Lavern J. Poll, Presi-
dent; Ada H. Cornia, First Counselor; Eva Ray.
Back row, standing, left to right: Annie Russell; Edith Peek; Thora Moore; Nellie
M Staples work meeting leader; Murnine Foster; Rose Watts; Fay H. Ray, Second
Counselor; Mae Bambrough; Stella Poll; Ethel C. Earl, hterature class leader.
Erma V. Jacobs is president of South Ogden Stake ReHef Society.
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Photograph submitted by Thelma G. Maloy
MOUNT GRAHAM STAKE, LORDSBURG WARD (NEW MEXICO)
RELIEF SOCIETY BAZAAR
Left to right: Fae G. Gordon, Secretary; Pearl H. Walters; Beth G. Ellsworth;
Lola D. Richardson.
Twenty-eight members were enrolled in this ward Relief Society in January 1953.
The bazaar consisted of several beautiful displays, including kitchen aprons and fancy
aprons, embroidered and crocheted pillowslips and tablecloths, a lovely satin quilt, many
novelty items, and some decorated plates.
Thelma G. Maloy is president of Mount Graham Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Maude Warren
CARBON STAKE (UTAH), PRICE THIRD WARD VISITING TEACHERS
WHO HAVE ACHIEVED ONE HUNDRED PER CENT RECORD
FOR THE LAST FOUR YEARS
Front row, seated, left to right: Ruth Jewkes, First Counselor; Ora Jensen, Presi-
dent; Florence Mortensen, Second Counselor.
Maude Warren is president of Carbon Stake Relief Society.
The Deeper Melody
(Continued from page 267)
change the subject, his heart aching
for the motherless Kttle things. Per-
haps a man should deliberately,
and coldly, hunt a wife to fill such
a hopeless gap in his family. Per-
haps he was to be blamed for con
sidering such fine points as his own
emotions when his children were in
such need. Perhaps he should try
to overcome his aversion to Miss
Tate, for when Margaret was gone
what would anything matter? Yet
he could not think of Miss Tate
and Ellen in the same thought.
With Margaret it was different. He
felt that Ellen would approve of
Margaret. In the early days of
their marriage they had talked as
all young couples do.
''If I should die," she had said
then. "I want you to marry again."
He had laughed too loudly at the
idea, because of the premonition
that had darkened his heart, and
had gripped her to him.
"You won't die," he had told her
fiercely. "And if you do, you will
always be my wife."
Well, she was gone; but she was
still his, and now, without loving
her any the less, he also loved
Margaret.
He was musing, Steve told him-
self, as if there was still hope for
him with Margaret, as if his love
had not been ill-fated from the start.
If he had met her a few months
earlier— if he had recognized in-
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had equalled his need of her (for
that had always been the missing
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Friday he worked through the
noon hour, and Miss Tate brought
him a roast-beef sandwich and a
half pint of milk when she returned
from her lunch. It tasted good, as
well as saving him precious time.
Of course he told her as much,
thanking her sincerely.
''Steve, youVe looked so formid-
able the last few days I didn't dare
tell you I have tickets for the
symphony."
"You shouldn't have done that,
Miss Tate," Steve said.
''But Jascha Heifitz is going to be
guest artist, and I know you won't
want to miss it."
"I'm sorry. I can't go," Steve
told her. "I'm sure many others
would be glad to share vour tick-
ets."
"It is that girl— Miss Grain- that
we met at the theatre," observed
Miss Tate quietly. "You love her,
don't you, Mr. Thorpe?"
Steve lifted surprised eyes to
hers. "Yes I do, Miss Tate. Very
much." A part of his mind noted
her resumption of the use of his
last name, and was pleased. "She
was Phyllis' nurse, you know."
Steve could see his admission was
a blow to her, even though she had
expected it. He could see her think-
ing she had acted unwisely, and
then grasped a straw of hope with
a new thought.
"Didn't she introduce that doc-
tor as her fiance?"
"Yes," admitted Steve, thinking
suddenly that this was none of her
affair. "I'm afraid it is Miss Grain,
or no one, with me. It seems very
probable it will be no one."
"Oh," said Miss Tate.
If Steve expected tears, as there
had been once before, he was mis-
taken. Miss Tate lifted her head
in a gallant gesture. "My boy
friend is soon due out of the army,"
she said. "And that is exactly how
I feel about him."
Steve knew she was not telling
the truth, that she had no "boy
friend," but in that moment he felt
sorry for her.
Later, when he went through her
office he noticed that her eyes were
red from weeping, and that she was
typing with exceeding vigor. She
turned to the files quickly to hide
her face, pretending to search for
something.
"Good night, Mr. Thorpe," she
called after him, and her voice was
light and impersonal.
CATURDAY he took the children
to the circus, and they had
everything— pink popcorn, balloons,
the merry-go-round, and finally
seats in the big tent for the three-
ringed show. Steve was enjoying
it doubly, seeing it through their
ecstatic eyes.
They had left home in all the
splendor of shining cleanliness, and
in the beauty of their new clothes,
but their activities thus far had
altered the picture somewhat.
Davey's hands were sticky from
popcorn, Phyllis had ice cream on
her nose and chin, and Ilene had
spilled her popsicle down her dress.
Steve regarded these as natural ca-
lamities, which a bath and clean
clothes would remedy, once they
were home, until Davey shouted
"Other Mama!" and was gone,
Ilene scrambled after him toward
a point above and behind them on
the benches. Steve, wiping Phyllis'
face with his handkerchief, twisted
to see.
THE DEEPER MELODY
277
Of course it was Margaret, and
the whole picture was instantly
readable. Dr. Harmon was with
her, and between them sat a pale
little fellow with crutches and
braces. He was undoubtedly still a
small patient at the hospital who
had had a rough time. Obviously,
Margaret had donated her after-
noon off and Dr. Harmon's time
to showing him a good time. It was
just as evident, from the cold dis-
taste on Dr. Harmon's mouth, that
it was Margaret's idea. Steve's two
had thrown themselves upon her
with abandon, and her arms were
about them both, crumpled clothes,
wind-blown hair, and sticky fingers
notwithstanding.
Steve leaped up to retrieve them,
but Margaret shook her head vigor-
ously. Steve noticed the white line
of fury about Dr. Harmon's mouth,
and settled back wickedly to enjoy
himself. For a man who did not
seem to like children, Dr. Harmon
was certainly in a distressing predica-
ment!
OHYLLIS had seen Margaret,
however, and stretched her arms
toward her. Margaret moved the
children, making room for Phyllis
on her lap, and motioned Steve to
bring her. He complied gleefully,
watching Dr. Harmon all the while.
This last was too much for that dig-
nified gentleman. He rose, pale
with anger.
"Margaret, let's get out of here."
He didn't bother to recognize
Steve, or to be civil, but strode out,
carrying the little boy. There was
nothing for Margaret to do but
follow. Steve's heart smote him,
and his mirth turned to bitterness.
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seeing the disappointed look on the
httle crippled boy's face.
He and the children stayed, but
Steve blamed himself for spoiling
Margaret's time. He went through
all the motions for the sake of the
children, but for him the day had
lost its glory. Above his chagrin at
having let his children embarrass
Margaret in public, v^as the fact
that he himself had precipitated
what would obviously end in un-
pleasantness.
After the circus-weary children
were bathed and in bed that night
he sat in the silent semi-darkness
of the living room and touched
again the depths of despair. It was
literally the end of what had been
a heavenly interlude in the lives of
himself and his children.
Actually, Mrs. Grain's bags were
packed and standing in the hall.
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Steve could see them from where
he sat, and they were a dark blot
on his consciousness. Mrs. Grain
and Margaret were to be the guests
of Dr. Harmon's friend, Dr. Han-
son, where the reception was to be
held. In the next week there would
be a round of teas and parties.
In the morning Mrs. Grain would
be gone; tonight was Margaret's last
duty at the hospital.
In an agony of despair and long-
ing Steve could visualize her slen-
der figure moving along the halls as
the clock crept around past nine,
beyond ten, to eleven. She would
be off now, riding home with Dr.
Harmon. Steve sat in the loneli-
ness of his sleeping household
while his mind went seeking her
across town, his heart declaring his
love for her in a worldless outpour-
ing, and his mind compelling her
to hear its message and to come to
him. So intense were his feelings
that the telephone bell, pealing out
in the midnight quiet did not startle
him, but was an answer to his com-
mand. He knew before he lifted
the receiver that it was Margaret.
''Steve!" she said and there was
pent up emotion in her cry.
''Margaret! Margaret, darling,"
Steve answered in kind, and in the
long silence which followed: "Dear-
est, what is it? What has hap-
pened?"
"Steve, I'm glad you, not Mother
answered. I've done a most terrible
thing. Nobody, not even she— no-
body in this world will understand,
nobody but you. Steve, I need
you!"
"Hold on, sweetheart. I'll be with
you in five minutes," cried Steve,
and raced for his car.
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I truly enjoy The Reliei Society Mag-
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I enjoyed the winging buoyancy of the
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Being among the first Relief Society
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford ------ President
Marianne C. Sharp - . . . _ first Counselor
Velma N. Simonsen - . - . . Second Counselor
Margaret C. Pickering ----- Secretary-Treasurer
^^'"y g. ludd Even W. Peterson Christine H. Robinson Charlotte A. Larsen
v^^.u o' M?^^ Leone O. Jacobs Alberta H. Christensen Edith P. Backman
hdith S. Elliott Mary J. Wilson Mildred B. Eyring Winniefred S.
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Leone G^ayton Aleine M. Young Gladys S. Boyer Elna P. Haymond
Blanche B. Stoddard Josie B. Bay
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor -- - - - - . . - . _ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor -----___. Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager --------- Belle S. Spafford
Vol. 41 MAY 1954 NO. 5
SPECIAL FEATURES
Mother's Influence Edith Price Backman 284
A Mother's Prayer for Her Son Wilma B. Bunker 286
The Birth of a Heritage — The Gospel in England Elsie Scott 287
Coronation Roxana Farnsworth Hase 290
Miracles and Mother Eileen Gibbons 298
"Say It With Flowers" Norma W. South 304
Anniversary Souvenirs Mabel Law Atkinson 311
With No Regrets Myrtle M. Dean 323
Thou Shalt Never Cease to Grow Caroline Eyring Miner 326
"Magazine" Money Banks _.. 327
FICTION
Lest She Forget „ Hazel K. Todd 291
Things Will Be Different Virginia M. Kammeyer 306
The Right Decision! Frances C. Yost 312
The Deeper Melody — Chapter 8 — Conclusion Alice Morrey Bailey 318
GENERAL FEATURES
Sixty Years Ago 300
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 301
Editorial: Portrait of Mother Vesta P. Crawford 302
New Serial, "The Falling Shackles," to Begin in June 303
"Magazine" Subscriptions for 1953 Marianne C. Sharp 328
The "Magazine" Honor Roll for 1953 332
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Margaret C. Pickering 336
From Near and Far 344
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Preserving Metal Planters Elizabeth Williamson 305
Launder That White Shirt Yourself Ruth K. Kent 310
Sina Mortensen — Woman of Many Hobbies 317
POETRY
Maytime in the Valley — Frontispiece Beatrice K. Ekman 283
Faith Mary Ellen B. Workman 296
Deserted Garden Matia McClelland Burk 297
To David Marjorie Foote 303
Morning Glories Evelyn Fjeldsted 309
Mother Love Hannah C. Ashby 315
"So Shall We Reap" Maryhale Woolsey 316
Come Gently, Sp^-ing Christie Lund Coles 317
Fallen Giant Josephine J. Harvey 325
Motherhood Ivinetta R. Oliver 325
Vacation Just Beyond Mary Gustafson 326
For Wood Violets .'. Ethel Jacobson 341
Bright Hour Grace Sayre 342
The Olden Days and the New Camilla Alexander 343
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'^
1 1 iayitime in the valley
Beatrice K. Elcman
The sun has climbed the morning stair
And myriad insects strum the air;
Out of the meadow lark's smooth throat
Melodic strains of rapture float
Across the valley's pulsing breast.
From mountains east to mountains west,
The emerald robe of spring is laid,
Dappled with sunlight and cloud shade.
The sego-lily chalice spills
Gold pollen on the kneeling hills;
From rock-walled canyons, clear streams flow
To the lush pasture lands below,
Where spiders weave a silver loom
On wild rose hedges, pink with bloom;
And blossomed plum adds nuances of grace
With airy petals of white lace.
The Cover: Channel Drive, Santa Barbara, California
Photograph by Josef Muench
Frontispiece: White Carnations, Photograph by Ward Linton
Cover Design by Evan Jensen
Mother's Influence
Edith Price Bdckurdn
Member, General Board of Relief Society
Her children rise np, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her
(Proverbs 31 izS).
WE are commanclccl to:
Honour thy father and thy moth-
er, as the' Lord thy God hath
commanded thee; that thy days may be
prolonged, and that it may go well with
thee, in the land which the Lord thy God
giveth thee (Deut. 5:16).
It is gratifying that our nation
has sought to encourage and culti-
vate e\'ery sentiment which binds
men and women to the home and
which exalts motherhood.
There cannot be homes without
mothers, for they are the homemak-
ers; and without homes the nation
cannot long endure.
A man's success and triumphs
mean more to his mother than to
himself. She never loses faith in
him; she never forgets him; she nev-
er forsakes him. Her implicit faith
in him is one of the beautiful things
in life and a great influence in the
world. Joseph Smith said, ''The
love of a true mother comes nearer
being like the love of God than
any other kind of love."
Mothers had a great influence in
establishing The Church of Jesus
Christ in this dispensation. They
experienced the hardships, persecu-
tions, and privations incident to
pioneer life. Because of their true
testimony of the divinity of Jesus
Christ, they were able to brave the
many hardships which they en-
countered. From the lives of these
great women may we learn to sac-
rifice more, to give more of our
Page 284
real sehcs to the work of God, to
instill in our children an abiding
testimonv, and a desire to serve him
and keep his commandments.
Many widows' sons have achieved
noblv in the earth, and have at-
tributed their success to the teach-
ings and influence of their mothers.
President Ileber J. Grant gave us
this burning testimony of what his
mother meant to him:
I live today as one whose mother was
all to me. She set an example of integrity,
of devotion and love,, and of determina-
tion and honor second to none. Her life
was a sermon that rings through my soul
to this day. One of the main reasons I
am President of the Church today is that
I have followed the advice and counsel
and the burning testimony of the Lord
Jesus Christ, which came to me from my
Mother.
During the troubled war days of
George Washington, Mary Ball
Washington, mother of the First
President of the United States, in
order to keep her faith strong would
often sav, ''I'he mothers and wives
of bra\'e men must be brave wom-
en." She also said, ''George is apt
to succeed in anything he under-
takes. He was always a good boy."
This is an example of the implicit
faith and confidence a mother has
in her children.
Nancy Hanks, mother of Lincoln,
was a woman of simplicity and
strength, living in the poorest kind
of shack in the wilderness of Ken-
tucky. Even though she may have
MOTHER'S INFLUENCE
285
felt the pinch of poverty, she did
her duty toward this boy tenderly.
As she spoke some of her last words
to her nine-year-old son, this was
her plea, her hope, "Be somebody,
Abe." His kind,ness, humor, hu-
mility, and his hatred of slavery
came from his mother. His love and
affection for her were expressed in
the statement he made saying, "All
that I am or all that I ever hope to
be I owe to my angel mother."
TN our own Book of Mormon,
when the Nephites and the
Lamanites were warring among
themsehes, they were given certain
promises if they would keep the
commandments of God, and told
if they did not, destruction would
follow. Then we have the marvel-
ous record of two thousand Laman-
ite bovs— just boys— who joined the
army of the Nephites in order to
help preserve themselves and their
families. But they had been taught
by their mothers that God would
protect them if they would do their
duty.
These two thousand boys, part of
the army of the Nephites, went in-
to battle repeatedly, and the last
struggle was so terrible that, we are
told, all were wounded. When
Helaman, their captain, saw their
enemies dri\'en away he was anxious
for his young charges (he called
them striplings, just boys) and he
went among the dead and gathered
them to find out how many were
living. He found e\'eryone of them
alive, although many had fainted
from the loss of blood.
When Helaman, who was amazed
at their miraculous preservation,
questioned them concerning it,
their response was one of the great-
est compliments to motherhood to
be found anywhere: ". . . We do
not doubt our mothers knew it"
(Alma 56:48).
They believed what their mothers
taught them. They had faith in
God. They were preserved, and
they helped save their homes and
families from destruction.
Some mothers have fallen below
these standards, and some have ex-
erted but little influence in the
world. There are many women,
who because of riches or other in-
fluences, have become idle, selfish,
and miserable. They are not the
mothers who inspire their children
to become the leaders of men; but
the overwhelming majority of moth-
ers are brave, pure, sincere, and self-
forgetful.
The observance of Mother's Day
has created an opportunity to ex-
press the love and gratitude we feel
to\^ard our mothers. Many beauti-
ful tributes and honors are heaped
upon us that day. Have we magni-
fied our greatest of all callings,
motherhood? Are we, as mothers
in Zion, worthy of all these beauti-
ful tributes? Are we living up to
our obligations as mothers in The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints to teach our children the
truths of the gospel, and to be liv-
ing examples of its principles?
We read in Proverbs 22:6:
Train up a child in the way he should
go: and uhen he is old, he will not de-
part from it.
If we teach our children to honor
the Priesthood, the sanctity of
eternal marriage, to keep the Sab-
bath day holy, to observe the law
286
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1954
of tithing, to hold family prayer, to
be honest, truthful, and virtuous, to
have love in their hearts for one an-
other and for their Heavenly Father,
we know they will not depart from
these teachings. Every day will be
Mother's Day, and our children will
grow and develop to be useful men
and women, upholding the highest
ideals and principles of the gospel.
A report was given in a recent
stake conference that only one half
of the missionaries interviewed in
that stake to go on missions for the
Church, reported family prayers
were being held in their homes.
Think what a priceless opportunity
the parents of these young men are
losing by not having family prayers,
where the bonds of love, unity, and
security could be established per-
manently in the home.
President David O. McKay said:
One of the greatest needs in the world
today is intelligent, conscientious mother-
hood. It is to the home we must look
for the inculcation of the fundamental
virtues which contribute to human wel-
fare and happiness. Motherhood is the
greatest potential influence either for good
or ill in human life.
May we as mothers be that po-
tential influence for good in our
families and realize the highest am-
bition of true mothers, that of rear-
ing families of noble, successful,
righteous children, who will arise
up and call us blessed.
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J/l ifiothers irra^er for uier Son
WiJma B. Bunker
P>UILD me a son, O Lord, wise enough to know the right and brave enough to do it.
'-^ May he be as strong in defeat as in victory. Rear him, I pray, not in the ways
of ease and comfort, but under the stress of difficulties and challenges. Give him the
strength to meet these challenges with courage and resolution.
May his daily life be clean and triumphant, his goal high and worthy. Teach him
that mastery of self always precedes mastery of others.
Build me a son who will have compassion for those who have failed and forgiveness
for those who have hurt him. Help him to realize that true happiness comes from serv-
ice to others — to forget oneself in a great and good cause.
And after all these are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor so that he
will not take himself too seriously; enough optimism so that those around him are
lifted up; and enough humility so that he will never cease to be modest, humble, and
unpretending.
And help him, O Lord, to remember that thou art ever present if he will but seek
thee, I pray.
The Birth of a Heritage — The
Gospel in England
Elsie Scott
M
EMBERS of the Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints who visit Preston,
England, whether they be from oth-
er towns in Great Britain or from
America, almost invariably express
the pleasure and interest they feel
in being privileged to visit this his-
toric town and to see the places
which played such a vital part in
the propagation of the gospel in
this land.
It was about four in the after-
noon of the 22d of July 1837 ^^^^
Heber C. Kimball, Willard Rich-
ards, Orson Hyde, and Joseph
Fielding, with three brethren from
Canada, John Goodson, Isaac Rus-
sell, and John Snyder, arrived in
Preston. They had landed in
Liverpool, but lingered there only
long enough to seek guidance from
the Lord, and in answer to their
prayers were directed to continue
their journey to Preston, another
thirty miles — a much longer jour-
ney then than it is today.
Elections, commanded by the
new Queen Victoria, were taking
place with much celebration as
these weary men, strangers in a
strange land, entered the town of
Preston. They were heartened by
the message on a banner unfurled,
almost above their heads, which
stated in gilt letters 'Truth Will
Prevail." An omen? A message
to the messengers? Truth did in-
deed prevail.
It was opportune that one of the
missionaries, Joseph Fielding, had
a brother in Preston, a minister,
and while Joseph went to visit with
his brother, the other brethren
found lodging in Wilfred Street,
but visited with the Rev. James
Fielding on the evening of arrival
where they discussed the restora-
tion of the gospel. An invitation
to attend the Vaux Hall chapel next
day was speedily accepted, as was
the later invitation to address the
congregation. This was a direct
answer to the prayer of Heber C.
Kimball that the Lord would open
the way for them to preach.
Viewing the sadly forsaken, di-
lapidated chapel today, with its
rows of empty seats, it is difficult
to imagine the large congregation
that gathered on that Sabbath day
to hear these strange men who
spoke of angels again visiting the
earth, restoring the gospel in all its
truth to men.
Of that first public meeting to
be held in Great Britain on the
23d of July 1837, Elder Kimball has
this to say:
I declared that an angel had visited the
earth and committed the everlasting Gos-
pel to man; called their attention to the
first principles of the Gospel; and gave
them a brief history of the work which
the Lord had commenced on the earth;
after which Elder Hyde bore testimony
to the same, which was received by many
with whom I afterwards conversed; they
cried, "Glory to God," and rejoiced that
the Lord had sent His servants unto
them. Thus was the key turned and
the Gospel dispensation opened on the
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first Sabbath after landing in England
(Whitney, Orson P.: Life oi Hehei C.
KimbaU, page 125).
npHAT the field was white and
ready to harvest is proved by
the way the people of Preston ac-
cepted the message and flocked to
hear more of the glorious truths.
The Rev. James Fielding, finding
his congregation, and with them his
livehhood, leaving, closed the chap-
el doors to the missionaries, but the
Lord's work could not be impeded,
and many of the people invited the
elders to preach in their homes. So
great was their success that several
people were anxious to be baptized
at the end of the elders' first week
in England.
No person who reads the Bible
and believes can doubt the existence
of evil spirits, and it was in the
room where the elders lodged in
Wilfred Street, the encounter with
the hosts of evil occurred, on the
morning of the day on which the
baptisms were to be performed,
Sunday, 30th July, 1837.
Enraged, no doubt, at the suc-
cess the elders were having in guid-
ing the people in the truth, the
forces of evil made a determined
effort to destroy the lives and plans
of the missionaries. Heber C.
Kimball recounts:
About daybreak Elder Isaac Russell
\^'ho slept with Elder Riehards in Wil-
fred Street, eame up to the third story,
where Elder Hyde and myself were sleep-
ing, and ealled out, "Brother Kimball, I
want you should get up and pray for me
that I may be delivered from the evil
spirits that are tormenting me to sueh a
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
VAUX HALL, PRESTON, ENGLAND
THE GOSPEL IN ENGLAND
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degree that I feel I cannot live long un-
less I obtain relief (Whitney, Orson F.:
Life of Hehei C. KimhnU, page 129).
The elders arose and laid their
hands on the tormented man, Elder
Kimball being mouth, and prayed
to the Lord, and rebuked the devil,
but Elder Kimball himself was
struck by some unseen power and
fell senseless on the floor. When
he recovered, they continued to
pray, and a vision was opened to
the minds of these great men. They
saw legions of evil spirits coming
towards them like armies rushing to
battle, angry and desperate. Is it
to be wondered at that Elder
Kimball stated that he could nexer
look back on that scene without
feelings of horror? Yet by it, hor-
rifving though it was, they learned
the great power of the opposing
forces and the Lord did not forsake
them.
'T^HOSE earlv missionaries had un-
daunted faith; they had a strong
testimony of the divinity of the
work they were called to do; and
not all the power of hell could turn
them from their purpose. Indeed,
it is likely that their vision strength-
ened their testimonies and their de-
termination to go forward and
spread the gospel to all who would
hear it.
And so the time set for the bap-
tisms found the elders on the banks
of the River Ribble, which runs
through Preston. They were not
alone, however. Great interest had
been aroused in the minds of the
people. Baptizing as practiced by
this strange new Church was some-
thing unheard of, and it is recorded
that between seven and nine thou-
sand people gathered to witness the
baptisms of these first nine converts.
There is a story told about the first
woman in England to enter the
waters of baptism. She was Ann
Elizabeth Walmsley, who is said to
ha\'e been in the last stages of
tuberculosis, and had been warned
by her doctor that to enter the cold
waters of the ri\'er would be fatal
for her. Her faith was strong, how-
ever, and she was carried to the riv-
erside and was baptized.
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What stories this picturesque
river could tell if it were able to
speak! But surely none would be
more inspiring than the events of
that Sabbath. Only on one other
such occasion has an event at-
tracted people in their thousands,
and that was the visit of President
Heber J. Grant, who unveiled the
plaque on the 27th of July 1937,
commemmorating those first bap-
tisms a century before. Preston
Branch holds a firm place in the
British Mission, and proud are the
Preston saints of their heritage and
their lovely new chapel.
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oronation
Roxaiia F^Tnswoith Hase
/^UT of doors Spring stretched her graceful, fragrant fingers almost across the peb-
^^ bled walk leading up to the white house. It was as though she wished that she
might venture clear inside. Yet, a bit of her glory was there, for the second daughter
had gathered enough lovely white blossoms to fill the blue vase on the table in the
room. She had taken them in quietly, and no one had bade her stay. Perhaps they
thought her too young.
The room was hushed, as though church might be about to begin. Yet, this was
not a church, but a small, clean room. The people there were assembled for a par-
ticular purpose. Each one was busy with his or her own thoughts and tasks. This
was an eventful day.
The world at large had never even heard of the woman who was soon to be
crowned a queen there. She was young and beautiful, with a certain radiance of
countenance hard to describe. Her coronation was not a sudden, spur of the moment
thing, as though someone had abdicated. It had been in preparation for almost a
year. The principals had been well instructed as to what to expect and do.
The preparations, while adequate, were by no means elaborate. The queen's gown
was of snowy white cotton. It boasted no fine handmade imported lace or golden
threads. There was no mile-long train, no ermine robe, no richly accoutered retinue, no
high-stepping steeds with rich trappings. Missing was the martial music and gay
aplomb, yet the expectancy of the moment filled all the room.
The one person who could make the coronation a certainty had not yet arrived.
It was this momentarily expected presence which gave such a somber air to the pro-
ceedings.
Off to one side an elderly lady was praying with bowed head. Sh-e was the queen
mother, and perhaps the most concerned of all, to have everything go off well. The
queen herself, as she waited almost breathlessly, seemed in a tranquil state, for this was
her day.
The silence became more intense. No one so much as whispered. Then in an in-
stant all was changed. The awaited guest had arrived!
"It is a boy!" the doctor announced happily, and a lusty wail let everyone know
that the prince was very much alive.
The young man gathered the queen into his arms and kissed her as he smoothed
her shining hair. In her eyes was a radiance that seemed brighter than Stardust to him;
his eyes were misty because the woman who had just received the most precious crown
in all the wodd, the Crown of Motherhood, was his wife.
Lest She Forget
Hazel K. Todd
MARTHA had always known
through those three wonder-
ful years that some day Lin-
da's father Kent would come and
take her away. She would see him,
in imagination, coming through the
apple orchard up the currant bush
path that led to the home where
she and Chris lived. She would see
Kent's lean frame and his dark hair
and the stride of his long legs. He
would come and take away his child
even as he had brought her that
spring morning after her mother
had been buried in the hillside
cemetery. And then she and Chris
would be left lonely and childless
again, just as they had been before
the loan of the tiny bit of sunshine
that had filled the empty places
with laughter and the long days
and evenings with useful things to
do.
Martha tried not to think of that
time, but it had a cruel way of slip-
ping onto her unexpectedly in the
night when the crickets kept her
awake, or when Linda sat at her
knee and she brushed the shining
ripples of her yellow hair. Some-
times it cut her like a keen-edged
knife when she saw Chris carrying
Linda on his shoulders and chant-
ing to her one of his funny rhymes.
Just as now, she saw them coming
through the orchard, Chris holding
to Linda's bare legs that were round
his neck. The little girl had a
sprig of apple blossom stuck jaunt-
ilv into her hair and she laughed
merrily while Chris, in his deep,
good natured voice sang out the
words :
Bow wow wow,
The beggars are coming to town
Some in rags, some in shags,
And some in silken gowns ....
Chris saw Martha then where she
sat with her pan of strawberries on
the garden bench. With an upward
swing of his big arm, he slid his
burden gently to the ground, and
the little girl came running to Mar-
tha. She scrambled onto the bench
and grasped the woman by the
neck.
"Guess what, Aunt Martha!" she
babbled with excitement.
"What?" Martha asked with in-
terest.
"Chris's goin' to build me a play-
house!"
"A playhouse?" Martha ex-
claimed, kissing the child's hands
round her neck.
"A house with a chimney and a
table and a cupboard, and . . . ."
"Wonderful!" Martha tried to
squeeze the ache from her heart.
"May I go tell Peter?" the child
asked, still bubbling.
"Why, I guess so, if you won't
be late for supper," Martha said,
and she watched the little girl run
away on nimble bare legs across the
orchard path.
"Like a fairy elf," she whispered,
and Chris came and sat down by
her. He lifted the pan of berries
from her lap and set them on the
edge of the bench. "Could it be
we're going to have strawberry pie
for supper?" he asked, resting his
hand affectionately on hers.
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lyrARTIIA half smiled at him and
then suddenly she clutched
his arm, "Oh, how can we ever give
her up, Chris?" she held onto him
desperately.
Chris patted her hand reassuring-
ly. He was always so calm about
it. But she saw him gaze out across
the apple trees to the green roof of
the house beyond where Linda's^
parents had lived. "Three years is
a long time, Martha. I have been
thinking that maybe Kent will nev-
er come back." «
But Martha knew that Chris
knew better. And after he had gone
she still kept looking at the green
roof that had become in the three
years, an emblem to remind her that
Linda was not really hers. She went
back again to the days when Kent
and Ann had lived there together.
They had been so much in lo\e.
And she had shared with Ann the
coming of her baby, a joy that
would never be her own. But Ann
had never been well after the birth
of little Linda. More and more she
had relied on Martha to help her
with the babv and her other home
responsibilities. And then had come
the time when she could no longer
take care of them at all. So she had
died, and they had buried her in
the hillside cemetery. Kent's grief
had been an awful thing.
In the early morning he had
come to her carrying Linda, scarce-
ly more than a year old. He had
laid the tiny, golden-haired girl in
her arms while his voice choked
with tears. "Take care of her, Mar-
tha, for me. I know you and Chris
will do it better than anyone else in
the w^orld. When I can stand it
alone here without Ann I will come
back. Just for a little while, Mar-
tha." And then he had gone hur-
riedly down the path by the cur-
rant bushes, lea\ing Linda whim-
pering for her mother.
Since then time had fled on wings
of lightning for Martha, busy with
her new-found joy. The days had
lengthened into weeks and months.
Three times the apple trees had
bloomed. There had been brief
messages from Kent, from different
corners of the earth, and gifts for
Linda, who babbled about a daddv
that she couldn't remember, while
Linda's life wound itself tighter and
tighter around the hearts of two
lonely people.
jV/fARTHA was brought back from
her re\erie by the voices of
Linda and Peter. They were com-
ing through the orchard from Pet-
er's home, where he lived alone
with his aged grandmother. Linda,
skipping and Peter with his ragged
o\eralls, his hundreds of freckles,
and his stick horse that bucked and
galloped for Linda's attention.
"Aunt Martha, where is Chris?"
Linda soon wanted to know. "ILis
he got my playhouse builded yet?
Peter wants to see my playhouse."
"Already?" Martha laughed.
"Why, darling, it takes days and
days to build a playhouse. But I
am sure Peter can see it when it's
built."
Peter grinned, showing a vacant
space in his upper tooth row.
Chris came then and took turns
with the two children, bucking and
galloping like a wild horse around
the giant tree until he was so worn
out he had to sit down on the
ground to rest.
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"Will you build my playhouse
tomorrow?" Linda wanted to know
emphatically, as she climbed onto
his knee.
"If you will first let me tickle
your toes and then your nose,"
Chris said to her with a funny wink.
And she pulled his nose in merri-
ment.
But to Martha there was some-
thing ominous about the playhouse,
as though it were a foreboding of
disaster. Perhaps it was because she
thought of it as something perma-
nent, something to last through the
years, the ones that were so uncer-
tain. Even when she measured the
tiny windows and planned the pink
ruffled curtains, she had to shake off
a sense of calamity. Too often she
caught herself staring at the green
roof beyond the apple trees. At
night when she had tucked Linda
into bed she found it almost im-
possible to tear herself away from
the child's bed. Once when she sat
thus, staring at the sleeping child,
she turned and caught Chris watch-
ing her from the doorway. She was
almost embarrassed, and in her be-
wilderment she went to him and
slipped her hand into his.
He squeezed it without saying
anything.
Suddenly she turned to him im-
pulsively and said, "Oh, Chris, what
is wrong about the playhouse? I
feel as though it were taking Linda
away from me!"
Then Chris let go her hand and
held onto her arms with his two
strong hands. He looked down into
her face in tender solicitude. "Mar-
tha, don't let this come over you.
It is the one thing I have been
afraid of since that morning when
Kent left us his little girl. Perhaps
she will always be ours, but, if she
isn't, we must remember — we must
not forget the things that are left!"
Martha understood. It seemed
she had always to be reminded. She
looked at Chris gratefully. Big, un-
derstanding Chris! He had always
come to her in her desperate mo-
ments. "Forgive me, Chris," she
said. "It is a wonderful playhouse.
Tomorrow I will finish the cur-
tains."
A ND so the next evening Martha
sat on the garden bench and
stitched the pink curtains while
Linda played with Peter in the
sand pile. A little while ago she
had seen him tickling her legs with
a long stick and Linda had chased
him around the apple tree with a
bucket of sand, but now they were
busy sticking sprigs of apple blos-
som into the tiny rows of sand they
had made. Martha was finishing a
red rosette on the tie-back. She
laid it in her lap and looked up
from the intricate work a moment
to rest her eyes. And then she saw
Kent as she always knew she would,
coming up the path through the
apple orchard, his long stride rapidly
measuring off the distance between
them.
She watched him coming as
though in a dream. Suddenly it
was a crazy world that reeled and
swirled, with somewhere a familiar
face from out of the past that went
round and round and presently
came to a standstill immediately be-
fore her, so close that she could see
the gray of his hair. It was appal-
ling! Only three years ago his hair
had been completely a dark brown,
and now the temples were entirely
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white, with streaks of gray through-
out his head. Her hps formed the
words, but it was a long time before
she could make the sound come.
*Tou— you have come for her!"
''Don't you think it is about
time?" Kent asked, watching her in-
tently.
"But— but you have been gone so
long . . . ."
''Don't you remember, Martha,
I said I would come back?"
Then she felt Chris beside her,
felt the strength come into her
numbed body, and she could think.
Chris was putting out his hand to
the man standing there by the ap-
ple tree. "Kent, old man, it's good
to see you."
Martha stood up, trying to think
of the things she must do. "Linda!"
she called, and the little girl came
skipping her one-leg skip. "Your . . .
daddy is here."
jyfARTHA watched while every
fibre of her body wanted to
cry out in rebellion, as the little girl
came hesitantly forward. Her hair
was tousled from her play, but nev-
er before had Martha seen the lights
shine so in it. Her hand slid into
its yellow glory while she watched
the man before them.
He caught his breath quickly, and
impulsively put out his hand. "Lin-
da—Linda—my little girl!" She
came forward then, and he leaned
and lifted her into his arms. He ran
his fingers through her curls. "You
are the picture of your mother," he
said.
"Aunt Martha says I have honey-
candy hair," Linda said.
"Yes, Linda, like hers— wild hon-
ey hair. Tell me, are you a good
girl? Do you do what Aunt Mar-
that and Chris tell you to?"
"Peter doesn't mind his grand-
mother sometimes," the little girl
said. "Sometimes he comes over
here when she doesn't know it."
"Now, who could Peter be?"
The child pointed her finger to
the sand pile where a little freckle-
faced boy sat forlornly looking on.
"That's Peter," she said.
"Oh," Kent said, gazing at the
lonely little figure. And then he
added quickly, "I brought you
something. Perhaps you can share
it with Peter." He drew a long pack-
age from his pocket, hurriedly tore
off the wrapping and opened the
lid. Linda clapped her hands with
pleasure. It was a box of tiny plas-
tic birds. "Here, put them in your
flower garden," he said, handing her
the box.
She took it excitedly and ran
calling to Peter with the new-found
treasure.
"How will you take care of her?"
Martha asked, sitting on the bench
to relieve the wobbling in her
knees.
"POR. a while Kent looked beyond
the apple trees. Then he said
simply, "I am going to be married."
Martha stared at him.
"She is a lovely girl, Martha. You
see she was lonely, too. She lost
her husband in the war. It has been
wonderful, the peace that has re-
turned to me since I met Joyce."
He looked away again. "It is dif-
ferent from Ann, Martha. But I
know we will find happiness togeth-
er. And she will make a wonderful
mother for Linda."
LEST SHE FORGET
The words cut like a knife. Mar-
tha could feel her face burning.
She saw the confused look on
Kent's face. He came quickly and
sat down beside her. "Forgive me,
Martha. I don't want to hurt you.
I know you have been die best
mother in the world for Linda. But
don't you understand— I can't give
up my little girl— the only thing I
have left of that lovely past. Ann
would not want me to give our child
away."
Martha had been struggling des-
perately. She spoke with forced
calmness. 'Tes, Kent, I have
always tried to remember that Lin-
da was not ours, and that sometime
you would come back for her."
There was one last hope. She
must know. ''Will you— will you
be living in your place?"
''No, Martha." He paused. ''Joyce
and I think it would be best to be-
gin our life together some new place.
I have sold the farm to a couple
with six small children."
Martha stared miserably ahead.
She saw Chris leaning against the
apple tree. She had forgotten him.
He was standing there quietly pick-
ing the petals from a sprig of apple
bloom. The loosened leaves float-
ed aimlessly to the ground and lay
in a pink carpet at his feet. She
wondered vaguely how Chris, who
had carried Linda on his shoulders,
who had told her his funny rhymes,
and taken her piggy back riding,
how he could stand there calmly
pulling apple blossoms apart.
"I don't intend to take Linda
away where you can never see her
again," Kent was saying. "I know
that I can never repay you at all for
what you have done. She could
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come back each year for a visit."
His eyes dropped to the blossom
petals at Chris' feet. "Perhaps in
the spring when the apples are in
bloom."
Martha looked at him half grate-
fully, but her throat ached, and she
could feel tears stinging her eyes.
"When are you going?"
"In the morning," he said, while
Martha fought desperately to keep
the tears back. "I want to spend
one last night . . . ." His voice trailed
off with his gaze through the trees.
CO it was morning. Linda's hair
had been brushed to shining rip-
ples. Ller gay little dress, starched
and ironed to dainty crispness,
rustled as she danced about excited-
ly around the big box that con-
tained all her things.
Then Peter was standing there
shyly, pushing his queer package in-
to Linda's hand. "It's my bird eggs,
Linda," he said. "You can have
them." And then before she had
time to open the pitiful little pack-
age, or even tell him goodbye, he
was gone.
One moment Martha had the
child in her arms, with the bright
head against her breast and her
own lips pressed to the shining
curls, and the next moment she was
gone.
Martha didn't know how long
she stood there staring at the empty
trail down the currant bushes. But,
suddenly, she was aware of the ring
of Chris' hammer. She turned and
stared at him. How could he be
driving nails into Linda's playhouse!
But he was! He was nailing the
wooden chimney into its place, a
square chimney marked off like
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bricks, pointing mockingly into the
skv.
He must have read the horror in
her face, for he laid the hammer
calmly on the roof and stepped
down from his wooden box. He
came to her and took her two hands
between his own.
"Why are you building the play-
house, Chris? What for?"
Chris pressed her hands until
they hurt, hurt until she could have
cried out. She could feel his eyes
burning into her. ''Because, Mar-
tha, darling, we can't gi\e up. We
must go on."
''But, Chris, what is the use with-
out Linda!" She was almost hys-
terical.
"Martha, over across the orchard
there will be children. You remem-
ber, Kent said— six small children.
Their mother will need help. They
can play in the playhouse. And—
have you forgotten all the springs
when the apples are in bloom, Linda
will come. Her playhouse will be
waiting for her. Don't you see? It
must be finished, with the chimney
and the table and the pink cur-
tains . . . ."
Martha felt the tension in Chris'
body, felt him trying to help her.
She reached out her hand uncon-
sciously and it rested on a head.
She looked slowly down into a pair
of eves red with crying. It was
Peter, his tousled red hair filled with
dry leaves and sticks from the bush-
es where he had wept in loneliness
for his only playmate. Poor little
Peter, living with a grandmother
who \\'as too blind to know that his
overalls needed patching.
"Peter," Martha said, "I must go
to see your grandmother. Perhaps
I can help her. And — and you
must come over every day and help
me." She looked up at Chris, and
he gave her a wink.
"Better still," he said, beckoning
to Peter, "I need a man to help me
build this house. Peter, would you
like to hold this wobbly chimney
still?"
Martha looked out across the ap-
ple trees to the green roof. It will
still be there, she thought, to re-
mind me of all the things that are
left.
Qjaitk
Mary EJIen B. WorJcman
Time to grieve?
Oh, heart, put grief away!
Seek out the beauties of today —
The unsung song, the flag unfurled,
The babe new-born unto the world,
The child's smile, eyes that shine
Lighted by his love sublime.
Life's joys are here, and here shall stay
To make you glad upon the \\ay.
Your love is pure, Christ's gifts complete;
In God's own time you, too, shall sleep —
And live again, no more to weep!
Come, dear heart, time is not long!
Put off your grief, make life your song.
Grace T. Kirton
LILAC GARDEN AND PIONEER HOME IN EPHRAIM, UTAH
[Deserted (garden
Matia McCldhnd Buik
I cannot bear to visit any more
The desert homestead where I was a child,
And see that dry and thorny weed-grown ruin,
My Mother's lovely garden, now grown wild.
Her neat, trimmed roses are an unkempt hedge;
Gone is her dahlia rainbow in the fall;
No trumpet vine calls hummingbirds in spring.
No scarlet tulips blossom by the wall.
Just one gnarled lilac, blooming by the gate;
One tangled bed of orange poppies gleams;
No, rather would I seek more perfect flowers
In that dear garden of my childhood dreams.
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Miracles and Mother
Eileen Gibbons
4 4]% yTOTHER, ifs for you!"
Wf Three daughters, who
used to dash for the
telephone every time it rang and
answer with an anticipant ''Hi!"
now calmly raise it from the hook,
mutter a calm "Hello," and sigh,
''Mother, it's for you."
Listen closely, and you can hear
them add to themselves, "It's
always for you!"
You see, I'm one of the three
daughters, and my mother is the
president of a ward Relief Society.
She's relatively new in the job of
being ward mother, but during the
months she has been, we girls, our
four brothers, and our father have
witnessed a miracle.
Miracles aren't exactly unusual
in big families. Ours has managed
to remain happy through periods of
economic depression, broken teen-
age hearts, the cruel adolescent teas-
ings of too many freckled-faced
brothers, and the mischief of a sev-
en-year-old named Ted.
But Mother is the real miracle.
For as long as we can remember,
she has been doing extra, unusual
things, to save time, effort, and
money. Five a.m. rising to pick
raspberries on shares, midnight wall-
papering parties, and the care of
ten pens of rabbits are among her
''saving" ideas.
Add to these washing, ironing,
cleaning, and cooking for nine, and
you have someone much too busy
to sit and visit, read a good book,
or call on a neighbor for a friendly
chat. Yet, these are the things
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every busy housewife hopes some
day to find time to do.
That's why when Mother told
us the bishop wanted her to be
president of the Relief Society we
all gasped "When?"
Mother already moved from one
job to another like lightning and
was the first awake and the last to
bed. We'd chastized her plenty of
times about moving too fast, and
now the Church wanted to give her
one of its biggest jobs. For several
days we talked about it.
"She's just the person, but . . ."
—"Wouldn't she be wonderful!
but . . .?" and then there was just
the plain "But, Mother!"
Of course Mother said yes. She
had already said yes when we were
going around the house wondering
"When?" to ourselves and saying
"But . . ." to her.
At the time. Mother was in the
Primary presidency and theology
teacher in the Relief Society. She
was baking twelve loaves of bread
every week, keeping a surplus of
canned food in the basement, and
frozen food in the locker.
Mother also spent an hour every
day helping the child up the street
improve his reading so he could be
promoted. She was giving several
minutes a day to Larry because he
needed tangible encouragement be-
side him while he practiced the
piano.
Torn denim knees had a way of
appearing, and old rags had to be
made into rugs. It was too expensi\e
for the girls to buy all their clothes.
MIRACLES AND MOTHER
in
and as long as shirts and trousers
could be made from Dad's old
suits and our too-small coitons, the
little boys would wear them home-
made.
A new latch on the door, new
paint in the bedroom, the buckle
torn from a shoe— a myriad of little
jobs were already appearing daily
and Mother was squeezing them in.
And now the bishop wanted her
to ... .
*I\7E girls told her how happy we
were, and at the same time
gestured melodramatic stories about
how we would probably have to
quit school and our jobs so Mother
could work in the Relief Society.
That was several months ago.
And Mother is still busy because
she still has seven children and the
jobs that go along with a big fam-
ily. Of course, we all have to help
a little more, but the miracle is still
there.
Mother has been able to do the
job, keep up her home, and bring
a new spirituality, enthusiasm, and
happiness into her relations with
her family. This is the miracle.
Mother has more time and energy
than she has ever had before.
''Mother, it's for you,'' calls her
to the phone at least a dozen times
every day. Someone feels she
ought to let Mother know that Sis-
ter Wallace is ill. Her first coun-
selor phones to say, ''Sure, we can
go visiting the shut-ins this after-
noon!"
Perhaps it's a death in the ward.
That usually means food to pre-
pare, comfort to give, an assortment
of needs to fill. There arc flowers
to arrange and children to tend.
Meetings need to be planned,
work days scheduled, offices filled—
the usual duties of a president— all
are there. And Mother does them.
She thinks, eats, and sleeps Relief
Society. It is her life, her chance
to serve.
She has found time to do it well,
along with her washing, sewing,
cooking, and cleaning, and the mul-
titude of household jobs that come
unexpectedly.
And if you tiptoe into her room
almost any evening, you'll find her
sitting up in bed reading a good
book, the newspaper, or a magazine
—to her a luxury.
And it isn't late. Only the little
boys are in bed. But you see. Moth-
er is tired at night as always. She
still has too much to do, and we
still tell her she does it too swiftly.
But she is a new woman. There
is contentment instead of exhaus-
tion after a day of hard work. There
is joy at every chance to help or ex-
pression of gratitude from the
helped. There is love between her
and a hundred women she never
knew before. Most of all, there is
a realization and a firm testimony
in her heart that wards are living,
complex units that need a mother.
And the children? We enjoy our
miracle Mother. And it hasn't hurt
us girls at all to cook a little more
often, sew on a few buttons our-
selves, or even to think now and
then that "he" surely would have
called, if Mother hadn't been presi-
dent of the Relief Society.
(bixtii LJears J^go
Excerpts From the Woninii's Exponent, May i, and May 15, 1894
*'FoR THE Rights of the \\'omen of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
THE WOMAN'S CO-OPERATIVE INSTITUTION: Keeps on hand dress
goods and trimmings, fancy articles and notions, books and stationery, equipose waists.
Dressmaking in all its branches, millinery, latest styles, hats and bonnets cleaned and
retrimmed. Feathers curled. Stamping done to order.
— Selected
WOMAN'S SPHERE: The Father chose her by and through whom all his
spiritual children should come to earth, and so ordered that she should be first to know
the advent of the spirit to its home . . . and not until she has endowed it with the
virtues of her soul does she present it a priceless offering to the Lord. Thus woman is
recognized by the eternal decree of the Father to be the first to cherish humanity ....
In view of the fact that there can be no man . . . without woman, we may cease to
talk about woman's sphere as though it had a limit, other than the world in which she
moves. — S. W. Richards
THE ORIGIN OF LIFE
We're now laying foundations of what we shall be.
For life's current extends to eternity's sea;
And whatever debases, ennobles, refines,
By our acts we imprint in indelible lines.
We're the offspring of God. We should never degrad(
The form which at first in His image was made ....
— Eliza R. Snow
TROUBLE: Never bear more than one trouble at a time. Some people bear
three kinds — all they ever had, all they have now, and all they expect to have.
— Edward Everett Hale
HERITAGE: .... While we journey onward and upward, let us clasp hands
as sisters in sweet assurance of helping each other to cross the desert of ignorance and
the dark river of tradition, where the little boats of error and superstition glide in and
out alluring the unwary. W^ will watch for the beacon light of truth that shines from
afar over the Elysian fields of knowledge and understanding. And while we pursue
our pioneer march, let us not forget the innumerable company that follow in our wake,
and leave for them shining waymarks, hopeful harbingers of success in attaining the
goal of our ambitions. — Selected
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN BOX ELDER STAKE: Quarterly
conference of the Relief Society of Box Elder Stake convened in the Tabernacle at
Brigham City, on the 13th of March. President Olivia Widerborg presiding. Sister
Bowring: I heard Brother Kimball once say we should be as clay in the potter's hand,
if we depend on the Lord we shall be so. We can do a great deal of good to each
other .... Emelia D. Madsen: It is a sacred calling to be a president or an officer in
the Relief Society. The teachers in visiting should try to find the needy. They need
to possess the spirit of the Lord, the spirit of discernment, and great big hearts that
they may find even those who shrink from recei\ing help in their need .... Counselor
Mary Wright: Let us not find fault with each other, it is weakening to ourselyes, let
us do all the good we can ....
— Emelia D. Madsen, Cor. Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
gMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY,
wife of President David O.
McKay of The Chureh of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints, has been
named Utah's "Mother of the Yeai"
for 1Q54. She will go to New York
City this month to join other state
winners in the events taking place
when the ''American Mother of the
Year" will be chosen. Mrs. McKay,
mother, homemaker, musician, has
long been active in community and
Church activities and has accom-
panied President McKay upon his
world travels.
O
LIVE WOOLLEY BURT
(Mrs. Clinton R. Burt), noted
and dynamic Salt Lake author, has
three new volumes on the market.
Young Jed Smith— Westering Boy
is an interesting, action-filled story
of this famous personality of the
early West; Camel Express is the
tale of a strange and little known
episode in Western history; and
Peter's Sugar Farm, has West Jord-
an, Utah, as its locale.
lyiRS. BENJAMIN F. (Ardella
^ * Bitner) TIBBY, a native Salt
Laker, but for the last twenty-one
years superintendent of the Comp-
ton City Schools, Compton, Cali-
fornia, delivered one of the prin-
cipal addresses at the convention of
the American Association of School
Administrators, held in Atlantic
City, New Jersey, in February. Past
normal retiring age, Mrs. Tibby is
considered too valuable to the
school system to be permitted to
leave. She ranks as one of the fore-
most women educators in America.
QRANDMA MOSES, ninety-
three, has just presented one of
her latest primitive paintings, 'The
Battle of Bennington," to the
Daughters of the American Revolu-
tion.
"DIRTHDAY congratulations are
extended to Mrs. Lizzie Col-
born, Salt Lake City, one hundred
one; Mrs. Susanna Matilda Cowels
Huish, Spring Lake, Utah, ninety-
nine; Mrs. Catherine Matilda Beck,
San Leandro, California, ninety-
eight; Mrs. Euphemia Jane Carter
Freeman, Salt Lake City, ninety-
seven; Mrs. Margaret Blair Crab-
tree, Idaho Falls, Idaho, ninety-
three; Mrs. Martha Musser Sheets
Davis, Salt Lake City, ninety-three;
Mrs. Sarah Elizabeth Goodwin Bin-
nal. Granger, Utah, ninety; Mrs.
Rosella Marie P. T. Jacobsen, Mt.
Pleasant, Utah, ninety.
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EDITORIAI
VOL. 41
MAY 1954
NO. 5
[Portrait of I J lot her
TN a certain old-fashioned house,
there was an embroidered sam-
pler on the living room wall, which
proclaimed a message that the chil-
dren in that home could never for-
get. At first, when they were small,
the message seemed to refer to their
grandmother, but later, upon re-
turning to the beloved family home,
they knew that the message re-
ferred to their own dear mother.
We are coming, Mother, coming —
From the loom and from the mine —
Though it be our last sweet homing
On that mother breast of thine.
In times of separation from our
mothers, whether it be the absence
caused by the temporary affairs of
earth, or that longer waiting until
the time of reunion in the heavenly
home, we often try to picture in
memory the portrait of our mothers.
Sometimes an evanescent happen-
ing or even some familiar scene —
a flower garden, a thread of music,
a lighted window — may bring to
us, unexpectedly, a vivid and
strangely comforting portrait of
mother.
The dear face may be remem-
bered well, and the busy, untiring
hands, the quick step in the kitch-
en, the quiet step to a child's crib.
One woman may remember that
once, upon admitting some misde-
meanor of childhood, the mother
only looked at her with tears in her
eyes, and had to wait to find some-
thing to say. Another woman may
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recall how swiftly her mother's fing-
ers flew in sewing white lace upon
an infant's dress. The portraits are
varied and beautiful.
Though we may not realize the
full influence of these memories—
these portraits, we know that in
large measure they determine our
attitudes, our actions, the very
course of our lives. One woman
has been influenced throughout her
life by seeing repeatedly, in mem-
ory, her mother, who had come to
visit the daughter at college, stand-
ing, after class had been dismissed,
with her hand laid tenderly upon
a bench in the room, tears in the
mother's eyes. Then she said,
''Such a thing as this learning was
never possible for me, but I am so
grateful that you can be here."
Another woman, sincerely devot-
ed to the work of the Church, re-
calls, as an indelible etching, the
portrait of her mother — how she
hurried down the poplar-lined street,
taking her little daughter with her;
how quickly the mother mounted
the wooden steps to the Relief So-
ciety Hall, how soon she was taking
charge of the meeting — then the
music, the prayer, the quietness,
and the light upon the mother's
face. Strange how much is in-
scribed upon the pliant mind of a
child through no direct word being
said. It is by spiritual communion
that much of earth's best instruc-
tion is given and received.
EDITORIAL
303
Many of us may be fortunate
enough to recall the portrait of a
mother who honored and respected
the individualism of each of her
children, who realized that each
child is different from every other
personality, the heritage given by
the parents coming from ancestral
sources remote and near, but always
in a new combination of character-
istics, talents, and temperament,
with an individual, everlasting spir-
it. The mother has been the life-
giving vessel, but her duty and her
influence are best exercised through
love, patient direction, and inspira-
tional example. And mothers who
are wise, as well as devoted, may,
over the years and into old age,
share in the shining hopes, ideals,
and accomplishments of their chil-
dren, and these mothers may be
comforted by knowing that the por-
traits of all mothers are forever in-
destructible.
-V. P. C.
I Lew Serial, cJhe cf ailing Shackles, to ujegin in ^une
\ NEW serial, 'The Falling Shackles," by Margery S. Stewart, will begin
in the June Relief Society Magazine. This intimate and dramatic
story recounts the sad and amusing experiences of a family from Europe
who make a new life for themselves in Salt Lake City. The author is well
known to readers of the Magazine, having contributed many excellent
stories and poems. Mrs. Stewart's work has also received recognition
by national magazines of wide circulation, and she has received awards in
se\eral contests, including the Relief Society Short Story Contest and the
Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest.
c/o UJavid
Marjoiie Foote
Tough and tousled three-year-old,
Hurtling like a comet jet
Along the path, across the street —
A mercury with wing-shod feet.
Bright ribboned years do now unfold.
Shot with silver, red, and gold;
High adventures to be met;
Forward now your course is set;
Life's dawn for you is sweet.
We set small store by worldly gain
But here's a jewel-studded crown:
The sapphire of a blue tit's wing,
The liquid gold the blackbirds sing;
Pearl-studded trees in rain,
Emeralds from the leafy lane;
The honeybee's topaz and brown.
Gay rose's gorgeous ruby gown.
Each sparkling gem of spring.
This box is clasped with constant prayer
And bounded with our love for you.
Its key of truth will only turn
If, with clear vision, you discern
The Priesthood cloak that God sets there
For every worthy son to wear.
Oh, take these treasures and renew
Your covenants each day; be true.
Oh, let his lamp forever burn.
oa|/ Ut Vi/ith d^lovoers
Norma W. South
npHE words so often used by the growing house plants; that is why
florist industry bring an intrigu- I cannot grow them as well as she.
ing thought to me. What has been Perhaps Mother was never con-
said to me by way of flowers? What scions of saying things with her
have I tried to say to others? flowers; we were not conscious of
When I was a little girl, no taller receiving the messages. But they
than a window sill, my world told us many things just the same,
seemed to be made up mostly of They told us that here was love and
flowers. Dozens of flowering house patience, not only for the plants,
plants lined our windows. My view but for the children who lived with
of the outside world was always them. They told us that home was
framed by flowers and, as I grew beautiful and warm and safe. As
taller, by lovely foliage and flowers, the plants cost mother not a cent,
October, there was often wind ^^^ey told us that there are many
and sleet and snow, but inside it beautiful and wonderful thnigs in
was always summer. Mother's ge- t^^e world which have nothhig at
raniums were deep red, bright red, all to do with money. The blossoms
old rose, pink, white, and salmon cheered us through childhood ill-
color. The Martha Washington "ess and gave us courage when fa-
geranium, with its gray-green leaves, ther was away at the hospital for
had single flowers of old rose, with three whole months. They taught
deep rose throats. The fuchsia was "s that God can do some very re-
the wonder plant, with its delicate niarkable things,
stems and lavender-red blossoms I can close my eyes and see the
which hung down like bells on a flowers and people marching through
Christmas tree. The Marguerite ^Y girlhood. It is the junior prom,
had fern-like foliage and large white There are new formals, flowers,
daisy blossoms. Then there was the ecstasy! Now I am returning from
California pink which had a bios- a college spring formal. The young
som of fine pink fringe and no man in the tuxedo takes the rose
leaves at all; it had queer needles from his lapel and presses it into
like those of an evergreen! my hand. The little flower tells
Every night through the long the sweet message for which he
winter months, mother patiently cannot find adequate words. My
carried her plants from the windows wedding . . . there are flowers e\'ery-
to the kitchen table where thev where. Mother is saying, ''Norma,
would be safe from frost. Every the pink double hollyhocks ha\c
morning she gave each plant a drink, bloomed early this year, just for
One year she took new slips and you." She is so happy including
repotted all the plants, using rich licr flowers in the plans.
loamy soil from under the wild "We'll decorate the table with
English willows. I have never glads, the white and pink coronas."
learned any more of her secrets of I see again my wedding bouquet.
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SAY IT WITH FLOWERS
305
The years are rushing on. There
are flo\\ers for birthdays, weddings,
a funeral . . . my father's. Now I
am lying in a hospital, not ill at all,
but rejoicing over the safe arrival of
our third child, a dear little boy.
The door opens and a sweet little
girl of nine enters, carrying a small
bouquet picked from my own gard-
en. Her blue eyes fill with tears;
she is unable to speak, but the
flowers tell what she has come to
say. I reach joyfully for the flowers,
and the little blond head goes down
on my pillow. It is so lonesome at
home without Mommie.
I am again in a hospital, stand-
ing beside a white bed. It is a
crisis in our lives; our daughter is
very ill with pneumonia. I lay a
cool hand on her feverish brow.
''Darling/' I begin, trying not to
let my voice betray my fear, ''re-
member how our sweetpeas looked
last summer on the fence? They
were so pretty when a cool breeze
stirred them." It is my way of say-
ing, ''Don't be afraid, dear. God
will watch over you and make you
well, even as he can change a very
small seed into a beautiful flower-
ing plant." She smiles and closes
her tired eyes in sleep. It is a very
good sign.
Today a spring shower has re-
freshed my flower garden. The
bleeding heart is blooming beau-
tifullv. The iris, narcissus, and tu-
lips are waiting to be made into a
bouquet for our table. Through
the spring, summer, and fall, I will
find things to say to my family and
friends, and I will say them with
flowers.
O^reserving Tfietal [Planters
Elizabeth Wiliiamson
qX) prevent the corrosion of metal planters, line them with melted paraffin.
Things Will Be Different
Virginid M. Kaiiiiiieyer
SALLY looked around the apart-
ment, surveying it with dis-
gust. "Will I be glad to get
away from you!" she thought.
They would be moving soon-
she and Bill and the children,
away from the ugly little apartment,
into the beautiful house with the
big lawn and the willow tree.
Sally leaned on her broom and
dreamed. She wouldn't take one
piece of furniture from this living
room, not one thing! She'd give it
all to the junk man and buy new
for the home they were moving to.
She gave the sofa a look that
should have withered it. One side
sagged where the children had
jumped on it too hard. And the
once-attractive blue frieze uphol-
stery had succumbed to smears of
peanut butter, jelly, and molding
clay.
Those plastic curtains were go-
ing out. She would have draw drapes
at the big picture window— maybe
cream-colored silk with appliqued
roses to match the roses in that
elegant carpet she had seen in
Kranowski's window.
She pulled herself back to the
present, picked up the broom, and
set it down again. She didn't feel
like cleaning this place anymore.
Why bother to mop and wax the
floors, dust the furniture? Soon
sJie would be bidding it all goodby.
Sallv decided to nourish her soul.
She pushed Karl's truck out of the
way and sat down with the new
Home Lovely magazine. She flipped
through the pages of beautiful ex-
teriors and exquisite interiors, read
an article on color schemes, and
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paused to admire a pictured dexil's
food cake and dream of whipping
it up in her own gleaming kitchen.
She became so absorbed in the
magazine that she jumped when
the kitchen door banged. Four-
year-old Karl and three-year-old Ann
came in, demanding lunch. Sally
looked at the clock— one-fifteen!
She'd really have to fly if she got
anything done before Bill came
home from work.
She hurried the children through
lunch and got them down for naps,
then washed the dishes and mopped
up the soup and crumbs under the
table. It was three o'clock before
she got to cleaning the living room.
Bill would be home at four-thirty.
She shoved the children's dis-
carded sweaters into the closet,
dumped all their toys together into
a box, and threw out some wilted
flowers. Now to make the beds
and see what she could prepare for
supper.
It was four-twenty-five. Sally op-
ened the refrigerator and found
some wieners and cold boiled po-
tatoes. The children would love it
if she fried the potatoes, but she
wasn't so sure about Bill. He liked
his meals balanced.
She backed away from the re-
frigerator, both hands full, and
bumped into her husband in the
narrow space between refrigerator
and table. Wieners and potatoes
flipped upside down on the floor.
''Oh, Bill! Just see what you've
done!"
She knew she shouldn't be blam-
ing Bill for the accident, but the
afternoon's rush had left her short-
THINGS WILL BE DIFFERENT
307
tempered, and, as she picked the
food off the floor, the tiny kitchen
suddenly irritated her.
We need traffic hghts to get
around in here, she thought, and
then grew more cheerful as she
thought of leaving it all behind.
"DILL still stood with the evening
paper in his hand, wearing that
"Now what have I done?" look.
Sally gave him a peck on the cheek
and carried the wieners to the sink
to wash them off.
Fried potatoes brought squeals
of delight from the children and a
disapproving look from Bill. Sally,
on the defensive, said, ''Honey, I
can't prepare a decent meal on two
square feet of counter space."
Bill grunted and speared a potato.
''Just wait, darling," and she put
an arm around him, "when we move
into that beautiful big kitchen I'll
prepare wonderful meals!"
Next morning the bank called to
tell Sally that the loan had gone
through and they could come in
any time to sign the final papers.
Sally put down the phone, and,
humming, went to find a box to
pack her best dishes.
She was crumpling newspaper in
the bottom of the box, when the
air split with screams from outside.
Sally jumped to her feet and ran
out the door. Karl and a neighbor
boy were chasing Ann around the
yard, squirting her with their water
pistols.
"Stop it! Both of you!" she cried
and dragged the sobbing child away.
"Don't ever do that again!" And
she marched Ann into the house.
She comforted her with a cookie
and resumed her packing.
It's the neighbor boys who teach
Karl those things, she decided, just
wait till we move into a civilized
neighborhood.
The days moved quickly. Sally
packed their belongings, wrote
change-of-address letters to the milk-
man, the mailman, and the tel-
ephone company. She handed in
to the rental office their notice of
intention to vacate, and received in
return a mimeographed sheet of in-
structions for leaving the apartment.
Be sure, it said, to empty the garb-
age, mow the lawn, turn in the key,
and so on, and so on.
She handed the sheet to Bill
when he came home, with the sug-
gestion that he get busy on "oper-
ation lawn mower."
Bill flopped in a chair, a pained
expression on his face. "Let a man
rest for a minute. I'll get at it after
supper."
He didn't get at it after supper,
nor the next night, nor the next.
Tuesday evening Sally reminded
him that they were moving Friday.
Wednesday at supper she reminded
him again, a little more firmly, and
on Thursday afternoon when he
came home, the lawn mower was
barring the door, Sally standing
grimly behind it.
"O.K," Bill said, shame in his ex-
pression, "I'll mow it. But, you
know, I'd enjoy it a lot more if it
was our own lawn."
His voice began to show enthus-
iasm as he pushed the mower
through the grass. "Just wait till
I get started on our own yard. I'll
really manicure that lawn— and
trim the willow tree— and plant
more flowers!"
'pHEY spent Friday and Saturday
moving. Bill rented a truck.
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and together they tugged and heaved
the furniture onto the back of it.
Sally had lost her battle to get rid
of the living-room pieces. She was,
in Bill's opinion, lucky to get a
house. So the sagging sofa went
along to the new home.
When the last load was dropped
in the middle of the living room,
Sally stopped to survey the place.
This was home, with the willow
tree, the wide lawn, and the wis-
teria over the front step. She was
completely happy.
Sunday morning found them
tired, stiff, and barely able to pull
themselves to church. They came
home and nibbled on cold cuts from
the refrigerator, and Bill reminded
Sally, ''Be sure to call the electric
company tomorrow, so they can
send a man out to connect up the
stove."
Monday morning Sally waved her
husband off to work, shooed the
children out to play, and then sat
down on a box of books, wonder-
ing where, in the littered living
room, to begin putting things away.
The enormity of the task depressed
her, and she was tired. The Home
Lovely magazine lay on top of a
barrel of dishes, and Sally picked
it up.
She was intently comparing color
schemes in the magazine when she
was shocked to attention by a ser-
ies of screams that could come from
no one but Ann. Sally sprang to
the door and saw Karl dragging
Ann about the yard. Ropes bound
her hands and feet.
''Karl! Stop it! What are you do-
ing?
"We're Indians. Fm lasseling
her."
"Well, don't let me catch you
doing it again!" She rescued her
daughter, untied the cords, and
started back toward the house. She
noticed a lot of scraggly weeds along
the brick walk, and stooped to pull
one or two. An hour later she was
still at it. She paused long enough
to make the children sandwiches
for lunch, and found, upon enter-
ing the kitchen, that Ann had tried
to help herself to milk from the re-
frigerator and had dropped the
whole quart. Sally cleaned up the
mess and cut her finger deeply on
a piece of glass.
When the children were asleep,
she went back to the weeding. As
she bent and pulled, she was grad-
ually aware of a noise— one that had
been going on for some time.
CALLY stood up suddenly, realiz-
ing it was the sound of running
water. She followed it to its source,
and stood aghast. One of the chil-
dren had turned on the hose and
left it running full blast near the
half-open basement window. Water
was pouring into the dark depths
below.
She turned off the water and
dashed for the basement door to
survey the damage. It was worse
than she had imagined. The water
pouring in from outside lay two in-
ches deep near the window, and
a leaking pipe overhead was adding
to the flood.
Sally ran to get a mop and a
broom to stem the tide before it
spread to their trunks of precious
things. She pulled on her over-
shoes and waded in, sweeping the
water before her to the door.
Mop, sweep, mop, sweep, for two
hours she worked, until she had
swept all she could out the door,
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309
had wrung more out into a bucket,
and the remainder lay in damp pud-
dles on the floor.
At four-thirty Bill found her
flopped in exhaustion on the couch.
''Hey, lazy bones," and he shook
her. ''What's for supper?"
"Supper!" Sally reared up and
looked at him with horrified eyes.
"I forgot to call the electrician to
hook up the stove!"
"Yeah? Well, what have we
got?" and Bill stalked to the refrig-
erator. "Wieners and cold pota-
toes!"
It was too much. The whole
day had been too much. She began
to cry, and found she couldn't stop.
She was tired, she hurt, and noth-
ing seemed to be going right.
Through her tears she saw Bill
standing over her with that "Now
what have I done?" expression.
Where have I seen that look be-
fore? she wondered, and, realizing
where, began to giggle, her sobs of
exhaustion gradually turning to an
agony of laughter.
Bill grabbed her shoulders and
shook her hard. "What's the mat-
ter? Hey, stop it, for goodness
sakel"
''Oh, Bill!" And she went off in-
to peals of laughter again. "I'm
laughing at myself. For being so
stupid! I thought just moving
would change everything. I expect-
ed this to be heaven— and it's not!
The lawn's a mess, the plumbing
leaks— even the wisteria's got blight.
And I"— she began to laugh and
sob at the same time, "I'm the same
inefficient, forgetful person I've
always been. Even the children are
as naughty as ever. Oh, honey,"
she put an arm around her puzzled
husband, "starting right now, I'm
going to try to make this a heaven
for you and the children. I'll budget
my time, and write down notes,
and keep track of things . . . ."
Bill was thoughtfully rubbing her
hand between his, trying to think
of what to say. "Maybe," he said,
"all of us together can gain heaven,
a step at a time. I think I'll start
right now by mowing the lawn."
Sally, putting away books, watched
him from the window, and out of
a new understanding and maturity
(or maybe she had read it some-
where) said, "We make a heaven
for ourselves right where we are—
or nowhere."
1 1 Lormng (^lones
Evelyn Fjeldsted
Morning glory bells are ringing;
The wind has found their muted chimes.
Wings of butterflies are tipping
In their silent, aerial climbs.
High above a plane is flying,
With sun-splashed wings, far out of harm.
The might}' engine, lifting, singing,
Fills the sky with morning charm.
Butterfly and plane creation.
Each to its own destination!
JLaunder olhat Vi/hite Shirt Ljourself
Ruth K. Kent
OEND a white shirt to the laundry a few times, and you v/ill spend enough to buy
^ a new shirt. It is easy to do up a white shirt when you know how. This is the
way I have found to be best for me.
The ironing itself is not so much the problem as the preparation for ironing. First
the washing — scrub the collar and cuffs with soap and a stiff brush. Wash as usual
and rinse out all the soap. It is advisable to rinse a white shirt even though a no-rinse
detergent has been used, in order to rid it of any grimy water. Hang the shirt on the
line by the back shirttail, being sure to spread it wide. Pull the collar, cuffs, and but-
ton hole pleat down the front into shape. Hang in the sun to dry, if possible, or
someplace in the air, where the shirt will dry quickly. If it must be dried inside, do
not crowd it.
Do not starch the shirt until it is dry. To starch, use one tablespoon of a good
starch to one cup of warm water. (Use more starch if the shirt is to be stiffer, but
that must be determined by experimenting). Add one teaspoon of salt to the starch
and stir well. Now dip the collar into the starch, rub it in well, and wring out.
Do the same with the cuffs, being careful not to get the starch on the sleeves. And
for an especially good job, gather just the pleat in front into your hand and dip it
into the starch and wring out. Now sprinkle the whole shirt and roll tightly.
Before ironing, make these important preparations: See that the iron is clean.
Wash off the bottom, and, if necessary, scour off lightly any black spots. Place a
clean dish towel or part of an old sheet over the ironing board cover. Spread news-
papers on the floor beneath the ironing board. And, if available, put a piece of beeswax
or ironing wax beneath the ironing board cover at the head of the board. Set the
iron just below "cotton," or approximately 350 degrees. If the iron is too hot, it will
leave scorch marks where repeated ironing is necessary.
First iron the under side of the collar, pushing in from the corners to the center.
Iron the band until it seems dry. Turn over and do the outside of the collar, being
careful to push any fullness to the back of the collar. Now move the collar to the
far edge of the board and let it hang over. Iron the collar band on the edge of the
board until it seems dry. If the iron pulls hard, rub it across the wax placed at the
head of the board and it will glide smoothly.
Iron the cuffs on the wrong side from the bottom edge toward the sleeve. Push
the iron up into the sleeve from the inside of the cuff. Now, do the right side of the
cuff. Flatten the sleeve along the underarm seam and iron the sleeve flat on the
board, doing the side with the placket first. Iron out all the wrinkles carefully where
the sleeve joins the cuff and do the placket neatly. Turn the sleeve over and do the
other side. If the sleeve seems to pucker at the underarm seam, pull and stretch the
seam while ironing.
Fold the shirt along the line where the back is seamed to the yoke. Lay the
yoke flat on the board and iron carefully.
Iron the left front first, starting at the underarm seam and working towards the
buttons. 1 hen do the back, then the right front. Iron the pleat on the right front
on the underside first, then iron dry and smooth on the right side. This is one of the
most important tilings to watch when ironing a white shirt. The shirttail ne^d not
be done so carefully.
Go over the collar and cuffs once again. Hang the shirt on a hanger to dry. And
it is best to store shirts on hangers if there is hanging space available.
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LAUNDER THAT WHITE SHIRT YOURSELF 311
If the shirt must be folded, do it the way the army does. Button the shirt and
place it on a large flat surface (bed or table) back down. Gently fold the collar down
against the breast of the shirt. Fold one sleeve straight across the front, the other
sleeve over the first one. Lift the shirt tail and fold it a third of the way up. Now
lift this fold and place it even with the top of the shirt. The shirt is now just the
right size to lay away in a dresser drawer or a suitcase. If it must be made smaller,
fold it in three, once from left to right, then the other side over this. It will come
out unwrinkled in the places that show the most.
It takes a little practice to learn how to launder a white shirt, but it pays off
in savings, and in a man's pride when someone asks him, "Say, who does your shirts
so well?"
tylnrnversara oc
nniversary oouvenirs
Mabel Law Atkinson
'T^HIS morning, while rummaging through my spacious treasure-chest of memory to
■^ find the gift of love I needed in my longing for children's laughter, I came across
a box carefully wrapped and labeled, "Anniversary Gifts, 1934."
Tears flowed freely as I opened each parcel wrapped in plain brown wrapping
paper and saw the cherished gifts and the childish writing on the homemade, flower-
decorated cards. The first revealed a small rag dolly fashioned out of old white knitted
underwear by the untrained hands of a Httle daughter of eight, the face worked in
black uneven stitches, the body stuflfed with bits of underwear cut fine by fingers that
yearned to do artistic work like her twelve-year-old sister. Her gift, when opened,
proved to be a hanky made from a salt sack, hemmed and embroidered by small hands
which at that tender age were prophetic of her later skill.
A bitter-sweet fragrance escaped as I began unwrapping the next gift, a "bookay
of buetiful dandelines" from my four-year-old son whose note had been written by his
older brother. Again I saw the childish beauty of this curly-haired "little brother"
gathering the flowers for me. Again I heard the hlting music of his laughter.
I opened the last parcel with the hands of love tightening about my heart, and
pearls of tenderness illumining my eyes, for the lad whose gift this was, is with us no
more. Tied to the handle of a little basket made of burrs and filled with moss and
wild violets, was a note in a loxed, remembered boyish scrawl: "I have no muney, but
I luv you."
Again I saw this lad as a chubby babe of two sitting in the dooryard of a rented
home, sans lawns and flowers, pulling bunch after bunch of the first tiny redroots of
spring and laughing for very joy as he saw the pink rootlets. Seeing me watching, he
held up a handful, calling, "See! Pitty, mama, pitty!"
He loved beauty even then and found it in the pink of the roots of weeds. I
recalled how, as he grew older, he was always bringing me starts of flowers for the win-
dow, and later on for a garden by our very own home. With gratitude in my heart
that God had let me keep him until he was mature, I offered up a prayer that he is
finding beauty in the heavenly gardens as he walks through them at sunrise as he loved
to do here.
What wealth was mine that morning as each shyly gave his gift!
Since then I have received beautiful and costly gifts, but none have given me
greater joy than those simple offerings of love on that anniversary in "our poverty
year" when there were no nickels to spare.
The Right Decision!
Frances C. Yost
MARGARET Shelby popped ''Smells good," John sniffed,
the rolls in the oxen, then "We're famished, aren't we, kids?"
took another peek at the din- John and Margaret let the chil-
inc^-room table. It was beautiful dren supply the table conversation,
with its centerpiece of autumn as- for their day's experiences were bub-
ters. Margaret's best silver sparkled bling over. After the meal was fin-
on the alabaster linen. She was ished, Margaret saw her dinner set,
using her teakwood dinner set this linen, and silverware put in their
evening. places, then she joined John in the
'Tes," Margaret said aloud, living room,
"everj'thing is just beautiful. Why, 'Tou're a heart-filling armful,"
anyone would think I was enter- John said, laying aside his paper and
taiiiing the Governor, instead of my pulling Margaret down on the
family." Someone said the way to couch beside him. ''Now we have
a man's heart is through his stom- a minute to ourselves. Marge, I have
ach, Margaret thought. With things something mighty important to dis-
sort of special, perhaps John will cuss with you."
break down and tell me what's been Margaret studied his face. It was
bothering him lately. almost too serious. He was going
Margaret went to their bedroom to tell her without asking. "Yes?"
and chose a brown rayon dress she questioned,
splashed with a daisy design because "Hang it. Marge, I was going to
John liked it. Making a quick tell you how important it is for a
change, she combed her hair and fellow to have a higher education in
added just a touch of makeup, the business world today. I had so
Then, viewing herself in the mirror, many reasons, but I might as well
she said aloud: "I may not be an get to the point right off. I want to
illustrator's dream of young Mrs. get a leave of absence from the of-
America, but I have a good hus- fice and work for my degree."
band, and I hope to keep him." "Oh, John!" Margaret gasped. It
Margaret's chin set with determina- was as if she had been pricked with
tion. a red-hot goad. "I thought you
As she waited at the door to wel- were satisfied, you've worked up."
come John, Margaret thought, life "It's a competitive world. A fel-
is good, I'm blessed with a perfect low needs a good education to make
husband, if tJiere ever was one, a the grade. I never had a chance be-
handful of healthy children, a good fore, but now we're kind of ahead,
home we can call our own, just I thought . . . ." John valued her
everything. Except that something common sense; even more, he val-
is bothering John, and I mean to ued her happiness. He counseled
find out exactly what it is, and to- with her for both reasons,
night. "CoUcge^'' Margaret repeated the
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THE RIGHT DECISION!
313
word which cut her as a razor blade
—thin and deadly sharp. Her sen-
sible mind weighed the problem as
she saw the facts.
Just when they were beginning to
be able to have a few of the nice
things of life, like the Tiltons next
door, then, suddenly, to be asked
to run a home without a steady in-
come, was overwhelming! Margaret
saw again in her mind's eye their
first years of marriage, the skimping
and saving, the making over and
making do. John had been in col-
lege then. Margaret felt a shudder
run over her, remembering.
Things wouldn't be the same
with John a college man. He would
have to have quiet to study, or he
might be away at the library or at
school functions. The very thought
of John in college was as if Mar-
garet had been told John would
suddenly be swept from the earth.
She dared not speak lest she scream
out in protest.
They sat in silence while the
precious seconds ebbed, then John
reached over and took Margaret's
chin in his strong, brown palm. A
sudden film came over Margaret's
eyes as he peered into her face.
'1 know it's a shock, Margaret
darhng." His dark eyes looked at
her, but seemed to see into some
reality beyond. "I can't tackle it
without your help. You think it
over for a dav or two. Registration
is a week off. I know you'll make
the right decision.
* * * *
lyrARGARET heard John playing
with the children in the back
yard. Her own heart lay buried
deep and aching. She picked up
the evening edition of the paper
and scanned it, but the words
blurred beyond readability, leaving
the entire space for two single
words which seemed to stand em-
bossed in black type— John . . . col-
lege.
Margaret laid aside the paper,
walked to her little pearwood desk
and opened it. She took clean
writing paper and pen. There was
a pigeonhole full of letters to be an-
swered; this evening would be a
good time. But her pen trails hesi-
tated until she allowed to be writ-
ten the words which kept racing
through her mind: John wants to
return to college. Margaret tore
the paper into pieces, then crump-
led them for good measure, and
dropped them into the wastebasket
at her feet. She closed the desk
and walked out into the garden.
Autumn reigned with all its col-
ors. A firey sugar maple, a burning
oak, and a golden poplar mingled
their brilliant leaves. White-limbed
birches stood like nymphs in the
shower of their gold hair. The
mountains stood clothed in red and
golds, with touches of bright ever-
green, but Margaret was uncon-
scious of the beauty of her surround-
ings. She walked as if in a daze to
the aster bed.
Here she had picked large gold
and purple balls to adorn her table
only a few hours before. She
plucked the head from one, leaving
the long stem unclad among its
friends. Then her fingers began
pulling the petals from autumn's
queen of flowers. The petals fell
one by one on the grass at her feet
with alternate words— he will, he
won't; he will, he won't.
Margaret's life had been as fresh
and full as the asters in the garden;
now her life had suddenly become
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as crushed and bruised as the flower
in her fingers. She thrust the svm-
bol upon the ground. Then, push-
ing the tears back, she entered the
rear door of her home.
Margaret could hear the chil-
dren's voices above the rat-rat of
the ping-pong balls in the base-
ment. She decided to take a brisk
shower. Then, perhaps, her family
wouldn't notice her swollen eyes.
But the shower was not refreshing
as she had hoped, for the needles
of hot water kept prickling into her
flesh as if tattooing the word school.
She donned a robe and went to
their room to put on something
fresh. As she entered their room, she
usually took renewed pride in the
chintz curtains and the spool bed
in a white petticoat, but tonight
she noticed none of this. John had
crawled, as if exhausted, into bed.
Poor dear, Margaret thought, if he
goes to college, he'll never know
what it is to sleep early evenings.
Somehow Margaret managed to
plow through the evening tasks of
undressing the little children, listen-
ing to their prayers, and tucking
them in for their dreams, but the
feeling of brooding menace never
left her.
It was past her usual bedtime
when she brushed her teeth, jerked
the window open, and crept be-
tween the sheets. Hours later she
awakened shaking. She rolled her
head from side to side, but her body
remained rigid, conscious of the
sharp pain deep inside. Sleep must
have taken possession of Margaret
again, for when she opened her eyes
it was a new day. But, for Mar-
garet, it lacked the usual anticipa-
tion which a new day brings.
1UIGHT followed day and day
night, and it was Wednesday
afternoon. Margaret stood gazing
into their cold unused fireplace as
she listened to the petulant drip of
an autumn rain on the roof. Her
hands were clammy as she churned
inside. The hurt bewilderment
still clouded her eyes. The very
thought of years ahead with John
at school stretched like a vast gray
ocean— monotonous, endless empti-
ness. John had said she would
make the right decision. Well, she
would, all right. She would point
out how the hundreds of war brides
were struggling to help support a
tiny brood of kiddies while their
husbands sat in classrooms. She
had seen too many young wives
with their angular faces, always
looking worn and sharply tired be-
hind their brave front.
Margaret's plan of action was
clear now. John had said to think
it over for a day or two. She had.
Now, the moment John came home,
she would point out calmly and
clearly without any tears or violence,
the wisdom of his going on with
his job, devoting his time to the
children and herself. Margaret re-
hearsed her talk, reassuring herself
before she tried to convince John.
Just then the doorbell rang. Mar-
garet crossed the room to answer
it.
"Why Mrs. Tilton!" Margaret
said, her voice a little thick, 'Von't
you come in?" Margaret had been
crying. Her last glimpse in the mir-
ror had assured her that she looked
as if she had fallen flat on her face.
Yet she desperately hoped her
neighbor wouldn't notice.
''I just dropped over to say good-
bye. We're leaving the end of the
THE RIGHT DECISION!
315
week," Mrs. Tilton stated.
''Leaving. '" Margaret echoed her
astonishment.
''Yes, work is taking Marvin to
Armorville, so we're taking just
what few things we need." Mrs. Til-
ton spoke with no outward appear-
ance of regret.
"But your lovely home?" Mar-
garet questioned. "How can you
bear to leave it?"
"Well, I must confess I've never
become married to any one house.
Oh, I will admit it isn't all sunshine
and roses to pick up and leave, but
whatever comes, Marvin and I will
meet it side by side." Mrs. Tilton
had a wide, intelligent brow, and a
generous, smiling mouth, things
which Margaret had never noticed
before.
"You seem so very broad-minded,
Mrs. Tilton. Why? Have you
always felt like this ... I mean . . .
standing by your husband in what-
e\'er he wanted to do?" Margaret
finished her sentence haltingly.
"I owe my viewpoint, in fact, my
happiness in life, to a certain pio-
neer woman," Mrs. Tilton stated
with doting inflection.
"You do? May I ask her name?"
Margaret inquired, making an over-
ture of hospitality.
"Why, yes, she was Phoebe
Woodruff. A century ago she was
a young wife like you, Margaret."
"Please tell me about her." Mar-
garet was gently being drawn from
a fog. For the first time in three
days she forgot herself. Her mind
left the \'alley of dilemma and tra\ -
eled the rugged path of the pio-
neers ....
M
RS. Tilton's soft voice seemed
to lead the way. "As I remem-
ber the story, the Woodruff couple
was making their way to Kirtland to
join the saints. Traveling wasn't
streamlined, as it is today, and food
was scarce. Hardships for Phoebe
were more than she could bear. She
passed away."
"Oh! What a shame!" Margaret
interluded. Forgetting herself, a
bitter pain for Phoebe Woodruff
rose strong and sharp in Margaret's
throat.
"Her spirit left her body, for she
saw her body lying on the bed and
her husband and friends around
her weeping. Then two personages
came for her. One of the messen-
gers informed her that she could
have her choice, she could go to
rest in the spirit world, or she could
have the privilege of returning to
her tabernacle, and continuing her
labors on earth, on one condi-
tion . . . ." Mrs. Tilton paused.
"What condition?" Margaret
queried, her heart taking up its
slow, wary beat again.
"Why, that she stand by her hus-
band and pass through all his cares
and trials and tribulations and af-
flictions of life unto the end.
Phoebe Woodruff looked at her
husband and child and said, 'Yes,
I will do it.' "
"She did?" Margaret laid the
two words out like little flatirons
of exactly the same weight. "She
chose the hard pioneer life just to
help her husband? Death would
ha\e been sweet."
"But she chose to be on the side
of her husband, my dear," Mrs. Til-
ton went on in a low even voice.
"This story, and a true one it is,
has remained a guiding star in my
life. It shows the place a wife has
in hfe as a helpmate, the pulhng of
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a load together/' Her thin hands
rested in her lap.
'Together," Margaret framed the
word softly, almost re\erently.
"Yes, my child. God knew cross-
ing life's path would be too diffi-
cult for man alone. He gave him
a companion."
It was then the t\\'o women
seemed to lay words aside and
choose a silence.
At length Mrs. Tilton arose.
''Well, I must be going." Then,
turning, she laid her hand on Mar-
garet's shoulder. ''I hope you get
to feeling better, my dear."
Margaret walked to the door with
Mrs. Tilton. Outside the clouds
had broken. The sky was glorious
and bright. It was as if bleak Oc-
tober had moved back from the
world, and summer had come to
reign supreme again.
It was tears of joy, mingled with
relief, which rolled down Mar-
garet's cheeks when the door was
closed after her visitor. All her
pent-up feelings of the past three
days left her. Margaret's heart was
washed clean, and filled with satis-
faction and sweet contentment.
She walked to the phone and
dialed a number, then waited.
"That you, John?" .... No, noth-
ing's wrong with the children ....
I'm all right, too, John. I feel
wonderful! ... I know you're busy,
and I won't keep you, ... I just
wanted to tell you, John, I've made
the right decision!"
-K
^
^
1 1 iother JLi
ove
Hannah C. Ashhy
How silently and swiftly
Time has sped the years;
I wear a white carnation
When Mother's Day appears.
And in the great celestial plan
Where family ties still hold,
I know that she is waiting there-
Her lo\e has not grown cold.
Yet like a traveler of the deep
Who sights the northern star,
My mother's love still lights my path
Though shining from afar.
We know the stars that shine by night
Are never seen by day.
We walk by faith and not by sight;
She taught me how to pray.
So Snail Vf/e [Reap
MaryhaJe WooJsey
As surely as we tend the splendid fields
Where grow our winter foods and next year's seed.
We cultivate the days — for they must yield
Life's memories on which old age will feed.
f>r>-^ '
0£/7a tiLortensen — vi/otnan of f/Lany aiobbies
IT would be difficult for "Aunt" Sina Mortensen of Mesa, Arizona, who was born
January 19, 1868, at Pleasant Grove, Utah, to tell which of her hobbies is most
important in her life, and which gives her the most pleasure.
She is particularly skilled in crocheting, and her many exquisite designs reveal a
keen sense of artistry and color. She is an excellent quilter, her nimble fingers always
flying on Relief Society work meeting day.
Her Church services ha\c included many years as a teacher in Relief Society where
she has served in varied capacities, becoming a member when she was fifteen years of
age. Now a member of the Mesa First ward, and still a visiting teacher, she brings
joy and comfort to many homes. She has also been Religion Class, Sunday School,
and Primary teacher.
L^ome (gently, Spring
Chiistie Lund Coles
Come gently. Spring,
Upon this street,
Where youth once ran
With jet-swift feet.
Come gently, Spring,
To mark the years,
Where youth once shed
Its war-dark tears.
Come swiftly, Spring,
Peace thread your rain.
For youth is coming
Home again.
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The Deeper Melody
Chapter 8— Conclusion
Alice Money Bailey
MARGARET was waiting for
Steve on the steps of the
nurse's home. He rushed
up to her, gripped her elbows in his
palms, and searched her face. Her
eyes were enormous and brilliant in
her chilled face. She looked near
hysteria.
''Steve!" she said through stiff
lips. ''Steve, Fve broken my en-
gagement."
Light splintered in Steve's brain,
but he held his physical reactions
caJm. He put her wordlessly into
his car and headed for the moun-
tains.
"Relax," he told her quietly.
''Don't talk, but lean your head
back and rest."
She leaned her head against the
cushions and closed her eyes, but
her set features told Steve she was
not relaxing, and she was not rest-
ing. He drove on, praying silently
for the right words to say, the right
things to do. When he had reached
a point high above the valley, he
turned the car into a sideway and
switched off the engine. There was
no sound there except the gentle
sighing of the pines, and no light
except the moon, which was shin-
ing full and bright.
He turned to Margaret.
"Tell me about it," he com-
manded.
"It wasn't just one thing, Steve,"
she said without moving or opening
her eyes. "It was many things— first
the way I felt about him, and the
way I felt about you. I said I felt
guilty about that, but I thought it
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would come after we were married
—the right feeling, I mean. And
then you said admiration was not
love."
Her incoherent words made beau-
tiful sense to Steve, but he refrained
from pressing the questions that
rushed in upon him. "Go on/' he
said.
"It was finally the babies."
"The babies?" queried Steve.
"Your babies— Phyllis and Ilene.
The way they came to me last Sat-
urday. We quarreled about it, and
you know, Steve, a quarrel is some-
times a very good thing. Truth
comes out in a quarrel. Rex doesn't
want children. He said he was nev-
er going to have any children, and
I could jolly well make up my mind
to that."
"Could a man really mean a thing
like that?" marvelled Steve.
"He meant it, all right. He said
he had worked hard for his place
in his profession, and no encum-
brance of children was going to
change his course. He said family
responsibilities had wrecked his fa-
ther's career, forcing him into choic-
es he did not want, and they were
not going to wreck his. I could
never change his ideas on that, or,
in fact, anything else. I could see
very clearly what my life would be.
I would cease to be an individual.
I could not even be a woman."
"Thank fortune you saw it in
time, darling," Steve commented.
"Only, Steve! why didn't I see it
before? Why did I have to wait
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until everything was so hopelessly
involved?"
"It isn't hopelessly involved."
'It is! It is! All those invitations
sent out, all those gifts that have
come— the parties, the people, and
the disgrace. I don't mind for my-
self, but much as I disagree with
Rex, how can I let him in for this?
He is a prominent man, and there
will be publicity and gossip. Espe-
cially when it was all my fault. He
loathes publicity, and gossip might
ruin him professionally."
^^VOU are excited, dear. This
thing has built up in your
mind. His friends will be secretly
relieved at not having so much to
do, the gossips will be delighted
with a choice tidbit until another
one comes along, and what they say
will build up his practice, not wreck
it. It will not be easy, dearest, but
we'll help you— your mother and I.
Can you move from the nurse's
home tonight? I'll put you in a
hotel where no one can find you,
and we'll do the telephoning."
She shook her head. ''No. This
is my music and I'll have to face
it," she said, and Steve had to be
content.
On the way back to the home
Steve longed to explore what she
had said about her feelings for him,
but one glance at her face warned
him she had taken the last ounce
of emotion she could tolerate for
one day, so he left her, full of wor-
ry for her, full of misgivings, at the
steps where he had picked her up.
After he left her, however, the
worries grew. By morning, if he
knew Dr. Harmon, or any man,
Steve reasoned, the fellow would
have faced all these consequences
and be willing to concede anything.
He would be on the telephone or
there to meet her, promising her
anything her heart desired. In the
face of all that was built up, could
she withstand the man?
He went directly to Mrs. Grain,
awakened her, and told her what
had happened. "Great day!" she ex-
claimed, but sobered on the next
thought. "It's going to be hard for
her, Steve."
"It is," agreed Steve grimly, "I
still think the hotel is a good idea.
I'll make a reservation and send you
there with your things. Get her.
Mother Grain, as soon as you can.
Get her away from that hospital
and handle everything from the ho-
tel. For her sake, and for mine,
guard her from that oversized sense
of duty."
The week that followed was the
combined nightmare of anxiety and
the heaven of seeing Margaret when
he wished, of calling her several
times a day, of taking her out every
night, while her mother sat uncom-
plainingly with the children and
aided and abetted his every plan.
He availed himself of all the mes-
sengers—flowers, books, and candy
—that he had longed to use before,
but in all that week he mentioned
no word of his own love for her.
It was more than concern for her;
it was a point of pride. He did not
want the company, even in her
thinking, of the other man. He
wanted her free and clear of Dr.
Harmon before he brought his own
love again to her attention. Rather,
his messages were of gaiety, even
nonsense.
"This is the night watchman mak-
ing his rounds," he would report.
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''Steve, you're insane," she would
say, but her laughter was music to
his cars.
OE took her to movies, quietly
watching her face instead of the
screen, to theatres, to dine and
dance, and to the symphony to hear
Jascha Ileifctz. On the day she
was to have been married he ap-
peared at her hotel early in the
morning and telephoned from the
lobby.
"I'll give you and your mother
ten minutes to dress, my lady. The
children arc out in the car, complete
with lunch basket. Today we are
going to Cripple Creek."
''Steve, I can't," she said miser-
ably. He could tell she had been
crying.
"I won't take no for an answer.
Either you come down, or I'll come
"Don't you dare. I look a fright.
Steve, you slave driver!"
She came, though, in twenty-five
minutes, not ten, dressed in a plaid
skirt and a white blouse, much
bathed as to eyes, which were swol-
len in spite of it.
Mrs. Crain flashed Steve a secret
look of misgiving and thanks. Steve
ignored everything and loaded them
in with high adventure.
"Have you ever been to Cripple
Creek?" he asked them, and. was
glad they said no, because he felt
he could rely on the magnificent
Corley Mountain Highway to inter-
est them.
Up and up they went, the road
doubling back on itself in its sheer
climb into grandeur. Steve was
gratified to see color creep into
Margaret's cheeks, excitement into
her eyes, as she caught her breath
in the dark beauty of aspens and
pines, of lakes mirrored far below,
of vista on vista unrolled, of soli-
tude and loveliness. This was a
veritable paradise of crag and for-
est, of glass-cloar creeks and thun-
dering cataracts. Steve had traveled
it many times, but its beauty never
failed to smite him anew. He felt
a personal pride in showing it to
Margaret and her mother. Even
the little children watched the trees
flash by in silent wonder.
npHEY ate in a meadow two miles
from Cripple Creek, beside a
spring that bubbled out from be-
tween two rocks. A weather-
browned log house, abandoned, sans
doors and windows, stood at the
edge of the forest. Margaret loved
it.
"Oh, Steve! Look at it," she
cried. "I want that sweet little
house. This is a paradise. Wouldn't
it be fun to live here?"
"It would, indeed," agreed Steve,
deciding then and there to investi-
gate the possibility of buying it for
a vacation home. One could have
horses and pasture them in the lush
meadow for long trips in the sur-
rounding mountains. It ought not
to cost a great deal. "I have never
passed this spot without thinking
the same thing!"
"It's like a chapter from a Forty-
niner tale," she said of Cripple
Creek. "Steve, I can't believe it!"
It was picturesque, the old,
shacky buildings mingled with the
new of modern machinery, the
steep streets, and the little church
with the old-fashioned steeple just
beyond the modern school and li-
brary.
As if to confirm Margaret's ob-
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servation, a burro, long-eared and
slightly larger than a big dog,
ambled out into the street and
stopped in front of Steve's car. He
applied the brakes and was able to
halt short of hitting it, and they
waited while its small Mexican mas-
ter, with high excitement, wildly
expressive eyes, and vivid Latin in-
vective, tried to pull the stubborn
little animal off the street. It pulled
back on the frayed rope around its
neck, and sat upon its haunches.
The children shouted, Phyllis
cried with fright, and Margaret and
her mother laughed until they were
weak. Several of the lad's friends
came running; Steve got out of the
car, and with concerted effort they
pulled and pushed the determined
little beast from in front of the car.
Yes, it was a day to remember,
and it accomplished its purpose.
The women were relaxed on the
way home and the children slept.
Steve delivered Margaret and her
mother back at the hotel weary to
the bone, which was, this time, ex-
actly as he wanted it.
"She'll sleep tonight," prophesied
Mrs. Grain. ''She hasn't slept all
week for thinking, and Dr. Harmon
has pestered her every minute you
haven't."
"She's had quite a week then, be-
tween us," said Steve contritely.
-M-EVERTHELESS, sharing Crip-
ple Creek and the Corley Moun-
tain Highway was solid and good
within him, and only a sample of
all the things he wanted to show
her. He mentioned it to }. T. the
next day.
"You took your best girl to Crip-
ple Creek yesterday?" repeated J. T.,
swinging around to stare at him
suspiciously. "Steve, are you still
letting that secretary lead you
around by the nose?"
"You jump at conclusions, J. T.,"
complained Steve. "You remember
the nurse I told you about?"
A broad grin spread over J. T.'s
face. "You cut out her beau!" he
guessed.
"He cut himself out," Steve tem-
porized. "She gave his ring back
last week."
"You don't say!" remarked J. T.
happily. "Have you popped the
question yet?"
"You're too inquisitive," accused
Steve, but went on, "I did that the
day Sam was hurt. She turned me
down."
"Hm-m," said J. T., wrinkhng his
brow in thought. "Steve, a man in
your position should buy a home."
"I'm going to," said Steve. "I've
been looking for just the right thing.
The place I'm in isn't . . . ."
"I know just the right place for
you," J. T. cut in. "A friend of
mine built it a year ago. In fact,
it isn't finished, and it's a bargain
for twenty-three thousand."
"Twenty-three thousand!" ex-
claimed Steve. "What're you try-
ing to do, J. T., line your friend's
pockets at my expense? Where
would I get that kind of money— or
even a down payment?"
"You've got to learn to think in
bigger terms, boy," said J. T. "As
for the down payment, I've never
given you the bonus on that Kettle
Creek deal, and you've got it com-
ing. You go see that house— and
take the girl along with you."
He told Margaret nothing ex-
cept that he had a surprise for her.
She looked uncommonly well and
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rested. Steve could hardly drive for
looking at her. Her eyes were hap-
py and her mouth at peace. Steve
put his hand over hers which was
lying in the seat between them. She
jumped visibly and flushed with
pleasure. "Are you as happy as you
look today?"
lyiARGARET sighed. 'Terhaps I
should tell you that Rex left this
morning for Boston. He had an of-
fer there he has wanted to take. Dr.
Hanson wanted him in with him
here. In fact, he was using the loan
of his home as a little pressure point
to swing Rex his way— letting us
get married from there.''
''It is all finished, then? Are you
sorry?"
''Sorry? No, Steve. No!"
It was Steve's turn to sigh, with
huge relief.
Margaret looked at him sharply.
"It strikes me, Steve, that, in my
selfishness this past week— and be-
fore, I have given you a bad time."
"That you have, milady," agreed
Steve lightly, "but you've